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2nd Pregnancy with PCOS, Endometriosis and Diabetes

I have been using this site for the last 4 months and I credit you ladies for my continued faith in my body and my sanity!!! I have PCOS, Endometriosis and Diabetes. The PCOS was diagnosed 8 years ago. I never had cycles so I never knew I had endo until we started TTC my DS nearly two years ago. I had a lap and dye, my ovaries drilled, my womb checked for polyps and after they discovered the endo I also had diathermy all in April 2011. We concieved my DS 3 weeks post op and he was born in February 2012. I knew from the surgeons that I couldn't leave any subsequent babies too long as I would just fill up with cysts and endo deposits while we waited. We originally said we would wait till Christmas to start TTC #2 but my periods returned in August and I got the fear about missing what may be my only chance. So we threw caution the the wind and DH was delighted. Anyway, I used CBFM and got peaks for the last 3 cycles, I check my CM and CP and got still got BFNs. It was heartbreaking to begin with but I fell easily into the 'every peroid is a new chance to get pregnant'. This cycle went as follows - Cd18 Peak on CBFM, CD19 Peak again, we BD every other day before peak and then every day during high fertility. 1dpo felt a twinge that woke me up in the early hours of the morning. I'm assuming this was me actually ovulating. 2dpo - 6dpo hardly any symptoms 7dpo - 10dpo not much, a couple of twinges, general feelings of anger towards people, fatigue, very dry mouth and very thirsty but no sore boobs! Boobs didn't start tingling till 12dpo. With my DS I was exhausted and asleep whenever I could be but not this time. 9dpo bfn very uspet, had a few too many and sobbed for most of the evening (my poor DH). Woke up with my DS at 7am with a headache. Self induced misery so no sympathy for me. DH banned me from testing till 14dpo but I took a sneaky ic and got a very feint double line. 12dpo ic and CBD and both positive. Very excited, I will be due the end of July 2014. Good luck ladies, keep heart.

BFP!!! Over One Year of Trying With Endometriosis

I CAN'T BELIEVE I CAN FINALLY POST ON HERE!!!!! After over a year of reading all your wonderful posts and keeping faith I finally can tell my story!! At about 10 months of trying i knew something was up. Me and DH are very healthy and seem to have no problems. Got DH checked, he was perfect. I got referred to an Infertility Dr. It started with blood work. Everything clear. Then I had a HSG scan done, VERY painful but all tubes clear!! I thought "what is wrong with me!!?" Well the next step was my dr. thought I had endometriosis. With symptoms of pain during intercourse and an exam he did, he thought I had it. So about three weeks ago I had the surgery...and I def. had endo. I had a stage 2 of 4. Dr said he basically guaranteed that's what was causing my infertility. One week after surgery was ovulating time. I knew it was early but I wasn't passing it up!!! Well, two weeks later I'm looking at a BFP!!!!! I was in such disbelief, I got blood work done, and PREGNANT!!!!! I found out on Halloween! So on Halloween I was 4 weeks...... Here's to 9 more moths of happiness and bliss!!!! Symptoms 1-6dpo- really nothing, a little gassy 7-12dpo- crampy twinges, different than I've felt before. 10dpo- bfn 12dpo- bfn I knew I was out since I thought a lot of women got their bfp by this time. 13dpo- late afternoon.... super super faint line! 14dpo- had blood work done and took another pee test, pee test darker but still faint! I sill don't have many symptoms. The only thing is I'm a little tired and peeing just a little more. Boobs don't hurt. Not cramping, or anything like that with my body. GOOD LUCK LADIES!!!! DREAM REALLY DO COME TRUE!!! Have faith and keep praying!

16 Months, One Surgery, and 3 Rounds of Clomid = BFP

Ah! I can't believe I get to finally do this and say "hey, I'm pregnant!". This was our 16th month TTC. Last June I had laparoscopic surgery to check for endometriosis. I did not have that but what they did find was 3 small fibroids on my uterus and a partially blocked left fallopian tube. 2 of the fibroids were removed and dr. was unable to take the third one out. I felt so much better knowing what the issues were. Part of my stress was thinking that something was seriously wrong with me. I have a perfect 29 day cycle. I am so exact down to the hour! My Dr. reassured me that everything was great but want to try clomid anyways. 3 rounds of that, took pills on cycle days 3-7. This month I also tried acupuncture. I highly recommend it! It gives you a chance to relax! Which is what I did three times a week. While I sat there with needles in me I got to pray. I am a Christian and knew I just had to wait for Gods timing. I put all of this in His hands and let Him worry about it instead of me putting all the pressure on myself. My symptoms are pretty small. I wouldn't even be able to tell if I didn't have a positive test. I have also been taking a prenatal, calcium, folic acid, and B6 vitamin every day. Cycle day 3-7 - clomid Did the deed every other day till I got a positive ovulation and then did IT twice a day. Also one day after for good measure. (with Pre-Seed every time) Cycle Day 14 - ovulated on right side (my good side) DPO 6 - woke up with a very sharp shooting pain through my right tube. Lasted a couple of second, I rolled over and pain went away. (implantation?) DPO 8 - extra bloody gums. I have sensitive teeth anyways but this was extra sensitive! (my dentist has told me that hormones do affect gums) DPO 11 - finally got my Internet cheapies in the mail and I had to test. IS THAT A LINE OR A SHADOW?!?! DPO12 - test again, LINE IS STILL THERE. Very faint! Still not sure if I can trust these things. I'm only used to seeing negatives that I didn't think a positive stick was possible. I got a little test crazy and started testing all day. Finally went out and bought First Response and Clear Blue Digital. Tested with both PREGNANT!!! I can believe it. A lot of crying and relief that this process is over. Then my mind went quickly to stressing about having a healthy baby. ;) I just keep testing and line keeps getting darker. My husband and I have shared the news with are parents and are waiting to share the news with close friends and family until first ultrasound at 5 weeks. I have to have this done to make sure it's not a tubal because of my blockage. I'm due July 17th! Even with everything I went through I do realize I had it easy compared to some. Those "some" will always have a piece of my heart!


Ladies, I got my BFP (actually I got 6 because I tested 6 times because I didn't believe it) after trying for pretty much 1 year to the day! I had a laporoscopy, ovarian drilling, cyst removal, D&C, endo removal from uterus and hysteroscopy done on the 14th August (PCOS) and this was our last month trying before we had to move on from trying naturally (I have a low egg count for my age 30). Anyway we had sex 4-5 days before I ovulated and that's it! I had to go away for work the week I actually ovulated. I got my positive OPK at the airport in transit and was devastated I couldn't take advantage of it... another month down the drain. I was expecting my period yesterday (ish) and for some reason I pee'd on stick last night (it's addictive) just before DH got home and it was flaming positive!! I actually didn't believe it. DH came into the bathroom and I was trying to tell him that I'm pregnant but I couldn't talk. He looked at the test and told me to get in the car. We went and bought 2 different tests and they both came up positive straight away. I tested again this morning with all 3 test and still BFP!! I have a Dr appointment this afternoon and I'm so nervous he's going to tell me it isn't real and that I'm actually not pregnant. Anyway I'm enjoying this for what it is today and hopefully it sticks. I'm so excited I can't even eat!! nervous. I don't feel pregnant at all except for sore boobies but I normally get that before AF anyway!! Every other 12 months we've tried I have felt some kind of silly symptom. NEVER GIVE UP!!
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BFP After 2 Years

OMG I can't believe that I finally got my BFP after my laparoscopic surgery because of PCOS 6 months ago. After trying very hard after the surgery, we can't wait anymore and asked for clomid, which my RE gave a three months supply and walla! Got pregnant with my first clomid cycle. I never got pregnant or seen any positive hpt so it was a crazy roller coaster ride for my feelings and dh and I are really confused on how to react. I have been reading this website for almost 3 months as my bedtime stories. Here are my symptoms by dpo 1-3 dpo : nothing 4-7 dpo : sore nipples, breast doesn't feel fuller or heavier, sharp pain on sides 8 dpo : bad sore throat in the morning, Sneeze, headache, gagged few times 9 dpo : sore heavier breasts 10-11 dpo : vomit after shower, sore breasts, fatigue, feeling very hopeful, good mood 12 dpo : brown spotting on wipes! Thought was my period, slight cramp, disappointed, went to toilet 20 times to check! But spotting lasted 1 hour i think. Got home and decided to check and OMG BFP! But a very thin line. We didn't cheer yet because i have another 2 more days before my period is due. 13 dpo : BFP again, thin line. Slight pms cramp. 14 dpo : BFP again! And this time the line is much darker. 16 dpo : BFP using clearblue digital! Clear pregnant I went to see a doctor just now and confirmed my pregnancy! I can see a very tiny black spot but doctor said it is still early to clearly see it but he said that i am pregnant because of my womb's changing. I can't believe after so many hpts I finally got my positive this month. Keep trying is my key. Baby dust to all!

Finally Got My BFP After 3 Years TTC

Had to put my story as this as helped me so much over the last year or so... 4 months ago had a laparoscopy to see if anything was wrong and ended up having a 7cm cyst removed that was on my ovary but actually growing into my fallopian tube and finally got my BFP on Monday!!
1DPO Cramps
2 3 4 5 DPO Nothing
6DPO cramps and felt really sick
7 8 9 10 11 DPO Crampy, Bloated (ridiculously gassy) Sorry TMI!! Feeling/Being Sick (after everything I ate!!), Pulling/heavy Feeling in lower abdomen that felt like it was rising. So much cm that actually kept checking AF hadn’t come early!!!
12 DPO Nearly fainted when out shopping which as NEVER happened in my life so took a test and Very faint positive that faint I actually thought it could be a water mark so did a clear blue digital and got my BFP!!!!
Hope My Little Peanut Sticks Around!!!

BFP 1st & 2nd Pregnancy Symptoms via IVF

Hello everyone!

1st Pregnancy via IVF

In March 2008, I had a laparoscopy draining endometriosis (stage 3) cyst on left ovary. In June 2008 began my IVF cycle and 31 years old. I had 11 retrieved, 4 had fertilized (1 arrested) and I had 3 embryos transferred on day 3: a 4 cell, 5 cell, 6 cell and none left to freeze. The doc said they were in fair condition, that's why he transferred all of them. We were excited!

1dpt-2dpt: nothing
3dpt: mild period-like cramping, low cramps
4dpt: nothing
5dpt: went to see friend who just had baby...when I held baby, one of my nipples began to feel tingly and prickly
6dpt: sharp stabbing pain above vagina just several seconds and gone...I had to bend over (10pm)...very unusual, never felt that before and I've had some painful periods because of endo
7dpt: sharp stabbing pain on right lower pelvic region, on my bikini line, just a few seconds and gone
8dpt: clear mucousy, gel-like cm, few seconds of sharp pains on right side above hip bone- had to bend over and stop walking, faint spell of nausea and dizziness-came and went in a few minutes at night
9dpt: more clear mucousy cm, warm period-like feeling, prickling, tingling sensation in right nipple
10dpt: nothing
11dpt: feeling hopeful because I never had these symptoms before, but thought it also could be the progesterone; later feeling grumpy and discouraged
12dpt: the day I got my blood test 4 weeks 2 days since LMP and I was definitely pregnant!!! I forgot my hcg level. I did an hpt at home after I got the news and of course it was a BFP!!! In March of 2009, I gave birth to a baby girl!

2nd pregnancy via IVF ICSI

Now, I am 35 years old and endometriosis came back on left ovary. Doc retrieved 6 eggs, 5 were mature, all were ICSI'd this time, only 4 fertilized (1 arrested) and 3 were looking good on transfer day! Doc did a 2 day transfer and transferred 3 embryos, all 4 cell, grade 1 and again, none left over to freeze. Again, we were excited!

1dpt: went pee and had beige discharge in pm...probably from progesterone suppositories before the transfer and from metrogel, nips sensitive
2dpt: in early am low mild cramps and low back ache too, woke up to spontaneous orgasm and felt crampy and pressure right above vagina, cramping on & off in evening, feels tight down there, boobs tender
3dpt: cramping on & off, feeling groggy & tired, nap, in pm had a wave of nausea come over me...just a few minutes, light headache
4dpt: constipation, when walking got shooting feeling from right side, but not too sharp, but noticeable- had to stop for a second, hungry and eating a lot; white stretchy cm, light headache
5dpt: woke up again to a spontaneous orgasm from sleep-pressure down there and felt like blood rushing down there (googled this spontaneous "O" thing and it seemed to be an early sign of pregnancy for most women-gave me hope!)
6dpt: feet feel so hot and a bit swollen (I and my feet are usually always cold), vagina/cervix feels tight-uncomfortable like uti, pooped, but still constipated feeling, skin feels tender to touch, boobs tender, feeling aroused...must be all the blood down there ;)
7dpt: boobs seem less tender, didn't sleep well
8dpt: boobs less tender but feeling really full and heavy, EMOTIONAL-cried at pretty much anything, even when DD woke up from nap, just looking at her made me cry, felt really down
9dpt: woke up with headache, watched a movie and cried for MOST of it, cramping/pinching feeling, low back ache-right side, AF cramps in evening, felt like I was peeing more today, boobs look HUGE, next to little cm
10dpt: noticed sharp pain and pressure in butt, watery cm, snot-like cm too, crampy off & on, warm period-like feeling, backache left side, brief pulling/stretching feeling left side
11dpt: noticed hot feet all week, felt hot in general all week, night sweat, boobs are still HUGE and burning feeling inside them, wet feeling down there, very little cm, right lower back-like someone drilling in my back, eating like a hog, gassy for past few days too, feels tight down there
12dpt: blood test today at 3 weeks 5days since LMP: PREGNANT again!!! I am so thankful!!! I took HPT after hcg test confirmed pregnancy and it was a light positive. I had a slow rising hcg this time around, but kept taking hpt's at home...getting darker and BFP! Hcg tests confirmed good doubling 3 days later and then again 2 days later. Yay!
tummy making a lot of gurgling and bubbling sounds after lunch

I've been taking fish oil (at least 5 months), vitamin D and folic acid for several months if not close to a year.

BFP After 2 Laps

I'm very excited to be sharing my story with all you ladies. I've know I had endometriosis for many years I was put on bcpl at the age of 15 because of my terrible periods. At the age of 27 I decided to get off bcp bc I wanted to take a break I was not ready to conceive I wasn't even married yet. My periods weren't as bad as they were when I was a teenager but I started to notice that month after month I was experiencing more and more pelvic pain when urinating. I also had very high frequency. After seeing a urologist and a gym for several months of testing, they concluded that I had a large mass of endo that had protruded from my uterus into my bladder wall. I proceeded with my first Lap. After surgery, gym had removed some endo from one of my tubes and ovaries and also a large chunk from my bladder. However my bladder would always be compromised because the endo was so severe here that they would have to break the bladder wall and remove part of the bladder to completely remove all the endo. The brightside was that my reproductive organ all in all looked ok. However, my gun said when it's time ttc we'd look at having another lap. I was put on bcp immediately to try and keep the endo at bay until then, bc I refused to do Lupron.
Fast-forward 6 years. I'm happily married and we were ready to conceive. I am 33 my DH is 31. We got off BCP in Feb. first cycle was abnormally long about 36 days, they started to taper down until they hit 28 day cycles but month 3. I felt like I was doing everything right, taking OPKs from 3rd month and timing intercourse correctly, however no BFP. Every month I would get the dreaded AF. My Obgyn said she would let me try for a few months on my own then we would proceed to another lap with dye this time. I was really hoping to avoid this... It was scheduled for July, so you can bet the month prior we threw out all the punches and bd every day during fertile time and twice sometimes! Starting to lose the romance unfortunately no dice. So to my disappointment we went ahead with the lap and dye, my silver lining was that many women conceived after getting a lap and dye. So we were praying fervently that we would fall in this category. After Lap, Obgyn said bladder was only organ compromised by the endo, she un- fused the bladder and uterus and returned everything to its anatomical place. She also did the dye flush and my tubes were clear, hurray! So, in her opinion we were good to go! However the surgery was much harder to recover from this 2nd time. I had a catheter left in for a week post op bc of all the manipulation that has done to my bladder they didn't want it to distend. That was the worst part, bc it's very uncomfortable. I was O two weeks post op so we went ahead and hit it hard even though I was so uncomfortable bc I had a UTI from catheter and was on my second round of antibiotics, needless to say I felt like crud. Wondering why everything was so hard and complicated for us.
However, we tried to stay positive and pray, pray, pray. And this month our 6th cycle trying we got our BFP!!!
Here are a couple of things we did different this month
- I drank grapefruit juice cd 1- cd14
- I took evening primrose oil pills for cd1-14 (this was hard bc it gave me some serious stomach cramps and loose stools) so I lowered the reg dosage. My CM was on the lighter side so I was trying to really get it up.
- We used Pre-Seed every time during fertile days were in the past it was more sporadic use.
- I made sure to have an orgasm after my DH, heard this helps...
- drank green tea every morning
- drank pineapple juice from cd15- to BFP

Besides that all was the same.

FINALLY BFP.... Don't Lose Hope

I have had 3 laps since 2008, several around of Lupron, cyst on my ovaries and a ruptured cyst. The last surgery was Nov 2011, as soon as we got back from our honeymoon. DH has been very supportive thru the months of fertility drugs, hormone changes and constant pain. April 2012 the doctor told my I have several LARGE cyst on my right ovary and we are stopping fertility. 3 weeks later I was in the ER with severe pain, sick to my stomach bleeding, the whole nine yards. The ER doctor, ultra sound tech, everyone except for my nurse made me feel like I was some druggie looking for a fix. The nurse was awesome.... I think it was because his wife has also suffered from infertility and was able to sympathize. After this incident, I accepted the fact that I was not supposed to have kids at this time. I started speed walking 5ks, and doing zumba (mainly to lose the weight I gained from all the meds). June 6th Aunt flo came to visit and the doctor told me to take letrozole. Then I went for an ultrasound, and the NP was able to tell me I would ovulate within 36 hours...and not in so many words she told me to go home and make sure my husband was home. The following week my progesterone level was 20.21.... 5 days later I took a test and BFP!!! I was super excited! We are still in the critical very careful stages, but my specialist is amazing. I will be there until I reach certain levels (fetal heart rate of 120, etc.).
I was almost to the point of giving up...but instead I started staying busy with different hobbies. When I quit fussing about my problems and just listened.... it finally happened. I am absolutely thrilled I can finally write on this board.... I’ve watched it for months!!!
I wish baby dust for all!

So Many Years Thinking I Could Never Get Preggers and Finally BFP!!! Dont Ever Lose Hope.

I want to share my story for those ladies who go through what I used to go through every month. I
just turned 30 on March 17th, in the Spanish culture by the time you're 25 people start asking
when will be the time, specially me since I was married for 5 years and it never happened, my
relationship deteriorated and I went through a tough divorce, two years later on January 2010 I
started a romance with my now fiancée whom I've known since I was 16 and never thought I would
be with.

Since the beginning we had unprotected sex, a few months past and we moved in together and
were happy to and anxious to start a family. As months passed, it was obvious to him that I had a
problem conceiving, I didn't want to admit it but I finally had to let him know that I had never
gotten preg before and that I might have a problem. He told me not to worry that he knew one day
I would get preg. I felt like crap every time one of my friends got preg and everyone would say
"don't worry pat next time is your turn" just to lift my spirits.

Months came and passed, friends kept having babies or getting preg, I had my fiancée get a sperm
count even though he have two boys from a previous marriage, I had a hsg done, thats when they
take xrays at your uterus while shooting a blue dye through your fallopian tubes to make sure
they're not blocked. After that test they performed a small surgery called laparoscopy where they
insert a tiny camera through your belly button, the doctor told me that would increase my chances
of conceiving but it never did, they told me I had unknown or unexplained infertility because they
couldn't determine why I couldn't get preg, that was the worst news for me to hear, I thought that
if I at least knew what was keeping us from conceiving we can at least address it but not knowing
what the problem was makes it all much worst cause you don't know what to do.

I was sick of all the suggestions from friends and family, do sex positions they told me would help
lollll, I drank everything they told me to drink, my family in my country use to prepare bottles of a
drink with roots and bark that would clean me up and help me conceive cause they knew someone
that couldn't get preg for years and when they drank that they were filled with babies loll! It got
ridiculous at one point, a lot of people also told me that my anxiety wouldn't let me and as soon as
I stopped thinking about it, measuring temp, counting ovulation days, unexpectedly it would

It was easier said than done, the more they told me not to, the more I obsessed about it, I would
spend hours on the net reading stories and relating my symptoms to everyone else's. Every month
I thought was my month and every pg test was a disappointment. 2011 passed by and 2012 came
and I finally redeemed myself and left it to God to decide if it would happen or not, and focused
instead on loosing the extra pounds for summer time. I got very excited about this upcoming
summer I enrolled in a gym and started watching what I ate. I did occasionally thought about
pregnancy but only for a moment and rapidly focus on dropping pounds.

I was 7 days late today, I thought about getting a preg test on my 5th day of being late but thought
of all those times of disappointment I was scared. Today I decided to go get a test because I was
starting to feel a weird sensation in my uterus, like pressure. It also felt little tugging and things
going on in there but didn't think too much of it cause it had happened before that I thought I felt
things and it was just my af coming. This time I was right, I got the test at cvs on my break from
work but the pg test went to the restroom at my office and it felt like 5 seconds after I peed on that
stick those two blue lines popped so bright.

I couldn't breath, I cried and laughed at the same time, I didn't know whether to run, or walk, or
jump lollll. I ran and sat on my desk, jumped up and ran back to the restroom to cry and laugh
some more, at that point everyone knew what was going on and everyone started to congratulate
me. My mom cried like a baby, her eldest daughter of three is finally expecting. My fiancée told
me he always knew it would happen. Ladies I urge you not to lose hope, I'm not a religious person
but I always told everyone to keep me in their prayers and they all did. Two of my employees
grabbed my belly and did a prayer after a monthly meeting one day, they said "have faith, it will

Today May 3, 2012 it did happen, today May 3, 2012 is the happiest day of my life.