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Intrauterine insemination, the infertility treatment in which sperm are placed directly in the uterus at the time of ovulation, is certainly one way to get your BFP. If you're undergoing (or considering) IUI, then this is the page for you!

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BFP with Endometriosis/Varicocele and 4th Clomid IUI

After years of trying to conceive I can't believe I am finally posting my BFP. It is so surreal that I am almost nervous about being excited. After being diagnosed with endometriosis and TTC for 6 years we were growing frustrated. Finally last summer my husband agreed to have a semen analysis, and he had a low sperm count with poor morphology. He had an ultrasound of his testicles which revealed a varicocele and he had surgery in Sept. We hoped that this would correct the problem however months go by and still no pregnancy. In Feb we started Clomid IUI and month after month no pregnancy. Since my insurance does not cover invitro, my RE went ahead with our 4th Clomid IUI. Other alternative treatments were acupuncture, hubby started to take FertilAid and his counts and motility and volume significantly increased. What I did different with this IUI was that I had the IUI on the same day of my surge where the other three were the day after. I felt like I had nothing to lose at this point.

I have had no symptoms, the only indicator for me was an implantation dip 7 dpo, and my temps have remained elevated and I am 4 days late. I tested 12dpo with the most faint line and today at 13 dpo with a different brand there is a positive. My beta had been scheduled after IUI for 6/25. I can't wait and was to eager and excited to wait to post.

Don't lose hope and faith, I was starting to become so discouraged and full of despair. I will happen if you try, hope, and pray hard enough.

Baby dust to all!!!!!!

BFP After 5th IUI

I posted here in March 2012 with a BFP that sadly ended in an early miscarriage at 5 weeks. I learned from that experience that eggies that implant late (11 or 12 dpo or later) usually end up miscarrying. (I implanted at 12 dpo)

DH and I have been undergoing fertility treatment since May 2007. We have 2 beautiful children that were both conceived via unmedicated IUI's. (Ages 3 and 2) Both kids were conceived on our first IUI each time (lucky us!) This time around was much harder. I hit the big 3-0 this year and my fertility took a nose dive! First IUI this time around resulted in a chemical pregnancy, 2nd IUI resulted in a miscarriage at 5 weeks, 3rd and 4th IUI's were BFN, and just as I had resigned myself to never having another child, I got a BFP at 12 dpo from my 5th IUI. Here are my symptoms: (just an FYI, I took Femara 2.5 mg for my 4th and 5th IUI's and had 2 eggs for my 5th IUI)

1-2 dpo: tons of EWCM (still!) and still having O pains
3-5 dpo: still tons of EWCM, lots of vivid dreams
6 dpo: EWCM finally lets up. Cramping in right ovary (I ovulated on the right side this time) had an ultrasound at my fertility clinic, found a corpus luteum cyst but doc says not to worry, will go away on it's own. Also felt implantation cramping later in the evening on 6 dpo
7 dpo: sooo tired, bb's tingly and sensitive, starting to get forgetful and clumsy, headache
8 dpo: headache, bb's still tingly, swiped Costco card at Costco thinking it was debit card and couldn't figure out why transaction wouldn't go thru, duh!
9 dpo: faint pink streak when wiping after going to the bathroom, still tired, really moody, tingly bb's
10 dpo: another pink streak when wiping after going to the bathroom, tired, moody/emotional, tingly bb's, no spotting after sex (odd because I usually spot this close to my period arriving)
11 dpo: super forgetful today, clumsy, emotional, had dream I was pregnant (got pos result on hpt in dream)
12 dpo: COMPELLED to do HPT. Told self was not going to do HPT until at least
13 dpo but it was like some supernatural force was ripping open that hpt package and making me pee on that stick! Very faint BFP!!! Had bloodwork run at fertility clinic, HCG at 23! Pregnant!

I always check my cervical position when I get to around 10 dpo as my cervix always goes high and firm when I'm pregnant. This time it was high, but not as firm and a little open, which made me think I wasn't pregnant. In retrospect, pushing out 2 kids 12 months apart who each weighed 8 and 9 lbs respectively has more than likely stretched my cervix to the point of no return. Oh well :)

Pregnant After 27 Months of TTC and 2nd Round of Clomid and IUI

Hi Ladies,

I used this site to get through what seemed like a very long 2 1/2 years of trying to conceive. I wanted to share my story to encourage those in similar situations to take a deep breath and keep on trying!! Never give up hope.

We were on our second round of Clomid and IUI and were told by the doctors I likely had/have endometriosis and that if our third round of Clomid and IUI were unsuccessful, I would under the laser laparoscopy procedure to see what was going on down there.

I was 5 days before my expected and very regular 27 day cycle period, and like most of you out there was pretty much addicted to peeing on a stick every month.... (I wonder how much $$ I spent over the last 2 1/2 years...LOL). I use the Clear Blue Digital Tests so there is no mistaking and no "is there a line, is there not a line" debates within my brain. Just as I had suspected, NOT PREGNANT showed up pretty much right away, so the test goes into the trash and I accept the fact that another round of Clomid and IUI are around the corner.

At this point, I felt EXACTLY like I was getting my period. I mean, there was not one single thing that would have led me to believe otherwise. But never the less.... just in case.... the next morning, 4 days before my expected period, I took another digital test. Left it on the counter, had my coffee, let the dogs out, ate breakfast. When I came back in to take a shower, I grabbed the test, threw it into the trash and saw PREGNANT 1-2 WEEKS. I swear I stared at it in silence for about 3 minutes before asking my dogs if they saw what I saw.... LOL! I took 7 more digital tests that day and all were PREGNANT 1-2 WEEKS. My compulsive testing continued until those tests read PREGNANT 3+ WEEKS.

I am now 13 weeks pregnant, my husband and I heard the heart beat of our little one just the other day. We pray every night and thank the man upstairs for blessing us with such a wonderful gift, and we pray this baby will be healthy and happy!

:) BFP on 3rd Clomid+IUI Cycle YAY

Dear ladies,

It's been a pleasure reading all your success stories over the past year, and I am very excited to be able to post my experience with the 2ww. Shortly, my DH and I (both 35 yo) have been trying TTC on our own for 2 years, and then went to an RE for help. Since we were dx u n e x p l a i n e d the doctor suggested 3 months of 100mg of Clomid + IUI. After the three months we would meet again and discus other options.
The first two months nothing happened even though I developed several mature follicles, and my DH's samples were perfect. At the beginning on the third assisted cycle we decided it would be our last. I also had to go out of country for 10 days, and was not even monitored, but the day after I got back I had my last IUI (two days after a positive OPK). 14dpiui I did an HCG blood test and a day later (yesterday) I got a call from the clinic. :) The test was positive (HCG=40) and I had to listen to the voice mail several times before I started believing it was true! And then I cried.... :)

1-6dpiui nothing, but I noticed normal cm (Clomid usually makes it disappear), vivid dreams
7dpiui some cramping in the uterine area, vivid dreams
8-12dpiui fatigue; I even had to take a nap to get rested, vivid dreams
13-14dpiui bloated, fatigue, cramping, vivid dreams
14dpiui BFP :)
15dpiui bloated, fatigue, cramping, vivid dreams
16dpiui Woke up at 4:30 and could not go back to sleep :) Temp still up (36.9C); Feeling good.

Was this any different from my other 2ww's?
A few things a little different I noticed were:
- more vivid dreams than ever
- fatigue
- no spotting 13-15dpiui (I usually spot before AF)

Thank you for reading my story. I hope yours is a happy one too! :)
Good luck and have a wonderful life!!!

BFP After 5 months on Clomid = Over the Moon

My periods have been irregular since I went off of Depo-Provera almost 2 years ago, so I knew TTC would be a challenge. Last fall, I decided to try to regulate my cycle naturally with Vitex , acupuncture and Provera to bring on a period. It helped some, but not enough. So in Dec 2011 we decided to try Clomid. Now after 5 frustrating months of Clomid, low progesterone and wacky unpredictable cycles, I finally have my BFP. It was to be our final month trying at home (My partner and I have been inseminating with fresh sperm at home. We are lesbians.)
I had an appointment scheduled with an RE to start the IUI process. I have never been happier to cancel a DR's appointment.

This month -OPK's- I had acupuncture before and after ovulation (I highly recommend this. It is not magic but it relaxes you and definitely helped bring on ovulation), used a small dose of Pre-Seed some days, took 100mg Clomid days 3-7, Fertile CM, B6, baby aspirin and 200mg prometrium vaginally starting 3DPO and on. I also took Mucinex on my fertile days.

This month felt different from the beginning. The first thing I noticed was that my nipples did not get sore after ovulation like they usually do but my breasts were tender the ENTIRE time deep aching pains. I was also incredibly thirsty for most of the 2ww.

Here are the rest of my symptoms:

CD 14- watery cm, o pain -home insemination
CD15- positive OPK =ovulation day-Pre-Seed-home insemination-watery cm, o pain, vivid dreams

DPO1 – home insemination – Pre-Seed
DPO2 - diarrhea, vivid dreams
DPO3 - backache, bloated, diarrhea, gassy- acupuncture
DPO4 - backache, constipated
DPO5 - backache, lightheaded
DPO6 - left side pain, backache
DPO7 - mild cramps,backache,vivid dreams,small temp dip
DPO8 - same + temp spike dpo9 - same + lightheaded
DPO10 – same + fatigue, mild nausea
DPO11 - felt good early in the day went for 3 mile hike but later lightheaded, diarrhea, nausea felt just plain crappy decide to test see faint line almost right away on internet cheapie
DPO12 - BFP with FMU on FRER- constipated, mild cramping and pressure, starving- pregnant on EPT digital
DPO13 – constipation, mild cramping and pressure, lightheaded, sensitive nose and exhausted

I am overjoyed it has been a long 5 months I can't believe its real.

BFP's and babydust to all and to the ladies having a tough time don't give up it will be worth the wait.

Secondary Infertility; 38 and Overweight

I have deliberated whether to write, as things are so fragile and new, but decided to share my story with the intent to bring hope to others. I am 38; DH is 41 - we conceived our first child 5 years ago without effort. Assuming #2 would be as easy, we decided to wait and well, when we were ready to try or bodies weren't :(

I spent 1 year "on my own" trying, then sought the help of a specialist who turned me a way as I was overweight (I am size 18); so I cried, tried to lose weight, and well, nothing. Found a new Dr, who welcome with open arms.

There was no official reason for our issues. DH was fine, I was fine. We did 5 rounds of Clomid - nothing. Then Clomid with IUI - Nothing. My insurance didn't cover IVF and truthfully I was very nervous to go there. We had one last attempt at IUI - and we started looking into adoption.

This time, we did the Gonal pen and trigger shot. The day of IUI, was a Sunday, and we used the "on call" Dr, who said DH counts were low and not to count on this working. Needless to say, I was devastated.

We DB for the next few days; all the time feeling very sad and hopeless. On about 11 DPO, I was convinced AF was coming. Horrible cramps. I called my Dr to advise we were out.

The only thing different this month as in past, we my boobs - HURT so bad (but I thought was from all the meds)

Sure enough, on 13 DPO we got a faint BFP. We were in shock - denial almost. We are now 7wks (saw heart beat yesterday) and graduated to OBGYN.

The strangest things were the cramps - how horrible and the soreness above.

We have a very strong faith in God and prayed every day. We believe this is a gift from God and hope our little bean sticks with us.

Don't lose faith - there is hope!! God Bless & baby dust to all. 

BFP After 3 Years - IUI #2

After trying for almost 3 years, I am so glad to be able to submit my TWW symptoms! Our second IUI with Femera and trigger was a success :)

1 - 4 dpiui = no real symptoms yet
5 dpiui = starting noticing body acne, which I've never had in all my 30 years
6 - 8 dpiui = very vivid dreams
10 dpiui = face starts breaking out, also rather unusual for me
11 dpiui = tiny bit of spotting
12 dpiui = lower abdomen feels tight and heavy, a lot like ovulation
13 dpiui = took a test at 10PM and it was a BFP!
14 dpiui = confirmed with digi and bloodwork!!

Since then the nausea and cramping has increased, but not too bad. I love every ache and pain and can't wait to go for our first scan. Never give up, even if you've been trying a long time!! 


Let me begin by saying I have been stalking this sight for a little over a year. I tried to conceive on my own for about 9 months and then turned to a fertility doctor for help. This was my second round of IUI (with progesterone- I think that was the trick!) and just received a positive pregnancy test 9dpo (and about 5 more that I could not stop taking since I actually saw the word PREGNANT). I thought that word would never come!

The reason why I feel like I must post to everyone is because I had NO SYMPTOMS at all!! I would sit on the computer everyday and research every symptom possible. Each month I thought I was pregnant but was just disappointed to see a BFN. This month was a total surprise- not one sign, if anything I felt better than usual. I am still in disbelief. I would convince myself I had sore breasts, cramps, back ache, runny nose, etc. I was also looking for implantation signs and blood every time I wiped (tmi...I know).

I would read other posts how some women did not have any symptoms and I felt that was hard to believe but now I am living proof. So...if I have any advice... it can really happen and you may not feel one thing! Trust me! We are still in shock!

Babydust to everyone, I know it is a difficult journey. 

BFP via IUI after 23 Months of TTC

Hi ladies, I can't believe it is finally my turn to post here. I had 2 24 week losses 5 and 6 years ago due to incompetent cervix. I got a permanent cerclage placed, called a transabdominal cerclage and have been trying to conceive since May 2010. After 5 rounds of Clomid, 6 rounds of Femara, and 2 rounds of injections and IUI my BFP came.

1-3 DPO - no symptoms
4 DPO - All over body aches, lower abdomen/cervical twinges, afternoon headache
5 DPO - Metallic Taste in mouth, shoulder aches, afternoon headache
6 DPO - Afternoon Headache
7 DPO - Afternoon Headache
8 DPO - Thirsty, twinges in lower abdomen, shoulder aches
9 DPO - Tired - Negative HPT
10 DPO - Tired, evening headache, positive HPT on MOTHERS DAY
11 DPO - Another +HPT, tired, thirsty

Here's to a sticky bean and a long boring 36 weeks! 

BFP Symptoms

After IVF was cancelled due to only 2 follicles, this cycle was converted to our fourth IUI in 2 years.
I was convinced it was a bust, even made an appt with a new RE for the following week! I had no
symptoms, even though I've been on prog suppositories.

Today was 14 dpo and beta day, I woke up at 430 am and couldn't sleep, had a nervous, rumbly
stomach all day. Still don't know if it was nerves or the pregnancy, but I got a + beta of 350!

Just to prove to all you gals who think that no symptoms = no pregnancy, it can happen!!