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BFP by Sperm Meets Egg Plan

The Sperm Meets Egg Plan is a very specific protocol designed to help couples achieve pregnancy. Here you’ll find the stories of ladies who’ve followed the program and come out the other side with a BFP in lieu of a diploma. Not too shabby…!

Enjoy the stories. And if you should get your BFP courtesy of the Sperm Meets Egg Plan, be sure to send it our way!

2nd Cycle TTC BFP! Early 20s

Newly weds, and we were lucky enough to have got our BFP so soon! The first month felt like 4 years!
Symptoms: NONE.
Honestly, if I got picky I'd say a little more gas then usually but that's it.
And the day af was due I had lots of watery cm. But other then that I had all my normal af symptoms. Even the cramps.
We followed smep this cycle so I honestly think it works! Try it!!
Now hoping for a healthy 7 months and 3 weeks.
Good luck xx

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3rd Time is a Charm!

I must say that the past three months I was stalking this page, but this month not so much to let myself to "relax" as everyone else says. I tried not to "care" as much, but I was crossing my fingers just like any other month. I went off BC in June 2012. My husband deployed so I figured go off then and get my body back to normal. And good thing, too. My cycles were irregular: 26 days, 47 days, 55 days for the first three months. Then he came home and we used OPK and charting my BBT that first month to see if I was actually ovulating. It showed a surge and my temp spiked so I felt that I was ovulating and we now needed to get the timing right. My cycle was 32 days. I felt like I was finally getting to my "normal" cycle. The following month we continued to use OPK and charting, but we added Preseed. I had a 37 day cycle. This time, the lucky third time, we used the CB OPK, charting BBT, Preseed, and I took FertilAid. This morning my temperature spiked so I decided to take a pregnancy test even though I told DH I was going to take one Tuesday. I'm 12DPO and got my first BFP with a CBD!!!! As for what symptoms I was feeling, I honestly felt nothing different than getting AF. I seriously thought she was coming and I kept checking to see yesterday because I was slightly cramping and bloated and felt like I was leaking. I felt like she was coming and kept telling DH that I think we were out this month and started planning when I might be ovulating in March. I did spot 9DPO during BD (sorry TMI) and this is usually a sign that AF is coming. The one thing looking back was that I get really bad lower back aches right before AF shows, but this month I did not have the back aches. Maybe that was my one clue. I'm crossing my fingers for a sticky bean! Baby dust to you all!

TTC #1 BFP on Valentine's Day

TTC since last April. My DP was working and living 40 miles away so we would meet up at weekends and once midweek.
We moved in together in October 2012 so have been seriously TTC with lots of BD around o time since October. 2012.
I've been taking pre con vits, Q10, Omega 3 since last April. Been ultra healthy, low caffeine and alcohol consumption, I'm very active, skate 2 times a week and cycle 40 miles a week.
We were both getting a bit low about not getting our BFP, I had just started having blood tests at the doctors to check my fertility.
A friend had suggested my DP take folic acid for his swimmers. Also he was a bit underweight last year and since Christmas has put on about 10Ibs and started doing weight training.
The only other different thing we did this month was use Pre-Seed, and we were very relaxed and happy at o time because we were on our way to Paris. We had an amazing time.
As for symptoms. There was nothing out of the ordinary really. In fact at 11 dpo I spotted and thought AF was around the corner. I had a bit of a cry on DPs shoulder and resolved to keep trying.
11 DPO pink spotting when checking CM
12 DPO brown spotting when checking CM
13 DPO onward Heavy tender BB, v mild cramp in low abdomen, bit more tired than usual, feel like I need to to BM but nothing there except wind (sorry TMI), more gassy.
16 DPO no AF, poas gave very faint BFP, me and DP could not believe it. It was also Valentines day!
Now 19DPO and that BFP line is very strong. The cramping is settling and it seems I am 5 weeks PG.
GP appointment on Thursday which will be 21 DPO.
Hoping for a happy healthy 1st pregnancy :)

Took 4 yrs TTC to Get Baby #1 Here, Now Pg With #2 1st Cycle TTC!!!!! (With SMEP)

Hi, I'm 31 my DH is 28 we already have a 12 month DS. I had 3 miscarriages prior. My first @ 16 wks, 2nd @ 9wks, 3rd @ 13wks. With my 4th pregnancy the Doctors put me on Baby aspirin, not sure if that's what helped but after 4 long years of heart ache we finally got him here February '12 :)
My Son is turning 1 so we decided to think about TTC again, with our previous history we expected it to take a very long time. Whilst I was Pregnant with DS I remember reading about the SMEP 'Sperm Meets Egg Plan' on here, so I decided to check it out again and googled how effective the plan was and so many forums came up with such positive results so I thought ok lets give it ago.

What we did:
I bought 50 OPK internet cheapies. Started testing CD 10.
CD 10 - BD'd
CD 12 - BD'd
CD 14 - BD'd
CD 16 - BD'd (faint line on OPK)
CD 17 - BD'd (+ OPK)
CD 18- BD'd (- OPK)
I know you are then meant to then miss a day and do one last BD for good luck, but we were pooped by this stage LOL~!!! so missed that one.

1 - 6 DPO no symptoms
7 - 8 DPO Cramps and very Tired
9 - DPO Very Tired
10 - DPO Tingly BB's (Did morning test BFN)
11 - DPO Tested again with internet cheapies "Ones step 10 miu" (I'm a POAS addict bought quite a few)got a very faint line, went and bought Clear blue digital, shows - Pregnant 1-2 wks!!!!!!

I am going to tell all my friends about the SMEP plan, I can't believe it worked for us first time!! Fingers crossed my little bean sticks!! Baby dust to everyone xx

We Did it!

After 7 months its finally happening! I'm so happy & feel so blessed! I hope this one is my sticky bean!
God bless & tons of baby dust to everyone! (:

Got a BFP!! 13dpo --- SMEP

I am so excited to share the news with the TWW world (especially since DH and I aren't telling anyone else) !!!!

I have been TTC 2 months, 30 years old, used an OPK and read the SMEP. My cycle is 26 days with a 12 day LP.

Cycle day 9--BD
cycle day 11--BD
Cycle day 13--BD
CD 14 O day
1-7 DPO nothing /normal post O cramps
8DPO - very sore/dry throat out of the blue mid afternoon
9DPO- VERY SORE throat, drank tons of water, ate halls, drank tons of decaf tea. Noticed a shooting pain through my bb in a meeting, shocking. POAS BFN
10DPO- sore throat easing up, nipples feel burning/sore, and hard. Headache.
11DPO- heavy period cramps? Very "wet" down there, strange. Stomach seems to hurt
and slept aalll day.
12DPO- woke up starving,Nipples sore, craving pomegranate-- went to store and bought then devoured 8oz of arils, AF is due today according to my regular cycle. Since Im feeling these AF cramps, figure I should definitely count myself out.
13DPO- Cramps, and random shooting pains from my belly button to vagina. I was sure I
was out, then DH cuts his fingernails near me, I gagged ... Ran to bathroom to POAS ... CB digital, BFP! Shocked! Went to the store and bought 2 more tests, FRER digital and
CVS early detection... Both BFP. faint on the CVS test.

14DPO--Currently and since 8DPO , I have had a dry "tickle" in my throat, and a very stuffy nose. No other cold symptoms. I am having shooting pains in my pelvic area every couple of hours, and shooting pains in my bbs. Doctors appointment scheduled for 17DPO for a blood test.

Praying for a lasting bean and wishing all of you reading this tons of baby dust :)

2 Years TTC - BFP 14DPO After 5 BFN's!

DH and I have been TTC for 2 years. I'm 30, DH is 34. I absolutely did not think I was pregnant this month. I have had almost no symptoms except for some light infrequent nausea and fatigue. I had no implantation dip in my BBT and no implantation bleeding. If it wasn't for the positive HPT's and blood tests, I wouldn't have believed it. Please don't give up!

DH and I have been seeing a fertility specialist since February 2011. Except for a thin uterine lining which was dealt with pretty quickly through meds, DH and I were perfectly healthy and ovulated every month on day 14-15. Why oh why could we not conceive then?! I had one chemical pregnancy, which was so brief I'm beginning to think it was a mistake on my part, but other than that no BFP's. My HSG test showed some possibly blocked tubes, but for some reason my idiotic fertility doctors missed that in my reports for almost 10 months. I was supposed to schedule a laparoscopy this month. I was on Clomid, Letrozole and occasional HCG injections and had 2 IUI's. Nothing- although I do think the medication helped stabilize my cycles. The doctor doubled my dosage of letrozole and I began to ovulate way too early (on day 10 and then later on day 6 the following cycle). I said enough.

I finally took a break from the meds and the IUI's and concentrated on my Acupuncture and herbal medicines. I still went for cycle monitoring just so I could know for certainty what my body was doing. I started to ovulate later and I credit the herbs, vitamins, Pre-Seed, 50 shades of Grey (snicker) and most importantly the power of prayer, for my pregnancy. I asked God to let his will be for me to be pregnant and for his will to be done to me.

We BD on days 10, 12, 14, 16, 17 and I elevated my hips after each time for 15-30 minutes. I really tried to (ahem) enjoy it too. I ovulated on Day 15 (we suspect). I tried to keep to the SMEP, but it was really tough. This was our first full cycle on Pre-Seed as well. BUY IT!!!

Day 0: insomnia, night sweat- BBT 36.2

Day 1 DPO: insomnia - BBT 36.5

Day 2: no symptoms - BBT 36.2 (I think this was low from the insomnia);

Day 3: feeling tired and unwell. Flu is going around so I assumed it was that. Bit of a headache. BBT- 36.6

Days 4-9: still feeling unwell. I have a rash on my face (ew) and I can't think straight. So tired and sick! BBT - 36.8 for all days and BFN on days 8 and 9 using a 10 HCG internet HPT;

Days 10-11: still unwell. Feeling some pressure in my abdomen on my left side (I ovulated on my right side). Sleeping is uncomfortable. Tired. BBT- 36.9. BFN with sensitive internet cheapie on both days again.

Day 12-13: still sick! Nausea is on/off, but I get this during my period so I'm thinking that's what it is. BBT- 36.8 and BFN on Day 12. I think I'm out with a possible fever. I start taking medication (feeling guilty now) and cut back on my herbs to conserve them. I drank a medium coffee on both days (a lot of caffeine for me), eat sushi and pretty much just lived my life.

Day 14: Still feel foggy. BBT- 36.8. Faint BFP on internet cheapie. What the what?! I don't tell DH because I think it's a mistake, I'll test again tonight. Another BFP in the evening and then I break out the big guns and use my last decent early pregnancy test (life brand I think). Clear BFP in 5 seconds.

Day 15: stomach keeps churning. I keep gagging and feeling "crampish" in my stomach. BBT - 36.8 and another positive HPT. See my doctor- Positive Blood test- 164. :-D

I hate it when people say to relax and just let it happen. I think I had to work at this by taking charge of my fertility, making peace with God, improving my overall health through Acupuncture and herbs and by ensuring we BD'd enough (which isn't easy when you've been trying for so long). The pregnancy was a surprise, but everything up to it was very deliberate and calculated. At the end of the day I hope that my wait means that I will just have a healthier baby. I'm sure that's what it will mean for you.

Hang in there and don't give up. You never know which month will be yours. I hope this bean sticks and I'm sending you my baby dust.

BFP for Baby #2!

Hi ladies, I finally got my BFP yesterday night after trying 3 months. Here's a little background info: I'm 26, married 7 years, and we have a 4-year-old (we were not ttc with her). In March 2012, I had an laparoscopy to remove a 6cm cyst on my ovary, which turned out to be an endometrioma (cyst caused by endometriosis)...but I never had any pain from the endometriosis, and didn't have issues following the procedure. We decided TTC after we both finished up our bachelor's degrees, so I had my Paragard IUD removed in September 2012. I have longer cycles (30-31 days) and used the WomanLog App to track periods and estimate ovulation TELLS you your most fertile days, and I highly recommend it.

Oddly enough, during the past few months I was a POAS-fiend, but this month I waited until the day it was due (it will save your sanity), and it showed up right away. I am STILL in shock! We didn't chart, use Pre-Seed, OPK's, or anything else...just plenty of BD-ing and keeping track with the WomanLog App. ;) Here are my "symptoms" until the BFP:

Days 1-6 DPO: Nothing
Day 7: Twinge in my uterus (implantation?)
Days 8-9: Unusually sleepy (9 hours a night and still exhausted)
Days 10-14: Sore, tingly boobs (the same sensation as milk dropping, although I know that's impossible), still very tired
Day 14: BFP at night! First one was faint (but definitely there), 2nd one an hour later was darker. Yay!
Day 15: VERY clear BFP with FMU! (I used First Response tests, a pack of 3)

I am still very tired, and my boobs are still very sore...but I don't "feel" pregnant. I called the doctor and my due date is September 15th, 2013, and I have an ultrasound scheduled on January 31st to confirm. It's still unreal...hoping it sticks! I sincerely wish all of you the best of luck, the two week wait is unbearable! Hang in there!

BFP After 12 Months TTC

We have been TTC for 12 months. We have been using clear blue digital OPK's for the last 6 months. For the last two months we have done SMEP. I'm not sure if that was the ticket or if it was just our time. We had a fertility specialist appointment booked in one month. We are ecstatic!!!

DPO 1-8- Normal
DPO 9- Heavy feeling of my right breast - all of a sudden my bra just doesn't feel like it fits quite right. Breakfast sounds horrible - I skip it
DPO 10- Breakfast sounds horrible again - crave smoothie instead of breakfast.
DPO 11- Breakfast sounds horrible. BFN. I cry and cry.
DPO 12- BFP! Very light line. Not pregnant on Digital.
DPO 13- BFP (again very light line) and pregnant on Digital. Our one year anniversary! Best present ever!

I always feel "burpy" (nauseous and heart burn) at about DPO 5-AF. Like any other month I had this.
I always have a creamy tan discharge (very small amount) - again like any other month I had this.

My biggest give away is that I didn't spot at all. I usually start spotting 4-5 days before AF. No spotting for me!

Surprise BFP 2 Months After Chemical

I posted here a few months ago but it turned out to be a chemical pregnancy. Shortly after faint positive test results, I started to bleed and the bleeding continued until the pregnancy was gone. I was so sad and depressed for several weeks after that. Nevertheless, the inspiring stories on this site always kept me going and kept me hoping that someday our turn would come. We have been TTC#1 for 5 months, and I was wondering if I was ovulating regularly, or if my tubes could be blocked. I am 36 so there was some cause for concern and I had made an appointment with a fertility specialist for this coming cycle to get all the blood draws and tests (HSG, etc). I have noticed a pattern in the BFP stories that many of us have gotten to the point of going to an RE, when suddenly the BFP just happens. Then again, I am so thankful that REs exist to help those of us who need a little extra support. This site has been so educational in demystifying fertility treatments and helping me realize that going for help is a completely normal thing to do and often results in beautiful BFPs! Although I continued to think about TTC all the time and didn't feel very "relaxed", this month I had surrendered to the fact that we might need some help (HSG, Clomid, whatever the doctor said would work, I would be willing to try!)--and I think that helped me relax, to know that we could get help. I was more cheerful about planning to try in future months--having faith and knowing that our little sweet one is coming sooner or later and just being more easeful about when exactly it would be. I still feel that way, because God knows anything could happen in the next 9 months.

After the chemical in November my acupuncturist (whom I see about once per week) advised me to start taking Vitex, as it can help increase progesterone and sustain a pregnancy. I took Vitex Elixir from Gaia every morning in my tea from CD1 this month. I felt like it really evened out my moods and made my skin look nice. Not sure if that's what helped us get pregnant or not, but they say it is like "nature's Clomid" so maybe it helped boost ovulation? I did get a positive OPK on a CBD a day earlier than usual and the LH surge lasted longer than usual (it was positive in the morning and late at night). We also used Pre-Seed each time because I think it is wonderful and DH likes it too. :) I was trying to follow the sperm meets egg plan, but I'm not sure I followed it to the letter. DH had already gotten a SA and everything looked great.

When I say "surprise BFP", it really is because I did not have symptoms like I thought I would have. Here are my symptoms by DPO:

CD 10: -OPK, BD
CD 11: +OPK, BD
CD 12: O? Who really knows. I don't temp so I am guessing I o'd on this day. BD
2DPO: BD (Christmas Day! We prayed a lot on this day.)
3DPO: Nothing out of the ordinary
4DPO: Nothing
5DPO: Major EWCM in the morning. Oh no, did I O late? Confused and make DH BD with me again just in case. I researched why sometimes we get EWCM in the luteal phase, and it sounds like an estrogen surge can be normal after ovulation. Or maybe this was implantation? Again, who really knows. Our bodies are mysterious.
6-7DPO: Nothing, feel fine
8 DPO: New Year's Eve. Barely made it to midnight, I was so exhausted. Not normal for me. Falling asleep at a concert where one of my favorite artists was playing. Couldn't take the loudness and being around drunk people.
9-11DPO: No symptoms to speak of. After past disappointments, was doing my best to avoid symptom spotting. I did feel some tingly-ness in my bbs, and felt hungry. Nothing strange for me pre-AF. Notice that I am NOT testing at all--the chemical scared me and made me so incredibly sad, I couldn't handle a BFN. Also, with the chemical, the super-faint line never showed up until AF was 3 days late (19 or 20DPO). At this point in my cycle (11DPO) AF is more than a week away. So I didn't think there was any point in testing.
12DPO: Felt amazing all day. High energy and perky at work. Getting ready to head out with friends (DH is out of town) and decided to test "just in case" since I didn't think I was pregnant and would have liked a drink. As I'm unwrapping the FRER, I'm shaking my head, knowing it's going to be negative and telling myself, "It's okay, we'll try again next month. Don't get sad." The line was dark and came up almost immediately. I started shaking. I took a picture of the test and texted it to DH, saying A LINE OMG. We could not be more thrilled and more ready to welcome this little one into our family. I also took a digital test--"Pregnant!" I will continue to test until I'm really sure.