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The Sperm Meets Egg Plan is a very specific protocol designed to help couples achieve pregnancy. Here you’ll find the stories of ladies who’ve followed the program and come out the other side with a BFP in lieu of a diploma. Not too shabby…!

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Miracle BFP!

My hubby and I tried to get pregnant in 2012 for 8 months with no luck. Even had two rounds of Clomid, I got cystic acne, and everything was a mess. I went back on the pill in OCt or Nov. In Dec 2013 I had surgery and a HSG. I found out I have Mild endo, plus was diagnosed with PCOS years ago. I am 30 years old. I got my period in Jan like normal. I started taking Prenatals with Inositol in it, and also take Fish oil, Vit D, COQ10, and Calcium. I had been on the supplements about a month. I was going to start Vitex if I didn't get my period in Feb..Well Feb 10th 2014, I got my BFP!!! Mon Feb 10, 2014 Cycle Jan 08, 2014 CD34 13DPO BMS, Nipples sensitive, DARK PEE. cramps. 98.72F at 08:45am, HPT+, Tender Breasts, Bloated, Nausea, Fatigue, Constipation, Backache, Dizziness Sun Feb 09, 2014 Cycle Jan 08, 2014 CD33 12DPO Really bad cramps. A couple brown mixed discharge this am and then pink with one red glob. Sensitive nipples, so bloated, a little weight gain. Peeing a lot. Beyond cranky tonight. Low grade fever and lots of cramps. Some dizziness. 98.43F at 09:00am, Creamy CM, , Bloated, Fatigue, Frequent Urination, Headache, Skin Break-Out, Constipation, Backache, Cramps, Heartburn Sat Feb 08, 2014 Cycle Jan 08, 2014 CD32 11DPO Peeing a lot. Bad cramps. 98.18F at 09:00am, Creamy CM, Bloated, Frequent Urination, Headache, Skin Break-Out, Constipation, Backache, Cramps, Increased Appetite Fri Feb 07, 2014 Cycle Jan 08, 2014 CD31 10DPO Arm pain-bad cramps-bad back pain- sad- 97.96F at 09:00am, Creamy CM, HPT-, Headache, Constipation, Backache, Dizziness, Cramps Thu Feb 06, 2014 Cycle Jan 08, 2014 CD30 9DPO Headache-itching-oily itchy scalp and face- heavy bladder-cramping-bms-peeing every 15 mins 98.24F at 09:00am, Creamy CM, Fatigue, Frequent Urination, Headache, Skin Break-Out, Gassy, Cramps, Increased Appetite Wed Feb 05, 2014 Cycle Jan 08, 2014 CD29 8DPO Sneezing a lot-minor runny nose-bms and dry mouth-pimple-cramping ish-ears clogged-minor pain top/ sides by arm pit/boob sore-arms hurt-headache-thirsty-sharp abdominal pain left side -sharp pains in vagina-yellow discharge- dry mouth but also drooling-heartburn tonight badly-restless. 98.51F at 09:00am, Creamy CM, Bloated, Irritability, Nausea, Fatigue, Frequent Urination, Headache, Skin Break-Out, Gassy, Diarrhea, Backache, Dizziness, Cramps, Increased Appetite Tue Feb 04, 2014 Cycle Jan 08, 2014 CD28 7DPO Headache, bms, dry mouth, pimple, backache, cramps. Dizzy, hungry, tired. Bloated/pooch. Ears popping 98.33F at 09:00am, Sticky CM, Bloated, Irritability, Nausea, Fatigue, Frequent Urination, Headache, Skin Break-Out, Gassy, Constipation, Backache, Dizziness, Cramps, Increased Appetite, Heartburn Mon Feb 03, 2014 Cycle Jan 08, 2014 CD27 6DPO Wake up at 4am starving last three days. Mouth burning severe. Ears clogged and popping. BMS. Creamy/sticky CM. Dizzy and tired. Headache, and sick to stomach. Low blood sugar symptoms &Shakes.possible yeast infection? Oily scalp and skin. Dandruff scalp. emo. A couple mins of butt/tailbone pain. arms so achy, and dry mouth. 98.51F at 09:00am, Creamy CM, Bloated, Sleep Deprived, Irritability, Nausea, Fatigue, Frequent Urination, Headache, Gassy, Diarrhea, Backache, Dizziness, Cramps, Increased Appetite, Heartburn Sun Feb 02, 2014 Cycle Jan 08, 2014 CD26 5DPO Cramp on left lower abdomen. Painful arms. Insomnia and wake early. Bad vidid dreams. Gas. Frequent urination. Itchy scalp and oily skin. Pimples. Tearful watching gabby movie. Bms. ears clogged and popping. Left ear hard hearing. Emo, cried like three times when watching tv (was not sad). 98.69F at 08:45am, Sticky CM, Bloated, Sleep Deprived, Fatigue, Frequent Urination, Headache, Skin Break-Out, Gassy, Backache, Dizziness, Cramps, Increased Appetite Sat Feb 01, 2014 Cycle Jan 08, 2014 CD25 4DPO nips, cramping, back pain, corners of mouth dry, runny nose and sneezing. Oily skin and scalp. I can smell everything. Sighing none stop. Increased arm aches. Bright pee. 98.33F at 09:00am, Creamy CM, Tender Breasts, Bloated, Irritability, Fatigue, Headache, Gassy, Backache, Cramps, Increased Appetite, Heartburn Fri Jan 31, 2014 Cycle Jan 08, 2014 CD24 3DPO Flutters lower abdomen, breast full, nipples soreness, hungry, oily skin and hair. Good mood. Strong smells and food taste bad. 98.12F at 09:00am, Sticky CM, Tender Breasts, Bloated, High Energy, Irritability, Nausea, Frequent Urination, Headache, Constipation, Cramps, Increased Appetite, Heartburn Thu Jan 30, 2014 Cycle Jan 08, 2014 CD23 2DPO Sneezing and runny nose. Nips hurt and itch. BMS, oily skin and hair. Smell everything. 98.17F at 09:00am, Egg White CM, Tender Breasts, Nausea, Fatigue, Headache, Constipation, Cramps, Increased Appetite Wed Jan 29, 2014 Cycle Jan 08, 2014 CD22 1DPO stabbing pains left and right side abdomen. Right side lower back pain. 97.94F at 09:00am, Egg White CM, Tender Breasts, Bloated, Nausea, Fatigue, Frequent Urination, Headache, Constipation, Backache, Cramps, Decreased Appetite

BFP on VITEX with SPOTTING While Breastfeeding a Toddler!

Hi everyone! I'm so excited to share my BFP story after 5 months TTC! I'm currently breastfeeding my 21 month old and didn't actually get my first post-partum period until my LO was 16 months old. Before my period came back, I decided to start Vitex because I had heard that it can kickstart your period by lowering blood prolactin levels and increasing your progesterone, and my DH and I REALLY wanted to start TTC Baby #2. I also night weaned him the same month. After THREE WEEKS ONLY on Vitex (and one week of night-weaning), my period came back!! I was overjoyed, and immediately started tracking temperatures and doing OPKs religiously. My first few cycles were pretty normal, but with short LPs. The last few months things seemed to have gone back to normal, with O day gradually getting earlier. I don't have too much CM, so I used ROBITUSSIN 6 days before O day and one day after, and I also used PRE-SEED and SOFTCUPS every time we BD. FYI my normal cycles are 30-31 days and I always have a very short LH surge, lasting <24 hours based on clearblue digital opks (smiley). This cycle I decided not to test until 14 dpo because I was sick of seeing BFNs every month! Here is the super detailed breakdown of my cycle and BFP! We BD on CD 9, 10, 12, 14, 16 x 2, 17. CD 14: BD CD 15: POSITIVE OPK 2pm CD 16 (Ovulation day): TEMP DIP (35.5), POSITIVE OPK 8am, BD TWICE at 7am and 12am (late that night), opk negative by 2pm. CD 17 (1dpo): TEMP SPIKE (36.3), BD 1pm CD 18-20: Some left side ovary stabs throughout day CD 21 (5dpo): Wave of nausea, bad migraine, hot flash around lunch CD 22 (6dpo): Some nausea in am, EXTREMELY tired, some mild backache, possible heartburn, copious wet cm, repeated muscle spasms in right hip CD 23 (7dpo): Full feeling in abdomen, some left boob stabs, gagging when changing poopy diaper (rarely happens anymore) CD 24 (8dpo): Felt nausea upon waking, horrid migraine all day and night, some random uterus stabs throughout day, seemed to be more on left side CD 25 (9dpo): BROWN SPOTTING (three streaks on undies), very strong smelling urine- almost sweet, could smell immediately midstream, at night water tasted like sour milk to me (had hubby taste it and fine to him) CD 26 (10dpo): BROWN SPOTTING (brown tinged CM on toilet paper), back and leg ache, feel like period is coming, very strong smelling urine again, tender nipples after nursing CD 27 (11dpo): LIGHT YELLOW-BROWN SPOTTING on toilet paper, woke up in the night to REALLY sharp left side stabs followed by repeated pounding in that same area (implantation?), some heart burn, dull back pain all day, some nausea at night, strong urine CD 28 (12dpo): Heartburn/nausea, extremely emotional, argued for no reason with my mom, read a parenting article and was BAWLING (the kind of thing where you look back hours later and wonder why the hell you cried so hard lol), very sore muscle-like cramping in left side groin area when walking most of the day, felt like I pulled my groin, almost limping CD 29 (13dpo): big muscle cramps on both sides of uterus, especially on left side when I walk, some boob soreness, nausea after eating, out of breath really fast when carrying my LO up stairs (do it a million times per day, but particularly noticed how breathless I was this time) CD 30 (14dpo): Test with Clearblue Digital with FMU and got BFP!!!! Conception indicator says 1-2 weeks. Also get lines on an IC and dollar store test. Small amount of brown tinged cm on underwear, cramping on left and right side of uterus, headache on and off, couple dizzy spells. I’m not sure if I implanted the first day of the spotting (9dpo) or the day of sharp repeated stabs on the left side (11 dpo). 11 dpo is more likely as I got only 1-2 weeks on the conception indicator. Also, based on the timing of our positive opks, I believe that skipping BD the day before O and then the BD EARLY on O day (CD 16) was what did it for us, the spermies were able to build up for an extra day!)

DD is Gonna be a Big Sister! I Can't Wait!

My digital test this morning came up PREGNANT!!! We have been TTC on and off for I believe about 5 or 6 months now. I am breastfeeding, so through this time have had anovulatory cycles, confusing CM patterns, a really short luteul phase with multiple patches of EWCM. Because I was still night-feeding my DD, I did not use BBT. Because LH often has to rise higher for a woman with high prolactin (milk-making hormone) levels to ovulate, I did not use OPK's.. I pretty much just did the thang if we saw EWCM and tried to be on the lookout for O pains. We started the month trying to SMEP but didn't want to force sex, either, so did miss some days here and there before really falling off this week. Here are the symptoms (by cycle day and DPO!) I just want to preface this, though. Each symptom noted and listed, in the moment, was so faint that I would have just written them off as "nothing" or "in my head" if this test wasn't positive. Like, I could have just as easily believed a negative test based on "severity" of symptoms. The only reason I tested was (ok, also because I am a recovering POASaholic.. ) but because I had creamy, yellowy CM with small little bits of EWCM like I had with DD in early pregnancy. And most everything I noted was similar to other cycles right up until I got the creamy CM the day I got the first BFP.. I have had many more convincing cycles than this one! CD12: DTD CD13: DTD cm- yellowy jelly glob, not thin enough to be EWCM and yellowish?! Jumped on DH as soon as he walked in the door, was rarin' to go! CD14: - Nothing? Didn't even notice CM. CD15: - EWCM, weak mittelschmerz left side day, right side night ... fairly persistent. Think I must have Od this day but had no libido. CD16 (1DPO +/-): DTD.. either mittelschmerz or some other weird cramping, but not as strong as CD15 CD17 (2DPO +/-): DTD. slight sore throat in the AM when first waking and nipples tingling. Feel off CD18 (3DPO +/-): DTD. 1230am, cm feeling more "moist" & thinner?? lower rib cage feels sore, almost bruised. cp - high, medium/soft?, closed CD19 (4DPO +/-) - really "in the mood" cp med & soft. could not feel opening.. then again have no idea what I'm doing as it pertains to checking my cervix, lol! spurt of creamy/lotion white cm later on. Big glob EWCM @ 1130PM but I also took vit B today (I get EWCM near every time I take vit B) CD20 (5DPO +/-): light backache. Light nausea. I Think to myself: Must barely be Oing.. ??? nausea + mild irritability. No visible ewcm, but it feels like its up there somewhere?? Feel "full" in my vagina like on EWCM days haha & increased libido CD21 (6DPO +/-) Whiteish tacky CM. Giant butt pimple!! (In retrospect, I got a lot of body acne my first trimester with DD, so this should have been a giveaway) Also noticed top half pf nipples is dark but bottom half is really light again... ? DTD at 11pm CD22 (7DPO +/-) Cold symptoms, stuffy nose.. gone after morning. Bloated + gas. Premenstrual crabby mood. EWCM @ 11 pm again... Not gelatinous but also not thin. Super super stretch. No libido tho. Headache PM. CD23 (8DPO +/-): DTD.. Big ol back pimple & Thinner Ewcm CD24 (9DPO +/-): Sticky white tacky cm daytime. Light cramps on and off :/ Cranky this morning.. Gained a lil holiday weight, Chris put his hand on my tummy and said "yup, you're pregnant!". Felt like crying about being a deadbeat/broke for Xmas later in the day. Was also very mad through the day about the smallest things; was suspicious but thought this could also be PMS. Have been craving chocolate.. again, PMS? CD25 (10DPO +/-) DTD. Light constipation gave way to diarhea. (The diarrhea is pretty normal before AF) Also had a plugged duct or really sore breast muscle in the am. Nipples have been getting hard more than usual and feeling "wet". Think to self: Am I leaking milk? (I breastfeed my DD still! So I don't take "breast symptoms" at all seriously.) Feeling slightly nauseous on an empty stomach... Not uncommon before AF or during O. Saliva feels thicker or more abundant. Forgot to chart: been having sciatica or a hip problem in left side on and off for a few days, need to see a chiropractor or something. (this was also something I had through my pregnancy with DD!! Now that I got a BFP I am noticing lol) Faint dizzy spell in PM, but wonder if am becoming hyper-conscious as AF approaches.
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BFP on Boxing Day! Lesbian Couple.

My partner and I are in a lesbian relationship and have been trying for a baby for over a year For the first 4 tries, (9 tries in total over 18 months) we went through a fertility clinic in order to have IUI. This wasn't our preferred option, but in the uk you cannot purchase sperm for home use from an unknown donor. After a very difficult four tries, we decided we needed to persue another option and so approached a friend. After 5 tries (some were timed better than others!) we finally got our BFP! And it was on Boxing Day at 16dpo. We would probably have got a positive sooner but were too scared to test around the festive period! RE symptoms, there weren't as many this month as previous months when I have not been pregnant. 1-11dpo nothing particularly out of the ordinary. I did have a cold which came to nothing and was very tired, but that could have been down to lots of things. 12dpo-15dpo I thought that I was out. Horrendous period cramps which were identical to those that I get before I come on my period. The only odd thing was that they would come on strongly and then totally go. Then they wold come on again half an hour later or so. My cervix was closed, soft and high. My biggest clue was the on and off period pain. However, I was absolutely convinced I would come on my period. The cramps are still there at times today (17dpo) but a lot less frequently. A message to anyone who has been trying to conceive for a while and is symptom spotting- never give up. If we can do it inseminating 2 or 3 times a month and guessing on timings, then anyone can. Magic happens at Christmas. With regards to symptom spotting, I did it, it didn't help, but I'd do it again! Remember, everyone is different and it is very unlikely that any symptom too much before your period is anything other than PMS, pretty much the same hormones are released until the egg implants. Even then, you may feel nothing. I wish everyone a whole load of Christmas baby dust... Keep up the hope and it'll happen. X


Howdy ya'll! This is the second BFP story I have posted....two days after my first BFP sTory posted I had a miscarriage. Which of course isn't the fault of this lovely forum...these BFP stories have kept me sane over this past year! I am happy to report that I am pregnant again and on the safer side I waited until I am more comfortable in this pregnancy to post. I am today 12 weeks and couldn't be happier! My story goes: I had gotten all my tests back and every thing was clear for my first cycle on clomid. All I had to do was call on CD 1 to make an appt for my scan that had to be done on CD get/start clomid in CD 5. Soooo my body in it's awesomeness started my period on Friday afternoon after the Clinic had closed...I was soooo upset that I couldn't even call the Clinic until CD 4 (and my husband would be TDY for the next I would have to wait 2 more cycles!) . We'll my worry was for nothing! I had the scan and started clomid on CD 5. My only side effect was a lot of moodiness. On 13 October I recived my first positive OpK (EVER!). During the two weeks wait I wasn't sure what symptoms were pregnancy and which were clomid...I was completely expecting it not to work...and all the strangeness I blamed it on the clomid. Some symptoms I had were headaches, mild tummy upset, and a bit of (TMI) discharge. What was really weird is I get really sore boobs after ovulation and I didn't get that at all...I just noticed my nips were really sore which I never had before. I was just going to wait it out and let my period show normally (12 DPO) on 11 DPO I cracked and tested. My husband was @ work and I was alone. I saw a super faint line and I was completely taken aback...I had to be me imagining it...I texted to my BF and she saw it! Surprised my hubs with a little onesie and hat! He was happy but his reaction was "yep...I knew I'd be knocking you up soon" lol! Well I guess that is a bit long so I'll end with: to all ya'll TTC ladies: I've been SUCKS! I hope ya'll get ya'lls BFPs soon! Baby Dust! Cherí


Hello lovely ladies! I am very excited/nervous/shocked to say that after 2 months TTC and first month trying Sperm meets egg plan we got our BFP. (AND after last month my doc told me I don´t have a strong ovulation and I may need fertility assistance! Needless to say won´t be going back to her!) I tested 10 DPO and it was negative. Then got a faint positive at 11DPO and my BFP on Clear Blue Digital at 12 DPO. We only started BDing on CD 12 as hubby was away. Got positive OPK on CD14, so BD'd on 14, twice on 15, again on 16 and 18. All the sex was super fun and I would highly recommend SMEP ;) I was a bit worried as my mucus seemed quite dry to even non-existent. I even bought some Pre-Seed to try next month as was convinced there wasn't enough to conceive but was so pleasantly surprised. Just shows we don't know it all. Symptom wise, my nausea and dizziness started about a week before my BFP (if that's even possible?). I have had some AF-like cramping yesterday and today, which was a bit worrying, but nothing too drastic. a LOT of bloating, especially by the evening (jeans are already feeling a Little tight around my middle) No head aches thank goodness, boobs sore but nothing major. I sincerely hope and pray that all you lovely ladies out there trying to conceive get your positives soon, and all of us with positives have healthy and strong pregnancies and babas. Baby dust, love and positivity to all xxx

BFP After 2 Years of Trying

What I will tell you worked for me and not to say that it will work for everyone but it's what worked for us. We tried for about two years and finally just when we decided to give up because I got accepted to Nursing school, got a bfp! We are so happy and thank God everyday for our blessing because God always knows when the time is right. I know it sounds crazy how I will do school and baby, but we will do it. So first things first: this is my 2nd child, first child was from previous marriage. This is his first child. We both got checked and I was fine, he had low morphology but his count was good and so was his motility. In June he was put on clomid 25 mg tab daily for 3 months. We also began eating healthier and losing about 10-15 pounds each. We no longer worked night shift, instead switched to morning shifts and slept better, felt more energized and happier. I used the app period tracker to try and help me better understand my irregular cycle. For the most part I would usually get my period every 32-33 days. Around ovulation ( I only knew when I would ovulate because of the ovulation kits, I never had ovulation symptoms. Usually around day 15-17) time we would do the BD 2-3 days before, the day of and 2 days after. We used pressed for lubrication and instead of getting up right away to wash, I decided to lay there for an hour or more. No legs up in the air, just lay flat or on my side. And every tww was torture because very month I thought this was the month. I'd have every symptom of early pregnancy and then in a week or two my period would arrive. One day I bumped into an old friend of the family and she asked about my mom and my family and asked when we were going to add a new addition. I began crying and told her we just gave up because we tried home remedies, clomid, dieting and changing our sleeping cycle and overall had a healthier lifestyle and still nothing. (Ladies please understand this worked for me I'm not saying to try this but it won't hurt) She told me in Spanish to "warm my womb". She said I needed to clean and warm my wind so the the sperm and egg could meet and finally attach itself to my uterine lining. So here is the remedy: about 9 days before your next period, every morning drink a cup of hot milk. Just plain regular hot milk, hot enough that you could resist but not to scald yourself. In addition take two eggs and either boil or steam it only until the yolk is cooked but not hardened something like sunny side up/ egg Benedict and on top of the eggs sprinkle about a tea spoon of cut up Rue plant leaves. For 9 days every morning. Originally rue plant was used to clean the uterus after miscarriages back then. This can not be consumed if you are pregnant or already actively on your tww, wait until the next month to try. So I tried this in October and had a BFP for November. Was this an old remedy that worked for me? Maybe. But in the end if it did or did not, I strongly believe it was everything as a whole. It was God who made it happen. To me it was God who made that the lady and I bump into to each other, it was probably the clomid that finally kicked in to my husband's body, it was our change of eating habits and lifestyle change as well. It was also us not trying so hard and stressing about it but just keeping it mind while still enjoying ourselves intimately as a couple. I am currently 11 weeks today and feeling so blessed. Please keep your faith and prayers to God. HE listens and will bless all of you!

BFP at 10 dpo!

Hi, all! This was my first cycle of Clomid (I only ovulate four or five times a year on my own). I took 50 mg/day on CD 3-7, had an HSG on CD 10, a trigger on CD 15, and ovulated on CD 17. RE monitored my ovaries and I had one good egg ready to go as of CD 15. We did timed intercourse on CD 15-17 (so romantic!). Here are my symptoms: 1 dpo: woke up with cramps and a backache at 4:40 am; cramping continued on and off all day. Bloated/gassy. 2-5 dpo: loss of appetite, bloated/gassy/constipated, acidic stomach. 6-7 dpo: holy cramping! Also constipated/gassy, thick white discharge, irritable, sensitive nips. My trigger tested out on 7 dpo. 8 dpo: wet discharge, cramps/pulling sensation in lower abdomen, weepy, tired, headache, total loss of libido. BFN. 9 dpo: crabby and so so so angry, backache, cramps, gagged while brushing teeth in the morning, thirsty, MUST HAVE FRUIT. Thought I saw a faint BFP on FRER but DH said I was hallucinating. 10 dpo: got up at 1 am because I had to pee super, super bad. Took digital HPT at 5:45 am and got a BFP!
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BFP After 6 Months Trying and 1st Month SMEP

Followed SMEP after trying 6 months and got my bfp! It took a lot more work and eventually an ivf cycle to conceive my son so this is amazing! I used the clear blue easy fertility monitor and opks. Started the monitor the day if my period and followed the opks for sperm meets egg plan on day 10 of my cycle. The difference is I used my monitor in the morning and the opks in the afternoon. I saw the surge on the opk almost 20 hours before my monitor. I also went from low levels to ovulating on my monitor. Never had a high fertility time frame. Followed smep loyally. And it worked! Didn't notice any symptoms until 8dpo. Then heightened sense of smell and back ache which is not a period signal for me! 9dpo light brown spotting in morning. 10dpo brown spotting all day. Figured af was coming early. 10dpo light spotting but not increasing. Feeling tired and moody. Very much af symptoms for me! 11dpo no spotting. Found that strange 12dpo light spotting again 13dpo couldn't wait any longer! Took two tests and both bfp! Went to the doctor today 14dpo to get progesterone and to have my levels monitored until 8 weeks. Right now 4w3d and counting!

Pregnant w/ Period & Miscarriage

I was here in May. I just knew I was pregnant and announced on mothers day. On Father's day I lost our baby and was devestated. It took me a long time to get over it and I was trying to heal emotionally. I pushed people away and was very sad and withdrawn but fiance wanted to keep trying. He did not want to give up at all. He was right to give it another chance. I was told to wait for two normal cycles and technically we did. But we started BD when I was over the 6 weeks right away. I had one period then another.. .or so I thought. After that second period I even got a positive OPK. But I was actually already pregnant, but I had vowed to myself that I would never take another pregnancy test since I already know what it feels like as long as I dont get a period I know I'm pregnant. But I had actually gotten a period and was pregnant already. I had stressed myself out over a 2 week wait and weather I should try again. Praying for my baby, letting him know that I am ready again.. and he is already here. Why I had a period or bleeding can not be explained unless there was a twin but there is a baby in there now and he is big, strong ,and growing. I figured out I was already pregnant because I kept feeling some moving which was weird only at 11dpo. I didn't get that period so going by last period of august 22. When I went to the doc for the 8 week visit, which I went to at 10 my baby was too big and that I had estimated the wrong date. I was 14 and a half weeks and out of first trimester. I had also become nauseous at 11dpo and my fiance had told me he had been sleeping a lot like the prior pregnancy.. honestly I thought maybe alil looney, or it was the upcoming pregnancy kicking in on him first. But in hindsight, his "symptoms" kicked in before mine. I remember praying and asking for a happy healthy easy pregnancy for us and it has been! I am going to see if it is a boy or girl at my next appt in 2 weeks. I did not really care, I just want a healthy baby. But I did not want to torture the fiance so I said we can find out and make it easier on decorating lol. Keep hope to everyone out there. After miscarriages or other procedures.. always keep hope! And don't let this get you down. Having a baby is the happiest thing next to getting married to the person you will create children with. Enjoy the process, love your body and yourself!! *baby dust*