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BFP on a Break

Isn't that just the way it goes: you try for month after excruciating month to get pregnant, but to no avail. Then you decide to lay off for a bit, take it easy, re-charge the battery… and voila – you're pregnant!

Those are the types of stories you'll find here. And if you have one to submit for inclusion, we want to hear from you! Send us your symptoms through this contact form.

Suprise BFP after two years of trying

I woke up this morning, and took a pregnancy test and surprise! It was a BFP! I took a FRER just to confirm the Wondfo test.

My husband and I have been trying for two years. I have PCOS and went on Metformin. Went through a few rounds of letrozole and TI. And then got frustrated and stressed out, so I decided we would take the summer "off" from the fertility visits and caring about perfect timing. My last period was end of August and in Early September we took a fun trip to a music festival and then went on another trip for our anniversary. We ate a lot, drank a lot, and relaxed.

I took a pregnancy test when we got home from vacation last week, and it was negative. The only symptom I've had are really sore nipples. So, this morning, I took another one (CD 30) since I'm going on vacation next week again and wanted to see if I should drink. And Voila, BFP!

I cried and laughed and I'm still in shock and disbelief. I haven't told my husband yet. I still can't believe it's happening.

What I did differently this month? "Forgot" about trying to get pregnant (easier said than done). Started taking a liquid D3 supplement and Vitex (although I wasn't very regular with the Vitex).

Symptoms: Heightened sense of smell. Sore boobs/nipples. Breakout on my chin (which could just be from eating crap). Achy muscles.

Prayers for a sticky bean!!

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PREGNANT After 5 Years of Trying!! What I Did to Get My BFP!!!

My pregnancy sisters, I have finally received the long awaited prayer that I have been asking God, I am finally Pregnant after 5 years of trying! Let me tell you, DH and I have been "difficulty" trying, we have done everything except IVF and no I did not do IVF for my positive. I was really trying to keep my pregnancy as natural as possible and I am not saying that I was not considering doing it if nothing worked; I was giving everything up to God.

When we first started trying for a baby, we knew something wasn't right bc after 1 year nothing happened. I scheduled an appointment with my infertility OB and let me tell you she is amazing. She made a list of everything that we needed to do before we pursed any treatments. We first did all the necessary blood tests and everything came out perfect! Then a hysterosalpingogram was scheduled which they inject dye to see if my tubes were clear and in fact they were clean as a whistle. Then another saline infused ULTRASOUND to check my uterus and found no fibroids but polyps were noted. We removed the polyps which is a quick procedure. I thought for sure that was the reason but nothing happened for another year of trying. We check DHs sperm x2 and it looked great so we knew it wasn't him. I was doing everything right, eating well, exercising, and trying all sorts of cleanses, massages, and herbs. I have probably heard of everything under the sun. I was starting to give up on everything at the 2 year mark.

We then decided to do a less expensive and less invasive procedure, IUI (intrauterine insemination) which they take DH's sperm, clean it and take the best swimmers and then inject them into my uterus. I was on CLOMID during my first IUI. Everything looked great but got a BFN!! What was going on?! We decided to try again and this time I was put on Femera bc I was producing too many follicles. Second round of IUI resulted in a BFN!!! So many ultrasounds, tears, and prayers and nothing was happening. I have always believed that it "should NOT" be this difficult to get pregnant something must be wrong.... I WAS RIGHT!

I started to do lots of research and started to take an herb called VITEX!!! How have I never taken it before?! I did everything but take Vitex. If you have never heard of Vitex "any" and "every" woman "can" and "should" take it to regulate their cycle. It honestly does regulate and gets you to were your body is ready for a baby. It has "no symptoms or side effects" and I know so many women that have gotten pregnant bc of it. It's a very old herb for fertility and your menstrual cycle. IT's 100% SAFE!!

IF YOU HAVE BEEN TRYING TO GET PREGNANT I URGE YOU TO TAKE VITEX! I never though I could get pregnant until now! I got my very first BFP on VITEX and Prayers!!!!

SYMPTOMS:

No symptoms at Ovulation

Week BEFORE my missed period:

Breast tenderness and cramping so thought period is starting early.

Missed period and thought my cycle is "longer" this month, which it shouldn't be bc I am taking VITEX. Back of my mind thought maybe this is the month. Thoughts of doubt crawled in so did not test.

Went on vaca for 5 days and wore a liner the entire time thinking period was going to start. Symptoms: breast tenderness/swollen, gassy, constipated (which never happens to me I poo 2x a day), acne which is weird, and crampy. Seriously felt like my period.

Came back home and 2 days later tested and got my BFP!!!! Took it and the lines showed up right away!!!

What I did this month: NOTHING except Vitex. Here are some symptoms that were weird for me: my breasts typically hurt for a week or less and then subside. This time they were continuing to hurt so I knew something was up but did not have the strength/courage to test. Also the constipation was a big one for me bc I do go x2 a day. I would say listen to your body and do lots of research. It honestly should not be this hard to get pregnant, you are missing something in your body, whether it be to regulate or to remove. Keep praying for answers and God will open up your mind to find them. I never stopped for 5 years so there is hope for everyone!!!

I still can't believe I got my BFP!!!!!!!!!!! Praise the Lord!

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I prayed for this bean to stay stuck...

So my husband 36 and myself 33 have been ttc since we were married in 2011 almost five years! We had one pregnancy that lasted for 11 weeks and three chemical pregnancies. Well here is how I received my BFP this time :)

I was on 50mg of clomid the two cycles previously but ran out of prescription.
I usually take .125mcg of synthroid and 7.5mg two times daily of Sustained release T3 for my Hypothyroidism, however I upped my T3 to 15mg twice a day to see if it made me more energetic as I kept forgetting my mid day dose and had tons of extras.

I was on quite a sushi kick for the TWW, however before we all panic it was cooked sushi!
Started going to a chiropractor as I had hip/back issues and had one massage too.
Didn't do ovulation testing due to it being a break cycle and no fertility meds, however we maintained our schedule with pre-seed and softcup combo CD 8 - CD 12. Didn't really track nothing this month as I just feel like a failure after years and years!

We did the deed on CD 5, CD 8, CD 10, CD 12, CD 18. My cycles are max 23 days, usually 21 so we were on a family trip and came back on CD 24 and tested mid afternoon and it came up positive. I just thought I was late from the clomid in my system from previous two months?! Totally shocked as I haven't had any symptoms that I can recall, maybe a bit tender breasts and frequent peeing, little diarrhea on CD 17 now I am a bit dizzy CD 25? Which all before have happened with no BFP.

I hope this is the one that sticks for us, I would be more than blessed and would thank the heavens above!!!

Wishing you all the luck on your ttc :)

impossible chances!

OK I thought I just had to share my story after reading so many.
OK so I'm a mum of 1, I was told my chances of getting pregnant were slim, after 8 years of unprotected coitus lol we conceived our miracle son, which was an amazing pregnancy 11.3lb (c-sec) this amazing miracle came at 10.08pm on my 24th birthday making us share a birthday and Chinese year of the snake.. I conceived the 1 week I had finally given up on hope on concieving...

3 years later, this cycle I had given up again.. funny enough I'm 9 days late and tests are pretty dark however to the story I would have conceived on or within 2 weeks of conceiving my son leaving to the possibility we may share another birthday!

I'd honestly say give up hope! Its hard but it's only wen I've conceived.

As for symptoms I've been emotional but out it to pms.
I did notice however since my son I lactate about a week before my period every cycle and this cycle I didn't lactate my boobs just hurt on the sides instead and a little less than normal for pms... basically feel like pms.
Last time I know within 1 week I intantly hated coffee which I love and could smell for miles! I had implantation spotting And I instantly had that mummy pregnant happy sigh feeling.
This time I do not feel it I feel queezy, like I'm bout to strangle my husband if my rags don't start. But they don't feel any were like coming just mild cramps..have not had any implantation bleeding this time either.. boobs actually feel and look a bit more deflated than usual, color hasn't changed nor the Lil thingys enlarged..

I feel weird I'm not so in tuned this time around. I've more thought I was on other occasions but I guess it was I was so hoping.

Cervix wise both pregnancy my discharge fully dried up and cervix has pinch on itself and has near dissappeared into the walls sorry tmi but thought I'd ad as my cervix is usually at that point like a nose?

Basically from all my years I think not trying works best? Hope this helps someone =). Don't give up! Or give up but kinda don't? Lol baby dust

BFP 6 months following Uterine Septum Removal surgery

Unexplained infertility TTC 2.5 years

Dr. found uterine septum and surgery for uterine septum removal on 12/2016

7 months later.... BFP @ 22 DPO (honestly didn't think to test prior to that, lost hope and did not suspect anything....finally decided to give it a go yesterday morning and was shocked (we had only baby danced 1 time that cycle due to "taking it easy"...of course this is the month I get pregnant))

Symptoms: Currently have flu like symptoms (chills, achy muscles), pelvic cramping, and brown/sometimes red blood at some point in the day for the past 2 days.

There is hope...

Can't believe I'm a Walking Cliché

It truly, actually happened the one month I decided to stop trying... The advice I've always rolled my eyes at!

My spirits have been kept up by reading these stories throughout the year and a half I've been TTC, so I promised myself I'd submit mine when/if the time came. Well.... it came today! I got a BFP... on the one month when I hardly recorded anything to contribute! If this were any other cycle, you would have known how I was feeling down to the minute during my 2ww, but this month I tracked NOTHING. I didn't temp. I didn't pee on any sticks. I didn't even mark down when we did the deed...

I had also decided that this month and next wouldn't be ideal for pregnancy since we're going on a vacation that could potentially involve a lot of hot tubs and hot springs and good beer this Summer... so I wasn't tracking symptoms during the 2ww. I have an idea of when I ovulated because it's the FIRST TIME in this long journey that I've had anything even resembling EWCM and I got super frisky. So, please keep in mind that these DPO's are rough estimates, since I cannot say for absolutely certain the day I ovulated.

I should also mention that I had an HSG last month, so this was my second cycle of the so-called "heightened fertility" that can be a side-effect of that test. I also started taking baby aspirin a few weeks ago, because why not?

1-3 DPO — frisky, sensitive nipples (normal for me post-O), SUPER firm SUPER low cervix. I had never felt it anything remotely like that before. It felt like a bony nose and kind of grossed me out

4 DPO — Cervix soft and high again, nothing otherwise to report

5-9 DPO — Sensitive breasts, outer area especially (NOT normal for me), with some mood swings & cravings setting in, which I assumed were PMS

10 DPO — Tiny dizzy spell while seated and doing my nails, BB's still sensitive

11 DPO — BB's still sensitive. I can smell people's pee in the restroom and it's almost too much for me to stay in there. I'm supposed to have drinks with girlfriends tonight, so I decided to take a FRER as I'm running out the door to work so I could get the go ahead to have a glass (or three) of wine and clear my conscience... Low and behold... a faint line!!! I couldn't and can't believe it. So much for wine and hot tubs!

Now that I'm paying a bit more attention, I feel some tugging and pinching just beneath my belly button, and my cravings make much more sense. I have always been the first person to scoff when someone tells me it will happen when I stop trying. I had no idea it would be quite that literal. So, congratulations, old wives with your tales... I guess you were right. I'm elated, and hoping it sticks. <3

Took the full year...Long story

Super stoked about bfp this morning, I've been putting off taking it because it was the last one in my stash. (Don't we all have one?)
So anyway I should start with some background, as I always liked reading those bits and we're all here for the same thing...our fix.
Background: DH is 34 and I am 30, we are ttc #2, our first was our dd that we were NOT trying for and conceived after only being together for a whopping 3 mo.
On to the YEAR of my life spent on this ttc journey.
I never charted bbt because I felt I wasn't yet wanting to get that into it, but I have the mycycles app (which was a not terrible, not awesome app) for tracking my o dates. I have an amazingly long, but regular cycle of 36-38 days. Great for anytime except when ttc.
I teach, so we tried really hard to get pregnant last summer after I got my copper iud removed on May 18th and I'm sure I don't have to tell you all the suckfest it was seeing all those bfns.
We really were starting to think there was something going on with one of us when it wasn't happening even when we'd bd every other day possibly fertile day of my cycle that summer, (very close to true statement).
I had actually just gone into my yearly gyn appt and asked her about the 11 cycles of bfn and was set up to get blood drawn on cycle day 3........but cycle day 3 did not come.
I GOT A BFP.
Here's the juicy details, I kept track of everything for some odd reason this time and I hadn't done that in months, perhaps some women's intuition?
Bd cycle day 16 and 18
O day was supposed to be cycle day 20, we were ntnp so we actually weren't timing bd. But I would put money on the night we did doggystyle. Cycle day 18, his bday. I think this is valuable info., as I have been told I had a tilted uterus.
Nothing at all until:
9dpo: my boobs, which never hurt ever, are SORE. Like feel heavy, hurt in the armpits, nipples so sensitive, hurts to jog, skip and/or jump. I do have a 4 yr old so I regularly do all of the above.
Cm is pretty much there, but not there, nothing special, nothing to write home about.
10dpo: boobs feel same as yesterday
11dpo: boobs still hurt same, I realize that I am waaaaaaay too tired for a Saturday at 7pm...I start to think perhaps it's this month...
12dpo: crabby, tired, gassy, boobs, BOOBS are bigger and softer and heavy, normally a 34b, put the girls in my old 34c from first pregnancy and it feels wonderful!
13dpo: boobs are still BOOBS, notice ewcmish
14dpo: low abdomen pain, BOOBS, cm.
15dpo:same as yesterday
16dpo: the elmer's glue cm of legend is in my undies! At this point I am a day away from being late and boobs still hurt, I feel crampy, and tired and...bitchy if I'm being real honest...
17dpo: I peed in a cup and after wiping and seeing no af, I allow myself to use the last Equate 5 days sooner test and within the first 30 seconds the test shows BFP!!! Told dh while he was on the potty, teehee, now lets hope my short cervix holds up and bean stays the full 40wks.

PS: took a second test, dollar test, this afternoon after school and BFP instantly as well, crampy all day and BOOBS, of course.

Hope you got your fix!
Good luck and baby dust to us all!!

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The one month we didn't try!

My husband and I got married October 2015 and immediately started ttc. My mom and my sister both got pregnant very easily and made me sure I was very careful when trying to prevent because the women in our family are 'Fertile Myrtle's'! So when we started trying I thought it wouldn't take very long. In reality it didn't but it sure felt like it did!

This was our 6 cycle trying, a few cycles prior I had an entire month without a period for whatever reason. My cycles are usually 31-33 days but I have never missed a month, that month my cycle was 39 days. I thought I was pregnant but bfn after bfn af finally showed. I was using opks, preseed, temping some months, timing bding, checking my cervix, checking cervical mucus, drinking teas....you name it, I wanted to try it.

With that extra long cycle. Period tracker changed my cycle average to 35 days. My hubby and I are in a wedding on December 31 so when this cycle came around we decided to drop everything because it wouldn't be ideal to travel for a wedding and be in the wedding at 8 1/2 months pregnant. I didn't track anything. With period tracker being a little off I had no real idea when I was going to ovulate. Around CD 15 I had tons of EWCM this was earlier then normal for me but I ignored it, dh and I were both exhausted and just went to bed. From that point on I was convinced we missed any chance but that was okay because like I said with the wedding it would have made things a little difficult.

Moving closer to when I was expecting my period, like clock work I get tender breasts 7 days before the start of my period. This month nothing. No cramps. Not tenderness. Nothing. Thought maybe this cycle was off a bit, and moved on. I use to track my symptoms like crazy but I had barely anything that really registered with me this month, I also wasn't paying attention as much. I picked up a new hobby and was so distracted I had no idea how many dpo I was but I got the urge to test.

I had a bunch of wondfo tests so I took one on Sunday May 1st and I thought I could see the faintest line. I have never seen anything on these tests before but I thought that's nothing and threw it out. The next morning I thought well maybe I will just see if it was just that test. Took another one and the same faint faint faint line showed up. Like I'm talking real squinter, everyone else would have thought I was crazy. So again, I thought nope, it's nothing and moved on. That night I took another one, my girlfriend was over and a darker like appeared, still super faint but definitely there. I showed her and she could see it. So I bought two pack or frer and a two pack of clear blue, one digital and one regular. In the morning I took another wondfo thinking if I see something again then I will take the frer. Sure enough another faint line popped up so dipped the frer. A clear like popped up so I dipped the digi. Sure enough "pregnant 1-2" popped up and here we are!!

I couldn't believe it, my husband couldn't believe it. The one month we didn't time anything, track anything or do anything it happened. Everyone always said just relax and it will happen, it drove me crazy but they were right!!!

I had blood work to on the same day I took the digital and it came back at only 37 but my doctor wasn't too concerned because it just means I'm super early. I have my first prenatal appointment this Saturday! We are so thrilled and the tests are getting darker so babes is growing!! Yay!

EDD is January 9, 2017

Major surgery 4 days after BFP!!! Scared to death!!!

So we have been TTC for 9 months. I was temping and using OPK's but nothing ever happened. Last month, I started having major issues with my spleen and it was determined by a team a doctors that it had to come out sooner rather than later. With all of this overwhelming news, TTC went on the back-burner. My surgery is scheduled for April 26th and I went to my Pre-Op appointment yesterday. Well guess who got a BFP at Pre-Op? Me! Go figure! I still can't believe it and don't know what to think! My surgeon thinks that we need to proceed with the surgery since the risk for splenic rupture is even higher with pregnancy and I completely agree. Not having the surgery is a huge risk for both of our lives. My last period was March 10th and my cycle is usually 39 or 40 days so I can't be more than 6 weeks pregnant. My main concern now is the negative effects the general anesthesia will have on the baby. Has anyone else had major surgery this early in the first trimester? Any advice or information will be greatly appreciated. Thanks for reading!

TOTAL SHOCK, EVEN SPOTTED WHEN AF WAS DUE

I'll start by saying that I have been stalking this thread collectively over a 4 year period, from the very first month I was ttc. DH and I stopped trying after we hit the 1 year mark (not ONE bfp), and decided to focus on our careers. Fast forward to now, cycle #0 of tcc and we did it! It was cycle #0 because we planned to start trying next month. Last period was March 7th, 28/29 day cycles. This is to debunk all of the myths that you can't conceive by dtd on O day only! I was out of town up until O day (March 22nd), when I returned home DH was anxiously awaiting. We dtd MIDNIGHT of March 23, so I hadn't even considered getting pregnant this month.

Up until 14 dpo, all of my symptoms were off and on, save for the constant burping:

earache (4-10dpo) Never had experienced an earache, so I became suspicious, and started seeing if I noticed additional symptoms
insomnia (8-13dpo) slept VERY well night of 13dpo
hot (constant)
headaches (0-14dpo)
boobs - montgomery's tubercles (thought it was SO GROSS), sore from 7dpo-14dpo
rash on cheeks, chin, shoulders, chest - 14dpo-
I didn’t care for chocolate when at any given moment I'm usually craving it
burping / heartburn THE ENTIRE TIME. I NEVER BURP.
armpit ache 12dpo-

14dpo- af cramps. Boobs STOPPED hurting 14dpo, which is when AF is due; this happens every cycle immediately before I start to bleed (tmi!)
So I rushed to the bathroom to check, and, lo and behold, bright red dots of blood.
I did think it was interesting that they were so bright and so small, but I chalked it up to just being "weird" and nothing more. Went to sleep, put pad on and waited for af to arrive.

15dpo - Expecting to have af as I wake up and go for morning pee, but ... nothing. Literally, n o t h i n g. This shocked me, 1. because I have never spotted, (it usually makes a grand entrance) and 2. because a full 8 hours had passed. I went to school and decided that this was too strange and warranted the purchase of a pregnancy test. POAS and, BFP! This was literally 2 hours ago, DH is still at work.

All of this to say that my symptoms were NOTHING like those I've read over the years, and to NEVER give up hope until your ACTUAL AF arrives. Blessings and Baby Dust!

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