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BFP on a Break

Isn't that just the way it goes: you try for month after excruciating month to get pregnant, but to no avail. Then you decide to lay off for a bit, take it easy, re-charge the battery… and voila – you're pregnant!

Those are the types of stories you'll find here. And if you have one to submit for inclusion, we want to hear from you! Send us your symptoms through this contact form.

Finally... In Shock!

I can't believe I'm typing this!
We've been trying for 6 months, but it was taking over all my thoughts (and I spent far too much time on this site...). So we decided to give it a break, go on holiday this summer, have fun and start trying again later in the year. My cycles were looooooooooong, anywhere between 40-55 days. Before we made the decision to have a break, I bought some FertilAid and OPKs from the internet. I took the FertilAid anyway thinking it could sort my cycle out for when we start trying again. Anyway, we did the deed a few weeks ago, not thinking for a minute it could lead to pregnancy, since it was about 2 weeks before I could possibly ovulate based on my cycles from the last 2 years. You can guess where this story is going. The next day I had EWCM, and the following day I used one of the OPKs.... which came out positive. Whoops!

Anyway, I have to agree with the ladies who say they had fewer symptoms this time round than when they got their BFNs. I have had sore BBs, but I get them every month and they have been no more sore than usual. Spending hours on sites like this, I assumed they'd be on fire, I'd have implantation bleeding, feeling nauseous, have metallic taste, the works! But nothing out of the ordinary really. Other than sore BBs, my symptoms were:
1-7DPO: Nothing
7-8DPO: Minor craming/pullng/twinges
9DPO: Creamy discharge, which is normal this time of the month anyway
11DPO: Nothing
12DPO: Husband out. Bored. May as well take another test, just so I can see BFN number 100000..... holy cr*p!!!! BFP!

So today is only 12dpo. Still very early days. I hope it sticks! I feel like I'm dreaming. After months of BFNs, seeing everyone around me pregnant or with babies, assuming there must be something wrong with me. I think the FertilAid did it, if your cycles are long, get on this stuff. We literally fell pregnant without trying!
I just looked on a due date calculator on the net, and our little one is due on our 10th anniversary! How special is that!
Now to decide how to tell my husband!
Please believe that it will happen for you one day- I thought I'd never get a BFP. And here I am. Babydust to you all xxxx

BFP on a Break Before Going into IVF

Hello I too like most others who have written in can't hardly believe that I am Pregnant! We have been trying for 10 months. I was diagnosed with a very mild case of PCOS pretty much my main issue is that I ovulate VERY irregularly. I went through 2 failed IUI's with Clomid and 1 failed cycle of Clomid and letrozole. We decided that IVF would be our best shot, but we thought we'd take a couple months off before diving back in. Ok so my main symptom that something was up was that my nipples were hurting. So I had my blood taken and my RE could tell I had ovulated on my own! Not thinking it would lead to pregnancy because we weren't timing intercourse at all. 10 days later I saw the most beautiful BFP! Had my levels checked and all look great! What a miracle! Here were my few symptoms: Nipple pain never went away. Progressivly got worse. Sides of breast started hurting. Had a 1/2 of a glass of wine and it tasted bad, didn't finish it. minor on and off headaches. I swear your little miracle is headed your way to ladies! Just keep at it!

Pregnancy after Stillbirth at 24 Weeks

My husband and I had a stillborn baby girl at 24 weeks. For the first time I was actively trying not to get pregnant. But God's timing is perfect. I consider this baby to be hand-picked in heaven by my baby girl and sent down to me.

Since I was taking birth control pills, I wasn't tracking ovulation, but I think I ovulated around CD 5-9. I have a long luteal phase anyway but it might have been messed up because I gave birth a month before.

CD 1-4: Normal period. Started BC
CD 9: Red spotting
CD 13: Bad diarrhea. The last time I was pregnant, I got the same symptom a week before my period was due and a + three days later.
CD 16: Insomnia. I could not fall asleep all night. I also had a "feeling" I was pregnant which I dismissed.
CD 18: More insomnia. Laid awake all night again. Sore breasts my opinion, the number one tell-tale sign of pregnancy!
CD 21-23: Brown spotting for three days, not enough to use a pad.
CD 24: Took a pregnancy test because there was no sign of AF coming (bad cramps, spotting, wanting to kill my husband). Positive!
CD 28: 28 days is my longest cycle length and still no period. 2nd tell-tale sign of pregnancy for those women with enough patience to wait that long (not me.) Good luck, ladies!

BFP After Months of Nothing

So a few months ago I had chemical pregnancy and me and my partner decided to give it a rest for a few months and not bother with all the ovulation kits or tracking BBT and about a week ago I woke at 4am throwing up, I knew straight away what happened and I was pregnant. I took 3 which I knew were to early but still thought I was mad when I got BPN at 3DPO and then 3days ago was BFP and then after 7 BFP I think I finally believe it! We're so excited!

My symptoms were mainly acid burn in the back of my throat, waking in the night for the loo when I normally sleep through, vivid dreams and then the backache and throwing up. I am so excited I’m not sure what to do next!

Finally!! Best to Stop Trying....Who Knew?

After a year and half of unsuccessful not-preventing-so-let's-see-what- happens, we decided to seek professional help. I was 37 at the time (now almost 39) and my husband 43 (we found each other a little late in life). Neither of us have children and I never tried to get pregnant before so didn't realize how difficult it really is!! I do have endometriosis so figured I may have some issues so when we found our RE we thought that it would be pretty simple with a little help. 5 rounds of Clomid and 3 rounds of IUI and nothing. I did have a chemical pregnancy on our 2nd IUI but nothing at our 3rd. At that point my RE recommended other options but since I was not considered a good candidate for IVF (low reserve) we thought about egg donors but it was just too much!

Our last IUI was in March 2012 and we decided to not try anymore. The whole thing became just too disappointing and stressful. So, we figured, we love our life and each other and we could devote our time to other family members and activities and maybe spend our lives doing things our friends with kids can't. :-) It actually sounded pretty good to us so we booked a cruise and planned a great trip to Europe in 2013.

I got a BFP on 5/22/2012 and the best part is we only did the deed once after my LMP on 4/20/2012. Yeah, once. We were in the midst of planning our wedding (married 5/11/2012) and had A LOT going on.

At 4:15am on 5/22 I decided that being 4 days late warranted a call to the doc b/c I have NEVER been late but maybe I should rule out pregnancy. I didn't know the lines showed up that fast. I barely put the test down and it was all aglow with PREGNANT!!!!

As for symptoms = sore BBs; occasionally a wave of nausea comes over me and I'm pretty dang tired. But it's not even every day. Just when I think, oh no, I feel nothing, what's wrong? The next day I spend 3 hours nauseous.

My HCG levels have been rising nicely and my first U/S is in 2 days and I can hardly contain myself. I am trying to be positive but the lack of symptoms freaks me out so I remain cautious but extremely hopeful!

It can happen and I just think you have to be willing to accept either outcome. Be willing and happy to have children or willing and happy to move on without children. Your life will be fantastic either way. I know, regardless of the outcome of this pregnancy, I will be so grateful for my life and my husband and that I found the love of my life at 37. I'll be holding out hope that the next love of my life will arrive in about 7.5 months :-)

Here's to all those women trying and my hopes and prayers to us all for success!

Our first Blessing :D

Just got our first BFP ever 2 days ago:)

We decided to NTNP on February....learnt to temp (BBT) and using OPK +PreSeed+Robitussion+ BD EVERYDAY on March but No luck! At last on April we decided to take a break on TTC due to travel plan next month...

I did not notice any symptoms during 2WW, actually I did travel few times around 2WW, running here and there on HIGH HEELS and work out like mad..4 times a week and we only BD twice (that may possibly lead to the BFP) once is days before "suspected O - based on FF last month I O on CD15..but this month I did not temp, OPK etc so I was not sure) and once on the day I suspect O is done....(but probably it is the O day?)

SORRY TMI, I read somewhere about saliva, positions and prop your butt right after but thissss lucky one was happened against all (tmi) saliva was included, not propping butt, and I am on TOP! Thus we were so surprised when the HPT turned positive in minutes!!! But of course we are thankful :)

Now after 2 days getting the BFP results...I started feeling nausea (sometimes) and some mild cramp (just like menstrual cramps) and my nipples are sore..that's all so far:) going to see practitioner end of next week :)

All we do this cycle, we actually prayed together...after second cycle (that lead to NO BFP even we did BD 10 straight days!!!!) and affirmed that we've received the gift and we left it up to God about the perfect timing....besides this time I really "make love" instead of BD and thinking about position (I was always trying to end up with the best positions based on articles..and propped my butt for 30-40 minutes just like what I do YOGA!:)

So we believe that it will be beautiful on His time..and we are so blessed with this little one...Baby dust to all ladies here and DO not give will happen!

BFP Can Hardly Believe It!

Wow. I am seriously in disbelief! And a little scared cause I'm still a day before AF is due, but I'm 12-13 dpo (for once I didn't keep track exactly!) and I've taken SIX tests since yesterday all BFP! Even still my DH doesn't believe it.

I am 36 and this is a first. I have been TTC for about 14 months total over the last 2 years. I always used a lot of tests, never a BFP. For a while I even gave up TTC and used birth control again because I would get so so stressed near the time AF was due and didn't want to have to even think about it, I needed a break from even *secretly* thinking about it, which is what happens when I try to pretend I don't care. I am very VERY obsessive and I know myself, so for a few good months we used BC. Last summer I wanted a free summer without TTC because of how stressed it made me! Also, I have actually been a bit back and forth whether having children is the right thing for me. I very much enjoy my life the way it is, and so it has never been a do or die situation. But- my sister (age 35) recently got pregnant with her first so I have to say I've been having some preg/baby envy! And I come from a big family and I know that family is so very good and fulfilling and very wonderful.

We only BD'd ONE TIME during my OV time so don't let anyone tell you that THAT can't happen! It was only one time, but it was a special, different kind. The kind that was because I wanted to and not because I wanted to TTC. You don't have to do it every day like crazy (like most of my GFs told me I did!) It just took a little extra sensuality :)

OK, symptoms (I know that's the real reason y'all are here!:)

First off, I had LESS twinges, pains, and weirdness than most other months! Nothing hardly! I have ovarian cysts that get pretty huge, and cause a lot of pain, but nothing really this month, besides a little regular ovulation bloaty pain. I didn't notice ANYTHING til maybe 6 DPO-when I had really weird dreamish visions -as I was going to sleep- of lizards and mice and other small animals digging themselves into dirt. It was TOTALLY random and bizarre and the idea of a sperm to an egg did cross my mind.

7dpo- Crazy dreams, super memorable and vivid.
8dpo- went running and got really sick to my stomach. Never really happens. CRAZY DREAMS! So vivid!
9dpo- CRAZY DREAMS! BB really really tender.
10dpo Woke up stomach growling, so so hungry in the AM, which never happens. BBs really really tender. Still having insane dreams.
11dpo- Woke up ravenous! while driving ate a PB &J and a hardboiled egg. Was starving before but felt sick after. Have a stomach of iron so thought that was weird. BBs still super sore, in the middle. Had 1.5 glasses of wine, felt totally DRUNK! (Sorry I am not a stickler to the rules as far as no drinking whatsoever when TTC).
12dpo- OK this was the thing that stood out. I have read that some women get a sore throat but other than that feel pretty OK. My left side of my throat was hurting, and my mouth felt sensitive and weird. But my glands on my neck weren't swollen. Usually, if I am ever sick it's the right side that hurts first or the most, so I thought this really odd. Took a HPT around 2pm, faint line but BFP, COULD NOT BELIEVE it!!!! Drank more water took another- still BFP! Also, DH and I BD'd in the AM and there was a tiny bit of pinkish on tissue. It was pre- the HPT so I thought for sure I was starting AF early. Later, a possible symptom, I had a dizzy spell while sitting working on homework, felt like I was going to faint! Then- Late at night, one last HPT, BFP.
13dpo- woke up no sore BBs! Weirded out and scared took a HPT again. Positive! BBs started hurting again tonight. Other than that and a mildish headache here and there I feel nothing much. Not hungry, no cramps, nothing! Oh, a tiny tiny bit of pink on toilet paper.

I sure hope everything is in working order! But I know that God/ the universe has a way of making everything happen when it is meant to. I truly believe that. I hope this one sticks but even if anything happened I am so grateful to know that I CAN get pregnant in the first place! I bet most of you can too! Just keep your thoughts positive and know that you WILL have the life you are meant to live. You will. There is so much goodness and richness and love all around you. 

BFP! TTC For 1 Year And A Half, Pcos, And On A Break.

Holy Smokes! I can’t believe I am posting on here, I've stalked it for about a year and a half. My story is pretty crazy. I have PCOS, so I don’t ovulate very often. I spent all last year on Clomid and letrezole, and had to drive an hour to my fertility specialist twice a month. I ovulated on both Clomid and letrezole but never could get pregnant. The stress was really starting to get to DH and I, so we decided to take a break. About two weeks ago I noticed some slight nipple tenderness and I thought maybe I’m ovulating. I decided not to tell DH because I didn’t want to put too much pressure on him. Well the next day I found an ovulation test under my sink and thought I just go ahead and see. Well it was positive! My niece is staying with me so we didn’t get another chance to BD so I thought for sure we missed our chance. I still had the nipple tenderness so I Just figured my AF was coming. Two weeks and 3 HPTs later.. BFP! Here are my symptoms:

0DPO: Nipple Tenderness (BD)
1DPO-6DPO : Nipple Tenderness, Positive OPK
2DPO-6DPO: Nipples less tender, VERY gassy (sorry if TMI)
6DPO-13DPO: Nipples are tender off and on, still gassy, Breast begin to swell (that has never happened before AF).
14DPO: Breasts still swollen and its very noticeable. They are tender on the bottom when poked, almost like a sore muscle. CRAMPS! I started cramping in the morning and all day I was sure AF was coming at any minute. I went to the bathroom constantly to check.
15DPO: Breasts still swollen, Cramping off and on all day. Still checking for aunt flow constantly. Sensitive to smells. My niece was eating something with hot sauce on it and it was like all I could smell was vinegar. It didn’t make my stomach turn but it was ALL I could smell. That’s when I decided to go to the dollar store for some HPT’s. I got a VERY faint positive on the first one. DH convinced me to take another one about 10 minutes later, so I did. Another faint positive. So we went and bought the digital test that says the word “pregnant” and a few hours later, SURE Enough BFP!!!!!!!!!

We are so excited! We have wanted this for SO long! We are praying for a sticky, healthy baby! This just goes to show when you relax and stop stressing it does miracles. Everyone kept saying “take a break, relax and it will happen” I should have listened a long time ago.


Hi everyone. I know if you're reading this you must be frustrated with how slowly time is going and you are probably on the constant lookout for symptoms no matter how silly or small. I did that every month except this last month. This month I kinda went into the month without the same faith. I figured if I assume I didn't get pregnant then it would be less disappointing when I get another bfn.

That being said, I decided to take a test this morning for 'shits and giggles'. I honestly had no symptoms whatsoever with the exception of a headache. But I thought nothing of that. Anyway I decided to take a test on frer with morning urine and as I was doing it I thought this would be another waste of a test. I looked at it for about 10 seconds then as I was gonna put it away all of a sudden a faint positive line appeared. I was shocked. Because that was my last test I ran to store to buy 4 more and took them all within the next 3 hours. All faint bfp. I so couldn't believe it that later today I went to buy a digital test as I wanted to read the words 'pregnant'. Everything was further confirmed when it said pregnant 1-2.

Yaaaay I'm so excited I can't believe this is happening to me. And still NO symptoms except the headache today. So from my experience never rule out a month bc you don't have all the usual symptoms. I hope all of you that are waiting so patiently get your bfp soooooon. It will happen for you. God is good and works in mysterious ways. Trust that and know that timing is everything.

Baby dust to all you ladies. Sending my love. I pray that you all have healthy babies and I pray that mine will be healthy too. Xoxoxo

Still Can't Believe This....

I've posted twice before on this website to ask if my symptoms were pregnancy, neither time they were and I was devastated. We've been trying for ten months and at 39 years I thought it was never going to happen as my AMH was less than 4. We'd been told that we had no chance of conceiving naturally. We had 6 months on Clomid and despite ovulating there was no BFP. This month our consultant said to have a two month break whilst more blood tests were done and then we could have our last 3 doses of Clomid. It was during this break that I ovulated naturally on day 10 and we only slept together twice (much more on other months). We also went on holiday for a few days and I stopped obsessing with this website, any possible symptoms and my iPod app. Anyway, on day 20 (10dpo) I took a FRER test in the evening and it came with a faint positive. Next morning bit darker and this morning (12dpo) a good strong line. I haven't told anyone except my partner as still can't believe it, very anxious that this baby will stick as never believed it would happen. So it's true what they say, relaxing and stop obsessing really does do the job. We did far less this month, no Preseed, no cough syrup. Very few symptoms, just nipple soreness and backache. I hope you all get your BFP soon, relax and believe!