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BFP over 40

Got your BFP at age 40 or older? We definitely want to hear your story! Send us your symptoms through this contact form.

40 With BFP After MMC

I had my first 4 children (8 pregnancies) between 2000 and 2005. MC, Girl, mc & d&c, ectopic (lost left tube), girl, mc & D&C, boy, boy. Fast forward to 2013 after divorce and new marriage, here I am at 40 planning for another baby. We just thought we'll hope for the best and see what happens. Pretty much fell pregnant straight away but ended up miscarrying naturally at 8 weeks after ultrasounds confirming no fatal pole. I started charting and taking vitex, b6, vitamin D, CQ10, and a pregnancy multivitamin. Then I had two anovulatory cycles and two ovulatory cycles. This 5th cycle however was different. I included Tribulus from CD4 to CD13. My chart was different straight away, steady temps in the follicular phase, and slow climb on the luteal phase then huge spike and two dips, and is now climbing steady. 1 DPO - Temp only went just above coverline - feels like AF is coming already. 2 DPO - Temp dipped slightly - even closer to coverline - cramps are more noticeable - creamy CM. 3 DPO - Huge temp jump - cramps continue - creamy CM. 4 DPO - Temp still high - constant cramping - so tired - cream CM. 5 DPO - Temp is heading down - constant cramping - bloated and tired - let the POAS begin BFN. 6 DPO - Temp is back down near coverline - cramping, feeling better - BFN. 7 DPO - Temp tiny bit up - cramping - BFN - getting breakouts - creamy CM. 8 DPO - Temp back down - CRAZY dream last night. I was swimming and when I had a shower, I looked down and I'd 'given birth' to a watermelon sized amount of creamy CM. When I woke up I knew this cycle was different. BFN in the morning, but later that night, I POAS and came back about 20 minutes later - I know, not in the time frame, but there was the faintest of pink lines - not like the grey evaporation lines I'd been getting. 9 DPO - Temp gradually climbing again - BFP. I POAS about 3 times a day and it's getting darker throughout the day. 10DPO - Temp is gradually zigzagging up - BFP pink lines. I also got a digital PREGNANT 1-2 WEEKS on a Clearblue. 11DPO - BFP - test line is almost same colour as control line. 12DPO - BFP - test line is almost same colour as control line. I'm off to the doctor tomorrow to arrange HCG blood tests and Progesterone levels - but I know this one is a keeper. I wish you all the very best in your journeys for little babies.

FET IVF BFP - Over 40

My husband and I tried for nearly 5 years to conceive (assisted and unassisted) but were left with a diagnosis of "unexplained infertility" and a lot of sadness. Hitting my 40's didn't make things any better! When our natural IVF was converted to an IUI in 2010 (only 2 eggs produced), we were devastated - took a break until 2011 - and then turned to egg donation. In late 2011 we did a fresh transfer of 2 5d embryos - bfn. Again, devastation! We had 8 frozen 5d embryos (top grade, chosen from 15 total) and had 2 transferred in late Feb/12. BFP!! FIRST EVER POSITIVE PG TEST!!!! We were ecstatic! Our DS was born 3 weeks early via c-section Oct 19/12. In September we decided it was time for #2 (not getting any younger here) and began our second FET cycle - oh the shots, and all the lovely swingy hormones started again (honestly not sure how my husband survives it) and on Oct 3/13 we had 2 more snowbabes transferred (both were hatching, good sign)....of course I started POAS literally 2 days afterwards and got bfn's until 4dp5dt when I got a super-faint pink squinter that evening. I was so eager to confirm it the next day with FMU that I barely slept (and hubby had no idea)....lo and behold that beautiful double pink line, though faint, was absolutely undeniable on 5dp5dt. Lines are getting darker every day - beta #1 is in 4 days and #2 is in 6. Praying for another sticky bean!!!
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BFP at 40 After 2 Years of Trying :-)

After 2 long years and many a disappointment we finally got our BFP last week. We just cannot believe how lucky we are and hope that everything goes smoothly from here on. We were at the stage where we got a referral from our GP for possible IVF treatment but glad we conceived naturally. Never give up hope girlies :-) 5 weeks 2 days and all looking good apart from very bad bloating so no hiding the fact we're going to have a little miracle in May, 2014.
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2+yrs TTC#1, Almost 40, DH 41, No AMH, Second Medicated IUI

We have been trying for over 2 ½ years and just got a BFP on a second medicated IUI with no AMH, overweight, and three months before turning 40! I was 37 when we started trying. A little over a year later with no BFP, we started fertility testing with just the regular gyne. All my labs – FSH, progesterone, etc came back normal. My HSG was normal. My husband had pretty good results, but also had a varicocele so we thought that was it, so he went ahead with the repair surgery. Three months later, still no BFP, they redid his S/A and it was excellent, so that’s when we moved on to a fertility specialist. The only test my gyne didn’t perform was AMH. Mine wasn’t only low, it was nonexistent – less than 0.16. We were crushed. The doctor said being my age with beyond-low AMH, I could try everything under the sun (which I did - herbs, supplements, relaxation, acupuncture, medical intervention, etc etc) and it would still only give me a 5 or 10% chance each month at most. He agreed to let us try a medicated IUI – because if I didn’t respond to that, there would be no point in trying an IVF because I wouldn’t produce enough follicles. We used Follistim 225 and HCG trigger shot – produced 4 or 5 follicles but no BFP. Had to take a month off to let two cysts heal. Tried again, same dosage – only produced 1 or 2 follicles this time – devastated. We decided we were done. Went in for the blood test two weeks later, expecting this to be the end, and my HCG was 87 (well above 25!) - BFP. That night I went out and bought an HPT just so I could see a happy pee stick for once. Three days later, they repeated the test – they wanted it over 200 and it was 474 – definitely, definitely pregnant. I think my doctor was shocked as he told me “miracles never cease”. The next week I went in for them to confirm the gestational sac – all is looking good, knock on wood. If the next appointment is still good, they will release me back to my regular gyne. I am now at 6 weeks. I only had 2 symptoms during the TWW. Immensely sore breasts, but I had that with the first IUI with a negative, so I ignored it. Also, had several episodes of feeling intensely warm (I’m usually on the cold side) but again, just never believed it was going to happen, so I ignored that too. I don’t know what the future of this pregnancy holds, I can tell my doctor is holding his breath a little, but I feel very very blessed right now with this miracle and I am enjoying every single uncomfortable symptom I’m feeling.

BFP at 41, Second IUI and Low AMH & High FSH

Hi my story is still a work in progress 8/31/2013. I received confirmation from the doctor this morning BFP however I am really scared to get excited. The nurse said my hgc levels are lower than they like to see. Can mean one of two thing simply a late implant or or sadly not viable. I go back in two days (9/2/2013) to test again. I was prescribed chlomid 100 for day 3-7 but I misread the start of my period because on day 2 of the chloride my real period showed up. I was too scared to tell the dr. In case they were going to tell me I was out this month so I just rolled with it and showed up for my day 9 u/s which was actually only day 7. I came clean right before the u/s and the dr said they can still work with early, if I had erred on the late side nothing they could do. I had three follicles Two on the left at 10 & 12.5 and one on the right at 10.5. I was told to come back on the true day 9. (side bar if I had just called and told them what happened they prolly would have just told me to come in on the real day 9 and I could of saved myself $450 for the u/s and blood work). I went back on the real day 9 and only had two follicles on the left a 19 (and a 10.5 but they said that was probably not viable) and on the right an 18. They gave me the trigger at 8am and iui was scheduled for the next day at 11am. Cd 9: trigger 8am Cd 10: iui at 11am My doctor said to start counting from the day of iui and to count that day as day 1 1 dp iui: day of iui 2 dp iui: nothing 3 dp iui: woke up at 3am to shooting pains on both overies kind of like little shocks. They didn't last long and I went back to sleep 4-5 dp iui: nothing 6 dp iui: some intermittent pangs on my left side kind of felt like ovulation but of course it was too late for that. 7-8 dp iui: nothing 9 dp iui: felt like menstrual cramps thought for sure my period was coming. 10 dp iui: period-like cramps continued 11-14 dp iui: boobs a little sore but only if I really pushed on them so didn't put too much stock in that. Possibly felt a little nautilus but I can't be sure I was stress eating junk food so it just could have been that. 15 dp iui: took a hpt test and had the slightest of faint lines but it was so faint I kind of didn't believe it. 16 dp iui: doctor confirmed POSITIVE but that my hog was low and need to test again in two days

BFP on 3rd IUI After HSG and Few Symptoms :)

I can hardly believe it and I am still in shock. I was not planning to test b/c it turns me into a complete wreck. It is 14dpo and CD 29 as I O'ed on day 15 this month. I am a single mom by choice and used donor sperm and only had 10 million swimmers. I also had 2 follicles. I just recently turned 40 as well. It is always hard to tell what are pregnancy symptoms and what are the symptoms of the Entrace (estrogen) and Crinone (progesterone) supports that I am on. I also recently had an HSG and doc says that lots of times women get pregnant right after that. My symptoms were almost nil this month. I swear I was out except I had mildly sore boobs at 7dpo for a few days. I gagged when I smelled my prenatals a few times (fish oil). I had really bad "mentral cramps" on CD 28 and thought for sure I was out. Felt JUST like AF was coming and my boobs were only mildly sore so it is EXACTLY how AF feels when she is coming to town. Then today in CD 29 I felt a tugging feeling in my uterus. Not much to report so....if you have no signs don't fret. My first pregnancy I had few signs except really, really sore boobs and cramping. Sorry I cannot remember the exact days of my symptoms. I just went back to school as a teacher and I had no time for acupuncture, yoga or any of my usual relaxation techniques that one would use to get pregnant. I was crazy busy getting back to work and uber stressed. I guess it worked in my favor. Woot, woot!!!! Got my BFP on a dollar store test!!


So I am 37 in 2 weeks, my husband is 39. We have a little girl Ella and she is 5yrs, she was conceived with no problems at all. This time around I also thought it would be easy and quick. 1,2,3,4,5,6 months and nothing, all my friends either preg or with babies. I was so despite for a baby. Due to my age I was told I needed to seek a specialist after 6mths of trying. I had been using ovulation test, temping and I was an addict with testing for ovulation and HPT a real shocka, always being disappointed. On Monday I took my referral letter and tests that I had done to the specialist and now I just had to wait my turn for an apt: a lot of money and a wait list. My husband had his semen checked I had just started getting all my tests done. That night I got my BFP this was 2 days ago at 11DPO, it was negative in the morning and + at night. The only symptoms I had was a gurgling lower tummy which always happened 2 days before my AF anyway. My AF was due that day and felt like for sure it was coming I even saw one pin size dot of blood. I had + ovulation tests from days 17-22 blazing, I thought I ovulated around day 17 as I felt O twinges we had sex days 8,12,14,16,17,19,20 I was so sure I was out this month and was so surprised. I was always on the forums and seeking all these BFP and was getting so depressed and down. I was not uptight but I always trying to calculate the best timing so when people tell you to just relax, go ahead and slap them. lol Do what ever makes you comfortable. I just got a call prior to writing my story with my blood results. I AM HAVING ANOTHER BUBBA YIPEEEE.

BFP @ 41, Trying For #2 After 1.5 yr, 1 Ectopic & 1 Miscarriage

We have a lovely soon to be 4 year old who was conceived Jan 2009, a few months after first time pregnancy that turned out to be ectopic. Then had another ectopic pregnancy April 2011. Started to try again Jan 2012 and finally got BFB March 2013, over a year later, but then miscarried a few weeks later. Doctor told me at my age, I could try naturally for another 3-4 months, then I needed to call her for an appt to talk bout IVF. DH meanwhile left for an overseas trip. We BD the day he left, and it was 3-4 days before I ovulated, and thought, I am out again this month, there is no way I will conceive with him gone, and time is ticking, so set up an appointment for to IVF clinic set for tomorrow. Here are my dpi symptoms: Day 1-6: A lot of CM, and breaking out on face and chest! Day 7: Emotional, more CM, Day 8: Insomnia. Cannot get to sleep until 2 am, then so tired in the morning Day 9: Temperature dip a whole degree!, insomnia continues, hungry Day 10: Insomnia, hungry, nipples a bit sore. This is when I first suspected Day 11: Insomnia, same sore nipples, hungry and tired Day 12: Insomnia, sore nipples, hungry and tired. Tested BFN Day 13: Insomnia, sore nipples, hungry and tired. Tested faint positive! Husband returns tomorrow and will test again! After 3 losses, BD only 3-3 days pre-ovulation, turning 42 in 3 months. Can't believe it. Looking back, I think what may have helped was that I took Robutssin (google it) to keep my CM thin (longer sperm survival) an that I had sort of given up o ever naturally conceiving again and was focusing on preparing myself to go the IVF route.

Many Months of Trying... Surprise BFP!!

I am happy to be sharing my story after so many months of reading other happy stories looking for some hope! I have to first say that we were not trying at all, in fact we had stopped several months ago due to lack of success for 2 years. I had figured since I am 40 that I was done. My mother went in to early menopause and I hear the daughters usually follow. I have 3 boys now and each of those pregnancies happened on the 1st or 2nd try so after years of trying and reading what to do with no success we stopped. I had been temping to make sure I knew when I ovulated so we would be safe just in case, although mistakes never turned into anything. Last month I must have ovulated early because when I took my temp on CD 12 and it was already over 98. I didn't think anything of it. I kept temping and noting a few symptoms like a sore throat out of nowhere and being crampy a day or 2. I continued to temp and after 22 days of temps over 98 I felt something had to be going on. I did notice also that my boobs got a bit heavier so I said hmm could I be pregnant? I bought a test after being 2 days late and took it at 130pm and it was positive instantly. I was very surprised, yet very excited. I have been very nervous and emotional these last days. I am hoping for a girl, but just want it be healthy. Since I stopped trying several months ago we didn't anything different at all. In looking back at the days we had sex, it was once in the am and once in the pm. In each instance, I got up right away. Nothing special at all. I do recall in the months that I did try I had almost every symptom imaginable, and now I have very few. Each person is different in how they conceive and how it affects their body. Each pregnancy is different within the same person, I know mine were. I guess sometimes it just happens when it is meant to be. I have been out of work for almost a year and started a wonderful new job a few weeks ago, my older son is going to college next week and now I am blessed to be adding to my family. I am so thrilled and wish all of you much love and success. Here is to a happy and healthy 9 months!
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46.5 Years Old and Just Discovered I am Pregnant

Hi ladies! I just found out two days ago that I am pregnant with my third child. This is the biggest surprise ever for me in that it occurred naturally. My daughters are 23 and 16, plus I have twin grandchildren who will be seven in September. I am so shocked and scared to death. My boyfriend is 50 and has two daughters, 26 and 16. He is not too happy in that we were looking at traveling and spending time together as almost empty nesters. I am also concerned about my age and having a healthy baby. However, I just want you ladies to know it can happen at any time, especially if you think you are too old. God Bless you all, and I wish you all success at conceiving and happy, healthy babies.