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Early Pregnancy Symptoms and Big Fat Positives


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BFP IVF Egg Donor

We started with 4 failed iui attempts. Then we moved to IVF and had 2 failed IVF cycles with my own eggs. In the first IVF cycle they retrieved 2 eggs that did not make it to transfer. In the second IVF cycle they retrieved 9 eggs and only 1 4 cell low quality egg made it to day 3 transfer. Doc said I have low quality eggs and recommended Egg Donor. We choose a proven donor and did a shared cycle with another family and we are now pregnant from our first ED cycle.

Day 5 ET 2 high quality blasts 4AB and 4CA
1dp5dt: Cramping sharp twinges
2dp5dt: Cramping and tightness gas
3dp5dt: Gas at the top of stomach. Feeling full.
4dp5dt: a-ok
5dp5dt: Small amount of cm severe headache
6dp5dt: Headache
7dp5dt: Cramping gas. Headache
8dp5dt: Headache subsided. Tightness Gas
9dp5dt: BFP beta hcg 229
11dp5dt: HCG 818 plus dark brown discharge

IVF w/PGD After Losses

Hello ladies! Wanted to share a little with you all. My DH and I knew of his balanced chromosome translocation before we got married but didn't know the extent of how often and what could happen. We tried for 13 months and got our beautiful 4.5 old son who did not even inherit my husbands chromosome translocation so we're truly blessed. We started TTC again almost 3 years ago with not a single pregnancy. We turned to IUIs. The first one didn't work. The second one worked but ended in a MC. We did a 3rd one and it worked!! We knew we would do CVS testing for the chromosome translocation so we did that at 11 weeks. 9 days later we found out it was a baby girl and her chromosomes were unbalanced. We know the outcome is deadly or close to it if they even make it to term so we had a medical termination. It was the most heartbreaking thing I've ever been through. I'm still sad about it and that was in January. We decided we couldn't go through that again so DHs parents offered to give us most of the $ for IVF w/PGD which is roughly $20,000! We paid about $5000 out of our pockets. We knew/know this was our only shot. We got 8 embryos from the cycle and all but one had chromosome issues. We had one healthy fighting boy in the bunch to transfer. We transferred on May 26th and we're now pregnant. My 1st Beta was 75 and my 2nd was 145. ALMOST doubled but not quite. The nurse said everything should be fine since it's so close to doubling. I'm still kinda scared since they didn't exactly double but I know it's not an exact science. I'm trying to stay as positive as I can after what we've been though. We want this baby more than anything and it's our last shot! I have another beta on Monday to make sure my hcg is still doubling. Please pray for us that our little boy is a fighter and sticks around in me for the next 9 months! :-)


First Round IVF BFP - With Chromosome Disorder and PCOS

Our story is a long and complicated one. I'll try to pare it down to the very basics. I'm 29 and have PCOS. DH is 33 and has a translocation chromosomal disorder. His issue makes is incredibly difficult for us to create a healthy embryo. Basically, his disorder can be passed on 6 different ways, and 4 of those ways will result in a miscarriage every time. The odds were not in our favor. We were told we needed to pursue IVF for our best shot at having a baby. We had a miscarriage over a year ago, which actually had nothing to do with his disorder, it was just an unfortunate occurrence. So, fast forward to May of this year, we took the plunge into IVF. Because of DH's disorder, we were required to do PGT (pre-implantation genetic testing) and use ISCI. We had 11 embryos tested, and only 1 healthy embryo left to transfer. Praise God, this baby is a true miracle. We already know it's a boy because of the genetic testing, which reveals the gender. We feel so lucky to be having a boy, and to be pregnant with this incredible miracle. We were supported by our family and friends with tons and tons of prayer and faith. My Jesus is the only reason I am trying this story and am pregnant.

Because of all the meds and shots and whatnot, it's hard to say which were actual pregnancy symptoms, but I know there were a few that weren't from the meds. My symptoms are as follows:

We did a 5 day transfer on Sunday May 26th. I layed in bed for the entire rest of the day after the transfer. Then took the following three days off work to rest and relax.

2dp5dt - Hot flashes, dull achey crampy feeling in uterus.
3dt5dt - Terrible pain in right ankle. My acupuncturist explained that lots of nerves related to our reproductive system run through our ankles and most pregnant women experience ankle pain. Increased heart rate.
4dt5dt - Feeling very tired. Increased urination. Ankle pain still there. Dull achey cramps still there. This am, I took a test, completely negative, this pm, took another test, and I saw the faintest ghost line. Didn't even tell DH because I knew he wouldn't see it. Got super excited to test the next morning.
5dp5dt - Super faint positive this am. DH could see it but was weary. I knew this was it. After two years of analyzing countless FRER's, I know what a positive looks like.
6dp6dt - Darker BFP in the am, even darker in the pm. Getting so excited, knowing our little man is really in there! Loving watching these tests turn darker and darker. I want to pee on everything!
7dp5dt - This am, test line was almost as dark as control line on FRER.

I go for my blood test on June 5th (3 more days!) so I'm expecting my levels to be nice and high!

For those of you who have been trying for a long time with no luck, maybe check into some genetic testing to see if either of you has something like what my DH has. If you're contemplating IVF, pray about it, but also, don't be scared. Yes, it's a whole lot of money, and A LOT of shots and meds, but in the end, next February, when I'm holding my sweet baby boy, I know it will all be worth it. May God bless you with the desire of your heart!

BFP with FET #1 After Miscarriage.

Well, I am submitting my story, I am still feeling very anxious about the pregnancy, hoping it is a sticky bean.

DH and I have been trying to concieve #1 since November 2011. We have no real issues, all testing seems to come back normal.

We did our first IVF cycle in December 2012, it resulted in a BFP but sadly ended in a missed miscarriage at 10 weeks, I had a D&C and the tissue was tested and the baby (boy) had trisomy 16, a common chromosomal abnormalty. We had 4 frozen embryos left over from the IVF cycle so after waiting the standard 2 months after miscarriage we had one frozen embryo transferred on the 4th May. I had severe gastro the night of the transfer, I was up all night vomitting and was so upset that it was going to affect the transfer.

I had my first beta test on 16th May (16dpo) and it was 611, I had my second beta on the 22nd May (22dpo) and it was 5200. So, so far, so good, I have a third beta on the 29th March, praying that things are still increasing like they should.

As for symptoms, not much at all! I had the normal period type cramping on and off (still do), my lower back has just started to get a bit sore, I am a bit grumpy, but nothing that really screams pregnancy! My boobs aren't sore, the fatigue hasn't yet hit, I might be a little hungrier than usual but really nothing noticeable. I am 5weeks 6 days today, I keep reading that symptoms often kick in around the 7-8 week mark, I hope that is the case for me because at the moment I am finding it hard to believe I am pregnant!

Good luck ladies, it is such an emotional time xx

OMG! IVF #1 Worked After All!! 41 and a Bun in the Oven!

Wow, I can't believe I get to post my BFP story here! I'm still finding it hard to think of the looooong journey it was just to get to this stage. A HUGE thanks to this site for feeding my obsession and keeping me going throughout the 2 years of TTC- ing, and the emotional roller coaster it is TTC.

I met my husband late in life, and we started trying straight away...we were eventually diagnosed with unexplained infertility- which I call the "Limbo" period, where we came to terms with it. Anyway after a lot of frustration and emotions our first time IVF "nail biter" has brought us to this point, where I had my BFP today.

Didn't have dramatic symptoms, and at times I doubted there was anything going on at all. I had itchy nipples, slight bloating that I thought was the drugs I was taking, tired and very emotional- which I took out on DH and he was pretty much the punchbag to my hormones (poor thing)

Today- this morning I did a HPT because I wanted to be prepared for the blood tests and there it was- the plus sign! I still doubted it- and it wasn't until the nurse called with the news that I allowed myself to believe. Now I'm still in shock, but so happy and thankful...

To everyone out there- never give up and don't loose hope. Its a numbers game, and you have everything to gain

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BFP After 2 Long Years and on First IVF

Hello- I got my BFP today and wanted to share my experience.

DH and I have been through a long infertility journey. I have severe endo. Husband is perfectly fine. I also had a laparoscopy last year in March. Below are my symptoms:

April 30- Egg Retrieval
May 3- 3 day embryo transfer. Transferred 2 8 cell embies
1dpt- Bloating and severe constipation
2dpt- Same as above
3dpt- Bloating was better but unbelievable constipation. Had milk of magnesia to relieve constipation.
4dpt- Constipation easing
5dpt- All good
6dpt- Period like cramping starts along with multiple trips to bathroom. I was sure AF was on her way
7dpt- Cramps continue. Kept making trips to bathroom
8dpt- No cramps, no symptoms. Lost appetite. (usually happens to me before AF)
9dpt- Nothing- only lack of appetite. Mild constipation returns
10dpt- Lack of appetite. Mild constipation
11dpt- Went for Beta. Was expecting a negative result. To my surprise, Nurse called me and said my Beta is 262!!

I hope this one sticks around. My next beta is 2 days for now. Please pray for me!!

Three Times IVF, Two Plus Hopefully One More Time BFP!

I wanted to share my symptoms as I think this board has been so helpful to me!
I had a 3 day transfer of 5 - 4 cell grade a embryos. I am 41 and hubby 38, unexplained infertility and endometriosis.

Day 1pt- gas, bloated headache
Day 2- same
Day 3- same
Day 4, 5 and 6 pt- cramping, dreams ,sore boobs
Day 7- same as above but dark aeroelas and slightly more erect nips.
Was preg but later lost baby after 8 weeks.

Also did 5 day transfer
I noticed a big difference between the symptoms of 3 day and 5 day transfers. The 5 day transfer I felt the cramping and pulling on the first 3 nights post transfer as well as fatigue and darker nips on 3 days past 5 days transfer.
I know that progesterone also gives u the symptoms of pregnancy but u think I can tell the difference by now! As soon as I take a supp or the oil injection, I get cramping and fever of 99.5 approx shortly after but notice the times when I do not take it the cramping feels more of burning and pulling.
Hope this helps. This turned into a chemical preg but am pleased that I did get preg.
On to the next....

Am on my 3rd ivf, 3 day post transfer similar embryos to previous, all good to excellent quality but not many cells more than 5.
Day 1, 2. Bloated, headache, gas
Day 3 today. Bloated, creamy mucus, slight cramping but not pulling like the other times so worried may be the progesterone and not preg this time.
I do know implantation doesn't begin until tomorrow for a 3 day transfer so fingers crossed.
Good luck to all. It is so hard going through this but I know in the end it is going to happen with time and patience and love.

So Sure it Had Not Worked!

Just did a pregnancy test, was so sure it had not worked was waiting for a negative to come up. Thought I just have to get it over with! Could not beleive it when 2 lines appeared so shocked, one was faint to start with and had to get my boyfriend to check it for me! It is there for sure.
I should add I have just finished my first ivf cycle but spent the whole day today depressed as was sure it had not worked.
Basically not many symptoms just had the feeling AF was about to arrive, sore boobs but they kept coming and going and probably to do with the progesterone I am on. Felt hungry all the time as well.
My general message to everyone is do not give up it will happen, I was convinced this had not worked.
So shocked!
Hope it or they (had 2 blastos put back in) will stick

Bfp 2dt ICSI

Hi everyone I've just found out I'm BFP, I just wanted to post my symptoms to help other ladies trawling the net during the never ending 2ww.

We have ICSI due to a sperm roadblock (previous vasectomy from first marriage)
We had been trying for three years, then found out last year that the vasectomy reversal hadn't worked.
Collected only four eggs, two of which weren't mature & one did not fertilise. We only had one embryo to put back, which was four cell on a 2dt.
No symptoms apart from painful ovaries after EC, bloated.
Same as above was painful to walk at times, bloated.
Very big tender BB's & bloated.
Tired, big tender BB's & bloated ( no ovary pain now)
Deflated BB's (in the morning), hungry day figured I would be due on this time next week, so no surprise.
Deflated BB's (in the morning) not as tender now, did have cramping in the afternoon.Convinced its not worked today, started to think about how we would pay for the next treatment.
Sharp pain on right side of groin, didn't last long. Decided I wanted crisps (prawn cocktail), thought its probably the munches & the start of PMT, headache in the eve.
Went out shopping, but felt tired & had cramping, even felt a little nausea (just thought it was the progesterone botty bombs. Had a headache on and off,
Back to work, tired didn't sleep well, I little cramping and bloating in the afternoon. BB's larger in the afternoon (just like the week before AF)
Didn't sleep well again, same symptoms as yesterday. A little white DC in the eve.
Very tired, not a lot of sleep again! Bad AF pain in the eve, thirsty, honestly thought I would wake up to AF.
Sleep almost none, bloated & BB's as usual after lunch, felt nausea in the eve.
Very little sleep again, nausea then hungry. Decided to BFP!

To sum up I have been pregnant before with my son & I really didn't think I was this time. I had no spotting, hardly any symptoms that weren't different to PMS or the symptoms that progesterone gives you. I honestly believed it was the progesterone & not BFP, I didn't have a gut feeling & I really thought the treatment hadn't worked.
I ate loads of spinach, green veg, fruit & upped my protein intake quite a lot. I snacked on almonds & drank decaf tea & water.
I had the first week off & rested on the sofa for most of 1dpt.

I really hope all your dreams come true, & my story helps keep your positivity up during that painfully long 2ww :0))

41yrs Old BFP IVF

Just got our BFP today and I don't think it's sunk in yet. Soooo happy.
We'd been trying to conceive naturally for 18 months but I have diminished ovarian reserve and scar tissure from a previous LLEDTZ procedure. Also DPs swimmers were sluggish.
We used IVF/ISCI with donor egg and it was our first attempt. We had two 3day embryos transferred. They were a 7 cell and and 8 cell of average grade. The only symptoms were some AF type pain 5-6 days after transfer and some very mild nausea. No increased CM or anything.

Hope this gives hope to all those in the awful two-week wait that no symptoms doesnt mean you're not pregnant.
Baby dust to everyone !!!!!