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BFP with Male Factor

Male factor infertility can certainly insert a few turns and detours on your path to your BFP. If you've managed to get double lines on your pregnancy test despite contending with male factor infertility, we want to know about it! Send us your story through this contact form.

BFP After Trying For Nearly 2 Years - BD ON TOP

I am 33 years old and DH is 33 years old. We have been trying to conceive since Oct 2011. Every time we bd, he would complain that he wasn't inside - that he felt he was hitting a block. After the one year mark, ttc started being arguments. It wasn't until Feb 2013 that we had a major fight. I thought we would break. I started googling our problem. I found out that I had Vaginismus ( I took two weeks to get over it so that we could do full penetration. However, there were other issues. My first OB: After 8 months of TTC, I consulted my OB. She did blood work and said I was fine. She even did ultrasounds. DH's sperm analysis was low in morphology 2% and low in motility 20%. We went to see a urologist and he put my DH on clomid for 4 months. DH last dose was Feb 2013. After 4 months there was still no luck. My second OB: I decided to switch OB Feb 2013. I switched to an OB who specialized in fertility (You know this by the FACOG behind thier name that they are a specialist in fertility). So the OB was in between a general OB and a fertility doctor. He looked at my bloodwork and told me I had a problem. My thyroid was not optimal (you need a thyroid level of 1 - 2) for conceiving. He took vaginal ultrasounds and looked at my ovaries and found out I had a problem. He said it was very mild PCOS. He put me on metformin, thyroid medication, asa, fish oil. I started this beginning of Feb 1, 2013. The FIRST OB did not CATCH THIS PROBLEM!! He suggested that DH go through acupuncture (which we never did b/c of time). He told us that if we can't get the morphology above 3% he would not recommend IUI. We were heart broken because we didn't realize how serious of a problem we had. He prescribed femara which I took one cycle and we had a bfn. In Jan 2013, DH and I started exercising. We also started a power oxidation smoothie. We blended orange juice, blueberries, banana, and apples together with dinner. It helped with portion control and we prayed that it would help with his morphology. I also put him on L-Carnitine for morphology and Vitamin C for motility. April 15, 2013: I got my BFP!!!!!!! My anniversary is April 17, 2013. When I found out I was crying and jumping around. I haven't told DH yet. We had booked tickets for Vegas for our anniversary. This was without the use of femara. Symptoms: April 2, 2013 (Cycle Day 13) : We BD. I felt a zing through my lower back when we BD'ed and joked to myself, yep that was the baby. I was on top. CBFM said this was high fertility reading. I didn't use Pre-Seed because it just got too expensive. I used slippery stuff which I read was the same thing. April 6, 2013 (Cycle Day 16) : BD. High Fertility Reading April 8, 2013 *Cycle Day 17) : BD. High Fertility Reading. I don't know when I ovulated so I randomly picked CD 15 since it was my average ovulation day. 1 dpo - 7dp: Nothing 7dpo - boob hurt 9 dpo - major lower back pain. Boob hurt. 10dpo: A pin size head pink dot. Boob hurt 11dpo: Constipated. Wiped. Streak of pink CM. BFP at 1:36PM. Boobs tender but not hurting as much. Very Dark Line. My luteal phase is 15 - 16 days. I wasn't expecting to get pregnant this time since we didn't bd that much. I pray that this is a sticky baby! So ladies, if you have been TTC - maybe go see a better doctor. Apparently not all doctors are made the same. Thank you god!

BFP With Sperm Donor

It has been a long journey for me so I thought I would share with all of you my symptoms. Me and DH did an at home IUI (yes that is correct, we did our own IUI) with frozen donor sperm at 24 hours after a positive OPK. I got my positive OPK on CD17. 1-9 DPO Nothing 10 DPO Strong pinching/cramping on right side 11-14 DPO DH is the most annoying man alive, jalapeños sound so good I ate an entire jar, can't seem to make it past 4 am without needing to pee, persistent headache and bloating, lots of gas. I didn't test until 14 DPO. The only symptom I noticed until I realized I was pregnant was that I could not stand DH.

1st BFP After 9 Years TTC!

DH and I have been trying for 9 years, but were not gangbusters about it until last year. We had decided to let things happen as they would, and we made peace at one point with not being parents if it didn't happen. Well one day we woke up and realized we were getting older and running out of time and we both realized this was much more important to us than we thought. It would be really painful to never have children. So we finally got tested to diagnose the problem and it turned out we had male factor - Low count, NO motility, and low morphology. There was no problem that the UR could find--no vericocele, his testosterone was normal, there was just no reason for his low numbers so there was nothing they could do to improve them. We tried supplements which did help his morphology--went from 9% to 30%, but the number stayed the same (3 million) and they still weren't swimming. No swimmers = no babies and we knew we either had to accept that or figure out another way. The decision to use a donor was not as difficult for us to come to as it would be for other couples (we had discussed it for a while, knowing that it might come down to that) and we started the process as soon as we got the second semen analysis results back showing no swimmers. After the IUI with donor sperm, DH and I prayed together and sang hymns during the ten minutes I was to rest before getting dressed. It was a magical time! However, after 9 years of infertility, it was hard to believe that this would work. Here are my symptoms... CD14: IUI at 9:30 am, ovulation at 8 PM based on the strong ovulation pain I felt at that time. I got a killer backache along with ovulation, which has never happened before. 1 dpo: Some leftover cramping from the IUI/ovulation 2-4 dpo: Nada 5 dpo: Dreamt about giving birth, and that I was breastfeeding my sister (who is 30 years old). EW! WTH?! 6-7 dpo: Boobs bigger (usual), nipples swollen/pointy (not usual). These were the only days I really felt I was pregnant. Woke up one morning with a nose bleed-very unusual. 8 dpo: Felt cramps in the evening while at church. They continued off and on for several hours. I now believe this was implantation! 9 dpo: A small glob of ewcm that was white came off on tp when I wiped--once in the morning, and once in the evening. This was my biggest reason for suspecting I might be pregnant, as I had never had anything but sticky CM this late in my TWW. I also had a killer backache! I was adjusting myself all day at work (I sit while working) and just couldn't get comfortable. 10 dpo: Tons of gas in the morning—it was a fart storm up in our bedroom. LOL! CM was very very slightly tinted brown all day. (I now believe this was caused by implantation bleeding.) 11 dpo: Lots of gas in the morning. Backache returns, but only for half the day and not as bad. 12 dpo: Gassy in the morning, but not as bad as previous days. Tested with FMU and got a faint BFP! Didn't really trust it, though. Brown tint to CM returns, a little darker this time, and I'm scared that AF is about to arrive. (I now know this was caused by implantation bleeding.) 13 dpo: Tested with FRER and a digital test at the same time (peed in a cup and dipped them at the same time-lol). The line with the FRER was darker, and the digital came up pregnant. Wow, it's really my BFP!! 14 dpo: Couldn't sleep but a few hours. Breasts swollen and I can't sleep on my stomach b/c they hurt. 15 dpo: Swollen boobs, a tiny bit of heartburn while eating meals. 16 dpo: Got BETA test, HcG is 308. Whoop! Definitely pregnant! 18 dpo: BETA now reads 634. This is for real! I'm now 24 dpo and go in tomorrow to get my HCG checked again to make sure it's still on the rise. I feel so wonderful, and not pregnant at all. No nausea, no fatigue, no sore boobs. It's as if my body has been waiting for this so long, it is just so happy to finally be growing a baby that it's not going to give me any trouble! Well, we'll see how long it lasts. :) Praise God for this answer to our prayer! We are just shocked to finally be pregnant after all this time, and shocked it worked on the very first IUI! Praise the Lord!

3+ Years of Trying!!

Wow, I really can't believe I get to do this. I have been stalking this site for over 3 years!! So here is a little history. Me (27) and hubby (28) have been struggling with male factor, low count and motility. Last year we did 3 medicated IUIs and got pregnant on our last try. Sadly, we lost that baby at 11 weeks. We thought we would try on our own and see what happens... Flash forward to this year and tax season ;). We finally had some money to try the IUI again. The count was horrible and we were only given a 10% chance that we would get pregnant. But, I guess it really does only take one!! Here are my symptoms. 7dpo: Felt nothing until right before bed, got 2 little stabby pains. 8dpo: Was extremely crampy all day, felt like ovulation pain. Maybe a tad worse than that, but nothing too bad. 9dpo: Boobs starting to hurt a tad, cramping has stopped. Starting to think it's all the progesterone's fault. 10dpo: Certain smells are starting to make me sick and my boobs are still sore. BFP on a frer!! Couldn't believe it, started crying and ran to show my hubby the tests. For all you ladies who have been trying for a long time.... It will happen, don't be afraid to seek some
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For Those Struggling With Infertility (IUI #3, 14 Months TTC, Unexplained Anovulation and MFI)

Hello, everyone- For 14 months, I read ths site every day for encouragement and with the hope that someone "like me" would post a BFP story. I am humbled to be posting here and promise to post an update. Sorry for the length. I didn't think I'd ever see this day. My husband (32) and I (30) began trying for our first baby in February 2012. We have no medical conditions, eat well, are healthy weights, do not smoke. Everyone in our families is beyond fertile, and like so many others, we assumed TTC would be a breeze. I had been on the pill for 7 years prior with perfect 30-day cycles. After coming off the pill, my cycles were anovulatory and ranged from 33-60+ days. My RE was puzzled as to why I wasn't ovulating and sent me for head-to-toe medical tests including an HSG, bloodwork, and a brain MRI. My husband also submitted a semen analysis where we learned he had a very low count and very low motility. We were crushed. Days later, my test results came back. My HSG was clear, and I did not have PCOS. But my brain MRI results revealed a pituitary microadenoma, a tumor on my pituitary gland. I was told that further tests and an endocrinologist referral were needed. Not only was I infertile, my husband was also a factor, and I had a tumor in my head. These were some of the worst days of my life. After many stressful weeks and more tests, the tumor was deemed benign and not contributing to my infertility. My RE consulted and endocrinologist cleared me to start infertility treatments. I moved straight to IUI with injectables and underwent a total of 4 cycles, 3 of which resulted in an insemination procedure. My husband started taking FertiliAid and has been for about 7 months now. Protocol: Menopur, Ovidrel trigger, single IUI 36 hours post-trigger, Endometrin progesterone suppositories (100mg 2x/day). I tested out the trigger at about day 10 each cycle. IUI #1: 75IU Menopur, 1 follicle, ~18mm at trigger -> BFN. Ovarian cysts found, BC for week to shrink IUI #2: Used anywhere from 75-150IU, 3 possibly 4 follicles, largest ~20mm at trigger -> chemical pregnancy at 4 weeks. Cysts & BC again Cycle #3: RE concerned about OHSS, adjusted dosage, sometimes as low as 37.5IU. Follicles did not respond -> cycle cancelled IUI #3: Alternated every other day between 75 and 112.5IU. This was the magical dosage. 2 lead follicles were 20+ at trigger, 3rd smaller follicle that may have been viable. Symptoms: 1-6dpo/IUI: very hungry & bloated, but I knew from prior cycles that this was the trigger shot 7-8dpo/IUI: a few simples on my chin. Odd as my skin is usually clear 9dpo/IUI: mildly sore throat and very stuffy nose. This was my first hint that something was up since the same thing happened the cycle where I had a chemical pregnancy 10dpo/IUI: no appetite, felt a "pulling" sensation in lower-right side of stomach while walking on treadmill; felt like I was pulling a muscle, chills/felt very cold although it has been 80 degrees where I live, continued sore throat and stuffy nose 11DPO/IUI: no appetite, chills, sore throat, stuffy nose, couldn't wait- test at 9p.m.- BFP! So shocked I couldn't speak and simply handed the HPT to my husband. I did not have sore breasts, cramping, spotting, fatigue, or any nausea- none of that! I thought for sure I was out and even cried on the drive home from the drug store to buy some HPTs. Beta bloodwork results so far: 13dpo/IUI: 98 Today 15dpo/IUI: 192. Aside from ever-so-slight bloating, I still have no symptoms. Things we did differently this cycle: - Tried to relax, which didn't work. My RE's office is over an hour each way from my house, so 2-3x/week RE appts. for month and months were starting to take their toll. I also work full-time so leaving work was becoming more & more difficult. - Booked a vacation. My husband and I pretty much had to schedule our life around fertility treatments, which meant that we essentially put our lives on hold. Plus, I kept reading stories about people conceiving on vacation or as soon as they booked one- ha! - BD 2 days pre-IUI + day of IUI. Day of IUI, went to bed after BD, did not get up - Gym 3x/week - Religious about suppositories, like taking them down to the minute every 12 hours Things I did every cycle: - No caffeine - No alcohol (this IUI was done the day after my 30th birthday, which was St. Patrick's Day. This was tough!) - Ate healthy - Used Pre-Seed internally - Pillow under bum for at least 15 minutes post-BD Infertility is the worst thing I have experienced in my entire life, and I have so much respect for those who endure it and for much longer than 14 months. Thank you for allowing me to post. I wish you all the best of luck TTC!

When You Least Expect it! Cliche... But True!

This time around we have been trying for four months. We took breaks often for work travel. I got pregnant with my daughter on Cycle #4 in 2007. Last month I said to my husband "Let's skip (trying) in March". I had a ton of EWCM in March way more than usual. I called my husband and said "I would feel weird wasting an egg" I had a weird feeling this month could be it. He said we can try. I said "We will just have sex if we want but, no pressure" Well that night CD 15...we had sex "for fun" after, I just went to sleep I did not get up. I did the same with my DD in 2007. I knew the night I got pregnant with her. Next day CD 16 I had a blazing OPK. I said well, the chances are slim considering we have done it like rabbits for the last three months around ovulation and all BFN. Planned sex was getting awkward and like a chore. In March we did it "ONCE" CD 15. P.S. Husband's morp was 3%! So, DO NOT let that discourage you :) *Last Period was March 5th *BD on CD 15...only * POS OPK March 16th * DPO 1-3 Felt little zings but nothing that was not normal * DPO 3-8 Crazy burst of energy and noticeable zings in ovaries on both sides...not uterus area. I had only menstrual like cramps(uterus area) with DD. Zings in BB's too but I thought this was all because AF was coming early. * DPO 8 Did FRER-BFN * DPO 9 Sharp zings in ovaries again and metal taste in mouth. POA IC and FRER-BFN * DPO 10 CD 28 No AF yet which she has been arriving by CD 27. I only had a digital so I took it. "Not Pregnant" I ripped it apart knowing I shouldn't. They always have two lines...but this one was different. Both were thick and fat. I went and picked my daughter up from Cubbies and went to the store bought a box of FRER. Went into the GS bathroom. I could not wait. POAS nothing. Threw it in the bag and headed to the car. Got my daughter buckled in and grabbed it for one more look BAM!!! BFP!!! I was shocked!!! I sat there with my mouth open for 5 minutes staring at it. I went to another store about bought EPT (sucks) and answer. Answer was BFP...EPT BFN. You stare and stare and pee and pee and nothing. Then when it happens it's total shock! I guess once is all it takes and it always when you east expect it. Baby dust to all!! :) * DPO 11 getting the AF like cramps now and FRER was darker and digital said Pregnant :)


I have just got my bfp after a frozen embryo transfer. We have been ttc our first baby for almost 2 years and this is our 3rd round of ivf. My last fet was also a bfp but resulted in a missed miscarriage at 9 weeks. We are hoping, praying, begging that this one sticks around and we get to hold a baby in arms in December. I had a trigger shot on 19/3 which I tested out from transfer day. 0dp5dt (5dpo)- transfer day! mild cramping after the transfer 1dp5dt (6dpo)- had acupuncture and felt some sharp pains afterwards, possible implantation? 2dp5dt & 3dp5dt- no symptoms. I don't feel pregnant at all and feel like the cycle didn't work. 4dp5dt (9dpo)- bfn in the am. at least I know the trigger shot has gone... But the bfn makes me cry and feel crappy all day! Decide to test in the evening and I see a faint, but very clear line! We are still in the game! Hot flashes. 5dp5dt (10dpo) bfp! It's getting darker! Hot flashes. 6dp5dt (11dpo) bfp and there's no denying that line! Yippee 7dp5dt (12 dpo) the line is almost as dark as the control 8dp5dt (13dpo) still feeling really hot and dry retch in the morning! Already?! We are definitely pregnant and can't stop looking at those lovely dark lines :)

BFP with FSH, Trigger, and IUI

I'm 39, PCOS, DH 44 low mot. We have one daughter and she is 16 months....I ovulated on my own; however, I was in the best physical shape I've been in forever. We've been TTC since October 2012 with no success....I wasn't ovulating even though I got positive LH surges every month. Decided to see a fertility specialist....he almost convinced us to go straight to IVF.....I left the off dead set on it....scheduled the appointment paid $9000 dollars to secure the procedure and over the next 2 days I did not feel good about my decision so I cancelled and lost $500 for administrative fees....which was ok because the idea of the procedure did not sit well with me. So we decided to do the IUI first. On cd 3, 2/26/13, I started 100iu of follistim pen. On cd6 went in for u/s and blood work....they called back with labs and told me to increase to 150iu. More u/s and labs every 2 days until cd 13. On cd14 3/9/2013 I took the norvarel hcg trigger and on cd16 3/11/2013 we did the IUI with 2-18mm follies an 1-14mm and 16 million washed sperm. The 2ww was excruciating. I took a HPT 7 day post IUI BFN....wanted to see if the hcg was still in my system. On Friday 3/22/2013, I took a HPT BFP....then I took about 6 more until I went for labs on Monday...took both a quan and qual hcg both positive....quan was 264.90 and progesterone 27. 2 days later beta was 747 and two days after that (today) 3/29/2013 beta is 1467. First u/s scheduled for 4/8/2013. I'm so excited. Things are looking good....I wish you all the best!!! More info to follow....super curious as to how many eggs were fertilized!

BFP After 15 Months TTC

We did it... we finally it! We have been TTC for 15 months and were told by my husband urologist back in November that his sperm count was too low and after trying meds to increase it, we were still too low and told to consider in vitro if we ever wanted to get pregnant. This didn't make sense, as we already have a 4 year old.. But I felt defeated and threw in the towel and took a break... Because we were taking a break, I was also taking a break from temping... but I knew when I ovualted based on past cycles, so although we were taking a break we someone managed to have sex at the perfect time. My last period was Feb 16, and the last time we had sex that we could have conceived was Feb 25. March 18- I was extreamly moody. I was snapping at my husband and very hormonal. I figured my period was on its way any day. I had a horrible headache, and was peeing more than normal. I thought noting of it. March 19-20 Same symptoms as above and was now wondering where my period was... March 21- Still no period and very moody. I peed on a stick and voila!! The test line was beautiful.. I was in complete shock.. After 15 months if finally happened.. After being told we would never conceive, we did!! Do not give up!! Please! I almost did and the month we stopped trying, it happened!! Doctors don't know everything :)

BFP With Natural Cycle IVF

We have male factor infertility. My partner (53) has low count and motility. Everything looks normal with me (35). After a failed IUI, we decided to proceed with IVF, but I didn't want to put my body though all these hormones, so decided to go with natural cycle IVF (they collected my one egg that I naturally produced this month). We were lucky enough and this egg fertilized with ICSI and did ET on day 2. I had no symptoms during the two week wait. Just a bit tired with the progesterone supplements in the first few days. I was expecting to feel something during implantation time, but nothing! I really thought there was nothing in there. During the second week, I just had AF cramps just like every other month. I then had some spotting on the day my AF was due, which is what happens to me every month before AF arrives. I was 100% sure this whole thing had not worked, and was devastated. We had decided not to go through IVF again. I just had the worst time of my life and could not cope with all the stress. So we decided to use donor sperm if that attempt failed. On the day I had spotting, I had everything ready to order donor sperm. Had found a donor and was literally a click away from making the order. I decided to take an HPT just to rule out pregnancy for sure and go on with plan B. I was so upset that day that I did the test and then threw it away from me in despair, only to look later to see a clear second line! I thought I was crazy, but my partner confirmed it was BFP. I was in schock. Did my beta today (14 days after 2det) which was 450, so I really am pregnant. My only symptom was AF cramps and spotting. So do not lose hope if you experience the same. You cannot really tell what's going on in your body with all the meds. I thought others exaggerated when saying that, but it is true.