Hi ladies...I've stalked and participated this site for a while. Ive stalked it for abt a year and have been actively participating for two months. I met an amazing group of women in the TTC forums. Feel free to check us out at "New Babies for the New Year" . Everyday I read BFP stories no matter how old they are as ive found so much comfort in them and promised that i would not hesitate to share my story if i was ever so blessed to get a BFP.
Me and DH have been ttc for 2 years and its been rough. With not even a hint of a BFP i was really thinking that it may just not happen. I have (UD) uterus didelpys which means i have two completely separate uterus/ 2 cervices/ 2 vaginas and each uterus has its own Fallopian tube. I dont believe that it was so much of the UD that made it so complicated i believe it was multiple things. Started charting my cycles obsessively a few months ago and realized there were some issues. I found out that i have multiple LH surges in my cycle. Thank goodness i had decided to use OPKs all cycle long. I realized i was have 3 separate surges(CD 8/9, CD 11 but the last one was the real one. The only way i was able to tell is by checking my CP and sure enough it was high mushy soft and open. I noticed that i didnt have the ewcm so i used Pre-Seed. I truly recommend this product as the only cycled i used it in is the cycle i got my BFP. Also we started taking Fertilaid (men/women). I stopped taking fertilaid after 45 days. Only because i just wanted that boost of progesterone from the Chasteberry. I did stop because i didnt want my body to get use to chasteberry making it produce progesterone. I just wanted it as a booster. Ive heard of women having MC due to stopping chasteberry(vitex) so i didnt want to be dependent on it. We used the SMEP method which i believe every couple ttc should use but whatever works works right :)
12/13 - High fertile , No BDng
12/14 - High fertile, BD
12/15 - positive OPK, BD with Pre-Seed
12/16 - Super positive OPK "OVULATION" (bbt 97.2), BD with Pre-Seed
12/17 - (1 dpo - bbt, 97.6) Negative OPK but CP still open and high so we BD with Pre-Seed
2-4dpo - No Symptoms. bbt 97.6, little cm, CP high and firm
5-7dpo - breast tingled on and off, bbt 98.4, little cm, CP high firm
8dpo - headache, little cm, bbt 98.4, BFN on wondfo, CP low and firm
9dpo - no symptoms, little cm, bbt 98.0, BFN on wondfo, indigestion in the middle of the night, CP medium high. tilted, and firm
10dpo- BFN on wondfo, btt 98.0, no symptoms really... indigestion in the middle of the night, vivid dream i took my BBT using a straw. lol. Thought that was strange. Im suspicious at this point at the lack of pms symptoms, CP low and somewhat firm.
11dpo - bbt 98.4, indigestion, no real symptoms, little cm. CP low, firm...Woke up did an hpt with wondfo. Placed it on window and went back to sleep. Woke up and saw a very faint line. Fell on the floor crying laughing crying then immediately thought if this evap i will find wondfo's factory and give then a piece of my mind.... Then i thought something is wrong with my eyes because i just woke up from a nap. So i kept blinking till i felt like 20/20 vision was in full effect (lolololol. i know im crazy but i blinked a million times till i knew i wasnt fooling myself then cried for 10 minutes again did another wondfo and FRER digital got another Faint BFP and a YES+ with FMU. Later in the evening I got a very visible BFP with Wondfo with 4hr hold.
12dpo - BBT, 98.39 Another BFP with a similar line to yesterday's evening test. I will be doing a CB digital tomorrow. Late night i had some mild cramping and aches. My breast did finally get a bit tender. Nothing crazy. This morning feeling off a bit. Leg cramps and somewhat nauseated, Strange twinges on right side but overall just happy. CP still low, but it feels strange in there now.
The lack of PMS symptoms, the two nights not being able to sleep all night, one vivid dream, and the indigestion were what made me suspicious. I had no increase CM. Just barely there creamy when checking my CP but not enough for discharge. My CPs are low and slight firm. One CP is tilted but kind of firm. My chart which im going to find out how to post in a minute is almost textbook Triphasic.
I told DH this morning. We exchange gifts daily till New Years so this was perfect. I bought some pacifiers and placed it in a gift box with the +HPT. He was so excited he couldnt stop smiling. IM STILL IN SHOCK. Cant believe that we finally have our BFP. I do believe that the Pre-Seed and FertilAid (for men and women) contributed to this. Though i stopped taking the FertilAid 3 weeks ago. The PreSeed and Fertilaid for men is definitely a must have.... Praying for a sticky bean. Baby dust to all!