I'm finally 12-13dpo, and today is the Immaculate Conception (which will be celebrated tomorrow). I got super hopeful that it would bring me luck but just tested a bfn. I'm debating testing in the morning with fmu. Will it make a difference? I bought a 2-pack of tests, and I really don't want to waste another. If I were patient this whole process would be a lot cheaper.
I know that everyone will say "you aren't out until AF," and I'm notorious for saying it as well, but I have a pretty good feeling I'm out this month even though I don't necessarily have AF symptoms. I've felt pretty terrible since about 4dpo (flu feeling, fatigued, bbs sore on sides, mouth ulcers, nose bleeds, random nausea, etc.), and I was hopeful I could blame all of this on a bfp instead of just having to come to terms with the fact that I'm sick and that tricky hormones suck, haha. Better luck in 2014?
A few things: I don't think our bd timing has been great since ttc. We're getting about one good bd per fertile period. This was also my first month of ewcm, so it could indicate that in previous months I may have suffered from a hostile vagina, lol. My bbs just look weird the past few cycles, and I have no idea why. They'll look totally normal then look all nipply for a few days. They're probably plotting against me, haha.
I'm going to take a nap and then make NYE plans. This will hopefully be our last one as a family of two. I hope the IC brings SOMEONE out there bfp luck!
If anyone has any advice on whether fmu might make a difference please let me know, but I feel like if I was plus one then the test would have shown it by now?
4mo ttc - 5mo off bcp - 12-13dpo
P.S. It's good to be back. ;)