SO FRUSTRATING!!!

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SO FRUSTRATING!!!

Postby krashintome55 » Wed Mar 09, 2011 3:14 pm

So I am starting what appears to be AF today, right on schedule. This is about our 11th cycle ttc. Here's what I am feeling very frustrated with:

1. The fact that I never started having any PMS or "pregnancy" symptoms until we started ttc! Now, every month I have something different that I am sure means this will be our month! I HATE HOW MY MIND TRICKS ME!!!

2. When people say it will happen when its the right time. I know this, I understand this, and I know its true... but I can't help but to get angry when I think about all of the young girls who get pregnant by mistake! Or who get pregnant on birth control! Why is the "right time" for them, but not for me? Especially when they don't want a baby, or can't take care of one! AGH!

3. When people ask when we're going to have a baby. If it was up to us, we'd have one by now- SO QUIT ASKING and making us feel awful because it hasn't happened yet!

Okay I am done haha. Sorry for complaining, but sometimes it gets SO hard... life is not fair! I have faith that it will happen for us, I just wish it would already!

Thanks for allowing me to complain and get some stress out! Here's to hoping we all get our BFPs on our next cycle!
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Postby maddy » Wed Mar 09, 2011 3:16 pm

Rant away! We all have felt the way you are feeling from time to time!
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Postby krashintome55 » Wed Mar 09, 2011 3:22 pm

Thank you! :) Sometimes you really just need to let it all out, I am new to this site and I am so thankful to have found it! I have found a lot of useful information! It's also nice to have a way to communicate with others who feel the same way I do!
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Postby MrsJShelden » Wed Mar 09, 2011 4:23 pm

I agree with all of those, but ESPECIALLY #3!!!!
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Postby acarlson » Thu Mar 10, 2011 8:10 pm

Preach it sista!! I definitely hear ya! AF is on her way, and I am SOOOOO annoyed by everything right now. I HATE going to WalMart and seeing all the young girls with 10 kids, another one all the way talking about all their "baby daddies"..... ok, rant done, I feel better :D
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Re: SO FRUSTRATING!!!

Postby bilson » Sat Mar 19, 2011 9:40 am

krashintome55 wrote:So I am starting what appears to be AF today, right on schedule. This is about our 11th cycle ttc. Here's what I am feeling very frustrated with:

1. The fact that I never started having any PMS or "pregnancy" symptoms until we started ttc! Now, every month I have something different that I am sure means this will be our month! I HATE HOW MY MIND TRICKS ME!!!

2. When people say it will happen when its the right time. I know this, I understand this, and I know its true... but I can't help but to get angry when I think about all of the young girls who get pregnant by mistake! Or who get pregnant on birth control! Why is the "right time" for them, but not for me? Especially when they don't want a baby, or can't take care of one! AGH!

3. When people ask when we're going to have a baby. If it was up to us, we'd have one by now- SO QUIT ASKING and making us feel awful because it hasn't happened yet!

Okay I am done haha. Sorry for complaining, but sometimes it gets SO hard... life is not fair! I have faith that it will happen for us, I just wish it would already!

Thanks for allowing me to complain and get some stress out! Here's to hoping we all get our BFPs on our next cycle!


I totally agree with you..especially number 1...this is SOOOOOO annoying. I never EVER EVER have had cramping until this month...WTH??? Of course it ends in a BFN and AF around the corner....so frustrated
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