+HPT at 12 dpo--worried

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+HPT at 12 dpo--worried

Postby cbusluv » Tue Jul 04, 2017 11:56 am

Just needing to confide here...
I am incredibly lucky to have a beautiful 10.5 month old son. With that pregnancy (and a pregnancy that ended in miscarriage before that) I had a faint but positve bfp with wondfos at 9dpo.
I thought I was out this month when I got bfn with a FRER at 12dpo in the am. However, the evening of 12dpo I took a wondfo test and got a faint bpf. Also got a decent looking bfp with a FRER this morning.
That being said, I think I am already seeing some pink in my cervical mucus. I am pretty sure this will end as a chemical pregnancy since I got a bfp much later than my first 2 pregnancies.
Just feeling a little bummed...
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Re: +HPT at 12 dpo--worried

Postby mrsmorris » Wed Jul 05, 2017 9:11 am

Ugh- I had one last month. So sorry to hear that =[ I hope that it doesn't turn out that way for you! How are you feeling today?
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Re: +HPT at 12 dpo--worried

Postby cbusluv » Wed Jul 05, 2017 10:26 am

No more pink today. I took a clear blue + today and had a faint positive again. Since I have been using different brands it's hard to say if it's getting darker or not. AF is 2 days late, so I was really hoping to see a stronger positive today :(
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Re: +HPT at 12 dpo--worried

Postby GKR_1985 » Wed Jul 05, 2017 2:00 pm

I had lots of spotting at the beginning of my pregnancy (both the one that I have now, and the the MC last year). It may be normal. Especially with pink cervical mucus is there anything you did (sex etc.) that could have scratched your cervix even a bit?

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Re: +HPT at 12 dpo--worried

Postby cbusluv » Wed Jul 05, 2017 2:24 pm

Thanks for the well wishes everyone! No sex before but none since so hopefully it's nothing. I will take another hot tomorrow and hopefully it'll be darker. My MC at 6 weeks started with light pink spotting so I am trying not to get my hopes up.
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Re: +HPT at 12 dpo--worried

Postby 860lindsey » Wed Jul 05, 2017 4:11 pm

Hi, just sending well wishes for darker lines tomorrow and to say that my lines were not nearly as dark with my second pregnancy as they were with my first. I was temping with both so I'm sure of the dpos and everything.
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Re: +HPT at 12 dpo--worried

Postby cbusluv » Thu Jul 06, 2017 10:07 am

Thanks :). 15 dpo now, no spotting. I took a FRER today and it was slightly darker than the one I took 13dpo but no where near as dark as the control line. It was after only a 1 hour hold though so idk if that makes a big difference.
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Re: +HPT at 12 dpo--worried

Postby GKR_1985 » Thu Jul 06, 2017 11:54 am

Darker is good! I was using wondfo, but I didn't beat the test line until 20dpo and everything was fine! Don't lose hope yet, we are all rooting for you :)
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Re: +HPT at 12 dpo--worried

Postby cbusluv » Fri Jul 07, 2017 10:15 am

Well--did another FRER today and it's just as light if not lighter than yesterday. No bleeding but at 16 dpo I just don't see this as being a viable pregnancy :(
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Re: +HPT at 12 dpo--worried

Postby 860lindsey » Sat Jul 08, 2017 8:40 am

Don't loss hope, I tested on a Monday with FRER and got a very light positive, Tuesday same color, Wednesday a lighter positive. Even called my husband at work and told him I didn't think the pregnancy was sticking. But it did! can you call dr for a blood draw to help ease your worry?
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Re: +HPT at 12 dpo--worried

Postby cbusluv » Sat Jul 08, 2017 10:05 am

Thanks for the positive thoughts :)
I am now 17 dpo and the test line is only slightly darker than 12 dpo. No bleeding whatsoever though. If I don't miscarry in the next week I will probably call my doctor to see if I can get an early scan or blood work. I am still having pregnancy symptoms like nausea and cramping though.
It sounds terrible but if I am going to miscarry I wish it would just happen already and get it over with :(.
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Re: +HPT at 12 dpo--worried

Postby GKR_1985 » Sat Jul 08, 2017 2:31 pm

Sending you positive vibes!!!!!
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Re: +HPT at 12 dpo--worried

Postby cbusluv » Mon Jul 10, 2017 5:42 am

Update-it was a chemical pregnancy. At 18 dpo I started bleeding. We will try again next month for a sticky bubs. Thanks for your support all!
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Re: +HPT at 12 dpo--worried

Postby danielleh22 » Mon Jul 10, 2017 9:26 am

I'm sorry about your loss, cbusluv. Same thing happened to me last cycle. I just wanted to let you know that my first faint positive was on 12 dpo with my son who is now 15 months so it doesn't always end in MC for later BFPs!

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