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3 years ttc :(

Postby goobermom » Mon Aug 22, 2011 8:01 pm

this month marks 3 years ttc. i truely think i am numb and lost and not sure what to do. i am stuffing my feelings, and waiting for them to explode. i am thankful for this site and all the info and support that it offers!!
me (34) husband (41)
son (14), spoiled cat
TTC since August '08
Clomid/IUI x3; Follistim/IUI x3
natural BFP- M/C :(
Low Vitamin D, High FSH
Letrozole, TI, progesterone, estrace- BFN (x4)
High FSH, RE recommending donor egg
End of our TTC journey???
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Postby alinat » Wed Aug 24, 2011 8:48 pm

Im sorry. It can be heartbreaking. I hope you get your BFP soon.
Me:41 (Alison) :love: DH:32 (no children of his own)
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DS 12

TTC since June 2009
TCM and acupuncture for 2 years
:angel: July 2010
:angel: September 2011
:angel: January 2012
:angel: August 2012 - 16w4d - Matthew - Complications due to Trisomy 21
DOR and poor egg quality due to age :(
IVF # 1 :bfn:
IVF#2 :bfn:
IVF#3 :bfn:
Two rounds of prescribed Clomid 50mg - both :bfn:
After 5 years we have finally conceded defeat and given up TTC.
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Postby socialite_baby » Thu Aug 25, 2011 8:36 am

:( I'm so sorry. We hit the 3 year mark in April and it's been incredibly hard... I thought the 2.5 year mark was rough, but it's just brought me deeper into depression, especially with even more failed fertility treatments. Numb and lost is the perfect way to describe it!

When those feelings explode if you need someone to talk to feel free to PM me! It seems like not many women get to this point so we need to stick together! :hugs:
Lindsay (Mild Endo, thin PCOS, Hypothyroid, implantation failure)
TTC #1 for 7.5 years...

April - November 2011 - 7 Rounds of 50 mg Clomid, 3 IUIs. All BFN.
February - March, June 2012 - 3 Rounds 5 mg Femara. BFN.
April 2012 - "Immune Protocol" Follistim IUI. BFN.
May 2012 - Diagnosed activated natural killer cells and told we'll NEVER conceive naturally... *treatment break*
October 2015 - IVF #1. OHSS. Freeze all. 9 blasts on ice.
November 2015 - FET #1. BFN.
January 2016 - Holy *NATURAL* BFP!!! WTF?! First ultrasound 2/1/2016. Praying for a healthy sticky baby. <3
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Postby unaffected » Thu Aug 25, 2011 9:12 am

I'm sorry :(

It never seems to get any easier, does it? :hugs:
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TTC#1 since 2007
:angel2: Jan 2012 - No hb at 9w1d - d&c (Turner Syndrome/Monosomy X)
FET#3 - BFP!
Betas: 8dp6dt/14dpo - 124; 10dp6dt/16dpo - 317; 16dp6dt/22dpo - 6,289; 23dp6dt/29dpo - 32,961
It's a boy!
Henry Marshall arrived on January 9, 2013 (39w2d)
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Postby KentuckyBritt » Fri Aug 26, 2011 8:47 am

It'll be three years for us in October. Every cycle's BFN is torture.
Brittany & Adam married Dec 2005
TTC since October 2008
June 2, 2010--miscarried @ 5w
Aug 30, 2010--miscarried @8w
Clomid Aug 2011
MTHFR-one marker positive
DH has infertility diagnosis
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Postby lisab » Sat Aug 27, 2011 6:09 am

I'm so sorry hun. I've been following your story for quite some time. I wish you the best :hugs:
Lisa~30 :love: Andy~30
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Our miracle arrived August 3, 2013 ~ 5lbs, 8oz & 18 in
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Postby Chrissy_K » Sun Aug 28, 2011 1:15 pm

I'll be three years next month. No, it never does get any easier. I just try to remind myself to be grateful for what I have. It's easy to despair and be depressed. I've gone back to school to give myself a new goal to work on. It's all I can do I guess.
-Me: 28 DH: 30. Started with NTNP in 2005, actively TTC since September 2008.
-3 rounds of Clomid in 2009= BFN
-DH SA 9/24/10. Normal count,low motility, morphology and volume.
-HSG: All clear!
No longer actively TTC.
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Postby profshopper » Tue Aug 30, 2011 2:03 pm

I really feel for you ladies. hope you get pregnant really soon. xxx
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Postby goobermom » Tue Aug 30, 2011 6:12 pm

((((HUGS))))
me (34) husband (41)
son (14), spoiled cat
TTC since August '08
Clomid/IUI x3; Follistim/IUI x3
natural BFP- M/C :(
Low Vitamin D, High FSH
Letrozole, TI, progesterone, estrace- BFN (x4)
High FSH, RE recommending donor egg
End of our TTC journey???
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