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Feel like giving up??

Postby Mswaitingpatiently » Mon Jul 10, 2017 4:06 pm

Hi ladies
I've lurked for some time however this is my first time posting.
I guess I just wanted to hear from all you lovely ladies opinions on where you are at right now in your quest for the BFP.
I've been casually trying for 5 years.i was told I had pcos diagnosed by ultrasound around 8 years ago. However blood test 3 month ago showed I did ovulate.i have regular periods however I just Feel like giving up..im currently sat on my 2nd glass of wine and feel guilty for that :( .
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Re: Feel like giving up??

Postby Danaa » Tue Jul 11, 2017 1:23 am

Enjoy ur wine!Dont feel guilty,some use drugs and alcohol and they have perfect babies.
Have u and ur partner had any tests done?
5 years is a long time even if is casually.
Maybe some clomid or femara can help with ovulation if you are comfortable using medical help to conceive of course.
good luck!!
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Re: Feel like giving up??

Postby mimimama » Mon Jul 17, 2017 4:15 am

Stay positive and don't give up. Myself I know a few ladies who have undergone 6-8 IVF-s, and finally got pregnant. And I have read than many ladies even travel abroad to Poland, Czech Rep, Greece or Spain to undergo fertility treatments. I recommend seeing a fertility specialist to discuss yr issues. Good luck
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Re: Feel like giving up??

Postby Kate888 » Tue Aug 15, 2017 12:40 am

My good friend told me recently about successful treatment of her sister, who was searching for a fertility specialist. She found Indigo clinic in India, doctor there was careful, understanding and qualified, and provided really successful treatment) I don't know more examples, but when I wanted to conceive and really needed help, I used web-site, called ovu fertility network, where lots of fertility clinics, centres, specialists, may be you also can find there the best clinic for yourself in any country... For me it was usefull, because I have written one enquiry, and several clinics called me back, answered my questions, and I could choose and compare... And it was cool) because I wasn't spending time for searching, If you are ready to travel, I'm sure you could find there a really knowledgeable doctor
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Re: Feel like giving up??

Postby Kels. » Mon Aug 28, 2017 9:39 am

You may ovulating but it may be too weak of an ovulation? I had a friend who required Clomid, a steroid, metformin and a hormone shot around ovulation who had PCOS.
What a rollercoaster this process is! I'm looking into doing a cleanse, wondering if anyone has done one.
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Re: Feel like giving up??

Postby leila123 » Tue Oct 17, 2017 1:00 am

enjoy dear and please dont feel guilty, ivf can be exhausting i myself waited waited for 5 years until i went to Cyprus and now i have a beautiful one year old and next year am going back to cyprus for another baby
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Re: Feel like giving up??

Postby LindaJons » Sat Nov 11, 2017 4:04 pm

Stop drinking wine and start doing something. I know how hard it is. I’m also infertile. But I found the way to become a mother. I had an awful situation. My husband broke up with me when he found out about my infertility. I was completely destroyed. But I met a guy, which saved my life. He found the solution to my infertility. Our twin boys were born 6 months ago. We found the surrogate to help us. Actually, my husband found the reproduction center. Doctors helped us with surrogacy. I have no words to explain how scared I was. I wanted to become a mom and I was ready to give up at the same time. At BioTexCom medical center I met a lot of infertile couples. We are still communicating with some of them. They all became parents with the help of surrogacy. They all supported me so much. I saw their happy faces and I also wanted to enjoy my life. And I did it. I tried to calm down and we started the process. After all the examinations our doctor found the surrogate for us. In 3 weeks the embryo was transferred. And it was the hardest part of the process. We had to wait for the result. Luckily, in 3 weeks we found out that our surrogate got pregnant. Our life has changed at that moment. We were about to become parents. Now I know that surrogacy really works. We have our boys and we are extremely happy. I wish you the same, dear.
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Re: Feel like giving up??

Postby Kelly99 » Sun Nov 12, 2017 5:33 am

Hi,there. Everything is not that bad until you ovulate and have periods. It means that you still have a chance to become a mother. Have you consulted the fertility specialist? What is the verdict? It is important to figure out if you are able to conceive. Unfortunately, sometimes doctors make mistakes. My doctor kept saying that I was fine. As a result I spent 10 years ttc. I didn’t get pregnant but I lost so much time. I’m so angry but I’m glad that we found the solution.
We were ready to adopt when my mother showed me the post about surrogacy. She was reading a lot of fertility forums at that moment. She helped us to understand that medicine can help us. I was surprised to hear that we can have our biological baby. But it was true. We have chosen the reproduction center and signed an agreement. It took a couple of months to find the surrogate. Actually, we didn’t have to do anything. Our doctor from medical center did everything for us. The embryo was transferred and in 3 weeks we received a call. They told us that our surrogate is pregnant. I was scared and happy at the same time. This is how we became parents. Our son was born in time and he was absolutely healthy. I think you should consider surrogacy as an option. After 5 years of ttc you should start doing something. I’m sure you will succeed.
Talk to your husband. He should definitely support this idea. Good luck.
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