Struggling

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Re: Struggling

Postby Andi0623 » Sun Sep 10, 2017 9:37 am

I had a Google what a laparoscopy is. What are they looking for? Have they given you any reasons as to why you haven't conceived yet?

I think that hardest part for me is seeing others who don't want a child conceive by accident, such as teenagers. I taught high school for a time and had many students either pregnant or who already had a kid. They made it seem so easy to become pregnant. I never expected it to be this difficult.
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Re: Struggling

Postby LillianJ » Tue Dec 19, 2017 5:10 pm

I've also had long ttc and we are still trying. I've been through 6 failed IVFs. That was a nightmare for me. Each time I was hoping that "this time will be successful for sure" but nothing. Our next step is using donor eggs. I have so many thoughts on my mind. There are so many questions and doubts... But my one and only dream is to give birth to a healthy child. That's the only thing which is important for me. I hope you will find the best option for you and become a happy mother soon! Good luck!
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Re: Struggling

Postby mimimama » Tue Jan 02, 2018 6:04 am

LillianJ - I have seen yr post. Good luck to you and wish all yr dreams come true. xx
Me 31, DH 40. TTC 5 years. Unexplained infertility.
December 2015- IVF #1 BFN
May/June 2016- new doctor, IVF consultation in Gdansk Poland
October 2016- IVF #2 Invicta BFP!!!
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Re: Struggling

Postby Jeankear » Wed Jan 24, 2018 1:39 am

You are not alone I faced the same issue two year ago. I am trying my level best to get it, but don't give up hope i know a few couples it's taken around a year a conceive for them. I am so sorry you are feeling this way right now. Infertility is incredibly heartbreaking It's basically torture you have to go through.
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Re: Struggling

Postby rebecca11 » Tue Jul 10, 2018 8:20 am

Hey Andi, first of all, be strong. You have to be strong in both ways to deal with it. Yes, you can get a referral to a fertility endocrinologist now that it's been past 12 months. Hopefully, they will find a small thing wrong with your hormones or tubes that they can easily fix! It is very important to keep trying. Modern medicine is developing rapidly. Doctors are doing everything possible to make women give birth. So, why not to ask for help? Go take your tests and find out the reason for your problems. It will help you to find the solution.
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Re: Struggling

Postby Andi0623 » Thu Jul 12, 2018 8:46 am

Hi all! Thank you so much for your responses!

I wanted to share that I met with my doctor and started on letrozole back in October 2017. Even though we didn’t “try” that particular month, the medication did it’s job! I am 36 weeks pregnant with a baby girl, Reagan, who is due August 5.

Thank you for all of your support. It means so much to me and helped encourage me to make that appointment!
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Re: Struggling

Postby aliza_bay » Tue Jul 17, 2018 2:04 am

Hello! Feeling bad to hear about your infertility problem. I could not stop my self without posting on this post. It just makes me so sad about you. I have sympathy for you. Do not lose hope. This is not the end of life. you should seek for the solution of infertility. I also want to share something. I got married two years ago. Unfortunately, I faced three miscarriages. I lost all of my hope. I tried to search on the internet for clinics. I got to know about the clinic named audonis. I considered it my last hope. I went there for my infertility treatment but it disappointed me. It did not treat me well. They just want to make money nothing else is their motive. Their surrogate is so rude. They charge so much. I want to aware you about this clinic. you must seek out for any other clinic for your treatment. You will surely be successful. Good luck
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Re: Struggling

Postby rozianaa » Thu Jul 19, 2018 12:35 am

hi, hope so you are doing great. I really appreciate your post. It would be helpful to many people out here. Thank you for sharing this. So proud of you. Not losing hope is a big thing indeed. You are such an amazing woman. I can feel your pain. But not losing hope is bigger than that. Nothing is impossible. I am infertile. Now thought of choosing surrogacy. But I am really sad they even not replying. I am really stressed out. Lotus, It has got the worst communication service ever. Beware of these clinics guys. But I am not losing hope. We just have to handle the situation calmly. Better things are coming. Pray for me, dear. All the best for the future ahead. May God bless you ❤️
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Re: Struggling

Postby bella28 » Thu Jul 19, 2018 1:25 am

Hi there. Hope you are doing well. This is an amazing post. It's hope for a lot of people. One of my friends is suffering from infertility. She tried contacting lotus. They were so rude. It's very sad. I hope everything will get settled for her soon. She is very worried. She became hopeless. I want you all not to go for these scams. They are just waste of time and money. Wish luck to everyone. God bless you.
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