Struggling

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Re: Struggling

Postby beckybenson » Tue Aug 14, 2018 5:06 am

Hey. I hope you are well. It looks like you have been struggling a lot. I totally feel you. I have been where you are. it is never cool. You should get some fertility tests done. You need to accept your reality if you want to do something about it. I really wish and hope things work out for you. There's an event happening somewhere in Europe soon by this clinic where I'm thinking to apply for my fertility treatments. I'm planning to go. I thought t might be helpful. You should come too. The dates and the venue aren't confirmed yet. I'll let you know. Good luck.
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Re: Struggling

Postby aliza_bay » Sat Aug 25, 2018 7:18 am

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I hope you are fine. I felt really bad to hear your infertility story. Infertility is a curse. You must be in the horrible situation. I know infertility is easy to deal with. I can understand your pain. I have been TTC for two years. I faced three miscarriages after my marriage. I became infertile. I tried IVF and surrogacy but all in vain. I had no other option left but surrogacy. I decided to go for surrogacy. I and my husband moved to Europe. I am from Japan and surrogacy is banned there. I am taking surrogacy at a good clinic in Europe. My treatment is going really good. Soon I will hold my baby in my hand. I am eager to enjoy that moment. I would suggest you take surrogacy. I will help you also. I wish you all the luck."
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Re: Struggling

Postby dakota-ken » Sat Aug 25, 2018 10:03 am

Sometimes it is tiring to see the negative results but it is just the hope which keeps us going, I'm sure your husband loves you and he knows that you want children as bad as him so just give yourself more time TTC sometimes takes time but it gives results so be optimistic and hope for the best. Also reach out for the right clinic in Europe for further guidance in this process.
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Re: Struggling

Postby jess100 » Sun Aug 26, 2018 8:20 am

I hope you are fine now. Infertility is a curse. I hope that your husband and family is supporting you. I'm glad that you are struggling and fighting against infertility. If there is no struggle then there is no progress. No matter how much it hurts now, someday you will look back and realize your struggles changed your life for the better. I have a good news for you. Surrogacy team of Biotexcom is arranging a seminar in coming days. It will be really helpful for you. It is the best fertility clinic I know. I have heard many success stories of this clinic. It had helped many infertile people. You must attend this seminar so that your every confusion gets clear. Date and venue have not yet been decided. Join their page for the updates. Loads of prayers and love to you.
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Re: Struggling

Postby rooha » Sun Aug 26, 2018 10:34 am

Those people who are infertile are suffering a lot. It is a curse for those people. These treatments like surrogacy and IVF are helping infertile people a lot. A clinic in Europe is dealing with it in the best way. They are doing a great job in this field. Wish them best of luck for that. Take care
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Re: Struggling

Postby Alice6 » Mon Aug 27, 2018 10:13 am

Hey dear, I hope you are in your good health. Thanks for sharing your TTC journey. It really inspired me. You are so strong. I can understand it better as I am an anorexic woman. I don't feel eating up to my appetite. But I realized that I am getting weaker. My bones are coming out. I couldn't conceive in this situation. I have to find an alternative. Will surrogacy be fine? My sister had gone through surrogacy. Her clinic in Europe will be best for this. I had witnessed all the best things there myself. Well, the doctors know me too. They are so friendly and professional. I am thinking to move to Europe for having surrogacy.
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Re: Struggling

Postby Olivia07 » Mon Aug 27, 2018 10:40 am

Hey dear, I hope you are fine. TTC journey is so tough. You don't know when will you get the expected results. But science has introduced a lot of alternatives. I had a miscarriage in a road accident. I lost my unborn child. Losing the baby was experiencing a ground shaking moment. But the worst thing happened when doctors told me that I won't conceive again. I cried every night for more than 2 months. But then I made myself standout for facing the world. I searched for the best clinic in Europe. And got to know one. The clinic has countless success stories. I watched videos on youtube. And then decided to contact them. A reply came within two days. I was so happy about this. I talked about my health and they called me at their clinic for surrogacy. Soon I will be starting it.
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Re: Struggling

Postby jolly188 » Tue Aug 28, 2018 11:57 am

Hi dear. I am so sorry for all those hard times you have gone through. It is really a hard time. Infertility is one of the worst experience one can ever face. It breaks you up totally and makes you sad and feel depressed. You have to be strong through all this. One day all thee hardships will pay you off in a very much fruitful way. All my best wishes and compliments are with you my dear. Stay blessed and best of luck.
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Re: Struggling

Postby Rebecca Jackson » Tue Aug 28, 2018 3:48 pm

jolly188 wrote:Hi dear. I feel so sad to know about your condition. These much failures make a person sad and broken. But I request you to not get sad and be strong enough. There is nothing much special than life. As you said you are healthy so you have to take care about your health. I have seen many couples going through failures trying hard but all in vain. But this is nothing to worry about. This is all luck and no one can do nothing about it. You can look for some other treatments too. There are many other methods which can help you out in this condition. Surrogacy is one the best treatment I have ever witnessed. It is indeed a blessing for couples like us who can't conceive. There are many clinics which offer surrogacy. You should search for them and go for the best clinic. A clinic matters a lot as it will guide you through all the process. Be aware as there are many scammers also. Lotus clinic is one of them. They only want is money. They give no importance to someone's life, time and money. So please be careful through all this. One of my friend just got scammed by them. So it is my duty to inform you about that.
Best of luck for you. May you be blessed with good and healthy life.


You are so right. I agree with what you are saying. In fact, we are in the same boat. I have been facing such problems for a long time. I have been trying to conceive since I got married. But every time I have to meet with disappointment. I don't know what's the problem. But I am really depressed now. To get rid of all this, I decided to go for the check-up. Before going, I thought of contacting the clinic first. So I contacted Lotus clinic. After sending a lot of emails, I am still waiting for them to respond. This is very pathetic. I can't tolerate this all anymore. I am really fed up now. Tell me guys what should I do now?
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Re: Struggling

Postby jolly188 » Wed Aug 29, 2018 7:22 am

Rebecca Jackson wrote:
jolly188 wrote:Hi dear. I feel so sad to know about your condition. These much failures make a person sad and broken. But I request you to not get sad and be strong enough. There is nothing much special than life. As you said you are healthy so you have to take care about your health. I have seen many couples going through failures trying hard but all in vain. But this is nothing to worry about. This is all luck and no one can do nothing about it. You can look for some other treatments too. There are many other methods which can help you out in this condition. Surrogacy is one the best treatment I have ever witnessed. It is indeed a blessing for couples like us who can't conceive. There are many clinics which offer surrogacy. You should search for them and go for the best clinic. A clinic matters a lot as it will guide you through all the process. Be aware as there are many scammers also. Lotus clinic is one of them. They only want is money. They give no importance to someone's life, time and money. So please be careful through all this. One of my friend just got scammed by them. So it is my duty to inform you about that.
Best of luck for you. May you be blessed with good and healthy life.


You are so right. I agree with what you are saying. In fact, we are in the same boat. I have been facing such problems for a long time. I have been trying to conceive since I got married. But every time I have to meet with disappointment. I don't know what's the problem. But I am really depressed now. To get rid of all this, I decided to go for the check-up. Before going, I thought of contacting the clinic first. So I contacted Lotus clinic. After sending a lot of emails, I am still waiting for them to respond. This is very pathetic. I can't tolerate this all anymore. I am really fed up now. Tell me guys what should I do now?

Hi dear. Hope you will be fine an doing good in your life. My dear you alone are not in this boat. Many other such innocent have faced this harsh attitude of this clinic. They have nothing to do with the emotions of people. In fact they can do nothing good to any one. They are only looting and scamming people. Many people have wasted a lot of their time and money due to them. So please stay away and safe from such scammers. All my prayers are with all of you. Best wishes for all of you.
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Re: Struggling

Postby PatriciaHines » Wed Aug 29, 2018 7:34 am

Hey there. I hope you are doing well. I can feel you. I have been through all this too. TTC is, no doubt, a tough journey. It requires lots of courage and strength. You just need to stay hopeful and strong. Darling, this is life. It chanlleges you in different ways. I still remeber how broken and sad we were when the Lotus clinic refused to help us. We had many hope on them. It was like we are all alone and we will never seek any help from anyone. But that was not true. Now we are a happy family. I wish you all the best. I hope everything will be fine soon. Never give up.
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Re: Struggling

Postby serraid » Wed Aug 29, 2018 8:52 am

Hi, I know how to hurt it is. I know that infertility is becoming so common nowadays. I think you should go for treatment. It will help you to know what is happening and what is matter. I hope that it would help you out. My best wishes are with you. I hope you will be a mother soon. Find the best fertility clinic so you will find the best for yourself.
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Re: Struggling

Postby landa02 » Wed Aug 29, 2018 9:23 am

Hi, I am so sorry for you. I hope you are doing fine. Well, I think that infertility takes a lot out of a woman. Many people are facing it commonly. Well, its time to visit a doctor. Sometimes one faces unexplained infertility. Infertility takes a lot out of a woman. So it is best to go for treatment if you are facing such complications. My best wishes are with you.
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Re: Struggling

Postby jeenah » Wed Aug 29, 2018 9:47 am

Same as many of you, my sister is facing infertility. She has a 6 years old baby boy and couldn't conceive afterwards. Now she is going to visit Europe for treatment. My brother in law has visited Ukraine for consultation as well. Please pray for them. They both are under deep stress. After reading all of your comments, I have become even more conscious and careful about her. But, thanks to the God that she has one baby at least. Most of the people are against surrogacy and advice for IVF treatment first. The reason behind these facts is the fewer risks affiliated with the later option. Well, I am not a professional doctor :D . Thank you all for sharing your kind views. Please stay spreading the knowledge.
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Re: Struggling

Postby Alice6 » Wed Aug 29, 2018 10:38 am

Hey there, I am with you. Don't feel yourself alone. Surround yourself with your loved ones. You will feel much better. I am also fighting anorexia. My heartbeat often gets too high and often too low. My bones are coming out of my skin. I am thinking of my surrogacy at my sister's clinic. She had done her surrogacy there. She had a wonderful experience. I have also witnessed all the facilities there. The needles are sterilized. And they take good care of cleanliness. I am much hopeful now. I will be starting it soon.
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