Today is a Very Bad Day

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Today is a Very Bad Day

Postby bumblebee88 » Wed Oct 11, 2017 10:14 am

Today is a very bad day [CD 1].

My OB rescheduled my apt that was supposed to be today (that I waited 2 months for) for the end of the month, and I have learned that i have to reschedule it again. DH and I are no closer to getting answers and no closer to our baby.

Today, I am holding back an ocean of tears at the office. Waves of pregnancy announcements keep pounding in to me, and I feel like I'm drowning in infertility.

What do you all do for the very bad days?
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Re: Today is a Very Bad Day

Postby Danaa » Wed Oct 11, 2017 11:25 am

Im really sorry to be reading this:(
In those bad days I had wine and junk food and just enjoy myself.
Good luck to you and I hope you get ur bfp really soon.
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Re: Today is a Very Bad Day

Postby geeky_gab » Wed Oct 11, 2017 5:15 pm

I'm so sorry to read this bumblebee...
Infertility is unfair and so hard on all of us.
As a follow-up to Danaa's suggestion, which I totally agree with :) I really like eating ice cream (the ones with cookie dough or peanut butter...) and just allowing myself to do nothing (which I usually feel guilty for). You deserve to take care of yourself.
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Re: Today is a Very Bad Day

Postby landa02 » Mon Aug 06, 2018 8:44 am

I hope you are fine. I am sorry. Infertility is painful. my friend was betrayed by a clinic. Its name was Lotus. They were o unprofessional. They wasted her alot of time. she wanted to be a mother badly. But she was infertile. She decided to go for surrogacy from somewhere else. She has a baby now. She is happy to choose it. It is our duty to choose the right place. It is not always hard to find the best place. We have renown places. We should choose it with honesty and wisely.
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Re: Today is a Very Bad Day

Postby sidneywhite » Tue Aug 07, 2018 9:25 am

Hi dear, how are you doing? Sorry to hear about your condition. Infertility is really painful. It is hard to handle it. I can understate your pain. Please don't lose hope. Surrogacy is a good option for people like us. Surrogacy is a miracle. There are many clinic from where you can get infertility treatment. But please don't contact L***s clinic. I had a very bad experience with them. I am an infertile. A friend of mine contacted L***s clinic to us. When we contacted them to get info regarding infertility treatments they replied rudely. They also refused to cooperate. Their communication service is pathetic. Please ask for reviews before contacting any clinic. Hope your problem will be solved soon.
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Re: Today is a Very Bad Day

Postby rosiek1 » Fri Aug 10, 2018 3:10 am

Oh I understand! Stay strong! Ignore it! I've heard of similar cases before. i got my treatment from lotus. it is already blacklisted. So, just ignore it! Yes! Try other centers. I'm also undergoing surrogacy later this month at a very good clinic unlike adonis. Yes! That's my choice. Actually, they really did the successful process for my cousin sister last year. Yes! She is a mother of a daughter. After having their surrogacy programme. Yes! That's why
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Re: Today is a Very Bad Day

Postby leenadeena » Fri Aug 10, 2018 7:35 am

Hey girl. I hope you are fine. Don't be sad. I hope that you will be a mother soon. Infertility is never easy. I was also infertile. I went for surrogacy too. I wanted to be a mother. I was blessed with a baby boy. Well, It was the best place. Now they are coming to an event. It is in London. I am so happy that they are coming to help the people. They will bring the consultants too. I hope for the best. I have no more worries.
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Re: Today is a Very Bad Day

Postby landa02 » Fri Aug 10, 2018 8:01 am

Hi. I hope you are fine. don't be sad. It is for short time. I believe that you will be a mother. Well, infertility is never easy to face. My friend was an infertile woman. She wanted to be a mother badly. But it was not in her fate. In the end, she decided to go for surrogacy. Now they are coming. They will be registering through Email. I am so excited to meet them. They are amazing. I am hoping for the best. They are amazing.
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Re: Today is a Very Bad Day

Postby satasha jones » Fri Aug 10, 2018 8:57 am

hey dear. I know it must be hard for you. I have been struggling too. it's all cause of my accident. I even know this will happen o me. so sad I am. but I guess w should be strong. there are many reviews too. try to cope up. ill pray for you. here t support you. there is a really good clinic in Ukraine. its Bio** they are having live session season. you can visit them for expert consultation. I will go too. don't miss this.its a great chance. take care. bye.
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Re: Today is a Very Bad Day

Postby alins » Fri Aug 10, 2018 9:39 am

Hello. There is an event coming. It is of a clinic. it is a fertility clinic. They are coming to help us. I hope this would help you. Infertility is hard to overcome. I have faced infertility duet o PCOS. I wanted to be a mother. I decided to go for surrogacy. I went for it. Now they are coming. They are going to help us. They are amazing. I hope you will visit them.
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Re: Today is a Very Bad Day

Postby rozianaa » Sat Aug 18, 2018 2:43 am

How are you hope so you are doing great. So sorry to know about your health. I appreciate if you chose to focus on treatment. I think surrogacy is a good process. Instead of being negative you develop hope. The method of surrogacy guarantees success. This is the reason my sister chose it. Europe has best clinics indeed !She was very upset when doctors broke the news that she couldn’t conceive naturally. I think you should choose this treatment. My best wishes are with you. Hope so you are blessed with a beautiful angel. Just stay positive. Don't lose hope. And all will be fine. My best wishes and prayers are with you. Lots of love.
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Re: Today is a Very Bad Day

Postby emmajoe303 » Sat Aug 18, 2018 4:24 am

I wish nobody has ever had to go through infertility. People going through these phases in life lose their hope, all they need is some kind of professional help and they would be fine. I understand that every woman wants to become a mother someday. There is a clinic in Europe. I came to know about them via the internet. They have a good enough. Plus I have read many success stories by them, you can also look for them.
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Re: Today is a Very Bad Day

Postby annawilliam » Sat Aug 25, 2018 4:29 am

Bad days are part of life. Without bad days, we can never value the good days. And there is nothing wrong to feel bad and feel like crying. On my bad days, i corner myself, i involve myself into something else. I either watch some season, or read a book. I actually find the best possible escape. And it really does help. I feel so abnormal. I often cry like a baby for hours. But its okay to be like this. Try to have faith and patience. Things will work out soon. I am praying for you.
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Re: Today is a Very Bad Day

Postby beeny9890 » Sat Aug 25, 2018 9:49 am

I am sorry for your situation. I know the pain of infertility. I am also infertile. I can feel what you are going through now. I think you must change your clinic. It would be more feasible for you. This clinic might be playing mind games with you. You have to wait for a long time. Now don't get trapped again. I know a clinic in Eastern Europe. They have best results for infertility so far. You must opt for this clinic. I had my surrogacy from there. I am a mother of a surrogate child now. You should also choose this clinic. It will make your life easier. Good luck.
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Re: Today is a Very Bad Day

Postby martinajohn785 » Sat Aug 25, 2018 1:49 pm

I really felt sad to know about your infertility. Nowadays infertility is victimizing many couples. But never lose hope. you are not alone in that race. I hope you will get rid of it. But in case if it is in severe form then there are alternate ways like surrogacy or IVF that are helping infertile couples in this regard. It allowed many couples to have their own babies who were unable to conceive. I think you should consult some specialist about such methods. There are certain well-reputed clinics in Europe that are providing such facilities. I hope at the last resort such methods would be helpful for you.
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