Secondary infertility frustrations

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Re: Secondary infertility frustrations

Postby rozianaa » Thu Jun 21, 2018 7:51 am

hi, sweetheart, I know its a difficult situation to handle. but be calm all will be fine .have u went for checkup .dont be upset u should be thankful u have a son .think about those even don't have a child. u should feel blessed. u have a blessing in your home .stop worrying ur husband must be proud of u don't think negative all will be fine stay happy and go for a checkup. there are best clinics in Europe.u should try to go for checkup out there.
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Re: Secondary infertility frustrations

Postby hannahdavid » Sat Jun 23, 2018 2:32 am

Hey, I can understand how you might be feeling. Secondary infertility can be extremely frustrating. However, you just have to stay strong. I am in the same boat as yours except that I have been on the infertility journey since the start. Life can be extremely difficult. I have been through so many failures myself. When I was diagnosed with low amh and poor ovarian reserve I didn't think it would be that serious. However, when all the treatments failed for me I realised that things might not be the way I thought they would be. I also have these thoughts that my entire body has failed to work. However, everyone just keeps telling me that I shouldn't stop trying. I think you should give IUI a try. People who are suffering from secondary infertility it works pretty well for them. Just make sure that the doctor you visit has a high success rate. A good doctor can bring a huge change for you. Best of luck, sending baby dust your way.
-Low AMH and High FSH
-Poor Ovarian Reserve
-5 IUIs (failed)
-1 IVF (failed)
Life is a total mess
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Re: Secondary infertility frustrations

Postby EvangelinaBush » Sun Jul 22, 2018 12:10 pm

I am so sorry to learn about your condition. Infertility is agonizing. Being one myself I can feel your agony. You are enduring excessively. Dear, don't pressure yourself. You have to quiet yourself down. Keep your expectations high. As a matter of first importance, counsel a decent specialist. There are odds of your pregnancy. Try not to lose trust. Your child is likewise petitioning God for you. Disappointment is ordinary at this age. In the event that and just on the off chance that you can't have an infant, there are different alternatives. Alternatives like IVF and surrogacy. Both to be sure work like a supernatural occurrence. I would recommend you to visit London on 17,18 August. You will get to meet biotexcom people. They will answer live questions. It will be awesome.
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Re: Secondary infertility frustrations

Postby LucyBrown » Mon Aug 06, 2018 7:36 am

Hello everyone. It feels so relatable when people talk about infertility. It can be so hard and emotional. I will share my story too. I was 17 when I first miscarried. I didn’t even know I was pregnant. After that the next two times it was really upsetting when it happened. It made me really emotional and depressed. I went to a clinic named Adonis for the IVF procedure. That wasn’t successful either. It was all just really unfortunate. I wasn’t lucky I guess. Now I have opted for surrogacy. Please pray for me that things work out for me. I am so excited to begin the journey. Wish me luck!
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Re: Secondary infertility frustrations

Postby barbara5 » Thu Aug 09, 2018 8:01 am

Hey. I know how hard infertility is. I know because I have been through this phase in my life. And is one of the hardest. All if this feels so relatable. Reminds me of my time. But I went through this. And got out as well. At the end of the day, we all survive. You will too. Just stay strong. And have courage. Don't give up. Also if you need any professional help, look out for biotexcom. They are the best in this regard. They are also having this open session in London soon. I am sure it is going to be worth an experience. Prayers for you girl. Cheer up.
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Re: Secondary infertility frustrations

Postby jess100 » Wed Aug 29, 2018 10:47 am

Dear, relax! You seem really stressed and frustrated. First of all, you need to calm down. Everything happens for a reason. If you are not being able to conceive then it is not your fault. Be grateful that you have a son. There are many people who are still wishing for just one child. Don’t lose hope. Every day comes with new choices. There are many infertility treatments. It depends upon your abnormality that which infertility treatment suits you. If you cannot carry a baby then surrogacy is the best option. My sister was also considered infertile just after one year of her marriage. She didn’t lose hope. She contacted the best clinic in Europe. She is having her surrogacy now. She is really satisfied with her treatment. You should visit this clinic once. I hope you will not regret your decision. Baby dust to you.
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Re: Secondary infertility frustrations

Postby Penka » Fri Sep 28, 2018 11:04 am

I feel sorry for you friend. I had many attempts of IVF but there was no success for me in there. than i tried IUI but i failed at IUI too.So a friend of mine suggested me surrogacy. She read about it from some forum. She told me it is the best way for me to have a baby.
I searched about it and came to know about many clinics.Ukraine has many clinics regarding surrogacy.I heard the BioTexCom is very popular there.
Anyone has some experience about it than let me know.
Thanks in advance.
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Re: Secondary infertility frustrations

Postby mimimama » Tue Oct 09, 2018 5:23 am

Penka - I am sorry to know your story. Have you considered undergoing IVF PGS NGS or IVF DE?
Me 31, DH 40. TTC 5 years. Unexplained infertility.
December 2015- IVF #1 BFN
May/June 2016- new doctor, IVF consultation in Gdansk Poland
October 2016- IVF #2 Invicta BFP!!!
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