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I’m so upset...what can I do...

Postby hopingformiracle » Thu Apr 12, 2018 5:51 am

Hi, this is my first time posting. We’ve been ttc for 2 years with no luck. I am very upset in recent cycles when AF showed up. My husband was supportive and said it’s okay just try again next month. But I decided to see a fertility specialist for IUI/IUF and waited for 5 months for the appointment, which is 2 weeks later. But my husband just told me that he would not be able to make it due to work, and couldn’t take leaves (the doctor is 9-5 hours) until end of year. I’m so upset. It’s like crushing my tiny hope for this whole year. I don’t know what to do but cry...I already acted very strong and tried to think positive for two years, and recent months my two best friends were both pregnant, which made things even more difficult. I see them often and managed to put up warm smiles and help them search for pregnancy stuff. I’m crying inside. Sorry for my rumbling...I just need to vent. I did not talk to anyone about ttc as I am afraid that it would make the stress even higher. I think the cancellation of appointment just reached my threshold of breakdown. I feel no hope... please tell me what to do.
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Re: I’m so upset...what can I do...

Postby Danaa » Thu Apr 12, 2018 8:14 am

This rough!!Hugs!!You shouldn’t have to cancel and instead go alone and talk to your husband about what happened after the apoiment.Have u had any testing done in these two years ?
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After 3 years in which we tried everything we are doing IVF in Greece with Iakentro Athens.
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FET#1 ended in a very early loss,chemical pregnancy.
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FET#3 MMC at the 10 weeks ultrasound.
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Re: I’m so upset...what can I do...

Postby hopingformiracle » Sat Apr 14, 2018 4:14 am

Thanks Danaa...yes I’ve done HSG, AMH and other hormones tests, tube was clear and hormones normal. But I have adenomyosis (Dr said it was due to endometriosis)...maybe that’s why :( though different doctors assured me I could conceive naturally...
So I think the next logical step is IUI/IVF...
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Re: I’m so upset...what can I do...

Postby Danaa » Sat Apr 14, 2018 6:05 am

Yeah...hugs.It will be fine!!I had Ivf and if it weren’t for my cervix being shitty I would’ve have had two beautiful boys right now.z
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My Ovulation Chart
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Me 29
DH 31
After 3 years in which we tried everything we are doing IVF in Greece with Iakentro Athens.
Short Protocol with Bemfola and Cetrotide
19mature eggs and we have 9 day5 blasto.
FET#1 ended in a very early loss,chemical pregnancy.
FET#2 ended in a loss at 22w due to IC,my boys will be forever in my heart .
FET#3 MMC at the 10 weeks ultrasound.
FET#4 2018
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Re: I’m so upset...what can I do...

Postby Amy4678 » Thu Apr 19, 2018 9:42 am

Oh, dear, I'm really sorry. There are all sorts of medical issues. But infertility is the hardest to deal with. I pray you conceive soon. If nothing seems to be working, try going for assisted conception. I know it isn't the most preferred method. But it's better to have a baby rather than being childless.
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Re: I’m so upset...what can I do...

Postby miranda1909 » Wed May 23, 2018 4:38 pm

hey there! I hope you are doing great. TTC is one of the hardest times a woman has to go through. I think you should not lose hope. you should stay strong. there are so many other options like surrogacy and IVF you can choose to have babies with. so relax, everything will be okay. there are other choices for you.
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Re: I’m so upset...what can I do...

Postby chynaspyce1980 » Wed May 30, 2018 6:22 pm

I'm so sorry you're going through this. What measures have you taken while TTC? Do you temp, check cm, etc? Also, what is your diet? Do you take supplements?
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Re: I’m so upset...what can I do...

Postby Ss.momtobe » Wed Jun 06, 2018 4:22 pm

I am also in same boat, We’ve been ttc for 2 years with no luck.

we got our appointment after waiting for 5 months, and tired with all the pregnancy announcement around us.
Finally started combo cycle(clomid and femara) and tried our 3 rd IUI. I already 3 days late but still no symptoms and not hoping for this month. AF symptoms already started. Dont know what to do.

Feels like nothing is there in the world that can make me happy and I am giving up .
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Re: I’m so upset...what can I do...

Postby Rebecca Jackson » Tue Aug 28, 2018 9:44 am

Hey girl. How are you doing? Look, it's not your fault. Humans are like that. We feel selfish sometimes. And we do despair at times. But look at it like this, maybe the universe is trying to teach you patience. It obviously isn't good news. You, on the other hand, want and can. But seeing somebody else get that gift makes you feel bad about your self. What you need to do is clear your heart. Try and let the negativity go. Because it's your life, you can control what you feel, you're not responsible for anyone else. For sure, you'll be a mother someday. Just don't give up.
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Re: I’m so upset...what can I do...

Postby hannahdavid » Sun Sep 30, 2018 10:05 am

Hey, don't lose hope. I know sometimes things are not working in the best of our ability but we need to keep trying. Honestly, speaking talk to your husband about how much this matters to you. I am sure he will understand. Other than that visit the doctor on your own and get yourself checked up. This way at least you will be able to figure out if there is something wrong with you. Stay strong and positive. Sending baby dust your way.
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