3 years 2 iui's and a bfn on 13 dpiui today....despair

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3 years 2 iui's and a bfn on 13 dpiui today....despair

Postby weeping angel » Wed May 31, 2017 9:03 am

hello everyone,

i have been lurking on this site and many others like it for the past few years and just in the past two weeks decided to create this account.
it seems that what we have going on is low motility/ low count with me ovulating regularly with open tubes, however these were the stats from my last iui:

3 follies, after clomid and trigger shot- no known issues for me
23.9 mil count with 56% motility for him

I felt great at the time of the procedure. i responded as i needed to and his count was good considering what we had been told in the past. i was positive, so was the rn.
i started testing out the trigger shot at 4 dpiui and got a bfn right away. fast metabolism?

i have had zero symptoms aside from sore boobs ONLY to the touch and intermittent mild cramping. my boobs have had a weird tightening feeling here and there but besides these, not much else going on. don't know what to think. have tried not thinking...we all know how that goes.

tested this morning- i haven't been sleeping well. the anticipation is killing me. tomorrow will be 14 dpiui and i will push for a blood test so as to have peace of mind this weekend. i'm not being fair to my husband. these past two weeks, this iui has consumed me.

any thoughts, opinions....anything is greatly appreciated.
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Re: 3 years 2 iui's and a bfn on 13 dpiui today....despair

Postby Danaa » Wed May 31, 2017 9:16 am

Im really sorry about your bfn,is heartbreaking,I know the feeling.
All i can say is keep trying and have faith it will work!!
I don't have experience with iui personally but In what I read online it can take a few tries to get pregnant.
Don't give up!!
Good luck!
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Me 29
DH 31
After 3 years in which we tried everything we are doing IVF in Greece with Iakentro Athens.
Short Protocol with Bemfola and Cetrotide
19mature eggs and we have 9 day5 blasto.
FET#1 ended in a loss around 5 weeks
FET#2 ended in a loss at 22w due to IC,my boys will be forever in my heart .
FET#3 ?
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Re: 3 years 2 iui's and a bfn on 13 dpiui today....despair

Postby weeping angel » Wed May 31, 2017 9:22 am

Danaa wrote:Im really sorry about your bfn,is heartbreaking,I know the feeling.
All i can say is keep trying and have faith it will work!!
I don't have experience with iui personally but In what I read online it can take a few tries to get pregnant.
Don't give up!!
Good luck!



thank you
i keep thinking that i implanted late and don't have enough hcg for the tests to pick up. but i feel like i'm building up for a greater let down. i don't know how it didn't work. everything seemed fine.... :roll:
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Re: 3 years 2 iui's and a bfn on 13 dpiui today....despair

Postby Danaa » Wed May 31, 2017 9:35 am

Well is not over yet,until you don't get ur period ur still in the game .
A normal healthy couple only has a 20% chance of conceiving each cycle so even if everything seems perfect it doesn't mean you will conceive 100% ,it sucks but that is the truth.
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Me 29
DH 31
After 3 years in which we tried everything we are doing IVF in Greece with Iakentro Athens.
Short Protocol with Bemfola and Cetrotide
19mature eggs and we have 9 day5 blasto.
FET#1 ended in a loss around 5 weeks
FET#2 ended in a loss at 22w due to IC,my boys will be forever in my heart .
FET#3 ?
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Re: 3 years 2 iui's and a bfn on 13 dpiui today....despair

Postby Nickysy » Sat Jun 03, 2017 12:20 am

Hi Angel: I am sorry you are going through all of this. It sucks, but it happens. But trust me on this, you are not alone. I have had 3 unsuccessful IUIs so far myself. I do hope you get your BFP soon! Hang in there. And talk, it really helps.
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Me(33), DH (31), Ttc#1 since Sep 2015
Mild endometriosis and PCOD diagnosed feb 2015, DH: Slightly low morphology, great counts.

Nov-Dec 2015- Clomid plus trigger- BFN
HSG-Feb 2016: Tubes perfectly clear
March 2016 IUI: Clomid+Estrogen+ HCG trigger+ Progesterone: BFN
Feb and March 2017- IUI ( Clomid + Hcg Trigger+ Progesterone)- BFN

IVF#1- May-June 2017: 6 embabies frozen on day 3. No fresh transfer.

FET#1- Oct 2017: 3 embabies * day 3 Transferred. Chemical pregnancy.
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Re: 3 years 2 iui's and a bfn on 13 dpiui today....despair

Postby BuffaloMaple » Thu Jun 08, 2017 4:58 pm

Hi angel, sorry about your BFN. I'm right here with you. Sometimes it helps to know you're not alone. I wish you the best! Stay strong and think positive! Easier said than done, I know. Good luck to you!
Me 36, DH 34
TTC #1 since Sept 2015
Me - all good except small uterine polyp removed
DH - low count < 10mil
IUI #1-5 BFN, IUI #6 cancelled
IVF #1 with ICSI/PGS, begin stims 9/24/2017
10/6 ER: 15 eggs, 11 mature, 10 fertilized via ICSI
10/12 Day 6 Report: All 10 survived/biopsied/frozen!!
10/16 PGS Results: 7 PGS normals!! 6 girls, 1 boy
Grading: 3 hatching AB Good, 1 hatching BB Good, 3 hatching BC Fair
~Planning FET Nov/Dec 2017~
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