Dec. 2010 DD loss & anyone else unwilling to give up-4

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Postby michelelm » Fri Apr 01, 2011 1:00 pm

Hi girls, thanks for thinking of me!

I'm 9 weeks today and the baby didn't grow at all and there is still no heartbeat, just something that looks like it could be remnants of a yolk sac. She called it a blighted ovum. I'll be inserting misoprostol in the morning to miscarry. She offered a D&C, but I don't want one.

I'm feeling pretty emotionless about it right now, I think because we knew it was coming. I'm just ready to be done with it and move on. We'll do another consult with my RE to decide how to proceed in the future.

Julie - that stinks about the weather at Disney...booo! I'm glad you checked in, I've been wondering about you!

Hawkeye - I'm so sorry about the bfn. Those blue dye tests looked so promising, I really had my hopes up for you. I hope you get this cycles plan all lined up.

Debbie - I hope all is going beautifully with your pregnancy!

Meg - How'd the move go? Are you all settled in yet?

ladyraider - welcome! I'm so sorry for all of your losses. Good luck TTC again. I always start right away too, it seems to be helpful emotionally for me.

Hi everyone else, hope all is well!
DD: My first miracle - born 12/22/2008 - after 8 years TTC (Clomid/HCG trigger/IUI)
DS: My rainbow baby - born 5/3/2012 (Clomid/HCG trigger)

:angel: early loss January 2010
(conceived naturally)
:angel: DS - Late Missed MC July 2010
17 weeks, Down Syndrome (conceived naturally)
:angel: Missed MC - October 2010
9weeks, girl Turner's Syndrome (conceived naturally)
:angel: Blighted Ovum - April 2011
9weeks (Clomid)

RPL Testing Dx PAI-1 4G/4G, levels are normal

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Postby djdebz » Fri Apr 01, 2011 1:11 pm

I am so sorry Michele. You are in my thoughts a lot. You are such a strong and positive person, you will pull through this and your rainbow baby will soon follow. Big hugs x
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:angel: 21w3d 11th August 2010 due to severe cardiac defect (pulmonary atresia with intact ventricular septum)

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Postby HawkeyeGirl16 » Fri Apr 01, 2011 1:28 pm

Michele: :hugs: I'm so sorry that you are having to go through this yet again. Hopefully, the RE will have some answers for you.

AFM, I heard back from the RE and will be starting with 100iu of Follistim. No combo cycle this time, only the Follistim followed by Ovidrel. I didn't respond to 100iu in the past, but we're going to start there since I ovulated on my own last month. I'm anxious to see what my first follie check shows next Thursday.
Me: 28 DH: 30
We're TTC a little brother or sister for Mason! (Shh FB friends)
My blog: http://ttcwithpcosrpl.blogspot.com
PCOS, adenomyosis, RPL, & IC
7/09-8/10: Multiple cycles of IF medications
4/26/10 :angel: 8w3d
7/26/10 :angel: 5w0d
RPL testing: elevated anticardiolipin IgM
1/7/11: Triplet angels 19w4d due to IC Cadyn :angel: Adalyn :angel: Mikayla :angel:
5/24/11: :angel: 4w3d
6/21/11: :bfp: #5 Shirodkar cerclage & 17p
:hb: Our miracle baby Mason arrived safely 2/22/12 :hb:
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Postby peppersta » Mon Apr 04, 2011 2:43 pm

Michele I am so sorry for your loss! I hope that your body heals well and you are able to get back on the ttc train again.

This is my first month really ttc conceive since the miscarriage, and my third cycle since mc. I am kind of frustrated since we used opk for the first time and either I didn't ovulate or I missed the surge with the kits because I didn't get a positive for ovulation and it's day 19 of a 26 day cycle. So we are just bd-ing every other night and hopefully it works. Hopefully that stupid AF stays away on April 11th and stays away for a long time!

Baby dust to everyone!
Off pill Aug. 1, 2010 BFP Nov. 14 2011 Ultrasound revealed miscarriage Jan. 13, 2011 D&C Jan.20, 2011, BFP April 14, 2011 Check out my blog: www.lifeandtimesofpsa.blogspot.com
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Postby ladybearne2 » Mon Apr 04, 2011 5:32 pm

Can I join ladies?

I had a blighted ovum that was discovered at 7 weeks. I started bleeding on the 22nd of March. We are jumping right back on the ttc wagon. I feel like I'm going to be Oing any day now.

Michelem- I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm praying that you get a BFP soon and have a sticky bean.

Pepper- I'm hoping that the witch doesn't show. GL

Hawkeye- I'm hoping you get your BFP this month.
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Postby HawkeyeGirl16 » Tue Apr 05, 2011 7:55 pm

:hi: ladies! Just checking in to see how things are going.

Michele: I hope things are going ok for you and the misoprostol worked so that you could avoid the D&C. :hugs: I still just can't believe that this has happened to you again.

Pepper: Hoping that you O'd and :af: stays away.

ladybearne: I'm sorry about your loss. I always felt better when I was able to start TTC right away again too. Good luck!

chandni: Haven't heard from you in a while. I hope things have been going ok.

AFM, I really miss you ladies! Our group has been really quiet over the past several weeks :( I just took my fifth shot of Follistim tonight and will be going in for a follie check on Thursday. I haven't really been feeling much yet, but I'm always a slow responder so I'm not really surprised. Although, I was kind of hoping that starting with Follistim right from the start and skipping the Femara might help me O earlier. Oh well, I guess we'll see what the u/s shows.[/b]
Me: 28 DH: 30
We're TTC a little brother or sister for Mason! (Shh FB friends)
My blog: http://ttcwithpcosrpl.blogspot.com
PCOS, adenomyosis, RPL, & IC
7/09-8/10: Multiple cycles of IF medications
4/26/10 :angel: 8w3d
7/26/10 :angel: 5w0d
RPL testing: elevated anticardiolipin IgM
1/7/11: Triplet angels 19w4d due to IC Cadyn :angel: Adalyn :angel: Mikayla :angel:
5/24/11: :angel: 4w3d
6/21/11: :bfp: #5 Shirodkar cerclage & 17p
:hb: Our miracle baby Mason arrived safely 2/22/12 :hb:
October 2013: BF?
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Postby ladybearne2 » Tue Apr 05, 2011 8:21 pm

Hawkeye- I'm hoping the follistim does the trick. GL at the drs on Thursday. KUP.
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Postby meggola » Tue Apr 05, 2011 8:22 pm

hi Hawkeye! I miss our group too.n Sorry - we've been really busy getting the new house ready, so I've been reading but not posting since I've been so busy and exhausted! We move a week from Saturday! This weekend we painted the living room, dining room and DH's office. This weekend is the kitchen, bathroom and trim. Whew!

To the ladies that have joined us recently: :welcome:

To everyone else: :hi: :hugs: :kiss:
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TTC #1 since Nov 2009 (2 1/2+ yrs)
IF due to a damaged right tube & MFI (low numbers + ASA)

BFP July 2010, m/c 6w1d (ectopic)

Aug 2011- Jan 2012: 6 medicated cycles (Clomid & Follistim) - 1 IUI, 4 cancelled cycles (Oing on my right side), 1 cycle timed BD, all BFN

IVF#1 Feb/March: chemical, no frosties
IVF#2 April/May: BFN, 3 frosties
FET #1 July 24 (transferred 2, 3rd didn't survive the thaw) BFP!
-Beta #1 (8dp6dt) 197
-Beta #2 (10dp6dt) 430
-1st u/s 5w5d - It's twins!
-ANT scan 11/15 19w - It's a boy and a girl!
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Postby HawkeyeGirl16 » Wed Apr 06, 2011 2:58 pm

meggola: Good to hear from you! That must be nice to be getting the new house put together the way you want it. DH and I are also doing some renovations and getting things the way we have wanted for the past 4 years. We're laying all new carpet throughout the house, put new tile in the front and back entryways, and are putting new tile around the fireplace. Also, we're finally getting the nursery finished that we had started back in December, but stopped working on after losing the triplets. I'm so excited!

ladybearne: Thanks!
Me: 28 DH: 30
We're TTC a little brother or sister for Mason! (Shh FB friends)
My blog: http://ttcwithpcosrpl.blogspot.com
PCOS, adenomyosis, RPL, & IC
7/09-8/10: Multiple cycles of IF medications
4/26/10 :angel: 8w3d
7/26/10 :angel: 5w0d
RPL testing: elevated anticardiolipin IgM
1/7/11: Triplet angels 19w4d due to IC Cadyn :angel: Adalyn :angel: Mikayla :angel:
5/24/11: :angel: 4w3d
6/21/11: :bfp: #5 Shirodkar cerclage & 17p
:hb: Our miracle baby Mason arrived safely 2/22/12 :hb:
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Postby Hopefultime » Wed Apr 06, 2011 6:37 pm

Hi girls,

I was think of you all and just wanted to drop by and say hello.

Michele - I'm so sorry for your loss :hugs:

Hello to all the new ladies & sorry that you're here. Though you'll find is is a truly wonderful group of supportive ladies ;)

As always I send super super :babydustb: with :sticky: & :bfp: FX there will be more :bfp:s this summer ;)

AFM I am blessed to be at 30 wks so 3/4 the way there now, can't believe it's been so long and yet seems so short an amount of time. We moved in February to an apartment about 20 minutes from our old house & so far the neighbours and area seem lovely so I'm glad we made the move!

Thinking of you,

Hopeful xx
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Postby michelelm » Wed Apr 06, 2011 7:55 pm

Hi girls :hi:

Becky - I'm so sorry you are here, but glad you joined us! I hope that sticky bean is right around the corner for you!

Pepper - I hope you just missed the surge on the opk and will have a nice BFP soon!

Hawkeye - Good luck with your follie check! I hope you see at least a couple of good follies in there! I miss you ladies too! Hopefully now that the response emails are fixed things will pick up here again.

Meg - Glad all is going well with the new house, exciting!! I saw your opk over in POAS, I hope that it means a BFP will be in your very near future!

Hopeful - Wow, 30 weeks already, that's awesome! So glad you checked in here and let us know how things are going.

Everyone else - I hope all is going well!

AFM - thanks for all the thoughts and prayers. My body is working on miscarrying, but nothing ever seems to be easy for me :? My RE inserted misoprostol on Saturday, but things fizzled out, apparently a clot got stuck in my cervix. She removed it Tuesday (holy ouch!) and I promptly took her up on the vicodin offer. I go back tomorrow (Thursday) for another ultrasound to see what's left in my uterus. Hopefully I won't need any more intervention.
DD: My first miracle - born 12/22/2008 - after 8 years TTC (Clomid/HCG trigger/IUI)
DS: My rainbow baby - born 5/3/2012 (Clomid/HCG trigger)

:angel: early loss January 2010
(conceived naturally)
:angel: DS - Late Missed MC July 2010
17 weeks, Down Syndrome (conceived naturally)
:angel: Missed MC - October 2010
9weeks, girl Turner's Syndrome (conceived naturally)
:angel: Blighted Ovum - April 2011
9weeks (Clomid)

RPL Testing Dx PAI-1 4G/4G, levels are normal

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Postby peppersta » Thu Apr 07, 2011 9:02 am

Hi ladies,

I am struggling with overanalyzing everything.....I hate the two week wait! I am due for AF on the 11th and I am not testing until she doesn't show up....but every little tweak of boob soreness or indigestion I keep thinking that maybe it's a sign. I am so crazy, right now I have a bad cold and so I am feeling like crap.....but maybe that's because I'm pregnant? lol! I want to be pregnant again so bad!

Anyone else testing soon and going crazy??
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Postby HawkeyeGirl16 » Thu Apr 07, 2011 2:37 pm

I started a new thread for us since we were getting up there in pages. Here ya go ladies....

http://www.twoweekwait.com/community/mo ... 46#2363346
Me: 28 DH: 30
We're TTC a little brother or sister for Mason! (Shh FB friends)
My blog: http://ttcwithpcosrpl.blogspot.com
PCOS, adenomyosis, RPL, & IC
7/09-8/10: Multiple cycles of IF medications
4/26/10 :angel: 8w3d
7/26/10 :angel: 5w0d
RPL testing: elevated anticardiolipin IgM
1/7/11: Triplet angels 19w4d due to IC Cadyn :angel: Adalyn :angel: Mikayla :angel:
5/24/11: :angel: 4w3d
6/21/11: :bfp: #5 Shirodkar cerclage & 17p
:hb: Our miracle baby Mason arrived safely 2/22/12 :hb:
October 2013: BF?
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