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Postby michelelm » Tue Jun 14, 2011 8:13 am

It's been a while, just wanted to check in on you ladies - how is everyone doing?

This month we are NTNP, next month we'll start with Clomid/trigger again.
DD: My first miracle - born 12/22/2008 - after 8 years TTC (Clomid/HCG trigger/IUI)
DS: My rainbow baby - born 5/3/2012 (Clomid/HCG trigger)

:angel: early loss January 2010
(conceived naturally)
:angel: DS - Late Missed MC July 2010
17 weeks, Down Syndrome (conceived naturally)
:angel: Missed MC - October 2010
9weeks, girl Turner's Syndrome (conceived naturally)
:angel: Blighted Ovum - April 2011
9weeks (Clomid)

RPL Testing Dx PAI-1 4G/4G, levels are normal

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Postby meggola » Tue Jun 14, 2011 6:33 pm

Hi Michele. Good to hear from you. I'm gearing up to O on our final cycle before heading to the RE to get DH tested again and to form a plan of action.
Me (Meg) - 35, DH - 32
TTC #1 since Nov 2009 (2 1/2+ yrs)
IF due to a damaged right tube & MFI (low numbers + ASA)

BFP July 2010, m/c 6w1d (ectopic)

Aug 2011- Jan 2012: 6 medicated cycles (Clomid & Follistim) - 1 IUI, 4 cancelled cycles (Oing on my right side), 1 cycle timed BD, all BFN

IVF#1 Feb/March: chemical, no frosties
IVF#2 April/May: BFN, 3 frosties
FET #1 July 24 (transferred 2, 3rd didn't survive the thaw) BFP!
-Beta #1 (8dp6dt) 197
-Beta #2 (10dp6dt) 430
-1st u/s 5w5d - It's twins!
-ANT scan 11/15 19w - It's a boy and a girl!
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Postby michelelm » Tue Jun 14, 2011 7:07 pm

Hopefully this will be your month and you won't have to bother with the RE, but I suppose the silver lining would be knowing you will have a plan of action. Good luck, Meg!
DD: My first miracle - born 12/22/2008 - after 8 years TTC (Clomid/HCG trigger/IUI)
DS: My rainbow baby - born 5/3/2012 (Clomid/HCG trigger)

:angel: early loss January 2010
(conceived naturally)
:angel: DS - Late Missed MC July 2010
17 weeks, Down Syndrome (conceived naturally)
:angel: Missed MC - October 2010
9weeks, girl Turner's Syndrome (conceived naturally)
:angel: Blighted Ovum - April 2011
9weeks (Clomid)

RPL Testing Dx PAI-1 4G/4G, levels are normal

My Blog: http://www.tryingagainajourneyoflove.blogspot.com
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Postby meggola » Wed Jun 15, 2011 4:57 am

It would be nice, but I'm not getting my hopes up. I've been feeling pretty discouraged recently. I'm coming up on the one year anniversary of the loss and I don't think I'm going to take it well at all. To be one year out from it and still not be pregnant is going to be really hard.

Wouldn't it be cool if you got your BFP this month au naturale? Lots of luck to you!
Me (Meg) - 35, DH - 32
TTC #1 since Nov 2009 (2 1/2+ yrs)
IF due to a damaged right tube & MFI (low numbers + ASA)

BFP July 2010, m/c 6w1d (ectopic)

Aug 2011- Jan 2012: 6 medicated cycles (Clomid & Follistim) - 1 IUI, 4 cancelled cycles (Oing on my right side), 1 cycle timed BD, all BFN

IVF#1 Feb/March: chemical, no frosties
IVF#2 April/May: BFN, 3 frosties
FET #1 July 24 (transferred 2, 3rd didn't survive the thaw) BFP!
-Beta #1 (8dp6dt) 197
-Beta #2 (10dp6dt) 430
-1st u/s 5w5d - It's twins!
-ANT scan 11/15 19w - It's a boy and a girl!
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My blog: http://lostinprocreation.blogspot.com/
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Postby michelelm » Wed Jun 15, 2011 8:26 am

Anniversaries suck - they always make me so depressed, especially not having a take home baby yet. Are you going to do anything special for the day?

Part of me would be happy to be pregnant this month (all of me would if it's viable), but I think I'd also be even more nervous without the meds, somehow I feel like those will give me a better chance at a healthy pregnancy, so either way will be a-ok with me this month.
DD: My first miracle - born 12/22/2008 - after 8 years TTC (Clomid/HCG trigger/IUI)
DS: My rainbow baby - born 5/3/2012 (Clomid/HCG trigger)

:angel: early loss January 2010
(conceived naturally)
:angel: DS - Late Missed MC July 2010
17 weeks, Down Syndrome (conceived naturally)
:angel: Missed MC - October 2010
9weeks, girl Turner's Syndrome (conceived naturally)
:angel: Blighted Ovum - April 2011
9weeks (Clomid)

RPL Testing Dx PAI-1 4G/4G, levels are normal

My Blog: http://www.tryingagainajourneyoflove.blogspot.com
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Postby meggola » Wed Jun 15, 2011 5:50 pm

Ugh. I wish none of us had to go through all of this. It's just so hard.
Me (Meg) - 35, DH - 32
TTC #1 since Nov 2009 (2 1/2+ yrs)
IF due to a damaged right tube & MFI (low numbers + ASA)

BFP July 2010, m/c 6w1d (ectopic)

Aug 2011- Jan 2012: 6 medicated cycles (Clomid & Follistim) - 1 IUI, 4 cancelled cycles (Oing on my right side), 1 cycle timed BD, all BFN

IVF#1 Feb/March: chemical, no frosties
IVF#2 April/May: BFN, 3 frosties
FET #1 July 24 (transferred 2, 3rd didn't survive the thaw) BFP!
-Beta #1 (8dp6dt) 197
-Beta #2 (10dp6dt) 430
-1st u/s 5w5d - It's twins!
-ANT scan 11/15 19w - It's a boy and a girl!
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Postby ladybearne2 » Fri Jun 17, 2011 8:13 am

Michelle- Glad to hear from you. I'm hoping you get a sticky bean very soon.

Meggola- I'm hoping everything comes back good with your dh's tests and you guys can get pregnant very soon.

AFM- I took a test today (I'm either 10 or 11 dpo) and I got a BFP. I'm so nervous and hoping I have a healthy bean.
Becky
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Miss L- 2/17/2012
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Postby michelelm » Fri Jun 17, 2011 8:29 am

congratulations!! What wonderful news! I hope you have a happy, healthy, uneventful 9 months!
DD: My first miracle - born 12/22/2008 - after 8 years TTC (Clomid/HCG trigger/IUI)
DS: My rainbow baby - born 5/3/2012 (Clomid/HCG trigger)

:angel: early loss January 2010
(conceived naturally)
:angel: DS - Late Missed MC July 2010
17 weeks, Down Syndrome (conceived naturally)
:angel: Missed MC - October 2010
9weeks, girl Turner's Syndrome (conceived naturally)
:angel: Blighted Ovum - April 2011
9weeks (Clomid)

RPL Testing Dx PAI-1 4G/4G, levels are normal

My Blog: http://www.tryingagainajourneyoflove.blogspot.com
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Postby meggola » Fri Jun 17, 2011 9:16 am

Congratulations! Tons of sticky vibes for you!
Me (Meg) - 35, DH - 32
TTC #1 since Nov 2009 (2 1/2+ yrs)
IF due to a damaged right tube & MFI (low numbers + ASA)

BFP July 2010, m/c 6w1d (ectopic)

Aug 2011- Jan 2012: 6 medicated cycles (Clomid & Follistim) - 1 IUI, 4 cancelled cycles (Oing on my right side), 1 cycle timed BD, all BFN

IVF#1 Feb/March: chemical, no frosties
IVF#2 April/May: BFN, 3 frosties
FET #1 July 24 (transferred 2, 3rd didn't survive the thaw) BFP!
-Beta #1 (8dp6dt) 197
-Beta #2 (10dp6dt) 430
-1st u/s 5w5d - It's twins!
-ANT scan 11/15 19w - It's a boy and a girl!
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Postby HawkeyeGirl16 » Tue Jun 21, 2011 8:28 pm

Sorry that I've been missing lately. Congrats on the BFP ladybearne! :sticky:

I might be on to something too, but I won't believe it until I get my beta drawn Thursday. :fingersx:
Me: 28 DH: 30
We're TTC a little brother or sister for Mason! (Shh FB friends)
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PCOS, adenomyosis, RPL, & IC
7/09-8/10: Multiple cycles of IF medications
4/26/10 :angel: 8w3d
7/26/10 :angel: 5w0d
RPL testing: elevated anticardiolipin IgM
1/7/11: Triplet angels 19w4d due to IC Cadyn :angel: Adalyn :angel: Mikayla :angel:
5/24/11: :angel: 4w3d
6/21/11: :bfp: #5 Shirodkar cerclage & 17p
:hb: Our miracle baby Mason arrived safely 2/22/12 :hb:
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Postby ladybearne2 » Wed Jun 22, 2011 7:21 pm

I can't wait til your betas tomorrow. GL
Becky
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Postby Hopefultime » Mon Jul 11, 2011 6:58 am

Hi girls,

It's been a while since I've been on the TTC boards. I hope a few of you gals remember me.

I wanted to say a massive congratulations to all you gals getting your BFPs & send super BFP vibes & sticky dust to those TTC.

I just wanted to thank you for all the support you all gave me last year after my misscarriage.

I know it's so hard when you're trying and trying but wanted to share that it is possible. I had a son, Benjamin, just under 3 weeks ago.

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Wishing you all every happiness,

Hopeful xx
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Postby michelelm » Mon Jul 11, 2011 7:54 am

Glad you checked in and gave us an update Hopeful! Your son is gorgeous, congratulations!! Enjoy this time, they get big so fast and you'll miss that squishy newborn stage! :hb:
DD: My first miracle - born 12/22/2008 - after 8 years TTC (Clomid/HCG trigger/IUI)
DS: My rainbow baby - born 5/3/2012 (Clomid/HCG trigger)

:angel: early loss January 2010
(conceived naturally)
:angel: DS - Late Missed MC July 2010
17 weeks, Down Syndrome (conceived naturally)
:angel: Missed MC - October 2010
9weeks, girl Turner's Syndrome (conceived naturally)
:angel: Blighted Ovum - April 2011
9weeks (Clomid)

RPL Testing Dx PAI-1 4G/4G, levels are normal

My Blog: http://www.tryingagainajourneyoflove.blogspot.com
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Postby meggola » Mon Jul 11, 2011 5:49 pm

Hi Hopeful! Thanks for checking in with us. Congratulations!
Me (Meg) - 35, DH - 32
TTC #1 since Nov 2009 (2 1/2+ yrs)
IF due to a damaged right tube & MFI (low numbers + ASA)

BFP July 2010, m/c 6w1d (ectopic)

Aug 2011- Jan 2012: 6 medicated cycles (Clomid & Follistim) - 1 IUI, 4 cancelled cycles (Oing on my right side), 1 cycle timed BD, all BFN

IVF#1 Feb/March: chemical, no frosties
IVF#2 April/May: BFN, 3 frosties
FET #1 July 24 (transferred 2, 3rd didn't survive the thaw) BFP!
-Beta #1 (8dp6dt) 197
-Beta #2 (10dp6dt) 430
-1st u/s 5w5d - It's twins!
-ANT scan 11/15 19w - It's a boy and a girl!
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Postby willow3 » Tue Jul 12, 2011 9:01 am

Hi ladies. It's been quite a while since I've been here. Unfortunately we had another loss in April and it was just too painful for me to be on here.

Tomorrow is my one year loss anniversary and it is hard to believe I am still in a position of TTC. My son will be 3 soon and people keep asking when I am going to have another. They have no idea I have been trying for almost two years.

This month is our first month officially TTC again and it brings mixed emotions. It is hard to keep getting back on this train, isn't it?

Hopeful--nice to see you, congratulations on your sweet baby boy! You were such a support to us as well and I am very happy for you!
Me 36, DH 37
DS 3
loss @ 5 wks 10/07
loss @ 11.5 wks 07/10
loss @ 14 wks 04/11
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