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I'm just too scared! :(

Postby nanette78 » Fri May 06, 2011 11:32 pm

Well, it's almost been a year and I am still feeling to scared to try again. I gave birth June 4th 2010 to a tiny little boy who passed away of bilateral kidney failure. Even though it's almost been a year, I just can't wrap my head around trying for another. My brain says yes and my heart says no. I'm so torn! :cry:
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Postby bilson » Sat May 07, 2011 7:39 am

oh nanette...what horrible experience ((hugs)). I can imagine this is really tough spot for you to be in.. All I can say is stay strong :)
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Postby nanette78 » Sat May 07, 2011 9:15 pm

Thanks Bilson!
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Postby lunaluna » Sat May 07, 2011 10:04 pm

I am so so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. There are no words. I think it is very natural to be afraid. When you feel that your heart is healed, I wish you the best of luck when trying again. XOXO
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Postby Trevorsmommy » Sun May 15, 2011 11:06 am

:cry: I'm sorry about your son. I can only imagine the worries of going into another pregnancy after such a horrible experience. I am still allowing myself time to heal before TTC again.. so I havn't made it to the true idea of trying again so I can only imagine its full of fears and worries. My heart and prayers go out to you. :hugs:
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