~ Thread of Hope ~ Post your BFP after a loss story! ~

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Postby mamacoss » Sun Mar 03, 2013 9:05 am

Thanks maz!
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Postby hunnybunny23 » Sun Mar 10, 2013 2:35 am

just to update my post ... we saw the hb on friday so we have our little rainbow.. such a relief i hope you ladies get there soon
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Postby mamacoss » Sun Mar 10, 2013 5:02 am

That's awesome bunny!!!
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Postby Maz882 » Sun Mar 10, 2013 2:27 pm

That's amazing Hun!!xx
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Postby mamacoss » Sat Mar 23, 2013 12:30 pm

Hey hunnybunny. Don't know if you're still checking in here. Just wanted to see how u were doing. We are still ttc here.
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Postby Babybluenayana » Mon Mar 25, 2013 5:29 pm

We have been ttc . Had a miscarriage in October. Like many others I feel like I'm going crazy every month
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Postby mamacoss » Tue Mar 26, 2013 4:08 am

Hey baby you're not alone. Last month was the first month ttc for us since our mc. In January. Just one month of trying and I am already fet up.looking back at last month I was like a crazy person. Poas. Almost everyday. Ugh! It sucks. Trying super hard to relax this time.
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Postby michelelm » Mon Apr 15, 2013 5:34 am

Hi ladies. This is a great idea! I wanted to share my story too. I have a blog detailing the couple of years of events http://tryingagainajourneyoflove.blogspot.com/

Here is my story in a nutshell...

Had our first daughter in 2008 after 8 years TTC. Clomid/HCG Trigger shot/IUI. Diagnosis: Irregular ovulation, possible PCOS.

Got pregnant and lost the baby in January 2010, no fertility treatment. Ended quickly as a chemical pregnancy.

Got pregnant the following cycle, in March 2010, no fertility treatment. All seemed to be going well until we got a 1 in 10 chance for Down syndrome with the quad screen. At an ultrasound at 17 weeks, we found out our son had died in utero. We lost him in July 2010, most likely due to confirmed Down syndrome.

Got pregnant again without fertility treatment in September 2010. Things were going well, great betas, strong heartbeat. Then at 9week5days we found out we lost that baby too. After testing, it was confirmed she was a girl with Turners syndrome.

Lots of testing revealed I have PAI-1 4G/4G with normal levels, a blood clotting disorder. Alone it shouldn't cause any problems, but paired with another blood clotting disorder it could be a problem.

Back to my RE and started Clomid, I got pregnant right away in February 2011. Things didn't look good from the beginning, and in April at around 10 weeks I needed a D&C for a blighted ovum.

We got pregnant again on Clomid/HCG Trigger shot, and added our beautiful son to our family in May 2012. A true miracle. He's almost 1 year old now and is the sweetest, happiest little rainbow baby.

I hope you all are successful in your journey :love:
DD: My first miracle - born 12/22/2008 - after 8 years TTC (Clomid/HCG trigger/IUI)
DS: My rainbow baby - born 5/3/2012 (Clomid/HCG trigger)

:angel: early loss January 2010
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:angel: DS - Late Missed MC July 2010
17 weeks, Down Syndrome (conceived naturally)
:angel: Missed MC - October 2010
9weeks, girl Turner's Syndrome (conceived naturally)
:angel: Blighted Ovum - April 2011
9weeks (Clomid)

RPL Testing Dx PAI-1 4G/4G, levels are normal

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Postby Maz882 » Mon Apr 15, 2013 11:11 am

Michele so so sorry for your losses but wow what a beautiful story!! I know it'll give hope to many many people out there, thank you so much for posting xx
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Postby Felicia1026 » Thu Apr 18, 2013 1:39 pm

Hi there i just wanted to share my story. I havent had major fertility problems but i did suffer a mc in october. I have 2 boys ages 4 and 2 and wanted nothing more then to complete our family. We ttc on and off for months..and april 14th i got my bfp!.. we arent out of the water until i see it on an ultrasound.. but its a relief knowing that after my d&c i can concieve
All those months i worried something bad happened during it.
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Postby mamacoss » Fri Apr 19, 2013 5:11 am

well girls AF showed up yesterday after being 4 days late. What a tease that b**** is. Anyway, on to next month gonna take is easy.
Felicia our stories sound so similar it's crazy.
I hadmy mc in Jan though. but I am working on #3 and have two boys 2 and 4.
how many months after mc did you guy try till you got your BFP?
This feels endless.
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Postby Felicia1026 » Fri Apr 19, 2013 6:35 am

Well after my d&c we tried for 2 months and i wasnt ready.. so i went in bcp in december until the end of jan and tried from feb-april. Bfp april 14tg.. it took way longer then i expected.. with the boys it was so easy.

Good luck to you :)
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Postby eribear » Wed May 22, 2013 5:29 am

Thank you everyone for sharing. Your stories brighten these dark days.
Proud mommy of twins xoxo
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Postby liliyana » Fri Jun 14, 2013 1:29 pm

I'm so glad there is a specific place to post this. I really wanted to give you ladies a good chunk of hope!

My history:

- miscarriage when I was 18, around 11 - 12 weeks. Never knew the cause, worst experience of my life.

- pregnant again 10 years later, no problems, daughter will be 6 years old this August! <3

- started TTC when she was about 2 and a half. This is where the nightmare began: over the next few years, we had at least 6 miscarriages, everything from chemicals to a blighted ovum to an ectopic. I had loads of tests, bloodwork, etc. and they never found a cause.

We gave up and accepted that we were only going to have one child. And then? We got pregnant this year (highly unlikely, there was only one chance for it to happen and it did). I felt completely different from the start! Somehow, I knew this one was going to work out. My tests were nice and dark from the beginning and I just felt great about it. And I was right! My first OB visit, in March, showed a perfect 8-week baby with a heartbeat. I had my 20-week anatomy scan on June 4th, and everything looks absolutely perfect. Due in October, my favorite month of the year! So, ladies, there is always hope. :hb:
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Postby Shew34 » Tue Jun 18, 2013 3:26 pm

Lilyana,
So sorry for all your losses, but I'm so excited for your current pregnancy!! I'm in a similar situation - 6 miscarriages under my belt, all tests normal. We went to ivf with genetic testing. My official blood test is Friday, but I've gotten two positives at home. Praying this one takes!! Good luck to you!
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Me - 33
DD :baby: - 9/1/09
All RPL tests & chromosomes normal
IVF# 1 April/May/June 2013 - 5 genetically normal embies on ice!
FET 6/11/13 - transferred 1 embryo

:angel: - July 2008 5w4d
:angel: - Sept 2008 5w
:angel: - June 2012 10w
:angel: - Chemical Aug 2012 4w5d
:angel: - Ectopic September 2012
:angel: - Suspected ectopic Feb 2013
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