Closure

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Closure

Postby 9113212 » Sat Sep 21, 2013 9:02 am

I miscarried at 6w2d about a week ago. I am all over the map with emotions. Sometimes I'm just fine...even happy, and optimistic, and sometimes I cry. Its been 6 days since the miscarriage, and I still get upset so I decided to do something about it. I think the only way to give myself a little closure (beside getting pregnant again) is to remember in some way, what I had and lost. I went to etsy.com and looked for a small necklace to honor my little bean. I found something that was perfect for me, and subtle. Everyone else will think it just another cute necklace, and only I will know the special meaning behind it. I think this may help me in some way to move on, but never forget.

I hope all of you find some closure of your own. :angel:
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m/c Sep.2013 at 6w2d
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Re: Closure

Postby delightfuldoula » Sat Sep 21, 2013 2:48 pm

Sorry for your loss. I had a loss at 9 wks 3 days last month. I bought a butterfly toe ring to remember our little one. I also wrote my little one a letter and made a little keepsake box that I put it in, one of the positive pregnancy tests, a pair of baby socks I had bought, the letter I wrote telling dh we were pregnant. I think it helps to have/.do things like that
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Re: Closure

Postby MEL66325 » Wed Sep 25, 2013 9:50 am

I'm sorry for your loss as well. :hugs:

I did the exact same thing that delightfuldoula did with the memory box, almost exactly.

I then went to amazon and bought a charm that was a mother and baby, but I didn't really like it when I got it - it looked nothing like the picture. So that charm went into the baby box. Then I found just what I wanted - a silver angel with the March birthstone in the center of it (when my baby was due). It was perfect and I wear it almost every day.
ME - 37 DH - 40
DS1- 11
8/12/13 - :angel: (MMC 11 weeks; D&C) My angel, forever in my heart and always on my mind, Mommy loves you...can't wait to meet you in Heaven!
4/22/14 - :bfp: our rainbow baby
8/12/14- It's another BOY!
DS2- Owen Lane arrived 1/2/2015 :baby tumble:

Will we have another?? Praying for God's will and following His direction for our lives. We shall see!
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