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Here again..

Postby Itskels » Wed Feb 12, 2014 6:27 am

Hello Ladies,

I've been on here before but after my third and most traumatizing loss I had to take a break from it all. Here's my backround. I've had 2 chemical pregancies one was on March/2011(4weeks 3days) the second was April/2012 (5weeks 2days). The most recent miscarriage was November 2013 was 10 weeks, it was I blightum ovum. My husband and I decided that I should miscarry naturally and extrememly painful. I will spare you the details, if anyone has any questions you can inbox me. After my third loss my Doctor did alot of testing and they couldn't find anything wrong. He told me to try again when I'm ready.

I'm ready to try again. AF is due on Friday.

I am 30 and bd is 30
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Re: Here again..

Postby B Michaelson » Thu Feb 13, 2014 5:58 am

Welcome back. I am sorry for your losses, but I am glad your tests were ok.
Me - 36
Hashimotos, JHS/EDS, ANA negative, 1 Fallopian tube
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TTC #1 Aug 2012 - May 2014
DS - Born Jan 2015
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Re: Here again..

Postby Itskels » Thu Feb 13, 2014 8:13 am

Thanks B Michaelson.

I see we have similar stories. I'm sorry for your losses. Hopefully fourth time will be a charm. Are you trying again on your next cycle?
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Re: Here again..

Postby B Michaelson » Thu Feb 13, 2014 12:28 pm

Am in the tww right now. Had an hsg this cycle so I am hopeful. I am trying not to be too hopeful though because we all know how that goes.

I hope we both get our rainbows very soon!
Me - 36
Hashimotos, JHS/EDS, ANA negative, 1 Fallopian tube
DH - 41
TTC #1 Aug 2012 - May 2014
DS - Born Jan 2015
TTC #2 since Aug 2016
May 2017 :bfp:

:angel: Our Angels :angel:
2004 - 7.5 weeks
Oct 2013 - 6w6d ruptured ectopic
Jan 2014 - Chemical

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Re: Here again..

Postby Kandii » Thu Feb 13, 2014 8:49 pm

Sorry to hear of your losses.
I can't really offer any support, but just wanted to say I understand. I just found out I had a blighted ovum in January. I'm still bleeding from the miscarriage and have to wait for my first AF before we can try again. We tried to go the natural way, but my body didn't recognize the failure of the pregnancy. So I had to use misoprostol (equally painful to natural miscarriage my nurse tells me)

GL on this cycle! Hoping for a sticky bean for you.
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BFP Dec 29, 2013 / Blighted Ovum Jan 23, 2014 (8w5d) / MC Feb 5, 2014 (10w4d)
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Re: Here again..

Postby Itskels » Fri Feb 14, 2014 1:38 pm

Hello Kandii,

I'm sorry for your loss.

I got diagnosed with a blightum Ovum at 8 weeks. I didn't miscarry until 10 weeks and it took two weeks for it to finish. I had pregnancy symtoms until the last day I bled. It was horrible I wish I would've taken the misoprostol even though it's also painful, the wait had me going insane. I got AF two weeks after. So hopefully you will get it right away.

I just got AF today. I was an emotional mess yesterday. The pain just triggers the memories again. I found a new doctor, I'm not satified with my current one. He just keeps telling me it's due to bad luck.


Good luck to you as well!

Hopefully we will be in the pregnancy board soon. :D
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Re: Here again..

Postby Kandii » Fri Feb 14, 2014 9:39 pm

I just got my first hcg level results back from the clinic today. My nurse told me that we wanted to see an 80% drop since the misoprostol dosing and we actually got an 88% drop! So a bit of good news going into the long weekend. I'm at 1064 now. Got repeat blood work next week to see if the dropping trend continues. Then hopefully this miscarriage bleeding will stop finally.
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BFP Dec 29, 2013 / Blighted Ovum Jan 23, 2014 (8w5d) / MC Feb 5, 2014 (10w4d)
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Re: Here again..

Postby Itskels » Mon Feb 17, 2014 8:20 am

That's great news! when is your next doctor's appointment. I have an appointment on Saturday with my new Doctor.
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Re: Here again..

Postby Kandii » Mon Feb 17, 2014 12:07 pm

I'm being followed by a specialty clinic at the moment. So its an RN whose following me on behalf of the ob/gyn. She has been doing follow up phone calls with me so I don't actually need to go in. She will be calling me again Friday (Feb 21) to update me with news on the blood work I am scheduled to get on the 20th. Hoping for that downward trend.
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Re: Here again..

Postby Itskels » Tue Feb 18, 2014 6:45 am

Kandi, I hope everything goes well. Are you going to try again right away?

B. Michaelson, how are things on your end?
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Re: Here again..

Postby Kandii » Tue Feb 18, 2014 7:06 am

We want to try again as soon as the doc says we can. So after the first AF we are allowed to try :)
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BFP Dec 29, 2013 / Blighted Ovum Jan 23, 2014 (8w5d) / MC Feb 5, 2014 (10w4d)
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Re: Here again..

Postby B Michaelson » Tue Feb 18, 2014 8:02 am

I'm doing good. Looks like I am out this month but my ob did say I would probably O on my bad side so it's not a huge surprise.

It was really hard for to wait to try again but I had to heal from surgery so I had no choice. We did get the go ahead faster than we thought we would though. It really took me a few months to get feeling back to normal emotionally though. As much as it sucked to get a CP last month it did renew hope in me that we could get pg again and quickly so I am more hopeful each month now than I was after the surgery.

How are you both doing? This whole ttc thing is a rough ride sometimes.
Me - 36
Hashimotos, JHS/EDS, ANA negative, 1 Fallopian tube
DH - 41
TTC #1 Aug 2012 - May 2014
DS - Born Jan 2015
TTC #2 since Aug 2016
May 2017 :bfp:

:angel: Our Angels :angel:
2004 - 7.5 weeks
Oct 2013 - 6w6d ruptured ectopic
Jan 2014 - Chemical

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Re: Here again..

Postby Itskels » Tue Feb 18, 2014 1:39 pm

B. Michaelson,

It can be rough. I took a little break because the pain from my blightum ovum was so painful. I had to go to the ER and not even the morphine helped.

I'm doing okay just patiently waiting for my fertility days. AF is on her way out hopefully I won't see her for awhile. :noaf: the sun came out and the snow is starting to melt so I'm excited. I miss taking walks through the park to clear my mind.

B. Michaelson when is af due?
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Re: Here again..

Postby B Michaelson » Tue Feb 18, 2014 5:48 pm

AF will be here Friday or Sunday.

We are having warm weather too and I miss it. I heard it will snow Friday so we will be back to cold again soon. Does winter ever end?
Me - 36
Hashimotos, JHS/EDS, ANA negative, 1 Fallopian tube
DH - 41
TTC #1 Aug 2012 - May 2014
DS - Born Jan 2015
TTC #2 since Aug 2016
May 2017 :bfp:

:angel: Our Angels :angel:
2004 - 7.5 weeks
Oct 2013 - 6w6d ruptured ectopic
Jan 2014 - Chemical

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Re: Here again..

Postby Kandii » Tue Feb 18, 2014 8:49 pm

Depends where you live if winter ends? If your in Alberta too then never. Hah. -.-'

I happy to report the bleeding has turned to "spotting" and the spotting isn't straight blood. It's more old blood mixed with CM. Very random. But I am using a liner! (Hooray!)

How are you ladies?
~*TTC since October 2013*~
BFP Dec 29, 2013 / Blighted Ovum Jan 23, 2014 (8w5d) / MC Feb 5, 2014 (10w4d)
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