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Doc ordered break?

Postby eh_ep » Mon Feb 17, 2014 12:49 am

Well here's the thing we just had our 3rd loss last month, but I had 2 angels and then I had my DD now that we have started TTC again we have had another. My Doc is great he wants to get testing done on me and DH to rule out anything obvious going on that we could fix.... But he wants us to wait 3 months before TTC again.

The reasons he gave were that he wants to allow time to get testing done ( but he hasn't heard back from any referrals yet just for DH to get a SA) so I have no idea how long that will take. Second he said he wants a few cycles so my lining can build up again ( not really buying this one as the lining sheds every month), and third for me to be mentally ready.... I'm sorry but me waiting is mental torture! I would feel so much better actively TTC instead of waiting!

Sigh I don't know.... I hate limbo land. I just want to be pregnant again with a little brother/sister for DD
DD Caitlin Catherine 5lbs 15oz dec 20 '08
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:angel: M/C sept 1, 2007 5w1d
:angel: M/C Feb 6, 2008 11w3d D&C feb 8
BFP April 18, 2008
first beta april 24, 2008 - 2718!!!
second beta april 29, 2008 - 16077!!!!
:hb: 126bpm 6w3d - 6.4mm (CRL)
DD born Dec 20, 2008
BFP Jan 16, 2014 12 Dpo
:angel: M/C Jan 28, 2014 5w3d
BFP June 24, 2024 11dpo
:angel: M/C July 1, 2014 4w4d
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Re: Doc ordered break?

Postby eh_ep » Mon Feb 17, 2014 12:51 am

Oh plus so got pregnant with DD 1 cycle after my second loss that was a MMC and I had a D&C so I don't want to wait......


Ok rant over, thanks for listening!
DD Caitlin Catherine 5lbs 15oz dec 20 '08
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:angel: M/C sept 1, 2007 5w1d
:angel: M/C Feb 6, 2008 11w3d D&C feb 8
BFP April 18, 2008
first beta april 24, 2008 - 2718!!!
second beta april 29, 2008 - 16077!!!!
:hb: 126bpm 6w3d - 6.4mm (CRL)
DD born Dec 20, 2008
BFP Jan 16, 2014 12 Dpo
:angel: M/C Jan 28, 2014 5w3d
BFP June 24, 2024 11dpo
:angel: M/C July 1, 2014 4w4d
BFP May 20, 2015 9dpo
Beta #1 14dpo 101
Beta #2 16dpo 172
Beta #3 18dpo 414
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Re: Doc ordered break?

Postby B Michaelson » Mon Feb 17, 2014 8:14 pm

I understand where you are coming from. I am so sorry for your losses.

Good news is you can get some testing to rule out a problem. Bad news is the waiting. I was told to wait three months after my EP and it was torture. I ended up getting a go ahead after a cycle and a half, thank god.

I don't buy the whole 'lining' thing either and the mental break I think really should be your call. Honestly I think drs just want us to wait so that dating is easier if you do get pg again, or to allow enough time to run tests while you are not pg.

I hope things move along quickly and you don't have to do much waiting around!
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