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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby The_Mrs » Mon Mar 17, 2014 6:46 am

25 days post positive OPK, kill me now!! This waiting is driving me insane!!
Thanks for sharing your experience though! I know I'm not alone, and at least get to hear some other input!
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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby mom2aDD » Tue Mar 18, 2014 7:12 am

My AF finally came today! Cd 41!!!! Looks like the +opk 12 days ago was right on. How crazy +opk on cd28. Glad to finally have her!

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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby kmkhaler17 » Tue Mar 18, 2014 7:29 am

hey ladies, I had mine at 9.5 weeks and the baby stopped growing at 7.3 weeks, and I got my af 36 days after the first day I started bleeding after the procedure. it seemed like it was way longer that that.....but I guess in hindsight it could have been worst.....I never got a positive opk....unless it happened right after the procedure in my two week healing period....but other than that...never got the usual sore boobs that tells me that I ovulated, so I think it is okay to not have ovulation right after.....my period was about normal length as it usually is. so I am counting the days to see if I ovulate at the normal time I did before, or if I go earlier or later.....my hubby will be gone all next week which is usually my fertile period, so I am hoping for earlier before he leaves sunday, but may not work that way. ......my usual monthly range is 30-31 days.
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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby The_Mrs » Tue Mar 18, 2014 8:49 am

Today is CD 43 and still nothing, not even a positive OPK! Each day that passes with nothing new to report, I am feeling so defeated and down, it's so emotionally draining. I would be happy for anything, even AF without a positive OPK for this cycle.

:( I'm glad that you ladies were able to get AF..I'm just feeling so upset today
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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby mom2aDD » Tue Mar 18, 2014 10:32 am

The_Mrs wrote:Today is CD 43 and still nothing, not even a positive OPK! Each day that passes with nothing new to report, I am feeling so defeated and down, it's so emotionally draining. I would be happy for anything, even AF without a positive OPK for this cycle.

:( I'm glad that you ladies were able to get AF..I'm just feeling so upset today


My first O before my first AF after d&c I O only 8 days after my d&c so you could have missed it. Getting that first AF is Sooo depressing waiting for it. Believe me I thought 53 days was crazy long! Your body isn't ready yet and when it's time it will let you know :) head up girl!

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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby kmkhaler17 » Tue Mar 18, 2014 11:34 am

Well, I was very upset like you worried it would take forever especially since I did not o and I just wanted af to come so I could start all over.. but it will come....mine came right before bed right after I was complaining about it. so I am hoping that will be the case for you....
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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby The_Mrs » Tue Mar 18, 2014 12:19 pm

I did have super positive OPKs for about 2 weeks post D&C, but since that didn't result in AF, I don't think it was actually ovulation, just picking u leftover HCG.

Thank you ladies for your stories and input...ah I wish I just had a little more insight as to what was going on in there!
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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby mom2aDD » Tue Mar 18, 2014 3:54 pm

Ok something is off! It's super dark brown a tinge of dark red and super light, after 4hrs it was like super light and 4hrs later even less! It hurt to put my 3rd one in it felt so dry! I am so confused...wait a few more days I guess and see how it changes.

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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby mom2aDD » Tue Mar 18, 2014 4:00 pm

The_Mrs wrote:I did have super positive OPKs for about 2 weeks post D&C, but since that didn't result in AF, I don't think it was actually ovulation, just picking u leftover HCG.

Thank you ladies for your stories and input...ah I wish I just had a little more insight as to what was going on in there!


Ok so some have taken over 8wks to get AF and you may not ovulate at all that first time before AF. I would save your tests and wait till AF comes to start testing again. Because your body is off just because you O doesn't mean your AF will come 14 days later :( I know wanting to get AF so you can start ttc Is all you can think about lol but relax and forget about it and she will come! :)

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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby The_Mrs » Wed Mar 19, 2014 5:27 am

mom2aDD - You summed up exactly what I'm feeling! It's like to the point of obsession, I find it hard to think about much else! Hubby and I are going away in less than a week (we thought it would be a good distraction)and somehow I can't even focus on that, or get myself excited about it.

Regarding your AF - my first one off of BC sounds pretty similar. I literally only bled like 1-2 days in total which I thought was so strange as I never had one so short and light. It may just be one of those things from ovulating late?
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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby mom2aDD » Wed Mar 19, 2014 6:34 am

You will enjoy vacation! But probably still be thinking about it.....my flow is heavy and red now. So crazy! We are buying a house and it seems like the day before I started all I was thinking of was the house and now AF! So I truly believe taking your mind off will help :) on vacation think about actually making love to DH..I know for me it turned into casual and not special until I told myself I can't get pregnant right now so ENJOY the moment. That will also help you relax :) what u doing for vacation???

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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby kmkhaler17 » Wed Mar 19, 2014 7:24 am

yeah mrs....when you are on vacation and having a good time...af will come...she just knows when to show....
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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby The_Mrs » Wed Mar 19, 2014 9:56 am

LOL, well when I first planned our vacay I kept saying to myself that AF would show up smack dab in the middle, as that would be just my luck... starting to think that is a distinct possibility...

I vow here and now as long as it comes, I won't care when!! I'm hoping once we are on board (going on a 9 day cruise to Florida and Bahamas) and I have a drink in my hand, 'll start to unwind a bit.
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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby kmkhaler17 » Wed Mar 19, 2014 1:26 pm

that sounds wonderful...im jealous
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ME: 31 (eek now I have to worry about healthy eggs :()
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BFP - 12/22/2013
EDD - 09/2/2014
1-31 - Angel Baby 7wks 3 days (found out at 9 week appointment)
2-3 d&c done - cleared to try again.
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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby mom2aDD » Wed Mar 19, 2014 1:56 pm

Ok I am so jelly! You will still enjoy Your time and even more if she does come :)

Me: 30
DH:27
♡ One daughter 1/2/7 ♡
Bfp 10/27/13
D&C 12/17/14
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BFP 4-15-14
EDD 12/24/14
1st appointment 5/12/14
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