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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby mom2aDD » Wed Apr 09, 2014 6:51 am

Ahhhhhh I remember this cycle I got my two dark lines and I wanted to shout out to the roof tops I'm ovulating! DH just laughed at me but was very excited my cycle was back on track. No more opk after this, just cm and temp. Can't wait for your results. Also mine was 7am I did it again at 1pm both super positive and again at 7pm and was negative. I never test before 7pm and something just told me to that day! I would have totally missed it!

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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby The_Mrs » Wed Apr 09, 2014 9:00 am

I know, it's such a good feeling. I haven't told hubby in the event it was a fluke, although hoping it is not! If it's positive when I get home, let the games begin ;)

If I didn't have the internet cheapies where I have to pee in a cup and dip, I would totally have brought one to work, the anticipation is killing me! Glad you didn't miss your surge!

My only hesitation is the doc said wait for one AF before TTC, can I count my 5-6 days of spotting as that? When I asked what if it happened before AF she mainly said she wanted my hormones to level out completely or my body could be confused so soon after a loss and not sustain it, but I'm now near 10 weeks post D&C and have to assume by negative HCG for weeks and my body ovulating, things have leveled out.
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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby mom2aDD » Wed Apr 09, 2014 9:57 am

Yeah mine said wait 3 cycles. I chose not to wait! I just feel like if my body starts doing what it should be doing then it's fine. I didn't even wait one cycle! O I hope u O soon then we are only less than a week apart, how exciting :)

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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby The_Mrs » Wed Apr 09, 2014 10:22 am

Thanks for the feedback, phew feel much better about going for it! Ahhh hope I O soon as well.. feeling so antsy, and would love to have a 2ww buddy!

Of course after our vacay I started a 3 day cleanse to lose a few of the lbs all my food and drinks put on me LOL, which includes like 3 citrus fruits a day. Didn't think I was close enough to O, but I read to avoid citrus fruits around O as they can make CM acidic and hostile to sperm. Ohh well I will hope for the best and try to avoid for the next 2 days anyway.. nothing I can do about yesterday...
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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby mom2aDD » Wed Apr 09, 2014 10:40 am

Very true but it also is mostly bad for female sperm but male sperm can tolerate it more. Be fun to see if you do get pregnant this time if it's a boy lol. OK relax this cycle and let's just play it out and let our bodies do its thing. I am already feeling out because of how normal I am feeling! Grrrrr it's only 5 dpo so need to be patient. If I don't get any of my last bfp symptoms I am for sure counting myself out.

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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby mom2aDD » Wed Apr 09, 2014 9:39 pm

Mrs how is the + going??? I hope you got it! !!

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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby The_Mrs » Thu Apr 10, 2014 5:06 am

Ahh I wish it was! I tried to avoid water and hold it in for like 2 hours before I got home yesterday but I could see by the color of my my urine, it was still pretty diluted, so the line was no where near dark enough. Today was back to pretty dark but still not quite there yet. We BD'd last night just in case, but a little bummed to still be waiting...

How are you hanging in there?
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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby mom2aDD » Thu Apr 10, 2014 6:31 am

Maybe the next couple days! My first two cycles were crazy. First one I never even got a dark line and second wasn't till Cd28! Hang in there :) I am doing great. Temps still up but no real symptoms. Last night I did wake @4 to pee but I am not counting as a symptom lol. Getting closer though :)

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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby The_Mrs » Thu Apr 10, 2014 6:47 am

Yea, I'm hoping I didn't miss it in between testing. In the past that was not a problem, but after M/C I hear it's a whole new ball game with re-adjusting cycles.

I'll keep up with twice a day for now, and try to cut the water out a little earlier today. Maybe we'll get our positives together, you hopefully a BFP, me an OPK LOL. Still exciting though!

And don't write yourself off yet! The month we conceived I remember the night before my BFP I was so counting myself out due to BFN that morning, I drank a boat lots of wine and let loose. So moral is...symptoms or no symptoms, hang in there!
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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby mom2aDD » Thu Apr 10, 2014 9:03 am

Great encouragement! Yeah I am trying. ..just hate feeling so normal lol. Man I really hope we both get our +. Is it the 20th yet so I can test lol

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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby The_Mrs » Fri Apr 11, 2014 5:11 am

ughhh still nothing here! It's still a dark second line, but def not a positive, and seems like it may even be lightening. So frustrating...can't wait for my doctor appt next week!
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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby mom2aDD » Fri Apr 11, 2014 6:39 am

Maybe you missed it? I know mine went up n down a lot before I got my +. I hope the doc has good news! No symptoms for me over here but I'm ok with that.

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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby The_Mrs » Fri Apr 11, 2014 7:50 am

It's definitely possible that I missed it the other day when I only tested once in the morning, as it seems tues-wed it had gotten darker, and lightening from there. Although typically after O, my lines go pretty faint..and they def still have a nice amount of color. I think it may be the up and down before a positive as I have had that happen in previous cycles.. but who knows when the positive will come??

I'm wondering if I will have an exam or what at my doctor's appt. Hoping she can see something like - you will be ovulating soon with the trans-vaginal ultrasound, if I don't get my surge by then, but hoping and hoping I do!
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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby hmownr24 » Fri Apr 11, 2014 8:42 am

I just wanted to post and tell you whats up with me. I found out at 13 1/2 weeks that my baby had passed at 13 weeks :( I had a d&c 5 days later on January 15th. I started AF on February 22nd which actually is pretty quickly!! I did get positive opk's but I started my period about a week later so I don't think I actually ovulated. My cycles used to be 30-31 days with about a 15 day luteal phase. I ovulated around day 16. Good normal cycles. Now, not so much!! My last cycle was only 28 days. I didn't ovulate until day 18 so my luteal phase was only 10 days! This cycles looks messed up also. I should O today which is cycle day 20! I didn't get a positive opk until cd 19. If my cycle is only gonna be 28 again then my luteal phase will only be 8 days!! I really wish that my cycles would be normal again. I will never get pregnant again at this rate. Since I am O'ing so late this month I am praying that my cycle will be long so that my luteal phase will be normal. Fingers crossed that I don't start AF until at least cd 31 or 32 (or not starting at all due to a bfp would be even better!! )
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Re: abnormal cycles after d&c, anyone with me?

Postby mom2aDD » Fri Apr 11, 2014 9:49 am

Hm- before mine I had a 28 with 10 LP and I still got pregnant very easily. Since my loss I have had very long cycle but my LP has been 12 days. Just had my O on cd 18 so just waiting it out to see how long it is this month. Could be 10 12 14 16 who knows!! I hope things even out for you but as Mrs knows it can take time! Honestly try not to stress and just relax so it's easier on your body.

On another note OMG I am so hungry and left pains and AF bb pain.....not reading into it and just telling myself AF is coming! Uhhhh

Me: 30
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Bfp 10/27/13
D&C 12/17/14
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BFP 4-15-14
EDD 12/24/14
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