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need some help from those that have been there

Postby lyndsweller » Sat Nov 29, 2014 10:28 am

I went to the er cause of spotting on the 13th then back to er on the 16th to confirm I had a mc I supposed to be 11 weeks baby stopped growing at 7 to 8 weeks hcg was at 6000 I had cytotec on the 16th and finally passed the baby the following Saturday the 21st and bleeding stopped the following day husband and I have been trying since. On the 25th I had very positive opk I just took a hpt yesterday the 28th to see if I'd get a negative and if opk was in fact positive and not just left over hormone and the hpt is very faint but still readable is there a chance I could of still ovulated when I took the hpt I also took another opk and it was negative
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Re: need some help from those that have been there

Postby tryingnumber3 » Sat Nov 29, 2014 11:06 am

I immediately started temping again after I stopped bleeding from mc. I hsd been o'ing on cd 15 and if you count first day of bleeding as cd 1 then I still o'd cd 15. Dh and I only bd day before and day of o. I got my bfp 9 dpo and about 3 5 weeks after mc.
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Re: need some help from those that have been there

Postby lyndsweller » Sat Nov 29, 2014 11:45 am

That's helpful Thank you my husband and I started doing the deed before the bleeding stopped which I think helped after the cytotec but it's been two weeks since the cytotec and a week since I lost the sac with the baby and the bleeding stopped then we've been bd'ing everyday since sometimes twice and according my chart I should of o'd two days ago but the wired thing is my cycles are 25 days or they were before the pregnancy and I lost the baby a few weeks before I knew it and the day the miscarriage bleeding started was the day my app said I should normally get my period so I don't know I havent been temping cause I don't have one but I've been checking cm and it was right on for when I should of o'd and when opk was positive I just don't get the early positive on hpt I think it's too soon and just my hcg hasn't gone back to zero
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Re: need some help from those that have been there

Postby tryingnumber3 » Sat Nov 29, 2014 12:21 pm

The dr had me go back for betas and followed it to zero which was about a week and a half after it started. Otherwise I would have taken cheapies to make sure negative. You just have to wait a couple days and see if its getting darker or lighter. Fx for you!
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Re: need some help from those that have been there

Postby lyndsweller » Sat Nov 29, 2014 12:52 pm

I'm headed to the store right now to get a few more cheapies
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Re: need some help from those that have been there

Postby tryingnumber3 » Sat Nov 29, 2014 1:52 pm

Keep us updated!
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Re: need some help from those that have been there

Postby lyndsweller » Sat Nov 29, 2014 2:12 pm

Will do
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Re: need some help from those that have been there

Postby lyndsweller » Sat Nov 29, 2014 4:37 pm

I could be tripping but it seems like today's hpt is darker :omg:
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Re: need some help from those that have been there

Postby tryingnumber3 » Sat Nov 29, 2014 4:47 pm

Post a pic!
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Re: need some help from those that have been there

Postby lyndsweller » Sat Nov 29, 2014 6:15 pm

OK here it is :omg:
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Re: need some help from those that have been there

Postby tryingnumber3 » Sat Nov 29, 2014 6:39 pm

The one on the right is definitely darker than the left.
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Re: need some help from those that have been there

Postby lyndsweller » Sat Nov 29, 2014 7:16 pm

I know both lines on the right are darker I'll test again tomorrow and see what it does I'm not trying to get too excited but it can happen it seems like you got pregnant again the week of your loss
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Re: need some help from those that have been there

Postby tryingnumber3 » Sat Nov 29, 2014 7:41 pm

Its definitely possible. 24 days after my mc started I got my bfp. So far so good. Fx its darker tomorrow!
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Re: need some help from those that have been there

Postby lyndsweller » Sat Nov 29, 2014 9:54 pm

Idk I just looked at them and they are the same now
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Re: need some help from those that have been there

Postby tryingnumber3 » Sat Nov 29, 2014 10:05 pm

Remember not to look at old tests unless you already know they are positive. Any result that wasn't there in the time frame is invalid. I know it's tempting to check tests in the trash, but it's best to leave them there. Hope to see a new test tomorrow!
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