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ttc after a stillbirth

Postby elvaisobel » Sun Dec 14, 2014 5:58 am

i lost my daughter at 6 months of pregnancy and currently ttc

im losing my mind though and feel theres no hope of a bfp ever again im driving myself mad and im driving my partner mad :(
any tips besides time and keeping busy cos they arent working
Jem Leander hom birth at 39 weeks 16th November 2007
Little Pea mc at 5 weeks December 2011
Leif Emrys em c-section at 37 weeks 4th November 2012
Elva Isobel born too soon at 27+3 13th October 2014
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Re: ttc after a stillbirth

Postby asmrld84 » Sun Dec 14, 2014 6:37 pm

So sorry for your loss!
I myself had a baby on Oct 13 2010 @38 weeks, long story short he passed away 3 days after he was born.
Since then I've had 1 MC and 1 ectopic (loss of left tube) and sadly haven't been lucky enough to conceive since.
I don't really have any advice to give as I am constantly obsessing on having another child. And I know I'm driving my husband insane as we'll.
I just wanted to let you know you're not alone and I wish you all the luck in the world!!!
Me~30 one fallopian tube
Him~28 PERFECTION
Ds1~2002
Mc~2006
Dd~2008
ds2~2010 passed away at 3 days old(cause unknown)
Mc~2012
Ectopic~2013 loss of left fallopian tube

*~*~*I have so many angels watching over me*~*~*
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Re: ttc after a stillbirth

Postby elvaisobel » Mon Dec 15, 2014 5:40 am

im so sorry things havent happened for you yet :( at least we both know we can conceive and we can carry to term its something to hold onto i guess :/ my friend had an ectopic and lost a tube it did take about 12-18 months to catch again but she did so there is certainly hope hun i know it takes time for your body to compensate for the lost tube.
im certainly hoping to catch bit quicker than i did last time i ttc i only had one tube functioning then so took 14 months to mc at end of it but i got my rainbow 8 weeks later so hoping for another fast rainbow x
Jem Leander hom birth at 39 weeks 16th November 2007
Little Pea mc at 5 weeks December 2011
Leif Emrys em c-section at 37 weeks 4th November 2012
Elva Isobel born too soon at 27+3 13th October 2014
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Re: ttc after a stillbirth

Postby asmrld84 » Mon Dec 15, 2014 6:23 am

Aaw THANK YOU!! You just gave me so much hope! I dont know anyone who has had an ectopic or conceived with one tube so its great to hear success stories:) Its so hard, especially when you have suffered losses. All you can think of is being able to actually bring home a baby. Nothing can ever replace what weve lost but it sure would be nice to know theres light at the end of the tunnel!
I have everything crossed for you and I hope we both get a bfp soon!
Me~30 one fallopian tube
Him~28 PERFECTION
Ds1~2002
Mc~2006
Dd~2008
ds2~2010 passed away at 3 days old(cause unknown)
Mc~2012
Ectopic~2013 loss of left fallopian tube

*~*~*I have so many angels watching over me*~*~*
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