TTC after 3rd MC

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TTC after 3rd MC

Postby AndiA108 » Tue Jan 03, 2017 8:34 am

Dh and I have been ttc for 2years, we just got a BFP that sadly ended in a MC on Dec. 22. It was our third loss. It's been the hardest thing we've had to go through.

Trying my best to feel hopeful to try again. Thought someone else might be in the same place and need support in the ttc journey?

I haven't had the courage to pick up my therm and temp again let alone dtd... anyone else struggling with this?? Would love a support buddy.
01/2014 - MC 6wks
12/2015 - MC 5wks
2 Rounds Clomid 50mg - BFN
(NTNP Feb 2016 - April 2016)
09/2016 - Round 3 Clomid 50mg + 200mg CoQ10 3xs Day
10/2016 - Clomid Challenge Test 100mg - Responded well
11/2016 - Clomid 100mg - BFP 12/03/2016 -- Ended in a miscarriage: 12/22/2016

3 months after our miscarriage... 03/22/2017 - Unexpected BFP. Praying this is our rainbow baby.
04/11/2017 - 6w5d saw the heartbeat!
04/19/2017 - 8w5d heartbeat still strong @ 178 :D
06/28/2017 - It's a boy! <3

Our baby boy passed away at 39 weeks due to a true knot in his cord. Our hearts are broken.
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Re: TTC after 3rd MC

Postby mimimama » Sun Jan 29, 2017 9:13 am

I am sorry for yr losses. I think it's time to check in with yr doc, and do additional tests (karyotyping, sperm quality, pgs ngs) just to find out more if there are any underlying medical issues why you can't get pregnant. All the best x
Me 31, DH 40. TTC 5 years. Unexplained infertility.
December 2015- IVF #1 BFN
May/June 2016- new doctor, IVF consultation in Gdansk Poland
October 2016- IVF #2 Invicta BFP!!!
July 2017 - our daughter M arrived, we are so happy
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Re: TTC after 3rd MC

Postby Alana90 » Tue Apr 17, 2018 10:09 am

Hey! so sorry that you had been through so much in life,
That must be tough. real tough journey,
we all are somewhere in this journey of TTC.
you just have to trust and stay calm in this journey,
losing something so precious is never so easy for anyone
this takes much strength to absorb that we have lost what we were struggling for so long.
Even I have read threads where women are TTC for 10 years. no one could even imagine that long journey.
One of the women had lost her beautiful twins in an accident.
wasn't that awful?
I just thought to share a bit of journey's that individuals are having. SO you might realize how much there is to see in this world.
I have personally learned so much from this life. that no one could imagine,
good luck to you lady.
stay strong.
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Re: TTC after 3rd MC

Postby Kendell bling » Fri Jun 15, 2018 9:22 am

You will every other woman struggling with it. I did too. I went for IVF. Unfortunately, the first cycle failed. The clinic I choose was not cooperative. Lotus didn't guide me correctly. So I ended up getting the cycle failed. Tries again with a different clinic. It was a success this time.
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Re: TTC after 3rd MC

Postby lillyP28 » Fri Jun 29, 2018 9:46 am

Hey. Hope you are doing well. I am sorrowful for you. It is a veracity that miscarriages are unacceptable. I would suggest you go for surrogacy to Europe. I had also a baby through surrogacy. I had fatigue injury. I was trying to conceive. My family was not accepting me. But, my husband was supportive enough to help me out. We both wanted a baby desperately. One of my colleagues suggested me go for surrogacy. Then we went to Europe for the suggested clinic. Now I have a baby. It feels really great. Best of luck.
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