UPDATE- +HPT! 12 DPO and grasping at straws.. Again. Evap?

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Re: 12 DPO and grasping at straws.. Again. Evap?

Postby SEL » Thu Mar 16, 2017 7:50 am

Awww no, am so sorry, was hoping for a better outcome especially as those lines were a tad darker, this truly sucks. Take some time to indulge yourself in chocolate/wine or whatever you like. :hugs:
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Re: 12 DPO and grasping at straws.. Again. Evap?

Postby GKR_1985 » Thu Mar 16, 2017 9:05 am

I am sorry that it turned out this way. If you want a ray of hope though, I had a similar thing happen to me before my last period. I thought it was likely a chemical, then next cycle I got my BFP. I think sometimes the chemicals might actually wake the body up and get it ready for the real deal the next time. Hopefully it works that way for you :).
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Re: 12 DPO and grasping at straws.. Again. Evap?

Postby Veronica86 » Thu Mar 16, 2017 12:37 pm

Thanks for the support ladies!! I initially was thinking that I must have just had a bunch of evaps- but the tests are mixed from different batches of Wondfos. Also, I lined up the tests in the order I took them from Monday to this morning... I feel like there was progression being made that peaked yesterday morning (at 14 DPO) then started dropping. This makes me think it was a chemical. What are your thoughts? I know it doesn't matter either way, but I'm just curious on what was actually happening!

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Re: 12 DPO and grasping at straws.. Again. Evap?

Postby SEL » Thu Mar 16, 2017 12:52 pm

OMG, look at that. I see the peak on 14dpo then it ebbs off. I am definitely thinking chemical which although is horrible in itself, it is kind of reassuring that you know you are ovulating and tubes are not blocked etc etc. I have had lots of chemicals and that is the only comfort I get from it.
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Re: 12 DPO and grasping at straws.. Again. Evap?

Postby Shia17 » Thu Mar 16, 2017 6:09 pm

Veronica I'm so sorry :( I'll keep everything crossed for your next cycle :)

As for the tests I agree they get darker on 14dpo like a progression but as they were taken outside of the time limit... I would think evaps... Good luck this cycle :) :babydustb:
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Re: 12 DPO and grasping at straws.. Again. Evap?

Postby LeahsMom » Fri Mar 17, 2017 6:06 am

Just because it's happened to me a few times, I'm going to say evaps as well. :hugs:
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Re: 12 DPO and grasping at straws.. Again. Evap?

Postby Veronica86 » Fri Mar 17, 2017 10:45 am

Thank you ladies! I appreciate the support/feedback from you all <3
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Re: 12 DPO and grasping at straws.. Again. Evap?

Postby Leilani1984 » Fri Mar 17, 2017 12:40 pm

This has happened to me numerous times during my 4.5 year ttc journey. What sucks is you never know if it truly was a chemical or just evaps. That's why it's best to wait until your period is late to test..... but who goes by that rule?! Certainly not me lol. Good luck next month!
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Re: 12 DPO and grasping at straws.. Again. Evap?

Postby crysann4 » Sat Mar 18, 2017 3:14 pm

I am so sorry Veronica! :( I see the lines, and I think cp too... :( Hugs!
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Re: 12 DPO and grasping at straws.. Again. Evap?

Postby Veronica86 » Wed Mar 22, 2017 9:19 pm

Is anybody online right now?!?! I'm going nuts! I just took an hpt and its POSITIVE.

I took two OPKs today and they were dark/almost positive... I thought this was weird since I'm only CD 7 today. Then started having lower back pain and lightly spotting, mixed with lots and lots of brown CM. I took a test after holding my pee for about an hour and it was almost a clear urine sample bc I've been drinking so much water lately...

Technically I am 21 DPO today. You can see how faint my tests were a week ago... is this line way too light- even though it was a very diluted sample?? Am I likely having a miscarriage?

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Re: 12 DPO and grasping at straws.. Again. Evap?

Postby orchidsea2016 » Wed Mar 22, 2017 9:28 pm

Go have betas drawn!! Maybe your o date was a bit off??? I wonder what your fmu test will look like!?!
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Re: UPDATE- +HPT! 12 DPO and grasping at straws.. Again. Eva

Postby Veronica86 » Wed Mar 22, 2017 9:36 pm

I'm going to hold for another 2 hours (3 hour total) hold and test again... and then again with FMU! It's 9:30pm here so I can't do betas until tomorrow! We will see.. I will obviously update as things (hopefully) progress!
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Re: UPDATE- +HPT! 12 DPO and grasping at straws.. Again. Eva

Postby orchidsea2016 » Wed Mar 22, 2017 10:02 pm

I think we are in the same time zone...will stalk for
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Re: UPDATE- +HPT! 12 DPO and grasping at straws.. Again. Eva

Postby LeahsMom » Thu Mar 23, 2017 4:01 am

Omg!!!
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Re: UPDATE- +HPT! 12 DPO and grasping at straws.. Again. Eva

Postby SEL » Thu Mar 23, 2017 4:56 am

OMG. I have no explanation of what is going on, but girl that is a one positive beaut of an HPT! :happyforyou:
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