Bfn 14 dpo frer, keep testing?

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Bfn 14 dpo frer, keep testing?

Postby Ccpon12 » Sun Dec 17, 2017 6:55 pm

Hey ladies, i would like some advice. I'm currently 14 dpo and I've been testing with the frer for the past three days. All fmu. All bfn. I'm supposed to have af tomorrow but I have absolutely none of my normal symptoms. I was cramping but they stopped two days ago and normally i cramp from a week before until two days after I start. I'm not supposed to start for two more days. Should I keep testing or not? I feel like at 14 dpo I should have had a positive by now since frer is so sensitive. Thoughts?
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Re: Bfn 14 dpo frer, keep testing?

Postby Ccpon12 » Sun Dec 17, 2017 9:40 pm

Bump. Sorry I'm pretty anxious right now.
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Re: Bfn 14 dpo frer, keep testing?

Postby HighlandGamesGirlCO » Sun Dec 17, 2017 9:52 pm

I would wait another day and try testing with evening urine. Lots of ladies get better lines with evening urine after a 3-4 hour hold than with FMU (I am one of them).
As far as it being 14dpo, there are many cases where moms get BFPs at 15dpo, 16dpo or even 18-20dpo, it all depends on when implantation happened and how much hcg your body makes how fast. Hang in there, you aren't out until AF shows!
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Re: Bfn 14 dpo frer, keep testing?

Postby Ccpon12 » Sun Dec 17, 2017 9:59 pm

Thank you! I'm just really nervous. I've had two miscarriages so every negative is a little heart breaking.
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Postby HighlandGamesGirlCO » Sun Dec 17, 2017 10:24 pm

I am sorry for your losses. I have had them too, and I understand you just want to be pregnant again. Hugs - Sending you tons of :babydustb:
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Re: Bfn 14 dpo frer, keep testing?

Postby Ccpon12 » Sun Dec 17, 2017 10:45 pm

Thank you. And baby dust to you too!
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Re: Bfn 14 dpo frer, keep testing?

Postby NewlyWed_Z » Tue Dec 19, 2017 5:27 am

Any update? Did you eventually get AF or your BFP? xx
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Re: Bfn 14 dpo frer, keep testing?

Postby Ccpon12 » Thu Dec 21, 2017 1:50 pm

Still nothing. Negative tests. No sign of aunt Flo. And I'm officially four days late. I've even been using frer. Ugh! The only thing different is that my cm went from super watery with milky white discharge, to completely dry, to wet with ewcm. And my nipples look weird. Like puffy, lighter, bigger, and have veins protruding out. My partner said they look the same as when I had my first miscarriage. I'm not quite sure what to think.
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Re: Bfn 14 dpo frer, keep testing?

Postby Ccpon12 » Thu Dec 21, 2017 1:51 pm

Sorry for the late message by the way, I was staying away from the site to try and get it off my mind.
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Re: Bfn 14 dpo frer, keep testing?

Postby Ccpon12 » Thu Dec 21, 2017 4:31 pm

I just started cramping and I noticed a little bit of brown in my cm (I use a menstrual cup) so I'm pretty sure I'm out. I'm pretty upset because this is the last month of ttc for a long time. My partner and I can't take the stress anymore.
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Re: Bfn 14 dpo frer, keep testing?

Postby Ccpon12 » Thu Dec 21, 2017 7:53 pm

She finally showed. Definitely out.
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Re: Bfn 14 dpo frer, keep testing?

Postby samrae » Mon Jan 01, 2018 2:00 pm

Hi Ccpon12, so sorry to hear about AF. Are you and your partner going to give it another go? I will be thinking of you both!!
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