BFN today BFP tomorrow!!! Part VIII - New Friends Welcome

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Do we want to keep this group as is? Or dissolve it and join Operation Population?

Keep as is, I like the small platform, though it is slow.
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Postby panacea » Tue Jun 09, 2009 12:14 pm

Aleia, yay for 6.5 weeks smoke free! Congrats!

Dana, wow 14 weeks!!! :shock: so fast :balloons:

My topic review isn't working. :hi: everyone!
Karen: 36 :hb: Jason: 38
Owen Thomas born 09/26/09
BFP July 30, 2011! *praying for a sticky bean*

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Postby Pureascrystal » Tue Jun 09, 2009 1:46 pm

Hey everyone...seems like every is doing great lately....that's so good


My mother does not want me to do IVF, she wants me to go straight to a donor sperm. I e-mailed her explaining that we feel like we would have regrets if we didn't do IVF and she responding stating that basically she didn't support my decision and didn't want to know about it...because she thinks I'm making a mistake. My mother and I are very close and it's so upsetting that she can't even just be there for me...even if she doesn't agree. I was also hoping she would help us financially some but I guess that is out of the picture... It makes me think, if the IVF is a success then I guess she will jump on the bandwagon and be all happy and supportive then....I know I'm going to be resentful if that happens. I just don't get how she can feel that way.
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Postby panacea » Tue Jun 09, 2009 3:48 pm

Crystal, I am so sorry your mother feels that way. Did she give reasons why? I understand that IVF is expensive, but it would then still be your own baby genetically. I don't think it would be difficult to see why you would prefer that if at all possible... :hugs:
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Postby birdyland » Tue Jun 09, 2009 3:55 pm

Ashley, yay for the good grade, and you look great!

Crystal, I'm sorry you got that result :-{ Sorry your mom is being difficult :-{ Maybe she is trying to protect you?

Jessie! I went to two stores, and neither had an intelligender!

Claire, I can't believe Jac is 6 weeks already! Wow! Cute pic :-} Oh I hope that bleeding goes away soon!

Karen, glad you had a good weekend with DH! Did you find a good house? Focus focus focus, on your exam, hopefully that will make the next two weeks go faster. I've got 6 weeks left of school, and I'm trying to focus on that. btw, I love your 3dpic.

Aleia, glad you like it! Good luck! Glad your u/s went well. That is a crazy long time to wait! Congrats on being smoke free, I'm proud of you.

Thanks for the congrats ladies on 14 weeks.... I can't believe how fast it has gone! I think I've been feeling baby move... but it is so few and far I'm not sure yet. Baby still giving me heartburn from hell, and stomach issues, but if that's the worst, I'll take it!

Looks like we're 50/50 on keeping/merging this group.... hmmmmm
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Postby Jessie22 » Tue Jun 09, 2009 4:35 pm

Dana-You can order it online @ Walgreens.com or while on Walgreens.com you can pull up the intelligender in a search and under add to cart it says "Check my store" for the availability. Hope you find it soon!!! Do you have any intuition as to what you think you're having?
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**BFP on 3/16/09**
EDD: November 22, 2009
1st :hb: 4/13: 162 BPM!
18 weeks :hb: 6/24: 142 BP
7/7 100% Little baby girl!!!!

November 19, 2009 @ 2:32 pm our little girl was born! 6lbs 4oz and 19 inches.

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Postby birdyland » Tue Jun 09, 2009 4:59 pm

Cool, thanks for the tip! It says it is "in stock" at my closest walgreens... I'll stop by on the way home!

I think it is girl, my Dad says girl, several of you have said girl.... DH hopes boy. lol

Dad has a track record of 18 for 18, so we shall see!
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Postby panacea » Tue Jun 09, 2009 5:11 pm

I think Jessie: boy, Dana: girl!

Intelligender sounds fun, but I didn't end up getting one b/c the reviews were so all over the place it sounded just as good as guessing since you have a 50% chance of being right.
Karen: 36 :hb: Jason: 38
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Postby buttercup28 » Wed Jun 10, 2009 6:18 am

Crystal: I'm so sorry about your mother. I have had some issues with my mother too and we are soooo close!! It seems their generation does not understand what we are going through. Back when they found out they were pregnant with us they had to miss 2 periods before they even went to the doctor. Pregnancy tests did not even become available until the 80's and even then were not reliable like ours are. My mother said to me that she cannot understand why I am so upset after having so many miscarriages because I should not have even known I was pregnant for another few weeks and if I did not take a PG test so early these miscarriages cannot really be miscarriages. Also she said there must be something wrong with me for sure if they are miscarriages because she popped babies out like candy and never had a problem. It makes me soooo mad, but I try to understand that she is from a time when there were not so many medical advancements and is just uneducated when it comes to things like this. Thats what helps me forgive her is that I know it's just ignorance.
Aleia Me 29
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DD 8
DSD 12
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3 early miscarriages

It's a girl! Isabella Billie Pierce
3/11/2010 3:42 P.M.
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Postby birdyland » Wed Jun 10, 2009 12:43 pm

Walgreens had ONE left, and it wasn't on the shelf, I had to ask for it, they say people are stealing them!

We just took it for fun... won't be choosing any colors based on it.

And Intelligender says...........................











ORANGE=GIRL

That's what I keep saying! And dad says, and Christie says, and Karen says.... lol
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Postby Jessie22 » Wed Jun 10, 2009 1:02 pm

Yay Dana!! We shall see soon if its right! I thought girl for you too in the beginning :)
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18 weeks :hb: 6/24: 142 BP
7/7 100% Little baby girl!!!!

November 19, 2009 @ 2:32 pm our little girl was born! 6lbs 4oz and 19 inches.

<a href="http://lilypie.com/"><img src="http://lilypie.com/pic/2009/11/28/Lfpq.jpg" width="100" height="80" border="0" alt="Lilypie - Personal picture" /><img src="http://lb1f.lilypie.com/9R9tm6.png" width="400" height="80" border="0" alt="Lilypie First Birthday tickers" /></a>

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Postby buttercup28 » Wed Jun 10, 2009 1:07 pm

Dana: I also think you will be having a girl!!! How exciting!!! I am curious to see if the inteligender is correct for the both of you!!
Aleia Me 29
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DSD 12
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It's a girl! Isabella Billie Pierce
3/11/2010 3:42 P.M.
9lbs 12oz 22 in.
Our family is complete!

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Postby Jessie22 » Wed Jun 10, 2009 1:30 pm

Oh and my sis in law did hers this morning and it came back BOY... So we will have 3 to compare whether or not this thing has worked!
Me: 24
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-Married 05/26/07--Together since 6/13/03
-Not preventing since Jan '08
**BFP on 3/16/09**
EDD: November 22, 2009
1st :hb: 4/13: 162 BPM!
18 weeks :hb: 6/24: 142 BP
7/7 100% Little baby girl!!!!

November 19, 2009 @ 2:32 pm our little girl was born! 6lbs 4oz and 19 inches.

<a href="http://lilypie.com/"><img src="http://lilypie.com/pic/2009/11/28/Lfpq.jpg" width="100" height="80" border="0" alt="Lilypie - Personal picture" /><img src="http://lb1f.lilypie.com/9R9tm6.png" width="400" height="80" border="0" alt="Lilypie First Birthday tickers" /></a>

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Postby buttercup28 » Thu Jun 11, 2009 5:29 am

Good morning ladies: I am getting so frustrated!!! Almost all year I have at CD 14 or less. Now the last few cycles I have been Oing at CD17-20. Now I have no idea when I am going to O and it's driving me batty!!! I am so anal of course I like to know everything ahead of time, but lately I cannot predict when I will O!!! I am on CD 12 and monitor says low. And I have NO signs of even approaching O!! :( Boy, all you do when TTc is wait!!!! :x :x Now I am waiting to O and waiting for my results to my RPL tests!! My luck, I will never get an explanation!
Aleia Me 29
DH 34
DD 8
DSD 12
DSS14
TTC since July 2008
3 early miscarriages

It's a girl! Isabella Billie Pierce
3/11/2010 3:42 P.M.
9lbs 12oz 22 in.
Our family is complete!

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Postby birdyland » Thu Jun 11, 2009 10:00 am

Aleia (((Hugs)))) frustrating... I know!
~ Dana ~
Controlled: Diabetic T2/Insulin, Hypothyroid/ 137mcg levoxyl
Me30, DH 32 married 04/04/04
3 Natural very early m/cs between 5/08 & 2/09

BFP 3/23/9 ~10DPO-ish
Bryce is HERE! 12/4 - 7lbs 15oz 20in HEALTHY!
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Postby buttercup28 » Thu Jun 11, 2009 10:20 am

Hi Dana!! Are you starting to show yet??
Aleia Me 29
DH 34
DD 8
DSD 12
DSS14
TTC since July 2008
3 early miscarriages

It's a girl! Isabella Billie Pierce
3/11/2010 3:42 P.M.
9lbs 12oz 22 in.
Our family is complete!

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