BFN today BFP tomorrow!!! Part VIII - New Friends Welcome

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Do we want to keep this group as is? Or dissolve it and join Operation Population?

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Postby ashleysbaby » Sun Jun 14, 2009 3:55 pm

Jessie...I'm keeping it. I had an abortion when I was 18 and vowed on that day I'd never be doing that again so I will live with the choices I made if the Lord sees fit for this to be successful.

Yes it is the guy in the military who is now gone to Afghanistan only been gone for like 2 days and will be there until June 2010 on top of that I didn't mentioned that he's involved with someone so I have no clue how I'm going to tell him...

Physically I am fine I did throw up this morning which cued me to take a test as well as the IB I was mentioning that has now pretty much stopped but I am having slight cramps and back pains....

I am not happy with the situation with me and him but overall I am happy the Lord has blessed me with another chance although the circumstances are not favorable...but I will be ok, I always am.
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Postby Jessie22 » Sun Jun 14, 2009 4:17 pm

Oh wow, that is a tough situation especially that he's involved w/ someone else. How serious are they, do you know?
When do you think you'll be able to tell him?
So you'll be due sometime in March!! I bet you have a million emotions going through you right now, and I'm glad you didn't even think about abortion. If this is the way things are supose to be, then that's how they'll be and you will get by just fine!
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Postby ashleysbaby » Sun Jun 14, 2009 4:28 pm

Jessie...let's just say he is legally involved...if that's a nice way to put it. I just found out a couple of days ago he has 6 kids already, well I knew about 3 of em but 2 before he got legally involved, 3 while being legally involved and one new one outside of his legal involvement....now the one that is cooking (mine) will make 7.....I am ashamed to say I allowed myself to ever get involved with him, I was not the pursuer...but that doesn't make it any better either but s**t happens and I never saw this coming but I know my baby is not a mistake.

FF says I'm due 2/26/10 but yea it could run over into march. This is crazy my 19 yr old cousin is 6 months pg, my 39 yr old cousin is 6wks pg and now me 3wks....our family has never had 3 pg women in it at a time.

I feel kinda depressed right now and I know that's not good. I do have a million emotions going on....with him being involved, I do love him, but I know we can't be together, I am PG with his child and don't know how he will react being that he just had a new baby outside his legal involvement that he doesn't know I know about, I am happy to be, but ashamed too, then on the other aspect I don't know when I'm going to tell him and exactly what I will say, then he won't be back till the baby's 4 months and I don't know how he will react to my decision of keeping it because Im sure he will not want me to because of his obligations....but I do know he takes care of all of em so that's about the only good thing right now.
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Postby panacea » Sun Jun 14, 2009 10:24 pm

Oh wow, Ashley. I don't know what to say. Sounds like you have a lot to think about. I wish you the best with this. After trying to get pregnant for so long and then it happening now in this situation...isn't it funny how things usually seem to make some sense in hindsight but at the time we have to wonder what life is trying to do to us/tell us?
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Postby birdyland » Sun Jun 14, 2009 10:56 pm

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