Wishing & Waiting for #1, Part 21

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Postby beegee » Thu May 19, 2011 8:19 am

Mnmgrl, I'm so sorry to hear the IUI didn't work.

Lisa, just posted on your other thread. I have no idea what's going on, that line is definitely there.
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Postby Lisa79 » Thu May 19, 2011 8:30 am

mnm- I'm sorry AF showed up **HUGS** Always sucks when AF arrives.


I wish I knew what was going on with my body. I HOPE it's not ectopic.... gawd I hope it's not.
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Postby edswife05 » Thu May 19, 2011 9:42 am

Lisa-thinking about you and sending you many prayers and hugs.
Call your doc could be twins n one was a late implanter.

Mnmgrl-I know how you feel. Take a few minutes to pamper yourself n dh. Sometimes a vacation is what u need to refocus.

Kaida-u never know what can happen.

Ijgrl-I hope you and your family r doing good.

Meike-love the profile pic. I hope you n yours a doing great.

Everyone else greetings, congratulations, prayers, hugs, good thoughts, n luv. Couldn't do all post but I think about you all.

AFM-I am in the middle of one of the longest cycles of my life. I am over due according to oppks but I will not test. I don't want to be disappointed. I should have known that it would be long after the last cycle ended so short. Other than that life is great and I am ready for what is coming.
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Postby IJgirl » Thu May 19, 2011 10:38 am

Hey Lisa, also hadn't given up hope for you and that line is unmistakable. I know its mighty confusing right now, but I'm praying fervently it all ends in a BFP for you and definitely not an ectopic.

Hey Edswife, glad to know life is great for you and you are so positive. Hope ur long cycle sorts itself out soon.

Mnmgirl, so sorry to hear your IUI didn't take. Hope you're feeling beta now. Any news back from the urologist on ur DH's status?

Kaida, maybe you should give it a few more days and then test. A surprise BFP might just be in the offing for you.

D1, wow, must be fun preparing for a new baby already. I loved going baby shopping, though it took its toll on my body. One of those things you look forward to. Also love your new AV pic.

Cassidy, wow, sucks that you're still working so much, esp since you were looking forward to a long rest after tax season. Great that you're giving yourself more time to convince DH. Is he still completely negative about it?

mrsmcd, good you still have ur old positive results to look at. June 10th is just round the corner!

Waving at everyone else. Hi y'all!

Afm, still waiting for baby to arrive. Practically confirmed now that DH will be away all of next week, which, even though we need the money he'll be making, sucks big time. During the week I noticed there was reduced fetal movement so went to see my doc who ordered an U/S to find out what was going on. He said if it came back showing reduced movement, then we would try and make labour come early by this weekend. Had d U/S, which showed baby was fine, but I started having some spotting over the last few days. Doc again thought about making labour come early, but my BP was a bit high so he didn't think it was a good idea. So now we are still waiting. Though one good thing the U/S showed though was that his weight was 3.4kg, which is good, because I was worried he might be getting too big.

Like I said before, would really love for DH to be around for the birth, this being our first baby and all, so now I'm really praying something happens from now till Saturday. That would just be d perfect end to this pregnancy. FX all things work together for good for us on that.
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Postby beegee » Thu May 19, 2011 10:48 am

IJgirl, i can't believe how close you are!!! I really hope DH can be there for the birth, for both of you-- he won't want to miss it and you need his support. 39 weeks already, wow wow wow! GOOD LUCK!!!! Can't wait to hear the birth story :) :) :)

Edswife, your positivity continues to be outstanding. Weird about the long cycle (and i hope it's bc you're preg :) ) How is your weight loss going?
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Postby d1ehexe » Thu May 19, 2011 11:27 am

Lisa : I told u , u were due for a Miracle . Is ur Doc nice ? Call him and demand an U/S , ever considerd that there might have been Twins ?
If it was an ectopic u would be in a lot of Pain right now and if it was a chemical it would be gone now . If it was a normal M/C it would be gone now , u would be around what 5 weeks ? The Hcg would be super low especialy if ur bleeding . Keep taking the Progestone and make an Appointment to see him asap , if it is a MC there is nothing they can do BUT if ur still pregnant and the Bleed is cause by something else u will need to go on bedrest for a few days or up the Progesterone . I will not lose hope !!!!

IJ : I really hope that DH will be home in time before ur little Boy comes , so exciting !!!!

Edswife : Ok , I can understand that u don't want to test , maybe check ur cervix ? If it's high and close u might want to take that test :wink: FXFXFXFX

mnm : HUGS , sorry that the IUI didn't work .

Cherrie : I don't know but with me if I was late and the Test was - , it only meant AF was late . Did u test again ?

AFM Ben is doing good , stoping Formula soon and switching to normal Food for all his meals , no more Baby mush with Bits YAY The smell makes me feel pucky LOL

Pumpkin is growing and I get some proper Kicks every now and again , can't wait till I feel them all the time . Will do a Pic next week after my U/S , then u can see that I look rather pregnant already :shock:
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Postby Lisa79 » Thu May 19, 2011 1:33 pm

d1e- Sounds like everything is going great :D

Heh, you're actually the first person I thought of when I took that answer test and saw that there was still a line.
I think I'm just going to wait until Monday to tell them and see what my tests do.
IF I do experience any kind of pain on either side, I'll call them up ASAP then.

IJgirl- OOO sounds like any day now! I really hope your DH is gonna be there for the birth!

edswife- **HUGS** I'm sorry about the long cycle, but other than that, it sounds like you are really great.

afm- As I mentioned to d1e.... I think I am just going to wait until Monday unless something happens that makes me need to call them ASAP. I know they're usually there in the early morning hours on the weekend, so yeah, once again, if anything funky happens, I'll just swing by then.
I dunno why I'm still getting positive tests, but I'm sure we'll have answers by monday.
In the meantime, I have my wondfo tests, and I'll use them until then to track whatever is going on. I actually should be getting more tomorrow too, so I can test a WHOLE bunch lol.
Thanks for putting up with my obsessing and freak outs :D
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Postby kaidanariko » Thu May 19, 2011 10:07 pm

lisa- dont worry about the freaking out. im doing it too. im also hoping and praying your not having an ectopic, but im also hoping its just a REALY slow HCG level raise due to the bleeding and that the bleeding turns out to just be weird.


AFM- ive been bloating all day and getting weird AF symptoms. everytime i feel the slightest shift down there i start thinking something is starting and i go to the bathroom to find nothing.

if im going by my standard 30-31 day cycle, dur to my 11-13 day time after i ovulate to start af, i should be... *thinks* im currently 18 DPO. ive taken 3 tests all at different times i took one at 13 DPO one at 15 DPO and 16 DPO. all of which were negaative except for that weird one at 13 dpo that was a faint faint positive while the window still had some pink dye running across but when the background went fully white it followed with a 30 second delay. every other test has been a negative. im going to test a few more times maybe. im debating getting an expensive test (a walmart one, or a FRER but i find it pointless since i can get them at the dollar store.) if it dosnt start by next thursday, or i start having messed up symptoms like pain, bloodpressure problems or something ill go to the emergency room, but if it hasnt by thursday my family doc has a clinic next thursday and ill pop in there and get his opinion, probably get blood drawn, and if theres nothing on a beta if they do one ill see if he can give me something to kck start my period.

i havent told hubby yet...hes a bit suspicious, but hes got soo much on his plate and so much else i dont wont to burden him with worry on something that he has no controll over. if im pregnant which i dont think but im not ruling out ill tell him evidently but if my body is just messed up ill just kinda deal with it on my own.

one of my hypothesis on a possible week late AF is that jayne started lactating. i know that sounds werid, but my body syncs my AF with other peoples and since shes gotten pregnant my AF hasgotten weird, much heavier and shorter where before hand it was medium and took 9 days. but im wondering if since lactating horomones delay ovulation for the lactating person my body is trying to sync us together again and failing... i unno, its a weird hypothisis, but it a thought...


also, hubby had an accident at work that may take some serious looking into. yesterdat he was at work driving his bobcat and his bucket knicked a 2X4X6 he was going full speed it popped up in the air, he covered his face cause he thought it was coming at his face but it hit the roll bar went up vertically and came down full weight on his testicals. everyone at work laughed at him and made fun of him, and they made him keep working. today they were swolen like 2X their size, and if they dont go down by tomorrow hes going to the hospital or a clinic or something to get checked out to make sure something is nt ruptured. he knows if he ows in hes going to have a dr fondling him and hes realy hoping to avoid it but im still realy worried. as much as i want him to be ok, and iwant him to still be able to have babies i still want him to be able to DTD aka BD...i mean...hes sore, he can barely pee...

prayrs are appreciated. keep you posted with the tests.
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Postby edswife05 » Thu May 19, 2011 11:36 pm

Weightloss update. I am down 7lbs would have been more but I changed diets n gained so back to south beach we went. Dh is down 19lbs.
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Postby edswife05 » Fri May 20, 2011 3:43 am

Weightloss update. I am down 7lbs would have been more but I changed diets n gained so back to south beach we went. Dh is down 19lbs.
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Postby Lisa79 » Fri May 20, 2011 8:24 am

edswife- Wow, Congrats on the awesome weightloss!!! You and your DH :D

kaida- Yikes, I hope your DH is gonna be ok.
My cycles used to do that as well when I was younger and lived with my best friend. Even with my screwed up cycles, they still tried to sync up with hers.

afm- Wondfo still showing something faint. I'm not freaking out like I was yesterday. Thinking that for whatever reason, my body is just trying to hold on to something or it's taking longer to flush out.
It's gonna be interesting to see what happens this weekend. I'll of course bring it up with the doc if I'm still testing positive by then.

Still debating if I want to face DH's family tonight.
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Postby babydust2me » Fri May 20, 2011 9:21 am

Lisa - I don't know what's going on with you either but let us know what your doctor says Monday. I think you need to just go with your gut on the family dinner tonight. If it's going to be too hard with your SIL there, then just stay home. :hugs:

edswife - Congrats on the weight loss! Keep up the great work!

mnmgirl - Sorry to hear about your IUI :hugs: A break may be good for your emotions right now. Let us know what the urologist says about your DH.

IJgirl - Dh and I actually haven't really talked about treatments since that last conversation. I figure if I just give him some TTC-Talk free time he'll start to come around. I hope that your DH will be around for the baby's birth! Let us know what winds up happening!

Lee - :hi:

Meike - I can't believe you're almost halfway through already! That's so exciting about the kicks :D I've always heard that you show faster for your second child than your first.

Cherie - I hope your DH gets better soon!

AFM - I don't have much to say really. DH and I will be out of town and sharing a camper with some friends around O time so we're pretty much on a break this month. I kind of like the stress free time I've going on right now.
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Postby Lisa79 » Fri May 20, 2011 10:11 am

babydust- Hope you have fun on your trip :D

A part of me wants to go.... just so they won't be suspicious, but then another part of me actually wants them to know?
Not that I want sympathy from them or anything like that. *shrugs*
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Postby beegee » Fri May 20, 2011 10:21 am

Lisa, I think the family should know what you guys are going through. Maybe they'll be more sensitive to your feelings in the future (hopefully). Just my opinion though-- and ultimately i'm with Cassidy; go with your gut!

Edswife, congrats on the weight loss so far!

Cassidy, have fun camping! How hot is the weather where you are right now? Must be hot like summer, right?
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Postby JessM » Fri May 20, 2011 2:41 pm

Wow I got so far behind!

Lisa- I am still holding out hope. There is no denying that that is a line, and a pretty good one at that. If it was still just at 8 or less, you would barely be able to see the line. I wonder what's going on, I will be on the edge of my seat!

Edswife- good job on the weight loss! I know how hard it is, I've struggled with my weight for years. I'm proud of you! Its so nice DH and you are doing it together. My DH just went on a diet and I helped him by eating all the ice cream last night. (It really was only 1/4 of a pint)

Cassidy- Have fun on your camping trip! Enjoy your month off.

Mnmgrl- I'm sorry to hear your IUI didn't work this month. I hope the break helps you to feel better. :hugs:

Meike- Yay for kicks! I can't wait to start feeling kicks. What do they feel like? You must be getting so excited :)

kaida- that's scary! I hope DH is okay. Sometimes its just the initial swelling and there is no permanent damage, hopefully that is the case!

If I missed anyone, sorry I got a little behind! The board has been treating my weird, not letting me post occasionally and making me enter captchas a million times until I finally give up!

AFM- I had a little scare today, I was bleeding rectally (embarrassing!) and my OB said to go to the ER. So I did and it turned out to just be a hemorrhoid, and they said its no indicator that anything is wrong with the baby. I wish they'd at least checked for my peace of mind, but they assured me it was fine.
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