December 2011 DDC - Angel Mommas

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December 2011 DDC - Angel Mommas

Postby flipflop1117 » Mon May 09, 2011 7:52 pm

Hi ladies. It's sad that we have to be here, but since we are, I figured we can cheer each other on to out BFPs! Any other momma's of angels out there are more than welcome to join us. Hopefully, with a strong group of women who have been through similar experiences, we can lean on each other and be there for each other in ways that our real life friends and family cannot!

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Names::JK1978 (flipflop1117 on Preg side) - Me: April (32) DH: Brian (33)
Location: Cleveland Ohio
TTC history
9/00 - Ectopic @ 8 weeks
2/07 - MC @ 8 weeks (unknown cause)
11/07 - Chemical @ 4.5 weeks (unknown cause)
4/08 - MC @ 6 weeks (unknown cause)
10/09 - MC @ 11 weeks (Triploidy 69 xxy)
3/15/11 - DS Jaxon born 6lbs8oz 18" long
5/11 - MC @ 6 weeks (blighted ovum)

Current TTC Status: Waiting to try again in Aug/Sept 2011

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Names: ladyraider- Me:Renee(34) DH:Pete (40)
Location: Georgia
TTC history
06 - Loss at 9 weeks. Saw the hb at 6 weeks 1 day, then went in at a little over 8 weeks and babys hb had stopped. Dr. told me to stop crying----he didn't want to upset his other patients (A-hole!) D & C. Then switched to another doc.
06- Chemical - Metformin Only
07- Loss at 4 weeks (little over) - Clomid cycle
07-Loss at 5 weeks 2 days - Clomid Cycle
diagnosed with blood clotting disorder
08-09- IUI with meds. Put on Lovenox for the blood clotting disorder once got BFP. Conceived and gave birth to the most handsome baby boy named Peter Daniel on 7-15-09!!
11- Loss at 7 weeks 4 days (blighted ovum) - Clomid Cycle
Currrent TTC Status: Going to IUI if we do not conceive this cycle. Praying it works the first time like with Danny!!

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Names: Fittblonde - Me: Theresa(41) DH:Chad (35)
Location: Los Angeles, CA
TTC history
2/10: possible chemical - undocumented (knew nothing about TTC)
5/10: chemical pregnancy - low iniitial beta that just declined
10/10: BFP through first IUI. development stopped at 5 weeks 3 days
1/11: BFP another chemical - IUI
3/11: All natural BFP on a break. Fetal loss at 8 weeks 5 days. week 6, 7 and 8, strong heartbeat.
5/12: D&C
Currrent TTC Status: See RE in 3 weeks. We are not wasting anymore time and moving right to IVF. I am so hopeful that this is the best course of action to find a healthy egg. I am super excited to get started. If this doesn't work then we will move onto a donor egg. My sister in law offered to be my surrogate if they find the problem is with me. I am so determined to get there.

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Names: want2beamommy24- Me: Jamie(28 ) DH:Drew (29)
Location: IL
TTC history
3+ years
Blighted Ovum 4/30/10...miscarried naturally at 10 weeks
Miscarriage 5/1/11...miscarried naturally at 7 weeks (cause unknown)
Currrent TTC Status: Trying naturally while RE and OBGYN run more tests for recurrent SAB and infertility....should know more in the next month or so what our TTC plan will be.

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Names: rankrank23 - Me: Rachel (25) DH: Mark (27))
Location: Tennessee
TTC history
6/07- MC at 5weeks and 5 days
7/8/08- Lia born at 12:56 pm 5lbs3oz (a week overdue)
4/17/11 MC at 7weeks 6days (Saw heartbeat and healthy looking baby on the 15th and 16th)

Current TTC Status: Not trying but not preventing and hoping to be pregnant by the end of Summer.

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Names: ravenaub - Me: Aubre(30) DH: Josh (33)
Location: Oklahoma City, OK
TTC history
TTC #3, DH diagnosed with antisperm antibodies in 1/11. IVF with ICSI 3/11. BFP, but low initial BETA, bleeding, and an early loss at 7w4d. No frosties
Current TTC Status: Heartbroken. Everything is gray. We don't know what to do right now.

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Names: kizziedee – Me:Kim(27) DH: Andrew (27)
Location: UK
TTC history
Mc at 8 weeks sept 2007 (was on bc and only found out I was pregnant 10 days before mc, whilst unplanned I was devastated at the loss)
My DD (Ena Elizabeth) born 2008 with heart condition- 3 open heart ops all before her 2nd birthday. extremely stressful few years but she's my miracle child who is doing well!
Ttc #2 for 5 months with suspected hormone imbalance- complete mc at 7 weeks April 2011 after seeing heartbeat the week before
Current TTC Status: waiting for first period not for medical reasons but emotional really though I'm currently away from dh with family so no choice in the matter for a few weeks!

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Names: bilson – Me:Stephanie(32) DH:Dave (31)
Location: Ontario, Canada
TTC history
Brief TTC/Loss History: We have been NTNP since May 2010 and then got into the serious nitty-gritty of it in December 2010 (temping, charting, OPTs). Got our first EVER faint positive on Mar.22/11, which turned into our first miscarriage on Apr.1/11 (what a fool...) and confirmed by U/S on Apr.5/11. I had to take the misoprostol because my body was not doing what it was supposed to. I finally got the all clear last Saturday - no more betas required as I had finally dropped low enough to be considered "not pregnant".
Current TTC Status: We are trying to figure out if this is a REAL cycle by temping (not very well though..I dropped off that bandwagon right after I got my pos. hpt). I am getting laser eye surgery next week, so I can't really try this cycle anyway. We are looking forward to June!!

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Names: TTCBabyw (Babyw2009 on Pregnant boards) Me: Megan (26) DH: Eric (28 )
Location: Chicago, IL
TTC history
DD1- Claire Constance 7.10.2009
Angel Baby- May 2011 (missed miscarriage)
Current TTC Status: Not trying, not preventing. Go back to RE middle of June.

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Names: Fawkes - Me: Crystal (26), DH: Jonathan (27)
Location: South Flordia
TTC history
7/2008 - started TTC #1
4/2009 - started fertility work up
5/7/2009 - BFP
1/7/2010 - Gave birth to Addison Elizabeth
8/1/2010 - started TTC #2
5/12/2011 - BFP
5/17/2011 - Early Miscarriage
Current TTC Status: was told to wait one cycle, but we are just going to NTNP instead.
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Postby ladyraider » Tue May 10, 2011 10:46 am

Hi, my name is Renee and I was part of the October DDC. I lost my angel at 7 weeks 4 days due to a blighted ovum. I know I am not a December mama (although I so wanted to be!), but I was wondering if I might join you guys? Wishing everyone lots of luck and hopefully a quick journey to a healthy :bfp:

Little history about me. I am diagnosed with a blood lotting disorder. We began TTC in 2006 and I lost 4 babies between then and 2008. In 2008 we conceived our miracle Danny via fertility meds and IUI and sustained the pregnancy through lots of prayer and Lovenox. Almost 1 year ago we began TTC #2. We finally fell pregnant on Feb. 16(my dads bday) with clomid (5th round) and later lost the baby at 7weeks 4days (on St. Patricks Day) due to blighted ovum. Oddly enough (besides finding out on my dads bday and lsoing the baby on st. Pattys day) the baby was due on Halloween.

TTC has been a very hard and painful journey for us, and I have been looking for others who understand.
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Postby Fittblonde » Tue May 10, 2011 2:50 pm

Flipflop...I started a group over on the TTC after a loss. I will delete and post here. Thank you.
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TTC #1 since 2/14/10 - 4 MC
3/11 Au natural BFP 10 DPO! Beta 1237 16 dpo
5/09 9 wk baby passed - boy Trisomy 15
IVF #1: 11/2011 - 3 retrieved - none to transfer

March 2012 au natural BFP at 9dpo!!!
3/14 Beta 1: 70@12DPO
3/16 Beta 2: 217@14DPO
5/14 NT scan and Maternity 21 Plus BW - norma
Amino and Micro Array testing - ALL NORMAL!!!!l
Donor egg cycle canceled due to our miracle
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Postby want2bamommy24 » Tue May 10, 2011 4:24 pm

Hey Ladies! Wish we didn't have to start this group, but thankful to have some supportive ladies to turn to....I did love the December mamas!:)

You can see my TTC story if you click on my FF chart below. We have been TTC (sometimes more than others) for 3+ years now. I have had two pregnancies...and ironically, miscarried almost to the day one year apart. I had a blighted ovum that I miscarried at 10 weeks on April 30, 2010, and now I have miscarried a beautiful little bean on May 1, 2011 at 7 weeks. So far, there is no explanation as to why we have had trouble conceiving or staying pregnant when we get pregnant. They think I may have endometriosis, but it is just based on symptoms at this time...so that may explain the difficulty conceiving. As for the difficulty staying pregnant....they are testing for a blood clotting disorder now, so we will see the results of that. We are blessed to be with a very aggressive fertility doctor now, so I am hoping to get some answers and hopefully have a STICKY little bean soon!

Look forward to getting to know everyone!!! Praying for lots of 2012 babies!!!!!
Me (Jamie) - 30, DH - 31
DS born 7.10.12 via IVF after 4 years TTC!!

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Postby Fittblonde » Tue May 10, 2011 4:33 pm

jamie...I am so sorry. I can totally relate. I have had 4 miscarriages. I do have a blood clotting disorder however they believe this one is due to a genetic defect. Did you have the tissue tested for abnormalities? A blood clotting disorder is so easy to fix with a daily injection of a blood thinner...simple and painless.

I having a D&C either Thursday or Friday along with genetic testing. I just feel in my heart the baby had downs. We will soon find out.

I am happy to have the support here and I know we will all conceive very soon.
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TTC #1 since 2/14/10 - 4 MC
3/11 Au natural BFP 10 DPO! Beta 1237 16 dpo
5/09 9 wk baby passed - boy Trisomy 15
IVF #1: 11/2011 - 3 retrieved - none to transfer

March 2012 au natural BFP at 9dpo!!!
3/14 Beta 1: 70@12DPO
3/16 Beta 2: 217@14DPO
5/14 NT scan and Maternity 21 Plus BW - norma
Amino and Micro Array testing - ALL NORMAL!!!!l
Donor egg cycle canceled due to our miracle
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Postby want2bamommy24 » Tue May 10, 2011 4:41 pm

No, we didn't have the tissue tested because both miscarriages were complete spontaneous miscarriages that happened at home.:( So, no testing could be done. I had like 20 vials of blood taken last Wednesday now though...testing for all kinds of stuff, so I am hoping that will give us some answers.

Btw...I am so, so sorry for your loss. I really thought this one was going to be a sticky one for you. I really appreciated your support during my anxiousness in the December Due Date Forum. I am praying we can both have sticky beans this year!
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Postby Fittblonde » Tue May 10, 2011 5:02 pm

Oh Jamie...I had all that testing done after my first loss. I almost passed out from the 20 viles!!! That is where they found I had a PAI disorder. I hope they find something simple and fixable. It is so hard when they just don't know.

I have so many emotions going on today but I just can't help to just feel excited about the future. It is a bizzare feeling of calm. I can't even explain it.

The thing that really sucks is I am still really sick in the afternoon. I just want the baby out so I can feel better again. I feel selfish for saying that but the baby has been gone for about a week now. I have no signs that I will miscarry.

I am also excited to continue on this journey with everyone.
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TTC #1 since 2/14/10 - 4 MC
3/11 Au natural BFP 10 DPO! Beta 1237 16 dpo
5/09 9 wk baby passed - boy Trisomy 15
IVF #1: 11/2011 - 3 retrieved - none to transfer

March 2012 au natural BFP at 9dpo!!!
3/14 Beta 1: 70@12DPO
3/16 Beta 2: 217@14DPO
5/14 NT scan and Maternity 21 Plus BW - norma
Amino and Micro Array testing - ALL NORMAL!!!!l
Donor egg cycle canceled due to our miracle
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TTC Baby #2 Au Natural until November 2014 then we will move onto Donor Eggs
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Postby want2bamommy24 » Tue May 10, 2011 5:43 pm

So glad you are feeling calm about the future. I see in your siggy that you are likely headed toward IVF in the future....that may be the route we end up going as well. Our RE thinks that it is the best route to go with endometriosis, so if that is confirmed, we may be headed toward IVF as well.

Btw....in case anyone is wondering about my ticker saying +HPT....I am testing out my HCG...my doctor doesn't do blood tests to confirm that the HCG is back to 0, so I am testing it out to make sure it is dropping. So far the tests are getting lighter, but IMHO, they are still pretty dark for 10 days after losing the baby. They said it was a complete SAB, so I hope they are right....I would hate to have to end up doing a D & C after miscarrying naturally. Ugh.
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Postby Fittblonde » Tue May 10, 2011 5:52 pm

I am sick about spending the money but our RE think that is our best shot at getting the highest quality embryos. Honestly it is worth going into debt for but was just hoping for it to happen naturally. At my age they will implant 3 or 4. I was never open to the idea of having twins but now it is growing on me. We really want 2 and time is running out. If I have to go the donor egg route, we will do that.

Do you go back for an ultrasound to make sure you miscarried all the tissue?

I thought I miscarried on my own with my last pregnancy. I went in a week later for an ultrasound and found that there was still tissue. We had to take the pill to clean out the rest of my uterus. They said the pill this time is not effective because I am too far along plus I want the tissue looked at.
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TTC #1 since 2/14/10 - 4 MC
3/11 Au natural BFP 10 DPO! Beta 1237 16 dpo
5/09 9 wk baby passed - boy Trisomy 15
IVF #1: 11/2011 - 3 retrieved - none to transfer

March 2012 au natural BFP at 9dpo!!!
3/14 Beta 1: 70@12DPO
3/16 Beta 2: 217@14DPO
5/14 NT scan and Maternity 21 Plus BW - norma
Amino and Micro Array testing - ALL NORMAL!!!!l
Donor egg cycle canceled due to our miracle
Chloe Ann arrived November 20, 2012 Via induction
TTC Baby #2 Au Natural until November 2014 then we will move onto Donor Eggs
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Postby want2bamommy24 » Tue May 10, 2011 6:14 pm

I hear you about the cost of this TTC stuff. Our insurance covers a lot of testing, but I work for a Catholic hospital system, so a lot of the treatments are not covered. It's just sad that we may have to pay for things that happen so easily for some people. Ah well...such is life.

To answer your question, we don't have any more ultrasounds scheduled at this point. They did one following the miscarriage and didn't see any remaining tissue, so I think if the HPTs don't get lighter in the next week or so, I will give them a call. I'm ashamed to admit it, but my body did a decent job clearing out after the first miscarriage, so I am hopeful that it will do it again this time. It just took a little longer for my first cycle to come back...about 6 weeks. I am trying to stay patient, but it is hard because I am scheduled for CD3 bloodwork next cycle, so I just want it to come already!!:)
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Postby flipflop1117 » Tue May 10, 2011 6:52 pm

ladyraider - Of course! Welcome :)
Fittblonde & want2bamommy24 :hi:

Here's my story:

I knew something was off with me when I first started getting my period. I only got it 2 or 3 times a year, and it was super heavy for 4-5 days, then lighter for another 3-4 days. I went to my gyno with my mother and they decided I needed BC to regulate, but no testing was ever done. When DH and I were engaged, I went to the ER with what I thought was my appendix and it turned out to be an ectopic pregnancy. My BC clearly failed, and we were getting married in 10 months, so I came off and we did the NTNP method from 2002 - 2006 with not one single BFP but my periods were back to 2-3 x a year since I was off the BC. In Feb of 2007 I got a BFP. I M/C at 8 weeks.

To see an RE via my insurance I needed to be TTC for at least one year with no success on record. So, we started charting and using OPKs and it seemed I wasn't ovulating most months. In that time I had one more M/C at 6 weeks. In March of 2008 I saw my gyno again and we made the appt with the RE, and did the initial IF testing. I was set to go back in July and in June while on vacation, I got my BFP again (again unmedicated) This time I M/C at 11 weeks due to Triploidy 69. I went on for further testing and was offically dx with PCOS. I began Clomid in January of 2009 and had 2 cycles of no O, or no BFP and so they testing my insulin and realized I was Insulin Resistant. I started taking Metformin for 3 months, and then tried Clomid again and got my BFP in July of 2009. Jaxon was born 9 months later

In January of this year I started the Metformin again and April 19th I got a BFP. (No Clomid YAY!) Sadly, it was a blighted ovum, they think, and I MC 5/6/11.
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Postby flipflop1117 » Tue May 10, 2011 7:00 pm

I am gonna set up the first post with all our group member info. When you get a chance, can you copy/fill in the following?

Name(age) DH Name(age)
Location
Brief TTC/Loss History
Current TTC Status

Example:

Names:JK1978 (flipflop1117on Preg side) - Me: April (32) DH: Brian (33)
Location: Cleveland Ohio
TTC history
9/00 - Ectopic @ 8 weeks
2/07 - MC @ 8 weeks (unknown cause)
11/07 - Chemical @ 4.5 weeks (unknown cause)
4/08 - MC @ 6 weeks (unknown cause)
10/09 - MC @ 11 weeks (Triploidy 69 xxy)
3/15/11 - DS Jaxon born 6lbs8oz 18" long
5/11 - MC @ 6 weeks (blighted ovum)
Current TTC Status: Waiting to try again in Aug/Sept 2011
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Postby rankrank23 » Tue May 10, 2011 7:43 pm

Hey everyone!! :hi: I'm so relieved to have this thread and have you ladies!!! I think this group will do all of us a lot of good :). Just finished reading all of your posts.

Theresa- Like I've said, I'm so inspired by your positivity. So IVF, it is!!! :)

Here's my mini story: June 2007 I had my first BFP and my first m/c around 6 weeks. In October of 2007 I got another BFP and went on to have a happy and healthy pregnancy and gave birth to DD in July 2008. So here we are on round three, got my BFP on March 29th, saw the heartbeat at a little over 7 weeks on April 15th AND on April 16th. Baby and it's heartbeat looked perfect. On April 17th, we lost the baby :(. It was confirmed through u/s on the 18th. Our doctor decided to do some bloodwork...

Sooooooo, today we got our bloodwork results back. I teach 2nd grade, so when my doctor called (twice) I was unable to answer. In her message she said that I test positive for two "mutations" and that extra folic acid may help when TTC again. She is starting me on a prescription. She also said that some doctors don't agree that the folic acid helps in this situation but she thinks it does. So, yes, I'm confused as heck. I can't wait to talk to her tomorrow and clear this up. I'll keep everyone updated.

Anyways, DH and I have decided to not try but not prevent pregnancy either(unitl we get clear results from doc). I'm secretly hoping to be pregnant again by the end of Summer.
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Postby rankrank23 » Wed May 11, 2011 12:58 pm

My info:

Name: rankrank23 - Me: Rachel (25) DH: Mark (27)
Location: Tennessee

TTC history
6/07- MC at 5weeks and 5 days
7/8/08- Lia born at 12:56 pm 5lbs3oz (a week overdue) :)
4/17/11 MC at 7weeks 6days (Saw heartbeat and healthy looking baby on the 15th and 16th)

Current TTC Status: Not trying but not preventing and hoping to be pregnant by the end of Summer. ;)
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DD Born in July 2008
Angel Baby- April 17, 2011
Angel Baby on July 31st, 2011
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Postby ravenaub » Wed May 11, 2011 3:40 pm

Hi to all you ladies. I hope that you are all coping as well as possible and healing with each passing day. This will be a great support group and I just know we will all be cheering each other on to happier days. We will all get our take home babies!!

Thanks for starting the thread April!

Here's my info:

Name: Aubre (30) DH Name: Josh (31)
Location: Oklahoma City, OK
Brief TTC/Loss History: TTC #3, DH diagnosed with antisperm antibodies in 1/11. IVF with ICSI 3/11. BFP, but low initial BETA, bleeding, and an early loss at 7w4d. No frosties :(
Current TTC Status: Heartbroken. Everything is gray. We don't know what to do right now.

My D&C was two weeks ago. At my post-op, my RE said he doesn't want me to be too "discouraged" over a miscarriage. How can I not be? We went through so much and for it to end like this? With nothing to do an FET with, either! I'm just frustrated and scared to go through it all again and have the SAME outcome. I mean, when you have to resort to IVF to GET pregnant, shouldn't the pregnancy be the EASY part?? :(

We don't have any current plans for anything yet. Thinking about maybe resuming in the fall. RE wants me to take off two cycles with the miscarriage anyway.
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