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Re: Hello 2ww, 12month's ttc and looking for some buddies

Postby BethH » Wed Feb 08, 2017 2:08 pm

Oh Nikki, I am so sorry. I wish I could reach through the screen and give you a hug. Sassa's words are so true "there's always light, hope and a master plan. Your little one will come and will be perfect in its creation and timing" and also made me tear up.
I will keep you and your partner in my thoughts and hope that next cycle brings you what you've been wishing for :)
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Re: Hello 2ww, 12month's ttc and looking for some buddies

Postby NSP214 » Wed Feb 08, 2017 3:09 pm

Hey ladies! Thank you Beth and I can feel your sincerity through the phone. I want you ladies to know that I'm in pretty good spirits. I just left from seeing my specialist and according to her it was a chemical since the positive test was so faint. Luckily she upped my dosage of Clomid to 100 mg starting tomorrow as well as put me on Metformin that's normally for insulin resistance which I don't have but it also helps to sustain pregnancy. So all in all I'm optimistic about this cycle...got my opk ready and roaring! How are you ladies feeling?
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QRe: Hello 2ww, 12month's ttc and looking for some buddies

Postby Sassa » Wed Feb 08, 2017 3:23 pm

:) I must admit I am so happy to hear you are continuing to ttc. I'm sorry about your chemical pregnancy, Nikki.


On a positive note i've read that clomid metformin is a magical combo for conceiving..... hehe opks ready!

Completely hoping this is your cycle beautiful :)
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Re: Hello 2ww, 12month's ttc and looking for some buddies

Postby Sassa » Wed Feb 08, 2017 3:30 pm

Afm: af was totally weird one for the books actually I went back through all of my charts to see if I had had one like it and this is a first.... lol I started spotting Friday night full flow Saturday, nothing Monday spotting Tuesday but I entered all of the info into FF and it's still telling me I am cycle day 6 so I actually will start opking tomorrow as usually ovulate really early... still super negative opks though.

Other than that ntm to report.

It's BethH who has the good side of this,

ahhh another week before you test BethH!!!!! (Yes I am that weird, and am counting down the days until you hpt)

Lol and momoftwo has already found the holy grail!
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Re: Hello 2ww, 12month's ttc and looking for some buddies

Postby NSP214 » Wed Feb 08, 2017 3:42 pm

Sassa hopefully a weird cycle will lead to a beautiful BFP for a beautiful person!!! Beth I'll be waiting on you to start testing too!!! We're such weirdos :rofl:
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Re: Hello 2ww, 12month's ttc and looking for some buddies

Postby BethH » Wed Feb 08, 2017 4:25 pm

I LOVE OUR GROUP OF WEIRDOS!!!!

Nikki - I'm glad to hear that your visit to the doctor was informative. Fingers crossed for this cycle.

Sassa - it seems AF got lazy this cycle? Keep checking those OPKs! Hopefully your daughter will turn over the basal body thermometer so you can get back on that too :)

Mom - hope you're having a good day :)

LittleOwl - hope you're doing well!!

I love all your enthusiasm ladies :) It's CD20, I think I am only 7DPO. Things should become more clear over the weekend, that's when the dreaded spotting is due. It's usually 11 days after my first positive OPK so I guess it could start as early as Friday. Last cycle was really really weird. Also I did a weird half assed combo of OPKs and charting this cycle (I'll attach it here - temps are all over the place due to change in time zone). Hopefully we BD'd enough! I suspect my lining is the issue... :oops:
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Re: Hello 2ww, 12month's ttc and looking for some buddies

Postby Sassa » Wed Feb 08, 2017 6:06 pm

Your chart looks good BethH it seems like you and your DH covered the bases ;)

I think half temping and opks are way better than not doing either and also helps to alleviate the stress especially with the time change. I am so excited for when you start testing :)

I completely forgot to add this earlier, I have definitely committed to early testing again I ordered 100 pregnancy test strips, I am not sure if they will get here in time for this cycle but testing like a crazy person is definitely in my near future :P

Ohh and I decided on how I will tell DH when we conceive. I am thinking we may use it to tell our parents and siblings as well.... Anyway I completely stole it from a website but when I read it, it just felt right and I've personalized it. Anyway I wanted to share with you Ladies because I have no one to tell or else I would ruin the surprise. Ok so I bought the book papa, will you get the moon for me, I will wrap it and write something in the likeness of dear daddy please read this to me in Enter the month of EDD. Love and then a babies name hopefully we can settle on a boys name as we already have a girls name if not I will just write baby and our last name. I have been thinking of having my bloods done before I give the book to him and putting the positive result inside, as well if i can't wait he will get a hpt) Ahhh I can't wait.
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Re: Hello 2ww, 12month's ttc and looking for some buddies

Postby Sassa » Wed Feb 08, 2017 6:15 pm

Actually that's not gonna work, it's going to have to be baby and our last name. unless if I rapidly develop some awesome physcic powers at the time of conception lol
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Re: Hello 2ww, 12month's ttc and looking for some buddies

Postby NSP214 » Wed Feb 08, 2017 6:21 pm

Sassa wrote:Your chart looks good BethH it seems like you and your DH covered the bases ;)

I think half temping and opks are way better than not doing either and also helps to alleviate the stress especially with the time change. I am so excited for when you start testing :)

I completely forgot to add this earlier, I have definitely committed to early testing again I ordered 100 pregnancy test strips, I am not sure if they will get here in time for this cycle but testing like a crazy person is definitely in my near future :P

Ohh and I decided on how I will tell DH when we conceive. I am thinking we may use it to tell our parents and siblings as well.... Anyway I completely stole it from a website but when I read it, it just felt right and I've personalized it. Anyway I wanted to share with you Ladies because I have no one to tell or else I would ruin the surprise. Ok so I bought the book papa, will you get the moon for me, I will wrap it and write something in the likeness of dear daddy please read this to me in Enter the month of EDD. Love and then a babies name hopefully we can settle on a boys name as we already have a girls name if not I will just write baby and our last name. I have been thinking of having my bloods done before I give the book to him and putting the positive result inside, as well if i can't wait he will get a hpt) Ahhh I can't wait.


Ooooh that's so cute!! I'm such an UNcreative person that I'll probably scream for df to come in the bathroom to see the test himself!! (Couldn't do it this time because the line was so faint that I figured he would think I was crazy) Geesh Sassa, now I gotta think of something fun...but thankfully I got at least 4 weeks to think of something...this is my cycle for sure!!!

Beth I love our group of weirdos too!!! My fingers are crossed for you! How are you gonna break the news when your BFP shows in about a week? :wink:
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Re: Hello 2ww, 12month's ttc and looking for some buddies

Postby Sassa » Wed Feb 08, 2017 6:24 pm

Hehe Nikki yeah BethH ;)
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Re: Hello 2ww, 12month's ttc and looking for some buddies

Postby NSP214 » Wed Feb 08, 2017 6:27 pm

Df finally showed and admitted to being sad about our loss today...he's such a mans man that he hardly ever gets emotional but today was the day...I really want to give him a baby!! He's such a great father to his 11 year old but he has to coparent with a b*<%# so he doesn't get to really raise her how he would like...I'm gonna make this happen for him and he's more committed than ever after today to doing EVERYTHING I need him to do during this journey. He even went in the store and bought the opk today so I didn't have to do it...I'm lucky to have him
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Re: Hello 2ww, 12month's ttc and looking for some buddies

Postby Mom0fone » Thu Feb 09, 2017 8:17 am

Sassa, and Nikki and Beth, I admire your ability to (at least think about) wait to tell DH until you can do something cute! My hubby and I literally know EVERYTHING about one another so when I thought I saw thatfirst faint blue line I called him in to check. I wish I could've done something cute but I was just so excited and shocked that I made him and DD check it out for me. Hahaha! I was so sad when I took a digital that night and it said "not pregnant" but the pink dye had the faintest shadow so we weren't sure. He went out of town the next morning and texted me "I know you tested, what's it look like?" Lol.

Nikki in so happy your DF is supportive of you and emotionally invested in ttc, it makes for a much stronger relationship when you're both open about your feelings. I know wen I finally broke down and sobbed around cycle 13-14 ttc my DH was able to see just how emotional not getting a bfp was for me and at that point he really committed to absolutely anything that needed to be done. He was on board then for the FS and my HSG and that was so helpful.

Now I'm a big snarky mood swingy preggo and he has to deal--he's doing well. Sometimes I hear myself say something snarky and I'm Ike woahhh, calm down! Lol!
I've been traveling for work this week and got home late last night so I'm exhausted today. Bleh!
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Re: Hello 2ww, 12month's ttc and looking for some buddies

Postby Mom0fone » Thu Feb 09, 2017 2:49 pm

Well, I finally had a conversation with my boss about my pregnancy. He literally yelled at me for being pregnant and then essentially told me that he's mad that he's training me to be in sales and travel and I'll have a baby and won't be able to and I've never "run a household with a nanny" so I don't know how to manage that. So, that was all awkward and I'm a little upset right now. After all that we went into the topic of the meeting which was my sales training, that was all fine except that he kept randomly bringing up being pregnant. Ugh. Men are the freaking worst. Do they not get that they wouldn't exist if their mothers had gotten pregnant? Do they not realize that there ARE plenty of working moms and that is actually what some women want to do? Maybe I'm more pissed than I thought I was. I get his reservations bc we are a small company but at the same time this is a good thing FOR ME and my family so making it sound bad is kind of horrible.
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Re: Hello 2ww, 12month's ttc and looking for some buddies

Postby BethH » Thu Feb 09, 2017 3:31 pm

Oh no!! How horrid. I am sorry, Mom :(
That's hideous! He can't yell at you for being pregnant!!!
I just saw someone today about training and had a thought in the back of my head "wuh oh what if im pregnant!"
There should be more understanding! We need mother/baby friendly communities and work places.
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Re: Hello 2ww, 12month's ttc and looking for some buddies

Postby NSP214 » Thu Feb 09, 2017 5:01 pm

Hey Momofone!! Sorry about your encounter with that butthole!! Hopefully he'll come around and recant his initial reaction! If not, give me his number and I'll take care of him!! :x

Sassa and Beth how are you ladies coming along?

Afm: cd3 and temps still high...started my 100mg Clomid today and the side effects are already whooping my butt along with the ones from Metformin...ohhhh the things we do to bring our beautiful babies into this world!!! Sn: as crazy as it may sound I'm gonna poas in the a.m just to be sure of things because of my temps...I know I'm a weirdo

Do you ladies think we should start another thread since this one has gotten so long??
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