Winter Wishes 3

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Re: Winter Wishes 3

Postby Momma-of4 » Wed Dec 28, 2016 4:53 pm

Danaa if I noticeably o I will call my dr and ask for it Bc I did have one pregnancy with low progesterone. It was my first and my dr started me on it from the get go. I hope I either od yesterday or today. Only time will tell. I hope it's not annovulatory. I just can't see me getting pg after all these months this late in my cycle anyway.
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Re: Winter Wishes 3

Postby Flybutter » Wed Dec 28, 2016 5:18 pm

Wish, I am so sorry to hear that your levels are not rising like they should be. There has been way too many losses in this group lately. I will pray that you do not have to go through anything else with this and that the pregnancy is at least in the right place. Please keep us updated and know we are here for you any time!
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Clomid #1 50MG - July - Miscarriage September 17th, 2015 - 8wks :angel:
Clomid #2 50MG - November - Annovulatory - CD21 1.8 - BFN
Clomid #3 100MG - December - Ovulated - CD21 6.3 - BFN
Clomid #4 100MG - January - Ovulated - CD21 18.5 - BFN
Clomid #5 100MG - February - Ovulated - No CD21 Because of Lab Mixup - BFN
Clomid #6 150MG - April - Ovulated - Didn't bother with CD21 - Discouraged - BFN
Month off clomid - May - Ovulated - No CD 21 - 06/06/2016 :bfp:

June 13 Beta: 1228 - Progesterone: 17.5
June 15 Beta: 2759
June 22 Beta: 28,354

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Re: Winter Wishes 3

Postby whoz » Wed Dec 28, 2016 5:50 pm

Why are we all having losses? It's so sad to me. I don't understand. I really don't.
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Re: Winter Wishes 3

Postby Danaa » Wed Dec 28, 2016 6:14 pm

Whoz i really don't know what to answer,it seems like in the last years misscariages are happening more often than we would like.....
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Re: Winter Wishes 3

Postby Danaa » Wed Dec 28, 2016 6:29 pm

So I'm on this Romanian forum where I chat with women that are going trough Ivf or waiting to start and there is this one lady who has been saying she feels pregnant even though she had two negative blood tests and numerous negative hpts and she had a period....she says her stomach got bigger and she is cramping and she is nauseous.....how do you tell her she needs help?she is getting a scan tomorrow to check for an ectopic but even that gives hcg so it would have been picked up by the two blood tests or the hpts....my heart breaks for her but i can't stop thinking that at this point she needs help....
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After 3 years in which we tried everything we are doing IVF in Greece with Iakentro Athens.
Short Protocol with Bemfola and Cetrotide
19mature eggs and we have 9 day5 blasto.
FET#1 ended in a loss around 5 weeks
FET#2 ended in a loss at 22w due to IC,my boys will be forever in my heart .
FET#3 ?
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Re: Winter Wishes 3

Postby Flybutter » Wed Dec 28, 2016 7:05 pm

Danaa, I have seen women who were absolutely convinced they were pregnant even after negative after negative hpt. After months of this they would eventually say they must have had a chemical because they started bleeding, when really it was just their period. There isn't much you can do/say to her. It is sad because she obviously wants a baby very badly, so you want to be sensitive but at the same time I personally don't think it is good to indulge the person in their fantasy because it can make it worse for them once they truly realize they are indeed not pregnant. In cases like this, I usually avoid the matter all together.
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Clomid #1 50MG - July - Miscarriage September 17th, 2015 - 8wks :angel:
Clomid #2 50MG - November - Annovulatory - CD21 1.8 - BFN
Clomid #3 100MG - December - Ovulated - CD21 6.3 - BFN
Clomid #4 100MG - January - Ovulated - CD21 18.5 - BFN
Clomid #5 100MG - February - Ovulated - No CD21 Because of Lab Mixup - BFN
Clomid #6 150MG - April - Ovulated - Didn't bother with CD21 - Discouraged - BFN
Month off clomid - May - Ovulated - No CD 21 - 06/06/2016 :bfp:

June 13 Beta: 1228 - Progesterone: 17.5
June 15 Beta: 2759
June 22 Beta: 28,354

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Re: Winter Wishes 3

Postby Momma-of4 » Wed Dec 28, 2016 7:27 pm

Fly good answer
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Re: Winter Wishes 3

Postby Loz28 » Wed Dec 28, 2016 7:46 pm

Wish, I am so sorry. There really have been too many losses here lately, I can't stand it, my heart is breaking for you all.
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Re: Winter Wishes 3

Postby Danaa » Wed Dec 28, 2016 7:47 pm

Fly the first times she posted i was sympathetic and wished her good luck on the blood tests etc but today after she wrote her beta was once again negative and the same with her hpts but she still thinks she is pregnant i told her that is a good thing that she is getting a scan bcs this way she will have her final answer and that no way she is pregnant after she had her period plus negative betas and hpts and the nausea and the cramps could be caused by many things and at the end I wished her peace,i can't keep quiet.....i hope she didn't got upset.
Is sad bcs she has to have some sort of vaccine for next Ivf round but she keeps postponing it bcs of her imagination.
She clearly isn't doing well.
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After 3 years in which we tried everything we are doing IVF in Greece with Iakentro Athens.
Short Protocol with Bemfola and Cetrotide
19mature eggs and we have 9 day5 blasto.
FET#1 ended in a loss around 5 weeks
FET#2 ended in a loss at 22w due to IC,my boys will be forever in my heart .
FET#3 ?
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Re: Winter Wishes 3

Postby Danaa » Wed Dec 28, 2016 7:54 pm

If for some reason God decides that i shouldn't be a mother just yet and this pregnancy stops i will take a break from ttc until im sure im in a good place mentally.....this woman made me realize that could be me someday....I don't want to spend my youth going to the doctors and having multiple failed cycles or multiple misscariages....im not that strong......
Sometimes you just have to take a step back ...
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After 3 years in which we tried everything we are doing IVF in Greece with Iakentro Athens.
Short Protocol with Bemfola and Cetrotide
19mature eggs and we have 9 day5 blasto.
FET#1 ended in a loss around 5 weeks
FET#2 ended in a loss at 22w due to IC,my boys will be forever in my heart .
FET#3 ?
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Re: Winter Wishes 3

Postby Flybutter » Wed Dec 28, 2016 8:10 pm

I just realized I have an appointment scheduled at 9 am. I usually have my NST/BPP appointments every Tuesday and Friday so this threw me off and I just looked online and it says the appointment is for "growth" so they must be checking to see how she is growing due to the SUA. I hope she has been growing enough because otherwise they could say that she isn't and needs to be induced. I want her to come naturally when she is ready! I will let you guys know how the appointment goes.
Kimberly (33) married to Joshua (35) ~ February 11, 2016.

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Clomid #1 50MG - July - Miscarriage September 17th, 2015 - 8wks :angel:
Clomid #2 50MG - November - Annovulatory - CD21 1.8 - BFN
Clomid #3 100MG - December - Ovulated - CD21 6.3 - BFN
Clomid #4 100MG - January - Ovulated - CD21 18.5 - BFN
Clomid #5 100MG - February - Ovulated - No CD21 Because of Lab Mixup - BFN
Clomid #6 150MG - April - Ovulated - Didn't bother with CD21 - Discouraged - BFN
Month off clomid - May - Ovulated - No CD 21 - 06/06/2016 :bfp:

June 13 Beta: 1228 - Progesterone: 17.5
June 15 Beta: 2759
June 22 Beta: 28,354

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Re: Winter Wishes 3

Postby AndiA108 » Wed Dec 28, 2016 10:38 pm

Hi Ladies, I just wanted to say how grateful I am for the kind words and encouragement. It's been very difficult to say the least but trying my best to make it through this. I'm fighting the darkness as much as I can.

Here's a short update on me, the actual miscarriage was on Christmas night during the night. Very painful and I fainted the next morning after going to bathroom. We had to go get blood work done the next day and my levels did drop to 43. So at least I don't have to worry about having to do surgery. I think I go back to get more blood work next week to make sure my levels go back to 0. But I k kW it takes time to drop. I see my doctor on the 9th to discuss things.

I guess I'll take it ine step at a time. I'm terrified of this happening again. I talked to DH about IVF because I read they can test for chromosomal ab. Which lessens your chance of a miscarriage. He said we can discuss it but he wants me to have hope. I'll see what my doctor says I'm writing down a list of questions.

I know I missed a lot. Can someone (Dana) lol give me the brief.
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01/2014 - MC 6wks
12/2015 - MC 5wks
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09/2016 - Round 3 Clomid 50mg + 200mg CoQ10 3xs Day
10/2016 - Clomid Challenge Test 100mg - Responded well
11/2016 - Clomid 100mg - BFP 12/03/2016 -- Ended in a miscarriage: 12/22/2016

3 months after our miscarriage... 03/22/2017 - Unexpected BFP. Praying this is our rainbow baby.
04/11/2017 - 6w5d saw the heartbeat!
04/19/2017 - 8w5d heartbeat still strong @ 178 :D
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Re: Winter Wishes 3

Postby AndiA108 » Wed Dec 28, 2016 10:41 pm

Oh btw, what do I do about fertility friend? Mark the day of actual miscarriage as cd 1? I don't know if i have the heart to even use the app this cycle to be honest.
ME: 29, DH: 31
TTC #1 since November 2014

01/2014 - MC 6wks
12/2015 - MC 5wks
2 Rounds Clomid 50mg - BFN
(NTNP Feb 2016 - April 2016)
09/2016 - Round 3 Clomid 50mg + 200mg CoQ10 3xs Day
10/2016 - Clomid Challenge Test 100mg - Responded well
11/2016 - Clomid 100mg - BFP 12/03/2016 -- Ended in a miscarriage: 12/22/2016

3 months after our miscarriage... 03/22/2017 - Unexpected BFP. Praying this is our rainbow baby.
04/11/2017 - 6w5d saw the heartbeat!
04/19/2017 - 8w5d heartbeat still strong @ 178 :D
06/28/2017 - It's a boy! <3

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Re: Winter Wishes 3

Postby Flybutter » Thu Dec 29, 2016 12:16 am

Andi, I am so sorry that happened at all but especially saddened to hear it happened on Christmas evening.

To be honest, if I were you I would not worry too much about FF for a cycle, but I would mark CD1 as the day you actually passed the baby so you at least know where you are at. From what I have read online and what I did myself, women seem to generally use the date of mc as CD1.

If there is anything positive at all to come from this (and really there isn't) after three miscarriages, medical professionals start taking your fertility/infertility more serious and really try to get to the root of the problem. I hope your doctor will be able to give you some answers so you can continue on your journey.
Kimberly (33) married to Joshua (35) ~ February 11, 2016.

PCOS
Clomid #1 50MG - July - Miscarriage September 17th, 2015 - 8wks :angel:
Clomid #2 50MG - November - Annovulatory - CD21 1.8 - BFN
Clomid #3 100MG - December - Ovulated - CD21 6.3 - BFN
Clomid #4 100MG - January - Ovulated - CD21 18.5 - BFN
Clomid #5 100MG - February - Ovulated - No CD21 Because of Lab Mixup - BFN
Clomid #6 150MG - April - Ovulated - Didn't bother with CD21 - Discouraged - BFN
Month off clomid - May - Ovulated - No CD 21 - 06/06/2016 :bfp:

June 13 Beta: 1228 - Progesterone: 17.5
June 15 Beta: 2759
June 22 Beta: 28,354

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Re: Winter Wishes 3

Postby Wishfull » Thu Dec 29, 2016 2:36 am

Andi
I'm so sorry that you are dealing with this. I don't know what to say to you.
I can't figure out what to say to me either. I'm supposed to prepare questions for my doctor about my miscarriage but I don't know how to even feel right now. More or less know what to ask. I'm lost. I'm scared. And I don't know how to handle anything. I think I would be ok if it would actually start. The waiting is killing me.
Dana
I think I'm going to take some time to heal emotionally after this. I'm stepping away from ttc and the boards both. I've got to figure out how to deal with this first. I keep telling everyone I'm fine and this sort of thing happens, but I'm prone to random crying episodes. I'm rambling.....
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