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Re: 12 month ttc buddies #2

Postby Mom0fone » Sat Mar 11, 2017 8:02 pm

Sorry to hear Beth and Nikki, hopefully neither is pre-AF spotting though. Nikki i haven't ever really researched multiple chemicals, I believe they are much more common than we realize though because if a woman isn't ttc it's very easy to miss one and since ad can still be on time with one a lot of women don't even know. Beth, I think the constiaption and cervix
Pain you speak of sounds like what I would have nearly every month. I'd get pains in my low abdomen like pulling/almost sharp gas pains and then sometimes I'd have an aching feeling near my anus (sorry that's tmi) but I read it can be caused my pcos/endo. That lead me to wonder if I have either, especially because the older I got the more my cycles changed and I'd start with dark sorting a few days prior to my real flow as well. Those days were when #2 was actually painful but not really just in my rectum, I'd get sharp shooting pains in my cervix/low abdomen during the days of severe constipation. So terrible. Then almost without fail when I finally went to the restroom I'd get ad after a particularly uncomfortable BM. That's why I thought I was going to lose the baby in the first few weeks during the Constantinople phase--I realize that sounds ridiculous, it just felt like my pre-AF symptoms.

Thank you ladies for your kind words, I really don't mind either way. I do feel bad for DH bc he gets the crap end of things with his family a lot and I don't want him to feel like that's my fault for not being friends with his older sis. Even his parents tend to pick the girls over him which is crummy. I told him how I was a little upset my dad isn't coming, he agreed it's pretty shitty they haven't been here other than our wedding. It's especially crappy being an only child, he said it feels like we're inconveniencing them to come up here. I'm over all that now though, I'm just ready for the day to get here already!!
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Re: 12 month ttc buddies #2

Postby Sassa » Sat Mar 11, 2017 8:34 pm

Hi ladies,

Super busy weekend for me (7 kids running around) lol but really fun!

I have totally been reading and running I'm so sorry I just didn't want to rush in my replies.

Momoftwo - the circumstances surrounding you and your DH with family sound like they suck! I totally see one good thing though and I don't want to sound like a brat but with your DH'S sis taking it upon herself to show her disinterest in you and your husbands first child at least you don't have to go out of your way to prove she is what she is! I mean a lot of other sil don't openly do that they just beat around about it and give the fake face so in a way you're one up :) and it doesn't even matter the Day and this time of your life is all about you ! Your DH DD and LO. Personally I am so excited!!!!

Beth- your rant is completely understandable I once had problems getting copies of an MRI I had preformed in a different province. They were like well it will cost you 40.00 and you have to pick it up In person I was like well I'm not flying to southern Ontario anytime soon..... then she went on to say I had to have a specialist request the records I eventually after pushing found out that my gp could request this I was pissed they gave me the run around for three days! I'm like you though I would want to know I would probably break down and pay to view online though... I hope everything else is going okay :) don't worry things will sort themselves out and everything will be fine :)


Nikki- I actually read a weird fact about chemical pregnancies most people used to believe that conception problems happened because the sperm wasn't fertilizing the egg however ultrasound studies have proven that conception problems occur more commonly when the egg is implanting there are so many factors it isint healthy the lining is him he LP was to short. based on that I would say consecutive chemical pregnancies are definitely possible and probably quite more common than we think. I really hope af stays away though and that it's not another chemical.

Nickysy- yay so excited that you were able to continue through with the iui :) can't wait to hear how things go :) how nice to have your family together. Those times are awesome

Afm: absolutely nothing except super weird af which makes me think for the first time I might actually have experienced a chemical pregnancy this cycle. I looked back at other pics I had taken of my frers and I swear I can see a line but I don't really care about that it's fun to speculate but until there's a blazing bfp and a viable pregnancy I don't think I would be excited. Anyway I had only spotting on Monday then Tuesday Wednesday period like flow then spotting Thursday Friday pink. Now I have like really dark brown almost black spotting so sorry for tmi Ladies the thing is I'm having cramps as well but there's no flow for like 3 days, there's not even spotting every time I wipe its intermittent is this a sign of infection or something I'm getting kind of freaked out! Lol I thought of even going to the emergency but I don't know I don't know if that's an over reaction. So I'm kind of in a wait and see what's going on but seriously cramps for a week ERRR!!
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Re: 12 month ttc buddies #2

Postby BethH » Sat Mar 11, 2017 8:38 pm

:hugs: for all this weekend :)
Mom: Thanks for sharing, and don't worry about TMI - it sounds a lot like what I have been experiencing for the past 6 months or so. I'm looking forward to getting some answers with the investigations later this month.

Sorry if you've already mentioned this, but what is your idea for the gender reveal? It's fun to hear about these things :)
I was feeling a bit bummed today. I decided to start a Pinterest board to get myself excited about pregnancy and having a baby. It's helping. My husband and I are trying to down size/live a minimalist lifestyle as much as possible. There's lot of useful posts online! We're planning on moving into an even smaller apartment when we move to help keep costs down.

Sassa: oh my goodness! I am sorry you've been cramping so much! Can you go to your GP and get serum betaHCG done? I'm not sure how this would help actually. Can you post a pic of your FRER?
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Re: 12 month ttc buddies #2

Postby Sassa » Sat Mar 11, 2017 8:58 pm

I could go to my gp I just The cramps and brown/black spotting are weirding me out I guess I just jumped to chemical because it reminds me of my mc but not nearly as intense that was brutal but then again I didn't want a DNC so I allowed the pregnancy to continue for a week after they had told me that they didn't feel it was viable.


I just don't cramp after my heavy flow is over, and I don't ever have dark brown or black blood the only time I ever saw that was during my mc. That's why I was thinking chemical which doesn't phase me as I know most months I am probably pregnant and the poor little egg just doesn't make to the finish line. However the thought of infection freaks me right out!

I don't have many pics left only the ones that happened to be in my photo bucket so I'm pretty sure I shared these with you guys normally delete everything off of my phone after I post so I don't obsess or tweak lol
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Re: 12 month ttc buddies #2

Postby NSP214 » Sat Mar 11, 2017 9:21 pm

Sassa wrote:I could go to my gp I just The cramps and brown/black spotting are weirding me out I guess I just jumped to chemical because it reminds me of my mc but not nearly as intense that was brutal but then again I didn't want a DNC so I allowed the pregnancy to continue for a week after they had told me that they didn't feel it was viable.


I just don't cramp after my heavy flow is over, and I don't ever have dark brown or black blood the only time I ever saw that was during my mc. That's why I was thinking chemical which doesn't phase me as I know most months I am probably pregnant and the poor little egg just doesn't make to the finish line. However the thought of infection freaks me right out!

I don't have many pics left only the ones that happened to be in my photo bucket so I'm pretty sure I shared these with you guys normally delete everything off of my phone after I post so I don't obsess or tweak lol


Yea it could have been a chemical Sas...I think I see a vvfl on the frer...guess we're moving on to the next cycle because the witch is definitely here on my end...ughhh...at least she'll be leaving when we get to California for df bday!
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Re: 12 month ttc buddies #2

Postby Sassa » Sat Mar 11, 2017 9:31 pm

Awww sorry to hear Nikki- yes I am totally into next cycle I am cd 6. I hope you have a good time with DH on your trip and that you two are able to just relax and enjoy each other :) we get to try again together next month maybe we'll end up being bump buddies lol maybe all of us will end up bump buddies with due dates in December lol

I am just nervous like I was kind of reaching for the chemical because then at least it would be an explanation :) an easy one I am just not really interested or in the mood to have to deal with an infection or some other female problem lol. I don't know I think I'll wait and just mention it to the FS on Friday unless if the cramping gets worse or there's a lot of black blood then I guess I will resign myself to the emergency. I think I just always freak myself out with worse case scenarios because I don't want to be one of those ladies that's like ohhh yeah black blood cramps thought nothing of it ;) while the doctors are like wow she's a smart one ;)
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Re: 12 month ttc buddies #2

Postby NSP214 » Sat Mar 11, 2017 9:42 pm

Sassa wrote:Awww sorry to hear Nikki- yes I am totally into next cycle I am cd 6. I hope you have a good time with DH on your trip and that you two are able to just relax and enjoy each other :) we get to try again together next month maybe we'll end up being bump buddies lol maybe all of us will end up bump buddies with due dates in December lol

I am just nervous like I was kind of reaching for the chemical because then at least it would be an explanation :) an easy one I am just not really interested or in the mood to have to deal with an infection or some other female problem lol. I don't know I think I'll wait and just mention it to the FS on Friday unless if the cramping gets worse or there's a lot of black blood then I guess I will resign myself to the emergency. I think I just always freak myself out with worse case scenarios because I don't want to be one of those ladies that's like ohhh yeah black blood cramps thought nothing of it ;) while the doctors are like wow she's a smart one ;)


Sass I really do think we all are going to be bump buddies! I'll be stocking up mommy opk's tomorrow but I'm not buying any HPT's. I have one digital and will take it if I miss af next month! Good luck ladies!
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Re: 12 month ttc buddies #2

Postby BethH » Sun Mar 12, 2017 5:56 am

Morning ladies:)
Nikki I am sorry to hear the witch came :( i am glad she will be gone for your vacation.
Sassa I agree I can see a vvf line as well. I hope you feel better soon!! I am so excited for you & your DH having an appt on Friday!! If AF comes soon I'll be going for my day 3 bloods and u/s then!

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