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Re: 2019 baby hope buddy group

Postby MissChiffsManager » Mon Sep 03, 2018 5:00 pm

Yay the cyst is gone *celebration xD I also had a touch of the bug that seems to be circulating last week. It has cleared up now. Lots of liquids:)

So awesome to see everyone's doing well and moving forward with plans. Y'all are fearless and bold <3.

Well I'm at day 29 of my cycle, which is now 11dpo. I tested again on day 10 dpo with a bfn. I've decided now that I've run out of early tests I won't buy more.
I do have some very promising symptoms. Including the fact that my summer dress would not fit, my boobs were busting out! This has literally never happened before, and very heartening for me bc I'm a small chested b cup :) I also had an interesting feeling in the lower right side of my pelvis yesterday. Almost like a before period tinge but a different quality.
AF is due in less than 4 days. Wish me luck. Baby dust and sticky vibes :D
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Re: 2019 baby hope buddy group

Postby 7Mk1973 » Mon Sep 03, 2018 8:20 pm

MissChiffsManager fx that your boobs being bigger is a good sign. GL :hugs: and tons and tons of :babydustg: and :sticky: to you.
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Re: 2019 baby hope buddy group

Postby Debbkinz » Tue Sep 04, 2018 3:05 am

Hi ladies! hope your all ok!... I left for awhile why all my tests where going on etc, i needed some time to stop thinking about everything.
So what have i missed?

My news is!... I had my HSG and my tubes ended up clear when i left, My hormones are all ok, I went to see my specialist on the 30th aug, and apparently im NOT ovulating at all? :( so hes offered us clomid? my partner didnt come with me, and we are obviously getting married in 2020!, so because we was struggling we said we would try after, yet again... i find him asking me weatha AF has showed up :( And unfortunately she did :( specialist is going to give me a telephone consultation on the 13th sept to see whats what with me n hubby, hes said we will go for it? :)

love to all xx
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Re: 2019 baby hope buddy group

Postby Debbkinz » Tue Sep 04, 2018 3:25 am

Dini & Mum2T - CONGRATULATIONS LADIES ! so happy for you both !, i hope your both well ! & hope you have a happy & healthy 9months ! xxxxxxxxxx
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Re: 2019 baby hope buddy group

Postby Catblue6 » Tue Sep 04, 2018 6:16 am

Hello ladies,

BebeCK – Congratulations on no more cyst!! That is incredible news. And, yay for starting clomid. I completely understand the sadness you are feeling, but at the same time I am so very grateful that there is another route available to you in this journey. I hope everything continues to go well.

Misschiffs – You seem to be on the same cycle as me and a couple of the other ladies! I hope your symptoms are good ones; and, don’t worry about the bfn at 10dpo… it could still be too early. I’ve never gotten a bfp that early.

Debbkinz – So good to have you back with us! I am sorry that things have been difficult, but at least the doctors have been able to provide you with some answers and potential solutions. I hope everything works out! Keep us posted.

AFM – I shot myself in the foot last week when I said my cold wasn’t bad…. Yeah, it got way worse Friday and Saturday; thank goodness I had taken an extra day off. However, all of my well laid plans for the long weekend got knocked out; and then, my car got broken into over the weekend! At my house! With my cop next door neighbor home!! As far as my TWW goes I am 11pdo today. My boobs started getting tender on 8dpo; I started getting this pinching/pulling sensation in my uterus on 9dpo; and yesterday, which was 10dpo, my boobs had this heavy feeling accompanied by the same pinching/pulling feeling. I’ve also seen a little more CM this past week than I saw same time last cycle; however, EVERYTHING can also be attributed to AF coming. I do not have any HPTs in the house, so I have not tested yet; but, if things play out the way they did last cycle, then AF should be showing up around Friday this week. I figure maybe if nothing has happened by Thursday I might test then as that’ll put me at 13dpo, and that’s when I got a bfp with this last pregnancy. In the meantime, I’m trying and failing at not over analyzing and getting my hopes up; I just keep praying.

Guess I should go to work now… love and baby dust to everyone!
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Re: 2019 baby hope buddy group

Postby Hopeful2019 » Tue Sep 04, 2018 10:49 am

Hi everyone. Haven't been on here for a while. In the tww at the moment. Have had lower back paim for the last few days worse when I lie down that I don't normally get before af which I was hoping was a good sign but had a bfn today on cd31. Every month I try and not get my hopes up but it's hard not to. 40 this month so feel I'm running out of time!!
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Re: 2019 baby hope buddy group

Postby 7Mk1973 » Tue Sep 04, 2018 1:18 pm

Hello lovely ladies.
Debbkinz good to hear from you. It's great that your tubes are clear and your hormones come back good. Sorry you don't ovulate on your own. It's good that your dh is on board with Clomid. I sure hope that does the trick for you. Thinking about seeing if I can do something like a natural clomid myself if the :af: is on the way like it seems she is.
Catblue sorry that your cold got worse. I called in to work today bc it seems that cold is settling on my chest today and I want to be better for my 11 hour shift tomorrow. Sorry about your plans being knocked out. I feel you about over analyzing symptoms. I've been going from sure I am to sure I'm not :doh: Fx for you.
Hopeful Glad to see you here. Fx the back pain is a good sign. Don't feel bad about being 40. I'll be 45 in less than a month. As long as the :af: still flies for me, I have a chance. I will have my rainbow baby. I feel you still have time. :hugs:
Afm I think the :af: has found her way to my door. I am wiping a bit of blood, but only a bit of pink so far. I put on a pad, just in case, but I hope it's only implantation. I am prepared for it to be her, though. She should be here full force by tonight or tomorrow morning, if it is her. If it is, I'm going to up my dosage of coq10 this month and continue with the b12. I will keep you updated. That's all except for :hugs: :babydustg: and :sticky: to us all.
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Re: 2019 baby hope buddy group

Postby Catblue6 » Tue Sep 04, 2018 4:50 pm

Ok, I caved.... I tested. BFN as suspected; however, my brain has me thinking that I may not be out yet.

So here's what's going on with me today....

11dpo - sore, tender, fuller boobs (DH commented on their fullness too); constipation (based on what my body normally does); mild cramping (not my normal AF cramps) along with this full/heavy feeling low in my abdomen.

Now my experience with my pregnancy in May before the miscarriage was very similar to this, but the BFN has me thinking on whether this is all really AF related or not..... I'm going crazy today, and I need help.

What do ya'll think?
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Re: 2019 baby hope buddy group

Postby 7Mk1973 » Tue Sep 04, 2018 9:02 pm

Catblue if you are only 11 or 12dpo you could still be in the process of implanting. The hcg just might not be built up enough for the test to read. I have a coworker who didn't get a positive pregnancy test till she was 3 months along with her daughter. She's just 19 to 21. I can't remember her age for sure :doh: But young so she not sure why she didn't have enough hcg to show up.
I have another coworker whose daughter in law found out she was pregnant just as she turned 45. Her daughter in law had never really wanted kids so it didn't bother her when they told her, like 20 years ago, that she couldn't have babies. That's why they weren't preventing and then just a few months ago, like when she was 5 months pregnant and didn't know, no real reason to think she was since they told her she couldn't get pregnant (she thought she was going into menopause), she went to the doctors for what she thought was a kidney infection and oh boy :omg: She was 5 month along. She just had her little boy. They tied her tubes bc she has type 2 diabetes so they don't think it would be good for her to have another bc it could possibly harm her or the baby, just in case her body decides to do another uh oh :omg: her story gives me real hope bc she got her baby, one she didn't even know she wanted, bc of course she feel for her son as soon as she found out he was coming. So with my putting the supplements and faith in my journey, I will end up with my rainbow baby :D I don't have diabetes, so that's not going to stand in the way.
That's all except for :hugs: :babydustg: and :sticky: to us all.
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Re: 2019 baby hope buddy group

Postby Catblue6 » Wed Sep 05, 2018 10:02 am

See now, and today I don't feel anything except for the sore boobs.... I HATE THE TWW!!! I feel like a crazy person thinking one minute I might get a miracle and be pregnant; and then, the next I feel like AF is gonna come.... now I'm crying! At work!!... omg!!!

I can't do this, I'm a wreck. DH doesn't know how to help, poor man just wants to fix my problems except I'm the problem lol.... I just want what we all want on here... the happily ever after.

My lp last cycle was 14 days on the dot, so that should mean that it'll be 14 days this time too right? Because while time of ovulation can change, lp stays that same?.... at least that's what I've read and been told.
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Re: 2019 baby hope buddy group

Postby Debbkinz » Wed Sep 05, 2018 11:07 am

Thanks ladies!... well I get my telephone consultation in the 13th sept!, so I’m excited for that!... I’m thinking of changing jobs as this ones so bloody stressful it’s unreal :(

Fingers crossed for everyone in the tww
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Re: 2019 baby hope buddy group

Postby BebeCK » Wed Sep 05, 2018 11:45 am

Happy humpday everyone!

First: thank you all for cheering my cyst being gone :D and for the support!

Catblue6: you are not crazy, what you are describing is normal behavior for me during the tww. Everyday is a new emotional rollercoaster. Hang in there and try to distract yourself if you can (I know, easier said than done). lp is usually pretty regular so you should expect 14 days if that is your normal. FX for you! This is strong desire and there is nothing wrong with that! We are here to make the wait go by. I think in my next tww I will try to not test at all until AF is late because seeing bfn gets me really down. But it's so hard to resist the urge!

Debbkinz: welcome back! Good news that your hsg is all clear and good news that your doctor was able to identify the ovulation issue. Hopefully Clomid is all you need to make this happen! I am taking clomid this cycle for the first time, we will hopefully try our first IUI after 12 cycles of trying on our own without success (unexplained infertility).

7Mk1973: Have you tried Clomid before? (sorry I forgot your ttc story). I hope AF stays away! Keep us updated! FX

I'm so glad this forum is active again, I was a little sad that activity had gone down in the past few weeks... since this is such a valuable source of support for me!
Will continue update after my lunch...
TTC since Oct 2017, no bfp
Sept 2018: Clomid + IUI #1
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Re: 2019 baby hope buddy group

Postby BebeCK » Wed Sep 05, 2018 1:14 pm

Resuming post-lunch...

Hopeful2019: welcome back! Yes it's hard not to get your hopes up every month. I try to accept that is the process ups and downs... How many dpo are you? Will you test? Are you trying naturally?

MissChiffsManager: welcome to our group! We have been supporting each other since April and it's been great. We've had a few bfps in our group already and hopefully everyone will get their bfp and 2019 baby! You are <35 and you are tracking your cycle so your chances are good but it may still take a few cycles so hang in there! I've been charting my bbt too as it's a good way to confirm ovulation every cycle. If you want to do more tracking in your next cycle you can add CM tracking and opk. Or maybe you won't need any of this if you get a bfp already!

Fairytaledreams: FX for you. Will you test or wait for AF?

Dini and Mum2T: I hope pregnancy continues well for both of you.

Anyone else in their tww? fertile window?

AFM: I finished my 5 days of Clomid. I'm not feeling any different so far but I hope it is doing something! I will start opk testing tomorrow on cd10. The fertility clinic has specific instructions for opk: second urine of the day in the morning and using clearblue digital so I will do as they say :D
I am quite hopeful and also had a great 3 days weekend with DH. Feeling good this week.
Also I tried this fertility relaxation/meditation exercise which some of you might be interested in:
https://circlebloom.com/
I only tried the free sample so far but considering buying a series.
I'll try anything that helps me stay more sane through this journey! :rofl:

Have a great week everyone!
:babydustb: :babydustg:
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Sept 2018: Clomid + IUI #1
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Re: 2019 baby hope buddy group

Postby 7Mk1973 » Wed Sep 05, 2018 7:54 pm

Hello lovely ladies...
Catblue you got this...sometimes you just have to cry about it, even at work. Yeah I try not to focus too much on the symptoms during the tww bc most of them can be pre :af: symptoms so it can be frustrating and crazy making. My lp seems to have grown from 12 days to 14 days and I'm not sure if it's the coq10 or the b12 or a combination of both :D Maybe it's bc the eggie is better. One can only hope and have faith. :D It's good that your dh tries to help, but dh usually can only do so much since they can't do much, except for making sure their spermies are as healthy as possible, which often leaves them feeling helpless.
Debbkinz hurry up sept 13th :D If you feel that changing jobs is the right thing to do then go for it. You have to do what's best for your stress levels. None of us need anymore roadblocks to our ttc process than we already have. :D fx for you too.
BebeCK no I haven't tried anything like Clomid before. Hadn't heard of it specifically until I came on this site. I did know there were fertiliy drugs, but just not the name of them. Yeah I think this site is dying a little bc of the surrogacy spam. I respect surrogacy and ivf, but for cylinics to push this idea as the most logical way to get a baby is rough for ppl who don't have the money to go either route. Y'all and another thread I have buddies on are why I keep coming to this site now. I, too, am glad that it has grown active again. We can't let the spammers chase us out. We are here to lend support in each other's journeys, whatever form that path takes. Fx that clomid works for you. I'll have to look at that link. Thanks.
Afm it's cd1. Just waiting on the :af: to leave so I can get on with the fun. Here's something interesting, in 2016 my dh dreamed about his deceased dad who mentioned a special day to him sept 17th... He knew it had some value to his dad, whom he was named after, but couldn't remember if his dad said why. It so impressed itself on my dh that he told me about it, and I remembered the date bc it affected my dh so. Well, this next ovulation is slated to occur on Sept 17th this year. The first time since he had the dream. I'd like to think he was telling dh when our fertiliy struggles would be over. When he was alive he so wanted us to give him and his wife a grandchild though he knew we were trying and hadn't been able to. That's all except for :hugs: :babydustb: and :sticky: to us all.
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Re: 2019 baby hope buddy group

Postby Hopeful2019 » Thu Sep 06, 2018 3:12 am

Hi all. Cd 33 and still have bad pain in lower back and no sign of af coming. Haven't tested since as afraid go get another bfn! Not sure what dpo I am as I wasn't tracking last month, trying to relax about it! My cycles are very irregular so going to try acupuncture to see if that will help. My OB suggested clomid but I heard that if your ovulating on your own which I am it won't do anything, is that true? Best of luck to everyone in tww.
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