had the talk....

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had the talk....

Postby goobermom » Mon Feb 06, 2012 7:18 pm

so we got another BFN, on medicated cycle #8, at the 3.5 year TTC mark. DH wants to know when we are going to be done with the meds....i think we decided that we will purchase one more batch (which may last two cycles due to the number of pills they give us). then we may be done...... i am struggling with this but at some point i have to accept it i suppose. i am thankful to have my son, which i believe God gave to me at a young age for a reason. never did i believe that it was because i would go on to deal with infertility but i wonder if that is his plan for me. i am not sure how i will cope with not having another child....i think there will be some very very tough days and moments (maybe a trip to the dr for some antidepressants!?!?) but life will go on, and i will be thankful for what i have. i will spoil my nephews and cousins kids. but will grieve the bigger family i won't have :cry:
me (34) husband (41)
son (14), spoiled cat
TTC since August '08
Clomid/IUI x3; Follistim/IUI x3
natural BFP- M/C :(
Low Vitamin D, High FSH
Letrozole, TI, progesterone, estrace- BFN (x4)
High FSH, RE recommending donor egg
End of our TTC journey???
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Postby stellabug » Mon Feb 06, 2012 9:43 pm

I will say a prayer that this last round of meds will bring you the baby you've been waiting so long for. God bless you and your family!
Susan (36) Matt (36)

TTC #1 for 28 months

2 failed IUI's - moving onto IVF!

7/2013 - IVF (300IU Menopur & 300IU Follistim) - transferred one 2AA embie - BFN

9/16 - FET - transferred one 3AA snow embie
9/20 - 4dp5dt - BFP on FRER!!! (My b-day!)
9/27 - BETA #1 - 220!
9/29 - BETA #2 - 556
10/4 - U/S - perfect bean
10/18 - :hb: 143

It's a BOY!!!
Due June 4th

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Postby lovebabytime » Tue Feb 07, 2012 9:18 am

Thinking and praying for you..
Me: 34 DH: 36
Together since 1997, Married in July 2003
DD born 10/23/07
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