by BeNearMeNow » Sat Apr 11, 2015 9:21 pm
I think understand how you feel. I want to be able to say that I'm okay with not having a baby. I know that I have a very good life, one that I am really happy about otherwise, so I shouldn't get so twisted up over this one thing that hasn't gone my way. But it hurts, and I'm not okay with it.
I want you to know that I think it's okay to not be okay with infertility. You can be sad or angry or frustrated or whatever else. There is no cultural pathway for mourning a thing we've never had. But, hey, you have youth on your side, and all of us, and a loving partner, so there is reason for hope.
TTC 29 months