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Returing to TTC after m/c

Postby mexicanchick718 » Thu Aug 01, 2013 3:25 pm

Hi ladies. Well ive looked into the m/c forum and they dont really respond. Just wondering if any of you have come from the pregger boards. If so how long ago was your m/c?? Mine was on 7/11/13. I am not patiently waiting for my cycle to start again.
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Re: Returing to TTC after m/c

Postby Dina22 » Thu Aug 01, 2013 8:19 pm

I never went to any preg boards simply because I didn't want to. I had a miscarriage pretty early at about 5w5d, I actually blocked it off and tried to not let it bother me. It did anyways in fact the next cycle I completely rejected my husband sexually. That did put a strain on us until I shared with him why, then he seemed to understand and give me space. This cycle we did bd around ovulation time but I feel like I am half way trying and half way not caring.

I am sorry for your loss.
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Re: Returing to TTC after m/c

Postby mexicanchick718 » Fri Aug 02, 2013 12:33 pm

I get my moments when I feel ok then I just want to cry. Emotionally im all over the place. My poor husband doesnt really know what to do. He says we should try again right away but im not sure what i really want.
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Re: Returing to TTC after m/c

Postby Nmarshall » Fri Aug 02, 2013 8:13 pm

I had a m/c in June. Just finished what I think was my new cycle. Very brown with just 1/2 days of red. I'm ready to try again. It's really hard at first.....
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Re: Returing to TTC after m/c

Postby mexicanchick718 » Mon Aug 05, 2013 2:16 pm

I have just left it in the hands of god. We havent been preventing anything so if it happens it will happen. Just a waiting game. The game I played months prior. I just HATE the insensitivity of my husbands family towards my feelings. Stupid in laws were with us for 3 wks. They flew in three days after it all happened. Never even got the chance to greave and if i did it was alone. So angry about the whole situation. Just so happy they are gone.
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Re: Returing to TTC after m/c

Postby Nmarshall » Tue Aug 06, 2013 7:20 am

Mex--I am so sorry to hear that about your inlaws. It is just such a hard thing to go through and you really need to grieve with your husband. My inlaws actually came in a few days after mine and they didn't even say a word about it. At one point, the dad actually asked where the mom's birthday gift was. Well her birthday was when i was going through the MC....wasnt really thinking about a gift. So I pretty much told him what I thought of them. Sometimes it is best to stick up for yourself even if it makes your hubby mad.
Hopefully your inlaws like far away like mine and you only have to see them every so often!

Are you trying again this month? We tried before my first period after MC with no luck. My period is about to finish up this month so we are going to try for the second month after MC. I will say that my period was CRAZY this month!!!

Let us know how you are doing!
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Re: Returing to TTC after m/c

Postby mexicanchick718 » Tue Aug 06, 2013 9:00 am

Gosh we have so much in common! Yes they live in Mexico so if we dont pay for their tickets or half of them they wont come. I said lots of stuff trust me and my husband was pretty upset, but then i just smiled and gave him a kiss and he got over it.

We tried too right after, but im guessing this cramping and light bleeding is my period. It just started this morning. I woke up and thought man whats with my stomach. I think is my period finally coming back. So excited since that way i can start tracking again. I dont have patients for the temping but i do the ovulation sticks. We might be trying together at the same time. Prior to the mc my cycle was between 28-31days ovulation was about CD16-17. I had 7 months to track hehe.
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Re: Returing to TTC after m/c

Postby Nmarshall » Tue Aug 06, 2013 11:43 am

Oh good! Maybe it is your period. I spotted for almost a week then my period finally started. Guess my body was just working itself out.
I don't temp either but I do use clear blue ovulation tests. I think we are going to bd every other day and then bd every day when I get the smile! We also use preseed. Do y'all use that?
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Re: Returing to TTC after m/c

Postby mexicanchick718 » Tue Aug 06, 2013 1:06 pm

I use the internet cheapie ones Wondfo. I bought preseed but ...ok TMI...i get really wet so i thought whats the need, right? The month i got knocked up (according to a co-worker) haha we bd in the fertile window and everynight I fell asleep with my legs up against the headboard. It was the only thing i did different..hehe.
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