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I'm back and I need support

Postby baby4me2012 » Fri Feb 28, 2014 3:02 pm

I have been a fan of this site ever since I found it a few years ago. The support that is on here is fantastic. I had a molar pregnancy on August 1, 2012 and couldn't ttc for a year. It was too much for me to get on here and talk to people who could ttc, my heart was broken. I am finally back in the game and ready to ttc again. Currently, I have missed one period and have almost every symptom except nausea. I took a test & got a bfn, but until af shows up, I'm not giving up. I am looking forward to making new friends again as well as being a good friend. Any comments, advice, prayers are welcome. Baby dust to all.
I am 28 years old, dp is 36
We have been ttc for 6 months
Diagnosed with PCOS May 2008
Prescribed Metformin May 2008
Lost An Angel on December 31, 2011 @ 5 weeks
Lost another Angel @ 8 weeks on August 1, 2012 due to a complete Molar Pregnancy
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Re: I'm back and I need support

Postby Babybear16 » Mon Mar 03, 2014 11:04 pm

hi baby4me, names babybear, or bear lol

did af ever show up? my af was 3 days late this month but then that ugly head popped up! urgh anyways I didn't want to read and run I'd love to take the journey with ya :)
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Re: I'm back and I need support

Postby baby4me2012 » Tue Mar 04, 2014 10:03 am

Hi babybear, Af still hasn't showed up. Anyway, my last 4 cycles have been about 40-45 days (not sure why), so with that time frame in mind, I am still about 1 month- 1 1/2 months late. I have every symptom except for nausea. I am planning on retesting very soon. I would love to be ttc buddies. So what's your story? How long have you been trying?
I am 28 years old, dp is 36
We have been ttc for 6 months
Diagnosed with PCOS May 2008
Prescribed Metformin May 2008
Lost An Angel on December 31, 2011 @ 5 weeks
Lost another Angel @ 8 weeks on August 1, 2012 due to a complete Molar Pregnancy
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Re: I'm back and I need support

Postby Babybear16 » Tue Mar 04, 2014 1:18 pm

hi baby4me,

well a little about me... I'm 21 dh 23 we've been together 6years, we have a dd that's going to be 5 in June, accident baby lol but glad! In jan of 2013 we decided we wanted another, so had my mirena taken out, and periods returned and were normal we got blessed in aug of 2013 with our angel, sadly in sep we lost our angel, had surgery, it's now been 6 months almost since we lost our angel and we've been trying, each month gets harder for me, it's been 1 year and just shy of 6m that we have been trying,
how about you? what's your story?
I'm currently on cycle day 3 hoping af ends around sat, I'm planning on getting opks this month just to see where at in my cycle I ovulate, I've got my fingers crossed for you!!! what day you plan on retesting? I'm really excited for you! :)

well keep me posted fingers crossed and tons of babydust!
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Re: I'm back and I need support

Postby baby4me2012 » Tue Mar 04, 2014 10:22 pm

I'm so sorry about your loss. I will pray for you and send you plenty of babydust!

Here's my story:
In 2006, my mom urged me to go to the doctor. I was diagnosed with PCOS and I suffered from excrutiating painful cysts on my ovaries. When one cyst would bust, I would have a few weeks of relief and then I would get another one. It was a never ending cycle. With treatment, I finally got them under control. In 2010, I met someone and thought he was the one (I was wrong, but that's a whole other story lol). We started ttc in late 2011. I lost my first angel on December 31, 2011 at 5 weeks. I couldn't believe I got pregnant, but it happened. In 2012, I got pregnant again. I was so happy. I got to see a doctor and even had an ultrasound. We didn't hear a heartbeat. I went to my ob-gyn and I'll never forget the words that he said, they will haunt me forever. "I know how bad you want this, I'm sorry but this isn't going to be a viable pregnancy this time." He went on to tell me that I had a complete molar pregnancy and that I would have to have surgery to get what was left of my baby out. I was terrified and devastated. I was also told that I couldn't ttc for a year. I was beyond devastated. In 2013, I met my dp and here we are ttc. He is very supportive and willing to do anything it takes to ttc. He knows that I may have problems ttc, but he is there for me and that goes a long way. I won't give up, but it gets harder and harder every month.

I think I may test in a week or so. I will keep my fx for you, for both of us!
I am 28 years old, dp is 36
We have been ttc for 6 months
Diagnosed with PCOS May 2008
Prescribed Metformin May 2008
Lost An Angel on December 31, 2011 @ 5 weeks
Lost another Angel @ 8 weeks on August 1, 2012 due to a complete Molar Pregnancy
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Re: I'm back and I need support

Postby Babybear16 » Wed Mar 05, 2014 1:22 am

baby4me, hearing your story makes mine seem like a breeze, I feel bad kinda posting it actually, I shouldn't be selfish, knowing I have 1 and wanting another,

I'm so truly sorry that you and dp are having such a hard time with this all but it's great he's there to support you every step my dh is like that to, at first he thought it was as easy as 123 but after our m/c he thought a little differently, pissed me off DR said it was his fault we lost our angel while i was in surgery!!! it was his little swimmers, and may that had been what happened but that still doesn't give you or anyone a right to tell someone something like that its just cruel and unneeded! I probably would of slapped the Dr if he told me what he told you that's horrible!,, baby4me I know when our time comes it'll be the best day! not only for the fact we got our angel but for the simply fact it proves to every one who thought we had slim chances that were strong women and we will stop at nothing to have what everyone else has.. baby4me I pray we don't have to endure to much longer, and we end up with our bfp! keep me posted I can't wait to see your test!!!!! tons of babydust sticky vibes prayers and hugs sent your way!
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Re: I'm back and I need support

Postby baby4me2012 » Wed Mar 05, 2014 8:36 pm

Don't feel bad babybear, even though we struggle differently, doesn't mean that our pain isn't the same. Yes, Michael, my dp, is very supportive. He thought it would be easy for me ttc too, but he's beginning to realize that it's not going to be that simple, that it's going to be a very long, difficult road. That is the only way, I make it through sometimes. I know that I will be a great mother because I have felt the pain of wanting a child so much it hurts. All this pain and sadness will be worth it in the end when hold our angels in our arms. I hope it won't be much longer for us either. I pray that we both get sticky beans very soon. I'm sending you tons of babydust stick vibes prayers and hugs too! GL!
I am 28 years old, dp is 36
We have been ttc for 6 months
Diagnosed with PCOS May 2008
Prescribed Metformin May 2008
Lost An Angel on December 31, 2011 @ 5 weeks
Lost another Angel @ 8 weeks on August 1, 2012 due to a complete Molar Pregnancy
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Re: I'm back and I need support

Postby Babybear16 » Mon Mar 10, 2014 11:08 pm

hey baby4me! did af ever show up? I hope you got your bfp instead!
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Re: I'm back and I need support

Postby baby4me2012 » Mon Mar 10, 2014 11:26 pm

No, she still hasn't showed up. I haven't retested yet though
I am 28 years old, dp is 36
We have been ttc for 6 months
Diagnosed with PCOS May 2008
Prescribed Metformin May 2008
Lost An Angel on December 31, 2011 @ 5 weeks
Lost another Angel @ 8 weeks on August 1, 2012 due to a complete Molar Pregnancy
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Re: I'm back and I need support

Postby Babybear16 » Mon Mar 10, 2014 11:34 pm

how many days late is af now? you think you'll retest soon? I really really hope this is it for you!!!
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Re: I'm back and I need support

Postby baby4me2012 » Mon Mar 10, 2014 11:38 pm

I am very late, like almost 2 months. I want to retest soon, but things are so crazy right now at work, I just don't have the time, I might not get to for about a week or so. I am so hoping that this is it for me too. I hope that this is your month too!
I am 28 years old, dp is 36
We have been ttc for 6 months
Diagnosed with PCOS May 2008
Prescribed Metformin May 2008
Lost An Angel on December 31, 2011 @ 5 weeks
Lost another Angel @ 8 weeks on August 1, 2012 due to a complete Molar Pregnancy
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Re: I'm back and I need support

Postby Babybear16 » Mon Mar 10, 2014 11:42 pm

holy crap! 2months late lol do you have any symptoms?? I'm sorry to hear work had been hectic! :( but don't stress you might have a lil one!!! are to ever late??
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Re: I'm back and I need support

Postby baby4me2012 » Tue Mar 11, 2014 2:36 pm

Oh yes, I have lots of symptoms. Moodiness and hunger are the most prominent. I don't have any nausea, though. I'm trying not to stress, but i'm sure you know how hard that can be. I have been late before, but not this late. I plan on testing very, very soon.
I am 28 years old, dp is 36
We have been ttc for 6 months
Diagnosed with PCOS May 2008
Prescribed Metformin May 2008
Lost An Angel on December 31, 2011 @ 5 weeks
Lost another Angel @ 8 weeks on August 1, 2012 due to a complete Molar Pregnancy
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Re: I'm back and I need support

Postby Babybear16 » Tue Mar 11, 2014 2:41 pm

it's sounds like you are and yes stressing is so hard not to do nowadays, :( but I vote TESTING!!! I will keep my fx!!! I'm excited for you :)
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Re: I'm back and I need support

Postby baby4me2012 » Wed Mar 12, 2014 4:02 pm

Yeah, stress is getting to me. I just found out yesterday that my mom has to have surgery. They have to do some biopsy's on her. They don't know if it's cancer or not. So, I am stressed to the max about that. She lives about 2 hours away from me. It's really hard to be away from her. But, I will be testing soon.
I am 28 years old, dp is 36
We have been ttc for 6 months
Diagnosed with PCOS May 2008
Prescribed Metformin May 2008
Lost An Angel on December 31, 2011 @ 5 weeks
Lost another Angel @ 8 weeks on August 1, 2012 due to a complete Molar Pregnancy
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