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Postby SomedayAMommy » Sat Aug 23, 2014 9:19 am

Dont mean to come o here and whine. I know a lot of girls deal with a lot more crap for a lot longer...but I really thought this was it. It was perfect. Im not gonna go into detail (I will save that for if I ever get to tell a bfp story) but I have pcos with long and irregular cycles and we've been trying for 10 months now and I honestly I dont know how much more I can take. Like I said, this time felt so different...and even the hubs said it seemed different! I have had a few odd symptoms and I am officially 11dpo and the symtoms have all gone...except sore nips. And thats only if touched. Which is normal for me so close to my period. And I know sometimes symptoms go away during implantation but dont they come back in a couple days? Also...anyone know what position your cx is in right before your period? Mine is so high right now I cant even tell if its closed or open or even the texture..Im so disheartened, girls. I know 'it will happen when its supposed to'. But I feel so ready! And now I just want to give up because its killing me to see 'not pregnant' or one more stark white test...any info/stories/etc about pcos would be greatly appreciated!
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Re: :(

Postby SomedayAMommy » Sat Aug 23, 2014 9:20 am

Oh, side note, sorry about spelling and grammar, had to type all this on my crappy phone :roll:
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Re: :(

Postby Tange86 » Mon Aug 25, 2014 1:12 pm

Awe,

Do you know when your AF is due? I hear your cervix should be high and soft, but they also say for some this happens right after conception and for others not till a month into pregnancy. There are always so many variables. But stay strong. Stress and being sad is the worst thing.

Maybe take a stay cation. Be carefee. Snack food and candle lite baths and just be free. Sometimes the minute people "give up" and go back to just focusing on loving each other it happens.
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Re: :(

Postby SomedayAMommy » Mon Aug 25, 2014 10:18 pm

Yep. Tuesday morning (technically, since Im a creepy vampire and am writing this at 1am, it is this morning). And my cx goes from being in the middle to high and whe I can feel it, I THINK its still closed (still getting used to this whole checking ur cx thing). I know it will happen when its supposed to...this freaking two week wai thing is torture! Lolol I just wish I had a little heads up. Im gonna just try and be one of those amazing women who takes whatever comes, with grace and dignity....LOL should be interesting! But thanks so much. It means a lot that Im not alone in it though!
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Postby Tange86 » Tue Aug 26, 2014 5:23 am

Ive had two Leep procedures so im not sure feeling my CX would do any good for me. Im just hoping for sore BB's. I either missed my LH surge this round or didnt O. But I am really hoping for this month.

Good luck keep us posted. Im going to try a test at 9DPO
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Went off BC: July 30 2014
Held off TTC for back surgery Jan 14th 2015.
Actively TTC : Jan 21st (I'm a bad girl)
Time TTC: 2 Cycles
D&C Feb 2010

March 28th :bfp: @ 9dpo
March 30th: beta 85 @ 11dpo
May 7th: 1st Appt, Measuring 9weeks on the dot (yay for temping!) :hb: 169
May 28th: 12 week, Labs are fantastic, heard the placenta on the left and baby in the middle!
June 3rd: NT Scan, Labs came back great, Expecting a Healthy Baby!

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Re: :(

Postby SomedayAMommy » Tue Aug 26, 2014 8:23 am

How many dpo are you now? And thats what annoyed me because my bbs have been soooo sore this tww and I tested this morning (14 dpo) with fmu and bfn...guurrrrr. lol so I guess Im out. But thats ok, back to the drawing board. And you never know! I saw lots of bfp stories where the girls never got a positive lh surge or anything and still were preggers! Come on sore tatas!!
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Re: :(

Postby Tange86 » Tue Aug 26, 2014 9:28 am

HAHA thanks.

I was just feeling so confident. We had the whole week to do it as we dont get a lot of time with different work schedules. i would have loved to have a positive to I had a better date to go off of. Im just floating around on a prediction by babymed. Im also on my first cycle of BC so who knows. Blah.

Im 6DPO so I think. Are you late for AF yet?
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Went off BC: July 30 2014
Held off TTC for back surgery Jan 14th 2015.
Actively TTC : Jan 21st (I'm a bad girl)
Time TTC: 2 Cycles
D&C Feb 2010

March 28th :bfp: @ 9dpo
March 30th: beta 85 @ 11dpo
May 7th: 1st Appt, Measuring 9weeks on the dot (yay for temping!) :hb: 169
May 28th: 12 week, Labs are fantastic, heard the placenta on the left and baby in the middle!
June 3rd: NT Scan, Labs came back great, Expecting a Healthy Baby!

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