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39 and TTC

Postby althealisa » Tue Mar 24, 2015 10:40 am

1/14 and 4/14 took depo shots. Had my period regularly during that time. Started taking Vitex 8/14 stopped 1/15. Period finally started back 1/17/15 super light and lasting only 3 days, 2/17/15 the same thing. Started taking Conceive Easy 2/15, period was normal, but still only 3 days. My cycle normally lasted 5 days. 3/7/15 super light period again. 3/15/15 milky discharge with pink tint. 3/16/15 lower pelvic pain similar to cramps. The mornings of 3/18 and 3/19 light pink spotting only when I wipe. 3/21 more pink when I wiped. Can I be pregnant? I had unprotected sex 3/7, 3/9 & 3/10, 3/13, 3/14, 3/15, 3/17, 18, 19 and 22. I have 3 children and I thought it would be so easy. I feel like an absolute failure. My new husband has no children and he really wants one of his own.
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Re: 39 and TTC

Postby LisaTTC » Tue Mar 24, 2015 12:00 pm

well, if the first day of your LMP was 3/7...and you O'ed this cycle...then it's possible. you had a very steady cycle of BDing, so there is a chance. I don't think it would show up on a test yet though. When do you expect AF to come?

side note...you had your period while on depo? interesting...I took it a LONG time ago and lost my period during that time. I don't think you can say what is "normal" after you have been without a period for a time.

I'd try testing in a few days...and test every other day until BFP or AF.
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Re: 39 and TTC

Postby althealisa » Tue Mar 24, 2015 12:46 pm

That's the thing before Depo my cycle was regular the 27th of every month. During Depo the 12th of every month. Now after Depo Jan. and Feb. the 17 th of the month, but then March and it starts on the 7th. I'm thinking it may have been the Conceive Easy fertility supplements that kick started my cycle early. It was so easy when I was younger. This is so stressful. How long should I wait to test?
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Re: 39 and TTC

Postby LisaTTC » Tue Mar 24, 2015 9:40 pm

I'd say around the end of the first week in April? I have no clue when/if you o'ed...but with a 28 day average cycle, you would be around 3dpo. I'd wait to test until around 11 or 12 dpo at the earliest.
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Re: 39 and TTC

Postby althealisa » Wed Mar 25, 2015 10:11 am

Thanks, I guess the wait begins.
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Re: 39 and TTC

Postby LisaTTC » Thu Mar 26, 2015 7:10 am

isn't that what this site is all about? That dang wait. Do you have a chart I can watch?
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Re: 39 and TTC

Postby Jamster34 » Tue Aug 04, 2015 2:00 pm

Hello ladies my name is Jamie and me and dh are back offically ttc. I was on the boards a while back but due to the stress it was putting on our relationship I stoped. Well my hubby's daughter just had another baby and for some reason it sparked something in him to want to ttc. I was super shocked when he said he would give a SA sample and also start taking a multi vit for men. He is on blood preasure meds so Im thinking he's wondering if he waited to late. We had 4 m/c since 2006 and I think it put a toll on him just as much as me. I would love to chat with you guys and wondering what kind of vits I should take concidering our ages :-)
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