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What do you do to put spice in baby dancing

Postby Jamster34 » Tue Aug 04, 2015 2:10 pm

Hello everyone just am currious I want to ttc with hubby but want it to not be about ttc. What all do you ladies do to keep romace in and the thought of baby making out! :D
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Re: What do you do to put spice in baby dancing

Postby Ckatta14 » Thu Aug 06, 2015 3:20 am

For me I at times find it hard to not make it about ttc. It's not always that way, but some cycles and some bd's are. But I try to keep it fun, different places, lingerie, different positions the normal stuff and I don't usually tell Dh when it's o time, that seems to put pressure on him so I just take initiative and slip into something sexy and light some candles :)

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Re: What do you do to put spice in baby dancing

Postby TTCBabyBoy » Thu Aug 06, 2015 12:32 pm

we are just starting out with TTC again (have 2 kids already though). The thing that's worked best for us is BD'ing in the afternoon before getting the kids from school. I know not everyone can do this as we have very flexible work schedules, but it's enjoyable, we still have energy at that time (rather than after the kids' bedtime when we are both sooo tired), and it takes the pressure off for the rest of the evening. I've heard some couples though do it in the morning, set an alarm and do it before the rest of the family wakes up that way you get a little physical activity in in the AM which makes you feel good, you have energy in the morning to do it and it's not on your mind all day long that it's something that "has" to be done later that requires energy.
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Re: What do you do to put spice in baby dancing

Postby Jamster34 » Thu Aug 06, 2015 5:36 pm

Thanks ladies I know before when we tried it was so stressful and this time I don't want us to feel that way!
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Re: What do you do to put spice in baby dancing

Postby Ckatta14 » Fri Aug 07, 2015 3:04 am

I'm not the morning person lol, I wake easily but I don't enjoy bd right away lol. I'm definitely the afternoon person, I agree with TTcbabyboy after kids bedtimes I'm way too tired lol.

There are cycles where it feels like a chore and those are the tough cycles. It's work to keep it light and fun especially when you've got a positive opk when you really just want to go to bed lol, that's when it feels like a chore . I've got no magic secret to fix that, the months that it feels like a chore I just go with and I don't stress about it, I know there's always next cycle . I refuse to have my sex life with my husband become dull and boring. But that's just my personal choice. It gets stressful lol
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Re: What do you do to put spice in baby dancing

Postby scarletWillow3086 » Tue Aug 11, 2015 9:25 am

Hmmm not sure about spicing it up. I read that putting on porn MAY help with sperm mobility because biologically, men have better luck with procreation with different partners (i.e., the porn will help him "imagine" he is with someone else) but Idk.
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Re: What do you do to put spice in baby dancing

Postby Jamster34 » Tue Aug 11, 2015 11:26 am

Oh yeah well he does that already lol
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